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My girlfriend wants to anally penetrate me. I have no interest in butt play, giving or receiving.
I'm not interested. It's not because I think it will make me gay. It's not because I will lose stock in her eyes...she tries to assure me of this. It's not because I am afraid of anal prolapse or perforation--a real concern.
It's because I am not even remotely interested. She's tried creeping fingers near my asshole when she's blowing me, and it's uncomfortable. I keep communicating my discomfort with it. She's so insistent about it. It's starting to REALLY upset me, and I have told her 'no', but she persists.
We had a long talk about it recently. Essentially, I told her that I did not want to do it, because it made me really uncomfortable and that I have never done anything, anally, with anyone. Also, I told her that her persistence and drive to convince me has begun to upset me. I told her that it sounded like an obsession; that I wasn't interested; that it began to sound like it wasn't about 'us', but it was about some kink of hers; that I don't think she cared about my dignity or respected me. She got upset...
Am I the bad guy here? How is this even possible? I understand that there is a sexual 'desire' of hers unfulfilled, but I cannot consent to what I have no interest in...
What the hell should I do? By that I mean, should I just cut her lose? It might the best for the both of us...I've kind of lost respect for her, because she has no restraint.
Fix Fetishes You are Uncomfortable With.
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It stands to reason that using some basic neurological/psychological principles you can 'fix' any fetish you have that you are not comfortable with (IE; cuckolding, traps, sissy, whatever).
1) You watch too much porn. You probably started out with something normal, hustlers or some old videos you stumbled across.
Think about the progression... you went from a Hustler magazine to something a little "harder", maybe lesbian/a certain ethnicity porn? Then on to something harder... maybe anal? DP? After a while, it just didn't turn you on anymore.
You could look at a Hustler today and not feel shit.
You see how things avalanche into more and more depraved fantasies?
This is because you do it too much. The brain creates wired paths to repeated behaviors so that it's almost autonomous. "Path of least resistance". Once those are wired, you no longer get the "rush" (dopamine) of fapping and need something "harder".
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Asked this elsewhere, was told to make a thread here. I told myself this would never happen...but here I am, ranting to strangers. Fuck it.
I am up for charges against me that will involve up to life in prison if they go through. These charges are brought about against me by a liar, someone who has bent the truth and managed to take advantage of my mental disabilities to paint me as the source of these problems. Im broke. I have a court defender who's overworked and inept. I really don't know what to do or say anymore so I am really just going to say what I feel.
The charges are from 2003 to 2006. I was thousands of miles away, but due to being so long ago the evidince of this is varied in level and quality. I am being accused of a CSC charge against someone who is related to me by marriage, and the messed up thing is that I was not living there during these charges against me. The accuser has also lied about the residence they lived in for part of the charges, as well as lied about another person who lived -with- me during a portion of these charges. Their only evidince against me is her false accusation, or it would have been if not for the cops scaring me to death and getting a false confession out of me. These charges have no real evidince whatsoever, but I cannot afford a real lawyer, and I told the police what they wanted to hear just so i could get home to my sick girlfriend, my god. I need like ten grand, and Im unemployed and no real hope to find the cash. No real aid, we had to sell my girlfriend's truck to get me out of jail. It just gets worse from there, this is a tiny crooked town with all the lawyers and judges working with each other, we're pretty sure the cop involved in this knows the person who pushed my accuser to spread this lie, and has used this knowledge against me. Its a case of small town wnating to get its name on the map for busting a "pedo".
(Continued next post. Image related - the place they're going to crucify me.)
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took a girl out for dinner. went well. headed to her place afterwards. went meh, sort of hung out and i took off after an hour. didnt make any moves, just chilled ina chair.
she walked me out to my car which was fuckign weird, got a boner, shyed up, gave her a quick side hug gbye and hopped in my car. it was wet and cold as shit.
havent talked to her for a few days now.
what could i have done better and how do I restart communication?
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OK /adv/, this ones a bit different, maybe you can help me out.
So I'm madly infatuated with this girl at my school. Like crazy. And I've told my friends (all of them) and they have never seen her around. Finally today, I showed them to her, and they just laughed. Apparently to them she's not that pretty. I told them she was 10/10, they told me 3 or 4 out of 10. And no, I haven't talked to her at all, because I'm scared shitless that she will shoot me down, and that she won't find me attractive.
Are they fucking with me? (Btw multiple people have told me she's not that pretty, also making fun of her nose size, people that weren't mutual with eac other but still friends with me)
What do you think?