Film crew is pissed at me
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I work on big film set as PA, and i sensed people are mad at me for talking normally to extras and not kissing ass to the crew and talent. I'm pretty new at this so I didn't get the hierarchy right away. I was told the professional way of dealing with extras was by being cold to them so they respect you basically good leadership, otherwise they will walk over you. I don't see that happening and I didn't see what I was doing was abnormal. But sure enough they were right in a way since extras started demanding things I could not fulfill and they acted superior to me. One even when I rejected his outrageous demand, said to me as a subtle insult that I don't look like a person who ever had to work hard or something like that. Pissed, I said angrily you don't know me, and pushed him out of my way where he muttered "what's wrong no reason to be angry". I replied with a sarcastic "funny guy like yourself, what else do we do." And told him to go somewhere else.
Now normally I'd brush this off as one of those things, but since higher up crew were mad at me already I can't help but imagine that they set this up to get me to respect them in the way they want.
What should I do here? Was I wrong? I'm socially awkward person so I don't know what people expect from me most of the time.
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Tl;dr - he dragged me up the stairs and across the floor.
My fiancé and I were eating lunch at his house. I went on to tell him of a guy (looks about 10-15 years older) my former roommate wanted to introduce to me via a group message (her supposed intention was for networking purposes considering we were in the same field).
He began to accuse me of being interested in this man. This is not true as I only have interest in him since we're in a committed relationship. Nothing under the sun could convince him that I was not interested (I never responded in the group chat).
I got upset that he ruined what was otherwise a pleasent lunch, got flustered and began to cry, messaged old roommate apologizing that I will not being able to speak to her friend, and other sequence of random, "impulsive" (according to him) actions like calling her and asking her to speak with him. I was very frustrated.
He wanted to see my phone, and I hit his arm (unintentionally out of anger) and he threw my phone on the floor. Realizing what I did, I tried to rub his arm and apologize as I was scared (he would use this to emotionally abuse me in the future) . As I approached, he pushed my arm away which in turn led my knuckles to hit hard against the table.
This is where I lost it. I began to cry some more, changed my clothes, and was about to leave his place as per his demands that I leave. On my way out, he threw a metal bracelet at me (a gift from me).
As I'm leaving his house, he insists I come inside and I refused. He grabbed me by the arms, and dragged my entire body up the stairs and into his house across his living room floor and dumped me on the floor.
At this point, his mother barges into the entire scene in shock.
After all of this, his mother and him are both blaming the entire thing on me. They have shamed me very much, and can't fathom why I was crying so much.
he is very angry with me. Im still in shock and confused. Don't know what to think and feel. Opinions?
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Give it to me straight. I'm in the fucking dark here and I need to know what's going on since I can't get it from my girlfriend.
>Get in argument last week about something stupid, turns into big fight
>I don't text her at all the next day
>She comes home from work next day and goes to some party at some place I don't know about and gets drunk
>Says she'll only be an hour
>Go to sleep, wake up at 4 am, she's still not home
>Text her and try to call her a bunch because I'm worried something happened
>Finally answers me and I get pissed, then another argument happens
>She says she's sleeping there and that she'll come back later
>She comes back, things are really different
>I'm losing my mind and I finally text her and say "you know what, I'm just going to have you move out I don't get what's up with you lately"
>I pack her things and then she comes home to them
>She starts crying and in disbelief that I actually packed them
>She calms down and I explain to her that I love her to death and I want things to work between us
>She says "I don't know I need to think about it. I don't see it getting better."
>I give it time and do really nice things. I make dinner, do stuff around the place, tell her I love her, act funny to make her laugh
>She starts warming up a little bit more, being a little sweeter to me
>Today she hardly texts me at all
>Distant attitude again
I'm losing my fucking mind here. I'm at my wits end.
>She's a full time student, and works so there's a lot of stress
>We both just moved into a place together. We have been here for about 2 weeks.
>She is close to having her period
ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything
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It feels so hopeless
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I just want a divorce. I'm not happy. My SO has a ton of baggage, and I often feel like she uses me for money. We've been together for about five years, but I can't do this relationship anymore. She is originally from Africa. She won a. green card and came to the U.S.. I met her in college, but I just can't handle this relationship anymore. The cultural differences are just too much. We send so much money to her family it's ridiculous. And now she wants to bring her siblings and have them live with us. I just can't take it anymore.
Not to mention she had a mental breakdown (twice), and now takes a drug to to treat schizophrenia. I just feel like I'm missing out on life. I can't take this stress or pressure anymore.
Do any of you have advice, or experience with divorce? There's no kids, or land involved.
Being in a interracial marriage is hard too. Plus, even though I'm only 26, I feel so old next to her. She has a very young appearance and , I don't know, sometimes I feel inadequate. I sometimes think we both would be better off to be with our own kind.
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This girl at my work who everyone wants to fuck... she's gorgeous, 18 and fresh out of hs, gorgeous round face, perfect tits, huge ass that everyone talks about... she's divine as they come. The managers call her a distraction because shes that fucking hot. She wants my dick badly because I am the only one who didn't act like a beta fuck around her and beg for her attention. She texts me nonstop even when I don't reply, snapchats me her looking hot as ever fuck with tons of cleavage and shit like that... holy fuck, it's hard to believe it's real life.
I know I'm good looking now but it's hard for me to believe it. I don't know what to snap her back other than subtly letting her know I find her attractive. Honestly all I want to do is fucking pounce her and fuck her brains out and I almost just want to outright say it, but I work with her so... yeah, bad idea. We are going out for lunch tomorrow afternoon.
I'm 25 and basically haven't ever really "dated" or courted anyone like this. I've had hot girls, but they kind of just happened when we were on drugs in person. Also for some reason, despite all this, I find myself telling myself that she just wants my attention or something... making excuses as to how this isn't real. Any advice? I need this really badly and nothing has ever really fallen into my lap quite like this. I can't fuck this up.
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>have to stay with each parent for a week alternatively
>night before the day I'm going to my mother comes
>father kicks in
>he is a middle aged, fat, angry, stinking man who can find any reason to be mad at me (basically a human version of shrek, not like the one in shrek 2 though)
>he often goes from 0-100 like nothing, but this time he went full fucking berserk
>why? Because at school i took notes on a lonely sheet instead of using a notebook
>he starts screaming around the house, for a few seconds he did the autistic screeching pose, because i took notes on a sheet instead of a book
>suddenly he demands i stay here, can't go to my mother's house
>demands i have to study 8 hours a day now
>we aren't a jewish or chinese family, by the way.
>he threatened that if my mother says something about it he'll beat her up
I feel like I can see him become an asylum psychopath with my bare eyes.
Can he be helped? Should i just stay away from him? What the fuck do I do?
Should I get my CDL become a long-haul trucker?
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My last job was seasonal and temporary, so I went on unemployment insurance when that ended and have been NEET for the past 4 months. I now have only about a month and a half of UI remaining so I need to make some decisions and was thinking about getting a CDL and becoming a long haul trucker.
The way i see it the pros are:
Save on rent by living in the sleeper compartment of truck
Work on your own, without co-workers
I have no wife or kids and don't really care for the area where I'm living now so I don't mind being on the road so much
I have generalized anxiety disorder and I've only drove regular cars and pickup trucks, never anything as big as a bigrig so I find it kind of intimidating
I dont know how yet much the class will cost or how much insurance will cost, so there could be a big investment involved
I hear it's very easy to get hired once you pass the test and get your CDL because there is a great demand for truckers right now, but that's just what I've read online, and maybe its wrong?
I'm going to talk to a recruiter tomorrow for a truck driving school, and hopefully get a chance to ask lots of questions and decide if this is right for me or not, anything I should know before hand, questions I should ask the recruiter or any advice from truckers who do this for a living would be appreciated.