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Asking a girl out

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Hey guys, I posted this on /r9k/ yesterday and was told to post this here (perhaps asking incels for advice isn't the best idea). Anyways, I'm planning on asking this girl I have a crush on out for a date. We've been talking for a couple months and have been getting to know each other a bit better; I'm quite nervous because I don't know exactly how she feels about me, as I haven't really dropped any major hints that I'm interested in her. How should I go about asking her out? How have situations like this worked out for you guys in the past? I've pretty much only gotten rejected, but then again I haven't asked anyone on a date since high school. Also, feel free to give general advice or ask me questions; I'll try to reply to everything you guys post. >Stoned Larry David pic is unrelated

Am I retarded?

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I have no idea about activities for dating women. I am seeing a woman now and I have only taken her to dinner and a movie since I met her. I have been on like 7 or 8 dates now with her. Have not had a chance to hold her hand but I am working towards that. What are some other activities for dating? I feel so inept at coming up with fun stuff to do. Dinner and a movie seems perfect to me. I hope she isn't bored with me. Help. What do you guys do for 1st, 2nd, 3rd date?
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I broke up with my now ex because I felt my depression was getting worse and it was affecting the relationship. I was faking it till I make it for a while and didn't want to drag her with me. Better off with someone who didn't feel like I did. She's been supportive since, being there for talking and whatnot. Would letting her know that I appreciate it when she could've just ghosted completely? I don't want to come off as clingy or seeking sympathy/pity, just grateful that's she's there

Finding a Username

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I want to stream on twitch but cant think of a good name, I feel like im overthinking everything because I need to get viewers before my name matters but I want it to be something catchy. Most names I wanted or used for years have been taken so idk how to think of a good one.
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>Like this girl. >No idea how to approach her at all since she's so shy. >End up enlisting her best friend for help. >Me and best friend hang out all the time while coming up with ideas >Get so close to best friend people constantly think we're dating. >Drama shit happens and girl I like yells at me over a misunderstanding. >Best friend ends up comforting me over it. >Realize then over the pass couple of weeks I connect more with best friend than the girl I like. >Misunderstanding gets cleared up and girl I like actually ends up agreeing to go on a date with me. >Go on the date and end up disappointed by the end of it. >Now can't stop thinking about the best friend and how much I'd rather be going on dates with her. I feel awful. Because I thought I really liked this girl and still feel like I do like her... just not as much as I like her best friend. She's so much easier to talk to and conversation just happens whenever I'm with her meanwhile the most I really ever say to the girl I liked first is a simple "how was your day." and then the conversation dies there tends to die there. In fact on our date we had nothing to really talk about other than the movie that we saw. Normally I wouldn't be so troubled and probably would have already started going after the best friend. If there weren't a couple things getting in the way. Mainly how the best friend has repeatedly said that we're "just friends" and has made comments about being unable to like people who she knows has liked her friends at some point. That and I did straight up tell her I kind of liked her and she said she "didn't like me in that way" cont.

Girl

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What is a good place to eat for a 3rd date?

Confused

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So I have a fairly new girlfriend but we have been friends for years. Sex is great. But she kinda wears me out like, I am tired and that is not important but if she is tired it is. We made a bet over march madness were if I won I would get to play with her anally. (This of course was not a real bet on my side tho if she said yes I would have taken it, it was more to see how she would respond. Keep her word? Be open to new things? When she saw she was going to loose she flipped shit and said how gross I was for even making the bet, even tho her bet was like a high priced dinner and a trip somewhere. Mine was mild. But like I said a test. I even wrote up a piece of paper right after the bet saying it was null and void should she want it. But how disgusted she was with the bet when she lost, how demanding she is of my time, and how unapproachable she is with new ideas really got me thinking. I mean what do I do with this? I do love the girl I have chased for years. But the other day we were watching the show "The Voice" and there was a lesbian singer on there. Me: I dont give a fuckkkkk. Her: Ew that is so gross(She has a gay, lesbian, and trans-gendered cousins and she said that) it totally turned me off. I love her I really do. But is there a way to change that? Because I will not tolerate that kinda hateful shit. I go to pride parade each year for fuck sakes and not because I am in any way gay. Its a huge party. I have lots of gay friends and she doesnt and its looking less and less like its ok.

How to Destroy Someones Entire Being

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Need some advice as to destroy and dismantle every piece of someones life.

What do i do

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I dont have a friend. There's an aquaintance, but all she does is complain and brag about her bf/ex 1 2 and 3.If i call her out on being a dick she wont talk to me for 3 days or longer depending on how long i stand my ground. My only contact with others is through video games. I dont have trouble making friends. I've moved every year since i was 4 and got used to leaving friends behind. My only problem is that i never connect properly with them. There's no " remember when anon did this?" No hangout call/text. Not even a good morning. The nearest walmart takes me 18 minutes by bike, if anyone asks about picking up hobbies. Neighbors are just very reserved Except for the decorating,
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I'm gonna be sent to a psych ward known for abusing its patients and making them do jobs. I'm from a third world shithole [spoiler]Armenia[/spoiler]. So, if anything happens, what can I possibly do?

ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything

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GUIDELINES: Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered. Keep questions short for more answers. If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question. And please no derailing arguments. FAQ: >Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>? >What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience> There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off. >I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do? Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever. >I like someone. What do I do? >How can I tell if someone likes me? Ask them out. >Where do I meet girls/guys? Anywhere outside. Or online. As for HOW, that requires first hand experience to understand. Just go out and do it. Over and over. >Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean? Nothing significant. You're overthinking it. >XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please We're not in their head, we don't know. >This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this? Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing. >Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance? No. >Should I contact/try one last time/confess how I feel before they move away because I want "closure"? Let's be real here. You don't want closure. Closure is a lie you're telling yourself. What you actually mean is you want is to magically convince/trick them in to liking you. Move on. This isn't healthy. >Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date? Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>. >Brandon, fart guy, platonic cuddling guy Fuck off
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Here's the story /adv/ >Meet girl at youth center >Get to know her after a few days >Get her number and start texting >She opens up a lot of personal things about her life to me which I console her/give her advice/share my own similar experiences >Says it meant a lot to her I talked with her about it before we go to sleep >Next day she texts me good morning >Text for rest of the day >Next day my cell service is messed up so I get Snapchat to be able to text her >She starts a streak with me and we just keep texting, mainly just me getting to know her >So far I've been the one initiating >Today, join her and friend while waiting for center to open >Their conversation is about how a lot of the guys at the center like her >Friend says it's because she's "dressed to fuck" >Think to myself she's dressed like a normal girl >She doesn't like the feeling of rejecting people and just wants to be friends with them >Center doesn't open so we split ways So my dilemma is I don't know if I should ask her out or just keep getting to know her for the meantime.

ITT: Ask the Opposite Gender Anything

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GUIDELINES: Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered. Keep questions short for more answers. If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question. And please no derailing arguments. FAQ: >Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>? >What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience> There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off. >I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do? Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever. >I like someone. What do I do? >How can I tell if someone likes me? Ask them out. >Where do I meet girls/guys? Anywhere outside. Or online. As for HOW, that requires first hand experience to understand. Just go out and do it. Over and over. >Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean? Nothing significant. You're overthinking it. >XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please We're not in their head, we don't know. >This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this? Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing. >Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance? No. >Should I contact/try one last time/confess how I feel before they move away because I want "closure"? Let's be real here. You don't want closure. Closure is a lie you're telling yourself. What you actually mean is you want is to magically convince/trick them in to liking you. Move on. This isn't healthy. >Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date? Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>. >Brandon, fart guy, platonic cuddling guy Fuck off

Why should I forgive her?

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I'm not your average lurker here. I'm nearly 50 years old and I have grown up children who are more than likely older than you. That said, I have reached a point in my life where the people around me can't help me any further. So yes, I'm here, where all the shit eventually drains to, because I find myself in a shit situation. I'm divorced now and have been for the past 4 years. She cheated. Btu that's not why I'm here, I'm not here to talk about forgiving my ex-wife, because there's no forgiving that. I'm talking about my oldest daughter, who is 29 years old, who knew of her mother's affair and kept it secret from me. When I found out, I was furious. For the first time in my life, I felt like strangling someone to death. Never in a million years would I have imagined I could feel so much hate towards any child of mine. Suffice to say, I have cut off all ties with my daughter. I have not talked with her for the past 4 years, not since the divorce and all the shit surrounding it surfaced. I have legally disowned her and she will get nothing when I die. Her relationship with her brothers and sisters is in tatters, they don't really talk to her all that much anymore, but they do keep in touch. The problem here is that whenever I've formed new friendship or tried starting new relationships, and this subject matter comes up, people look at me like I'm a monster for disowning my daughter. I have no empathy or sympathy for someone like her and my ex-wife. I can't begin to understand why I should reconcile or forgive my daughter for what she did. I'm here mainly because I'm tired. I'm tired of explaining myself to people, and then having to defend my actions as if I was the one who did wrong. I've always believed in being upfront and honest with people. Treat them like how you want to be treated yourself. But I've reached the point where I'm considering just not telling anyone new I meet about my situation, barring the fact that I am divorce.
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Hey /adv/ Im in need of some help, I am extremely afraid of dying and there not being anything after. I can't live in constant fear like thid. I've tried putting my mind off of it with alcohol and vidyas and work but they are all temporary. What do I do?

Any psychology/psychiatry students/trainees want to volunteer?

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I don't know if it's really just asking for advice, or is it more about asking for a guidance, to life and to myself I have had a hard time lately, a lot of stress like I have never had in my life. I think about the incident of the past and how badly it will affect the future. Right now I also worry about the smallest things, being paranoid to an extent. Constantly think about worst case scenarios that they're going to lead to. Usually when I am in control, I am more confident than anyone else, truly. But when I'm out of my comfort zone and I start to worry, I am completely off balance and pathetic. There are a lot of things that have happened in my life, of course I will be willing to share it with the right person. If anyone on here is a psychologist or a psychiatrist, and can really guide me over time out of this mess, or maybe even someone that mere understands life, someone that is perhaps older than me - I'd love to chat with you on skype. You can also practice with me as your experience for studies or whatever research you might be doing, in exchange for trying to heal my mind. I'm male in mid 20's by the way, if you think its something that you would like to invest your time into, do reply

Cheatin Cheats

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Significant other cheated on me a few months ago. Tried to get past it, and I can't. And it feels like the other party just got away with hooking up with my person. Now, currently, they're still texting and flirting back and forth. I want to destroy that person's life and simultaneously send a message that they messed with the wrong spouse, but I want to do it in a way that is completely anonymous. Any ideas?
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Guess my last post was too personal. Tips for dealing with stress? And knowing when stress relief isn't an option but instead to get the fuck out
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Is it possible for a single male to adopt a daughter? I doubt I'll ever find a girl who loves me, nor do I particularly care, but I do want to eventually raise a child.
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Would you still get back together with an ex who has already fucked someone else during the 3 months you were apart? I cant stop imagining her getting fucked by chad. Not that its a hard thing to do since we fucked alot durint the time we were together






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