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My girlfriend is becoming good friends with my friends.

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Hey guys. I'm in a dilemma, my girlfriend of two years has recently become really close with my group of friends. We have a group chat on fb, and they added her to that which I was a little uncomfortable with, and I told them that but they didn't care. Now fast forward a few weeks, I have it muted, don't talk in it really ever, and they make plans and do things without me quite often. She also has become really close with one of my friends in particular, and quite frankly it makes me uncomfortable. I tried talking to her about it and she made me feel like an idiot for even questioning it, saying he is like a brother to her ect... My biggest worry is what will happen if we break up? I don't like to think negatively but if it happens it will be awkward as fuck. Should I talk to her about it? I don't wanna be that guy that tries to be controlling. Should I talk to my friends about it? I don't wanna seem like a dick since they have all become friends now. Sorry for the long post. Fuck tldr.

I was pressured into sexual activity

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18 year old guy here. 2 weeks ago, me and my girlfriend met at a (then) friends house. we hung out and talked, but then he started trying to play and grab my girlfriend flirtatiously. because me and her did that in his room, he said he could lend us his room for sex, since we can't do it at my house or hers (we only fucked in a park). he then took her in the kitchen while I played his For Honor Game (continued in reply)

Straight edge 19 year old

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Hey guys So I'm 19 and I'm a complete straight edge, I don't drink, smoke, or even drink anything with caffeine. I'm not religious in any way, I've just seen the damage substances can cause, so I avoid them. What I'm getting at is, are there honestly attractive girls out there my age that don't use any substances? I can not tell you the amount of times I talked to a girl and she admits she parties or smokes or whatever, and I instantly lose interest. I don't want to go to church or something to try to pick up girls, I'm not religious but going to church to pick up girls is a ticket to hell. I have no fucking idea what to even do, I want a girl that's clean, but it seems like that shit isn't even possible. Thoughts?
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I have a boyfriend, been dating for like nearly two years now. Been with two other men before him, never was able to get wet from a guy being all touchy and sexual with me, had to use a vibrator to really get wet or deprive myself from masturbation for a while. Recently my bf went down on me like other times, always felt awkward about this, then started to envision he was a girl and I became super aroused. I knew I have liked girls for a while but I just thought I was bi because I can get turned on by 'straight' porn. Finally realizes I was only turned on because of the fetish of said porn and the girl. Am coming to the conclusion that I'm a lesbian. I want someone to hit me with a truck now because my bf is lieterally anything you can ask for in a person. I do love my boyfriend but I'm starting to think its something different. When I have had a crush on a girl there was just something else about it that was so different than from a man crush. Wtf is wrong with me? Literally how the hell did it take me this long to come to this conclusion? How the hell do I tell my boyfriend?

Women

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How do I ask this girl to go driving with me? >used to be really close friends, little flirtatious, nothing too serious >never hung out outside of classes >eventually stopped talking to her, because she kept leaving me on read and flirting with my friends >cut off all contact for a solid month until tonight >asked if she had any plans out of the blue, short and mysterious >had a soccer game, didn't want to go driving around because sweaty >thats fine ig >should I ask her again tomorrow? How do I ask without coming off as weird or creepy >I just want to cruise around with a cutie in my car
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So, my girlfriend broke up with me a couple of weeks ago and I'm still in this odd state of being hurt so I thought I'd ask people on the internet for advice. I thought we had a pretty good relationship but I don't know if I should think about it in that way since we've broken up. Me and my ex are still friends and she tries to assure me that there wasnt anything wrong that i was doing during the relationship to cause the break up. I would find that bullshit but shes never changed her answer when I've asked her about it and she still some what acts as if she was in a relationship with me anyways. She still hangs out with my and my roommates, she still has sex with me, we talk and have movie nights all the time. She says that shes just not ready to be committed/ in a relationship at all at the moment. I feel like i should have a better understanding of this since we are both 20 and we're both at the same college. It's just hard for me to think of her fucking around with other dudes. She floats the idea of getting back together later on and I feel like thats something I'd want to do since i enjoyed the relationship. She expects me to fuck around with other chicks during this time too but im fuckin gross so i dont see that happening any time soon. So what do you think /adv/? Should i just let go of this completely? Should i keep some hope of getting back together? Should i even want to get back with her?

Working in a movie theater

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So I was thinking of what I would love to do for work for the sake of keeping my sanity as I wait to go to college in the future and I decided a movie theater was a good idea to try. What kind of stories can you tell me from experience working in one? what are the pros? the cons? I know free movies is one and that's sick but what are the things that turn you off about it? Share with me your wisdom. Some extra info about me is that I got an interview with a new supervisor for a security guard position but I'm not too thrilled about my chances getting it and I already sent my resume to cineplex. Just waiting for the email back telling me if they're willing to give me a shot but other than that yeah.
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I have date Sunday. I've been on dates and had sex with average girls before, but this girl is just stupidly gorgeous and I feel like she's completely out of my league. I think I'm psyching myself out but does anyone have advice for dating someone incredibly attractive, and differences between dating normal girls and mega-hotties? Pic related.
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I need help with job references.How do I go about requesting references from coworkers that I haven't talked to in more than a year? What about managers? Is it awkward to just reach out for a reference, or normal? I'm graduating in May, and I realized that I don't have a formal reference list. I have an interview soon (for an entry level position), and I'm freaking out that they'll ask for them at the interview.
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>like the concept of socializing and having relationships >hate socializing and talking to people What do?
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I'm 28, girl is 19, is it ok to date her?
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At what age I'm supposed to decide if I should or not keep existing? Every time I feel like I can't keep going, it's always the same
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>Match with a girl on tinder >top of profile says she's just looking for people to chill with and that she has a BF >bottom of profile reiterates that only trying to chill but that everyone wants to fuck What did she mean by this?

Help with forgiving myself and regaining self worth?

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I did a horrible thing. told a person I loved them when I did not. but I made them happy for two years but I was not. then it all came to a crushing end. she doesn't know I lied to her nor does she know in my attempt to find true love I cheated on her. we agreed to stop talking 5 months. and those 5 months I reasoned with myself I would sacrifice myself for her happiness and be with her. she is with someone else now . is happy and is at a good place. I am happy for her. but I still feel guilty for what I did to her. we will never cross paths again. of that am certain. but I stay awake at night. lose sleep. I dont feel like a good man. I always used to give what little I had to the poor. used to comfort anyone who was hurt and she loved me most for my kindness and sweetness and now I feel ripped apart. I want to redeem myself!! I made a mistake I know that now. It hurts
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>used to watch a lot of porn >mostly bdsm >Haven't watched porn for months, but dick only gets really gets hard from bdsm now >still fap to imagined BDSM Do I need to force myself to fap to vanilla shit to fix this? How long will it take?
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Hello /adv/ I'm a gay male who has basically what every other gay person wants, 6'4, world's biggest dick, beautiful face, yet I still have difficulty smoothly inviting people to say, the movies or somewhere. The difficulty is with this specific person, I was closeted and kind of said something creepy to the guy. He's forgiven me now, but we don't talk, and we only know each other, and he's had a boyfriend for about over a year now. So /adv/, how do I manipulate my way to get some time with him? In such a way where I can play it off as a dignified human being if I get rejected.
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I have crippling social anxiety to the point where I stutter, come across confused and with severe word salad. Its like my mind cant process the thoughts while Im with a person because Im too worried how theyll judge me. Also, Im bland and boring -- super conformist and trying to appear perfect. But I have a very monotone voice. However, when I drink and snort coke while partying Im completely the opposite and everything feels normal and how I should be in my work/relationships. What do I do? I really dont want to mix fun with work, but my social skills in my professional life are really starting to hinder me.
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I've had the house to myself for over a month because my parents are away. It was great, I felt a sort of freedom that I've never felt before. What's strange is, they're not strict at all. I'm 19, I don't have a curfew, pretty much can skip classes because they know I wouldn't just slack off for no reason...but I don't know why I felt so liberated when they left. The only thing I did different was bring my girlfriend home. We usually hang out at her place since we can't really have a place to get privacy in here. They just got back today, and while I am happy to see them back I feel sad and constricted. We don't have a bad relationship, like none of the typical drunk dad/abusive mom stuff, I guess we're just not tight-knit. It's more business-like between us, but we do try to resolve that. Can anyone relate here? Just need someone to bounce thoughts with.
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Been lurking here for 8+ more yrs. Story short: been in love with one single girlf for over 6 years & never been with "her" only as friends nor gifts nor anything helped. Even when was in relationship with other girl thought of her all the time yet it ended 3 years after and all seemed somewhat Ok. But now this thing just popped again, how to fucking live now again I have no idea this shit became paranoidal for me. Even when we are together at parties or like so everyone says as it was ment for us to be together, yet it is not. She has changed bf's multiple times, not including me. And that fucking feeling like you feel that this is your person is just killing you, any adviced anons? Bait pic

Lost all interest in my university degree

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1/2 2 years ago I started studying physics in a very prestigious uni and ever since I was a little kid I had big dreams of going to grad school for applied physics and eventually do research and contribute to the advancement of the human race by creating and developing new technology, and I would like it all to culminate with me starting a business around some great new technological innovation like nuclear fusion, space propulsion, AI, genetic modification or something along those lines. Basically be an Elon Musk type character. Of course I know that's extremely unlikely so in practicality I would've been happy achieving just a small portion of success compared to him or any of the other great innovators. Anyways, things didn't pan out. First of all I'm not as smart as I thought. I'm actually pretty average as far as physics students at my uni goes. Second, and most worrying, I've lost almost all interest and passion for the field. The constant grind of going to lectures, devouring 3000+ pages of heavy math and physics per semester, an endless barrage of problem sets, labs, reports etc. etc. I don't mind working hard in general, in fact if I get really into something I'll work on it nonstop and sometimes forget to eat lol, but the problem is I'm not getting excited about anything we're learning anymore. It's all just "something I gotta get through". It doesn't help either that all my peers are super autistic about everything we're learning and will literally read the fucking quantum mechanics text book on a Saturday night for fun.






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