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My girlfriend wants to anally penetrate me. I have no interest in butt play, giving or receiving.
I'm not interested. It's not because I think it will make me gay. It's not because I will lose stock in her eyes...she tries to assure me of this. It's not because I am afraid of anal prolapse or perforation--a real concern.
It's because I am not even remotely interested. She's tried creeping fingers near my asshole when she's blowing me, and it's uncomfortable. I keep communicating my discomfort with it. She's so insistent about it. It's starting to REALLY upset me, and I have told her 'no', but she persists.
We had a long talk about it recently. Essentially, I told her that I did not want to do it, because it made me really uncomfortable and that I have never done anything, anally, with anyone. Also, I told her that her persistence and drive to convince me has begun to upset me. I told her that it sounded like an obsession; that I wasn't interested; that it began to sound like it wasn't about 'us', but it was about some kink of hers; that I don't think she cared about my dignity or respected me. She got upset...
Am I the bad guy here? How is this even possible? I understand that there is a sexual 'desire' of hers unfulfilled, but I cannot consent to what I have no interest in...
What the hell should I do? By that I mean, should I just cut her lose? It might the best for the both of us...I've kind of lost respect for her, because she has no restraint.
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Me and my girlfriend broke up a month ago. We had been together for 3 years. During the last few months we had been constantly arguing about literally everything. It became too hard for the both of us to just carry on this situation, so one night we just decided to break this thing up. I don't know why, but it doesn't look "official" to me. We haven't met nor talked ever since but I have the feeling that there's still something between us.
The problem is that I started hanging out with some new people, lately. Among these people there's a girl that I've been having some sort of secret crush on for years. I had never really talked to her before last week. Last night, she confesses me that she feels the same and that she is also very attracted by me in a sexual way. The whole time she's been saying this, I couldn't stop thinking about my ex-gf. Me and this new girl tried to have sex, but I couldn't manage to get a boner cause I was really nervous. She's been very nice to me, said that I shouldn't worry, that she understands the kind of situation I'm living, and that I should take all the time I need to let the past behind me.
I don't know what to do.
I'm very sad about breaking up with my gf, but in a twisted kind of way I'm also happy because she was really making my life terrible. I loved her very much, and I think I still do. On the other side I have this girl who wants to have sex with me. I really want to satisfy her, but I'm still kinda trapped in that older relationship. Plus, I fear that things with this girl have the potential to get serious and to become more than just sex for fun. We really like each other, but I've been in a relationship for 3 years, and I really to spend some time on my own. I'm 20 and I don't see why I should be looking for long relationships.
How should I behave?
What do I do?
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Okay, so I used to be friends with this guy, I used to think that he was a nice guy/funny etc.. and never really had any kind of problem with him. But then I started to dislike him as time went on for subtle things he did, like for instance when he was with me alone he was pleasant, and good company, but when other people were around he would try to belittle me and generally try to make himself look cool by being a dick to me. As time advanced, I found more and more things about him that I hated, for example; he isn't funny, he just uses jokes that other people have made (funny youtube videos/slightly modified jokes that I or other people have made), and he thinks that everyone likes him no matter what situation he is in, he just assumes that he is welcome to join in any conversation that he wants, he even manages to do it effortlessly, like he is oblivious to the fact that the people who's conversation he is joining in on don't like him, and candidly talk about the fact when he's not around. Me and this guy share a friendship group, the group is full of easy going people who are nowhere near as aware about this guy as me, which drives me crazy because I notice him doing these incredibly unsubltle things like pretending to like the same music as the other guys in the friendship group and trying to make himself look like a down to earth guy when really he is just obsessed with making himself look like a cool, funny, normal guy. I honestly don't know what to do, because I feel like I am losing my friends to him (these are guys who, like me, didn't like him in the first place), he has really gotten to them, which makes me so angry, because I know that this now means that I will probably have to spend years of my life hanging out with this guy who I just wish would go away.
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First there's me, 18 yo dude. Then there's her, 17 yo. And there's the other, 18 yo dude too.
I first met her two years ago one afternoon I was hanging with friends. I fell in love. I have autism-like social/psychological issues and it never happened to me before, I never really cared for someone before her. We fell in love with each other. We dated. I was happy. I had never been before her. Then I met the other. We bonded real quickly, he was a real bro, someone I counted on. We were almost instantly best friends. Hell, he even was best friends with her. Then things started going bad with her. My paranoia and trust issues started showing up, I started hearing voices again. I broke up with her because I needed time for myself, but I didn't think it through. For 22 days I was devastated and the other supported me, he helped me. And when he wasn't around for me he was flirting with her. But I didn't know. I phoned her one day because I was too drunk to restrain from doing it. I cried and asked her if she would take me back. She said yes. We got back together. The other was angry at me, because I think he fell in love with her too. But he pretended to be my bro, still hung out with me. Spent more time with her. She started acting different with me. She started being a bitch to me. And he was whispering the words in her ear, "only for her own good". I had a breakdown. Told her I couldn't bear it anymore. She couldn't neither, because I was beginning to turn batshit crazy. We broke up again. He was still my "best friend". Soon I learned that they were fucking on a regular basis. i tried to forget her with another girl, a friend of mine. I ended up cradled in her arms, crying against her breasts. Then I started recovering. I was like before I met her. Ignored her. Ignored him.
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There's this girl I used to fuck for a few months, and we became pretty good friends. Then I moved away, across the country, and we lost touch.
Now I'm married to another girl but living back in her area again.
Thing is, I want to get in contact with this girl, even though I have zero desire to cheat on my wife or do anything sexual. Really I just want her as a Facebook/chat friend.
The only problem is, if I did, my wife would know about it and she'd freak out.
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Asked this elsewhere, was told to make a thread here. I told myself this would never happen...but here I am, ranting to strangers. Fuck it.
I am up for charges against me that will involve up to life in prison if they go through. These charges are brought about against me by a liar, someone who has bent the truth and managed to take advantage of my mental disabilities to paint me as the source of these problems. Im broke. I have a court defender who's overworked and inept. I really don't know what to do or say anymore so I am really just going to say what I feel.
The charges are from 2003 to 2006. I was thousands of miles away, but due to being so long ago the evidince of this is varied in level and quality. I am being accused of a CSC charge against someone who is related to me by marriage, and the messed up thing is that I was not living there during these charges against me. The accuser has also lied about the residence they lived in for part of the charges, as well as lied about another person who lived -with- me during a portion of these charges. Their only evidince against me is her false accusation, or it would have been if not for the cops scaring me to death and getting a false confession out of me. These charges have no real evidince whatsoever, but I cannot afford a real lawyer, and I told the police what they wanted to hear just so i could get home to my sick girlfriend, my god. I need like ten grand, and Im unemployed and no real hope to find the cash. No real aid, we had to sell my girlfriend's truck to get me out of jail. It just gets worse from there, this is a tiny crooked town with all the lawyers and judges working with each other, we're pretty sure the cop involved in this knows the person who pushed my accuser to spread this lie, and has used this knowledge against me. Its a case of small town wnating to get its name on the map for busting a "pedo".
(Continued next post. Image related - the place they're going to crucify me.)
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took a girl out for dinner. went well. headed to her place afterwards. went meh, sort of hung out and i took off after an hour. didnt make any moves, just chilled ina chair.
she walked me out to my car which was fuckign weird, got a boner, shyed up, gave her a quick side hug gbye and hopped in my car. it was wet and cold as shit.
havent talked to her for a few days now.
what could i have done better and how do I restart communication?