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so i'm in college and i think my roommate was masturbating 5 feet away from me?
we both have extremely lofted beds so i guess he felt like i could see him, but i can see him in the reflection of the window, and he had his pants off (which i'm cool with because the heat is on constantly in the winter, i wear my boxers when i sleep) but he just had his hand in his shit, moving up & down. Idk if he was scratching or jacking off, but when I got up to get down from the bed, he stopped, and I came down and adressed him about it.
I said "blah blah blah, you making me kind of uncomfortable chilling in your boxers, and I can see you going to work down here in the reflection of the window" and he got super flustered and said it wasn't cool, he won't do it again, so I think he was stroking his shit?
I didn't really like him in the first place, so I def want to tell someone about this, but is what he did even illegal or anything? I know we both live in the same room, but still.
I just don't want to end up telling my ra this, and I'd have to end up moving all my shit out since i'm the one with the problem.
Does anyone have any advice as to what to do/knowledge about this type of shit?
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I never really asked for advice here, but this situation is really bothering me.
So, making it short, I was in a college project with a friend and some people I didn't know. I did my best to be friendly, nice and helpful. However, my efforts were mistaken by "trying to steal the leadership", that belonged to two other persons.
As they were, anyways, bad leaders, I wanted to leave the project, but my friend insisted I stayed, since "they were going to fall down and we would get the power". Shit continued to happen, I continued to try to be helpful and uninvasive, but it exploded and I left the project.
Now the leaders think I was manipulating my friend so that I could be the leader.
And it fucking bother me because it wasn't my fucking fault, and since I live in a small town, the events of my course usually have the same people. That means I'll eventually bump into them.
How do I stop feeling bad?
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Which would you choose, /adv/?
>Beautiful weather, pretty much summer year round except that it rains a fuck-ton (sometimes for a week at a time)
>Jobs are not scarce but not abundant either
>Vibrant arts and culture scene
>Girls are QT as fuck, but mostly hipster or asian.
>Right by the ocean and mountains
>Real estate is fuck-me-in-the-ass expensive. No hope of owning property for at least 10~ years
>2.5 million people
>More conservative and smaller city
>Job opportunities are more plentiful and they pay quite a bit more (at least 15-20% more)
>Snow on the ground 6-7 months of the year. Sometimes temperature is -35
>Only mountains nearby
>social scene is decent, but the lifestyle is mostly sleep, work, drink, repeat.
>Real estate is still expensive, but more realistic chance of owning property within the next 2-4 years.
>1 million people
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Sometimes I try to do things and it just doesn't work out the way I want it to. And I get real frustrated. And like, I try hard to do it, and I like take my time but it just doesn't work out the way I want it to. It's like I concentrate on it real hard, but it just doesn't work out. And everything I do and everything I try, it never turns out. It's like, I need time to figure these things out. But there's always someone there going "Hey Mike you know, we've been noticing you've been having a lot of problems lately you know? You should maybe get away. And like, maybe you should talk about it, you'll feel alot better."
and I go "No it's ok you know, I'll figure it out. Just leave me alone, I'll figure it out you know. I'll just work it out myself."
and they go "Well if you ever wanna talk about it I'll be here you know? And you'll probably feel alot better if you talked about it. So why don't you talk about it?"
I go "No I don't want to, I'm ok. I'll figure it out myself"
but they just keep bugging me
they just keep bugging me and it builds up inside
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I was wondering where, in real life, could I find 4channers, or even just internet people in general. Personally, I tend to often go to bars/pubs, arcades and video games stores but these are all to do with other interests I have. I'm a britfag if that helps.
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My boyfriend is a fucking retard. Dating him is like dating a 12 year old.
We're both 18 and both in school. I'm the only one with a job. I pay for everything, and honestly, it doesn't really bother me too much. I just like having fun with him, so its alright.
I don't expect anything in return. Well, that's kind of a lie. I'd like him to at least fucking try to find a job. He bitches that he has school so he can't. I fucking have school too! fuck. He's a big baby who had a mother that did everything for him.
So, I guess my question is, how do I get him to be more responsible for himself? I'm tired of changing his diaper.