ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything:
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Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments or attention whoring.
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
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>tell online friends I'm sick of Jojo
>now reply to every single thing I say (and I do mean EVERYTHING)with "Is that a Jojo reference"?
>any time I am ever mentioned in conversation, it's a shitty JoJo joke
Should I just burn this bridge? We have no common ground or shared interests. I don't like any of the things they like, and they don't know about any of the things I like. Most of the time we get together in voice chats, I sit out most of the conversation because of this. I've failed to get them into anything I enjoy, and I've tried some of the things they like and never got interested. These things have been bothering me for months. I even confessed to one of them not too long ago that I feel like an alien, and this is the last straw.
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>scared as fuck some weeks ago before entering college
>social anxiety, shaking hands when I was meeting a girl
>started to approach girls both online (facebook) and IRL
>after approaching more than 80 girls in facebook and 20 girls IRL I've become more confident
>from every 15 girls I approached got 4 numbers
>from every 20 numbers I got 7 replied
>from 7 reply 4 were serious and didn't mind me
>ask girls if they have free time
>one I was really big into told me to fuck off (politelly, of course)
>at least one girl told me today she will write to me if she has free time after lunch and meeting a female friend (so is not even confirmed, she can forget or simply was a polite fuck off)
>the other two girls that speak to me tell me they don't know if they have free time
>I don't know if that's a polite way to tell me to fuck off or not
>not even ugly, just average
>not even fat
Dating is clearly BS, After all my effort and approaching more than 100 girls both online and IRL I only had like five girls that MAYBE were into me, of which maybe one though I was hot.
I'm considering to start to give up, I had big hopes thanks to BS porn sites like publick pickups and PUA BS stories about coaches, and memes like all women are whores.
Clearly I'm starting to give up on women and start to consider whores.