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My GF wants me to buy lube, where the hell do I buy lube? 7/11 doesnt have it.
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My girlfriend is sucking the life out of me. She's depressed and miserable all the time, which makes me just as depressed and miserable as her. She refuses to try to work through her problems. I have to push her so goddamn hard to take any sort of initiative for anything. It's exhausting. And because I love her, I feel horrible for doing things that make me happy while she's off in a corner being miserable. But I have no idea what I can do for her that I haven't already done. I talk to her every single day. Every night is spent talking her through her latest emotional breakdown. Help.
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Why does my girlfriend keep saying that she doesnt deserve me? Its happened about 3 times this week. I'll do something nice, or sweet and she will say something along the lines of "Why are you so nice to me? I dont deserve you..." or like today "why are you such a good guy? I really dont deserve you." It is kind of odd, and actually hurts my feeling in a weird way. What could she be trying to say about us?
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Don't be ashamed of being INFP

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So recently, I've been seeing a number of threads, primarily on /b/, which have essentially consisted of people saying, "Oh God, I'm an INFP, I'm such an inherent loser, I should just an hero and get it over with." These threads ended up being beneficial for me, because I took the tests, and not only read the results, but read a number of other articles that I was able to Google, and realised that I'm an INFP myself. Of course, it isn't necessarily a 100% match in all areas; I'm still an individual. It is a good enough fit to be useful, however. This prompted me to make a thread, offering some advice to fellow INFPs, as to how they can start to feel more positive about being one. a} Tell an atheist or scientific materialist to FUCK OFF at least once a day. Do it adamantly, robustly, and with genuine feeling. You'll be surprised how psychologically liberating and gratifying the experience is. More specifically, be aware of the fact that, contrary to the pro-atheistic groupthink which is slowly taking over the Internet, intuition which doesn't strictly conform to the dictates of hard rationalism, doesn't always need to be seen as a curse. Atheists will see it that way, of course, but that's where, again, the ability to tell them to FUCK OFF (both internally and externally) will come in very useful. Give yourself permission to be intuitive, and to have ideas, beliefs, and perspectives which deviate from mainstream thought. Generally speaking, any idea which deviates from mainstream thought, usually does so by being more intelligent, less pathological, and with a higher degree of moral integrity anyway. You really aren't losing anything, by refusing to follow along with every other drone in the collective.
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I've made this thread before but I still want some answers. Theres this group of friends that hangs out around the town I live in, they're headed by a pear shaped girl, and they all seem to worship her, or like they're all in love with her. Theres a big guy who always dresses in suits and carries around a boom box, a skinny white guy with half his hair shaved who looks like skrillex, an Asian androgynous... thing... a Mexican with a sombrero a poncho and a frito bandito mustache who talks like he's Antonio benderes, and an Irish guy who wears black contacts, ram horns and has fangs on his lower teeth. The pear shaped girl is almost always dead silent and they literally do whatever she wants or react on her behalf. You make fun of her, they get pissed, threaten you or even beat you down, She looks like she wants something, they buy it for her, when they all go to eat, they go when she wants, and then they pay for everything and feed her. How do I get a group of friends like that? I need to know what she's doing to be worshipped, its fricken weird, they're all brainwashed or something.
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my cat is brain damaged and seems prone to hurting herself and prone to getting things like flees, worms etc. i have been trying to figure out how to do something to help improve her general health and immune system but nothing comes to mind. her back story is that she looked like she was hit by a car when i found her. she was so tiny its really amazing she survived. maybe even some cruel asshole stepped on her. i spent several months nursing her back to health and then about a year getting her to where she was house broken. she has no balance and no instincts really, took me a year to get her using the litter box.
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i think im in a transitioning stage in life, and this is causing me real ego/selfesteem problems. i will just write what i think about eveyr day, its not a question per se, and i want to know what you think or if you got an answer for me... ill bump with wallpapers, this is really important to me to hear your thoughts imo I dont have anyhting I think im amazing at any more. I used to play bball and thought I was the shit, but I stopped to do art because people didnt agree with my opinion of me in bball.. Not tall enough, i dont do anything well enough besides shooting, that kind of thing. So even tho I believed I could shoot well enough to maybe make it, I just didnt want to do the work in every other area. So I went into art for career. I also used to play games competitively, and i thought i was amazinga t that too. No one in the pro gaming community thought i was good as i said, but it is what it is. I did get pro. I was factually "good" i just thought I was great. I am susceptible to the "kanye west" ego god complex essentially. I do not think im the shit at art. I go to an art school now thats very prestigous, my teachers say things like i did good or thats beautiful or you have the ability to do better and this is okay, its not bad, but you have much more talent and ability work harder set the bar higher for yourself. I think everything i do here is shit tho, i have trouble admitting im better than anyone, and i get so depressed not being the best in the room. And I never am, really. theres only about 10 ppl around or under 21 (im 20) at my school of 400, but im probably the worst one out of those..

SSRIs

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i came to ask about your experience with ssri's/anti depressants. i've heard 50/50 (good/bad) about them, and i've denied them for 6 years. needless to say, a lot has been going on in my personal life and i really want to leave this world. i feel really weak in the inside, i've been crying all week- overall, i'm stuck in a rut. exercise doesn't help. trying to meet new people doesn't help. so please, tell me about your exp with antidepressants, as this is my last resort. literally. i'm more scared of the side effects.
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So last night I talked to this girl at the bar and we exchanged numbers and texted a bit that night. Anyways, how do I keep her interested after last night? I was thinking about texting her today but that might be too soon. Should I pursue her or did she just give me her number because she was drunk?

How to seal the deal?

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So I finally put the moves on this girl I've had a crush on for a few months now. It turns out she's interested too, but was too busy this week to see a movie. I'm going to see her again on Sunday, is there anything else I should do? She knows now how I feel about her and made very clear that she feels the same way. Neither of us exchanged numbers when we last saw each other, but should I not push for that until we arrange a date?
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i sweat easily and excessively. i'm a little overweight but not horribly, i have short hair, and can't think of any other relevant factors. tips?
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So I had a first date with a girl after a couple months of meeting her since I was away on holiday. I think it went well, fun, laughter, etc. I text her a day or so later (just a comment on something we talked about) and she doesn't respond until 2 days after with a pretty meh response. I have alarm bells ringing that she might not be that interested. What does /adv/ think?
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So I can't have sex with my girlfriend. We've tried a few times, but it's extremely painful for her to put me in even an inch. I don't know if she has a tiny vagina, or if her pelvic bone is weirdly shaped and kind of cuts off access. I've never really been able to get off by oral or hjs, and we've tried anal once, but it wasn't for her. What the fuck do we do?
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I took a year off of college, after going for two years and doing reasonably well, to work a shit job while I pursue my dream. While I would say I am definitely a lot better socially now, to the point where I am actually extremely good at getting anyone and everyone to like me, that's about all I've gain. I failed trying to pursue my dream as I should have been so much further than I am now. I didn't put in the time I should have and thus I didn't get to where I wanted to be at this point. I didn't sign up for another semester of school this term, I almost wish I did, but I don't even know what I want to do with my life anymore. I think that it might be a good idea to go to some kind of trade school, or something, but I'm not sure what... What the fuck should I do? I'm so lost, I'm so disappointed in myself.
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Hey /adv/ I need some advice on what to do with my bedroom to make it feel more homey. It's a shitty room in a 2br apartment that I want to try to feel more inviting but currently the drab furniture / everything makes me sad, excluding my badass motherfucking bedspread and pillowcases which are comfy as fuck. Anyone have any ideas on how to make a small room seem "larger" or even any tips or advice on how to spruce the place up some more so it doesn't look like a vacation home. Various pictures will follow of the room
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So /adv/, My boyfriend of 2 1/2 years dumped me a couple of months ago. Since we lived together, we had to keep seeing each other until I moved out, since he wouldn't/is too lazy to/wanted to still live with me. When things got tough due to him not doing anything with his life, and my lack of trust in him, he got with another girl while we were apart for summer (I study). He dumped me soon after, but got back with me when she moved to Australia (we're NZ) only about a month and a half after he met her. He hid it, kept in contact with her, and when things got rough again, and me telling him he should go to a counsellor and look for work got too much, he dumped me again. Two weeks later, told me about her, is now madly in love with her. They fell in love when he talked to her on Skype while I was studying or cooking his dinner for him and so was occupied. He believes he's done nothing wrong, and in fact, me not being good enough for him is what he genuinely thinks is wrong with us. I moved out and just removed him from my life. All was going well. Thing is, he turned up at a picnic I was at yesterday, and as I didn't want to be a dick I chatted to him and even helped him out with a job application, since I felt like I wanted to give him a hand as he's finally actually applying somewhere. He says he wants to be friends, but as a person, now that I can see all of the lies he's told and all of the manipulation he's done to my head, I don't want to be his friend. Sure, I'll chat at a party or something, but I don't want to hang out in a small group or alone with him. How the fuck do I tell him while avoiding mutual friends believing I'm fucking things up by not accepting his friendship?
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After reading tons of alpha male shit, watching tons of PUA shit I had become fed up. I knew I was in beta mode but I couldn't figure out what this secret was that alphas had. Now I know a bunch of you dudes that say alpha is bullshit 12 year olds talk about, hear me out, I am coming from your point of view. I'm high as shit right now, I broke through and completely get it. Alphas live their lives generally on the offensive and betas live their lives generally on the defensive. Because of the differing approaches the two don't understand each others motivations. So this is where everybody gets hung up trying to switch roles. If you are stuck in beta mode, you are so used to living life on the defense that it is your thought paradigm. It is the way you view luck in your life, it tinges the way you see every decision, every outcome (being on the offensive does the same but is opposite). Everything is a calculation in protection. From this perspective the alpha personality makes no sense, its counter intuitive. It seems massively risky, but somehow consistently yields better results than playing conservative. So betas respond by taking bigger risks. This of course fails because the difference is direction, not recklessness. As a beta its so hard to see that one is grasping onto life, rather than poking and playing with the experience. That grasping is a pillar of reality, the main directive. To a beta its like an alpha is doing 2+2 on an identical calculator as he but receiving 5 as a valid answer.
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Well fuck /adv/ I moved to a new city for a job and they backed out on me. Sooooo Fucking unemployed. I need some protips for what I should do in the interim. >25 >Mechanical Engineering Degree >Worked in sales but didn't really like selling >have enough savings to live at least a year with no income at all, though I don't want to do that
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Anyone else just accept they aren't any good with girls because you are just plain unattractive? After trying and failing with a handful of girls this entire summer and have NO success stories, I think I just finally need to accept it and lower my standards to a 4 or 5.






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