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My boyfriend hit me last night. He did it in retaliation, as I slapped him round the face first, but he hit me back much harder and really hurt my jaw.
Now, I'm not looking for sympathy because as I said, I slapped him first so I somewhat deserved something back. What I do want to ask is do you think a relationship can be fixed after something like this?
We've been together quite a while and this is the first time anything like this has happened. He's not a violent person and I genuinely think it was just a response to me slapping him. We had both been drinking as well.
He told me to shut the fuck up over something that was so frustrating that I slapped him as a joke. Turns out he didn't see it that way.
This morning he apologised profusely and said he felt awful. I also apologised and told him that I understood that my actions were what caused him to act that way. He said it didn't excuse his behaviour. I do believe that he is sorry.
I would appreciate some advice. I kind of look back on it and laugh, but at the same time I know things are very wrong when there is violence in a relationship.
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I was fat ass fuck like 6 months ago. I felt terrible and was probably terrible for my heart. I now have been taking amphetamines to help me lose weight for the past 6 months, and am almost at a near-healthy weight.
Now the problem is, I am probably addicted to the amphetamine and if I quit taking it, I will just regain a lot of my weight. "just eat less" doesn't do anything for me, my brain doesn't produce dopamine at all so if I don't eat then I have no motivation at all and my stomach constantly will hurt.
Only reason why the amphetamine makes me be able to lose weight is that it suppresses my constant appetite. My brain makes literally no dopamine, so without it, I am constantly hungry - like the feeling of "true starvation" hunger. To feel normal, I have to either eat to have some dopamine come from that, or take the pills to suppress my hunger. If I eat the amount of food I usually do to be able to feel normal, I would need to be exercising more than 8 hours a day. It's such a tight spot ;__;
So what should I do? Continue to fuck up my mind with amphetamine, or continue to fuck up my heart/entire body with being fat?
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I like this girl, for a while now,i've known her since last summer (2012) when she tutored me in maths.
She was kinda receptive at times, but at times she was cold i'd say. When she visited my town, she kinda wanted to see my place but i had people over so couldn't get her there. Last time she visited, i overslept so she left before i woke up. She didn't seem to mind though. Her texts were nice with some emoticons so i'm guessing it was ok. Few days ago, she texts me "I'm coming tomorrow ;)) set your alarm clock! "
Day after, early in the morning she sends me "Anon, today isn't happening...it snowed so mom is afraid to drive... :( "
So i msg her on facebook later that day, and her responses are short and kinda cold i think. I dont know if she's impulsive or not into me or what? Everything before was pointing to her being interested.
When i said "Aw, i was hoping to see you :( " she was like " :P "
Few messages klater i say "Oh well, i hope we will see eachother soon ;) " To which she responds with a short and simple " me too "
What is this /adv/ any idea?
Should I just bang her?
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Met a girl in AA a few years ago (I went sober for a year and a half, then realized I wasn't an Alcoholic)... Girl is buttahface, 5/10 face, 9/10 body.
Anyways she texts and calls all the time, borderline crazy. But, she wants to bone big time. Sexts me every now and then, I hardly show any interest (Alpha as fuck).
I don't get laid as much as I used to, and have been reconsidering destroying her poon. But I'm scared of two things:
1) She's dating a new dude like every other week (I'm scared of diseases).
2) She's obsessive already... texting and calling all the time when I hardly respond.
Anon's, am I acting Beta right now? Should I just bang her out?