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so i'm in college and i think my roommate was masturbating 5 feet away from me?
we both have extremely lofted beds so i guess he felt like i could see him, but i can see him in the reflection of the window, and he had his pants off (which i'm cool with because the heat is on constantly in the winter, i wear my boxers when i sleep) but he just had his hand in his shit, moving up & down. Idk if he was scratching or jacking off, but when I got up to get down from the bed, he stopped, and I came down and adressed him about it.
I said "blah blah blah, you making me kind of uncomfortable chilling in your boxers, and I can see you going to work down here in the reflection of the window" and he got super flustered and said it wasn't cool, he won't do it again, so I think he was stroking his shit?
I didn't really like him in the first place, so I def want to tell someone about this, but is what he did even illegal or anything? I know we both live in the same room, but still.
I just don't want to end up telling my ra this, and I'd have to end up moving all my shit out since i'm the one with the problem.
Does anyone have any advice as to what to do/knowledge about this type of shit?
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Okay /adv/, femanon here. I'm coming to you guys for outside opinions, since I already know the opinions of my close friends.
My boyfriend and I have only been together for a couple of months, which isn't very long and is making me feel a little negative about the future of my relationship with him. He's very insecure about the fact that the entirety of my social circle, save one or two other women, is made up of men. Men that are all either in long term relationships or are married, might I add. As a result of this, I feel as though my boyfriend doesn't trust me (though he claims it's the other men he doesn't trust), and is constantly feeling poorly about himself and worrying about whether or not I care about him - to the point that we have to talk about it multiple times a week for hours on end and I need to make him feel validated at the end of it all. You know, remind him I care about him, that I don't plan on leaving him for anyone else, etc.
He promises he'll try to work on not being so hyper sensitive to the issue and not read into things that aren't there, but I haven't seen any sort of change. It's literally happening multiple times a week and it's stressing me out, to the point where I feel like I've done something awful when all I've done is have a conversation with a friend about casual shit that doesn't even come close to reading as flirting. I feel like he wants me to just stop talking to all of my guy friends (which would leave me with two friends, max, and only one of which I talk to on a semi regular basis), and that's not happening.
Is there ANY solution to this or any way I can help him get over this? I've tried everything I can think of, and short of cutting ALL of my guy friends out (which is not happening, since some of them I've been good friends with for years), I see no way this can end well. If it comes down to it, I'll choose friends over him, but I don't want to have to make that choice.
Can anyone here help me out? Pls?
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>Have a boyfriend of three years
>Have never enjoyed pornography at all, but one day stumbled across lesbian pornography and it turned me on
>Can only orgasm when thinking about being with women
>Yet still turned on by my boyfriend, love him, and cannot picture myself actually being with a woman or in a relationship with one
Fuck it /adv/, am I a lesbian? I've heard a lot of straight women enjoy lesbian porn because they have an emotional connection to it, but I don't think I've ever been able to even orgasm for the past year+ if I wasn't thinking about being with a woman... But I don't want to actually be with one.
Guy friend stopped talking to me?
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We were talking for a while now, we went out, it went great. We keeping sending each other messages, he went to the beach with his friends for a week and we still kept talking, daily. He did tell me he was interested in me and would hit on me. He's currently on "break" with his gf, he said most likely he wasn't going to get back with her, unless she had a good excuse to why she wanted a break. The break ends a week from now. Im rather confused to why he randomly stopped replying to my messages. I don't really know what to think. The last message I sent him was "hey sorry, im not talkative just not in the mood" he said "same here" I asked "how come?" he never replied, later I sent "watcha doin?" he did see the message the next day and never replied. I waited 2 days to send him a message saying "Hey stranger" he hasn't seen it, yet and its been 2 days since. I'm thinking did he lose his phone (bc he's at the beach with friends) or is he trying to avoid me. He said that when he got back we would hangout, supposedly thurs, it's been 2 days. He knows where I live and everything. I don't know if I'm over thinking this but help? I know we clicked tho, for sure, even he said so.