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So my boyfriend enjoys watching anime, and myself and his parents are incredibly concerned. If he was still a child, or even a teenager, we would think nothing of it, but he is a full grown man that still enjoys watching cartoons. And the worst part is that these cartoons feature very childlike female characters with squeaky voices that myself and his mother find very sexist and obnoxious. My boyfriend watching anime is very disturbing to myself and his family, and we'd like to have him move away from his obsession and to something more healthy. Even watching reality television would be preferable. What are some ways we can kindly get him to stop watching anime? We don't want to hurt his feelings, but at the same time this shit needs to stop.
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Me and my husband have very, very different ideas on how to raise our child. For me, I want to raise him to be creative, imaginative, intelligent, sensitive. I absolutely NO TV and I want to severely limit when/how much he uses the computer when it comes time (using for homework and maybe some recreation but not all day). I want simple, basic toys which stimulate his imagination, animal statuettes, cardboard boxes, blocks, etc. I want to push him to EXPLORE the world around him and learn hands-on, take him on trips, let him go outside and run wild, take him to the DIA, etc. Celebrate the beauty of the seasons. I want to let him read real books, and engage with others. My husband keeps on trying to buy him plastic crap he finds at Toys R Us. And he plops him down in front of the TV after I tell him how I feel. And it makes me look like the "bad guy" for saying no. But I know too many kids who spend all day in front of the TV and/or computer and it absolutely kills their empathy and imagination. I don't want him to be "hooked" or be exposed to any of the toxic junk on TV or computer (as we are all aware of). My husband thinks I am being "strict" but I think if anything I am encouraging him toward true freedom instead of shackling him to some plastic light-up piece of crap where he can stay for hours and hours, which tells him what to buy, what to wear, what "boys" should act like vs. "girls" etc. I'm not sure. Do I put my foot down? Were any of you raised with no TV or computer?
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/adv/ I can't take it anymore. A few weeks ago you guys and my IRL friends diagnosed me with depression. Even a medfag or two that lurks said I did. They said I should see a therapist and I turned them down. Now I can hardly get through a day. It just keeps gnawing at me. Like a buzzing sound in my head. I can hardly focus on anything. It just keeps fucking with me. What do I do /adv/?


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I have been very fat for a decade now and i want to lose the fat asap im very unpatien i do judo twice a week and im very unpatient and obsessed by food please help me im 15. Pic unrelated
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i still get angry about an unresolved falling out with a former best friend. he kinda screwed me over, then pretty much ignored me apart from small talk when we hang out in our group. i thought i was over it but i still can get pretty worked up about it. last month i even had a dream we talked it out at length. is there anyway to get over this with out talking to him about it? i really don't want to talk to him about anything in depth, we're on reasonable terms and i don't want to get caught up in some bullshit all over again. especially as it was almost a year ago.

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whats the point of living when u cant find a job / gf when they are all either fat/shallow/bitches/or have 15 kids, i drink alot due to this on my mind all the time and im bout to pull the trigger
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Looking at a new computer. I'm not really an expert on parts so I just wanted to know I'm not making a fool of myself. Hopefully this is future proofed enough to at least play ps4 games. Here's what I got going: intel i5 3570 asrock h77 motherboard samsung ddr3 4gbx2 memory gtx650ti graphics 1 tb hdd rexcool 600w psu Did I fuck up or is this okay?
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/adv/, I'm a lesbian, and have a question. Is it wrong for me to use the fact that I'm a woman to manipulate men for gain? In online games, chatrooms, irl, I've used being a girl to get men to shower me with gifts/money/ect and then I never deliver any kind of service in return, or if I do its always less than what's intended. I get free drinks at bars. Guys do stuff for me. Shit's just super easy for me. Guys talk about how if they were girls they'd abuse it all the time, so I don't particularly feel bad about it. My girlfriend however stresses and worried about it all the time. She's afraid one will eventually get pissed and beat me up, rape me, or do something crazy. She's not the feminazi separatist type, but she does has a deep fear of men. I've been working on it with her, but she's still easily made upset. Recently I had almost a problem with a guy I was leading on. Once I realized he was serious I cut it off. My rule is no leading on guys who fall in love. That's just low. Still the damage was done, and he was heart broken. She fell to pieces in pity and fear for him. She was legitimately mad for him and afraid he might lash out. I dunno, I've just been doing this since I grew my tits. Is it really so bad?
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the other day i jokingly told a girl i've been friends with for ~2 years that I think I may like her. she called me almost immediately asking if i was serious and for whatever reason i said yes. fast forward about 2 hours (texting the entire time) and i realize i think i do like her (we had almost hooked up when we first met, but i was too beta to do anything. virginfag here, though i have gotten to 3rd) she kept asking how long ive felt this way and why i never told her about it. i responded, asking why she cared so much (trying to pry and get her to admit some sort of feelings as well) but she kept responding with "idk" and things of that nature. we currently live 3 hours apart (shes in CT, i'm in RI for school), so i've been trying to get her to come up here for a while, even prior to this new-found revelation of mine. she always told me she would come up BUT only if my best friend came along and drove for her. last night she mentioned that she might drive up here herself, shortly after tweeting "Tonight I'm getting over you." in regards to her ex-bf who i know for a fact cheated on her (with a lardass, no less). i thought things were going well, but yesterday and today she's been texting me with short replies, almost coldly. i havent texted her in like 12 hours, so i need help with that. we also have rental cars that we can pay for by the hour on campus. It'll cost me roughly 80$ to get to CT and back to RI. i had mentioned being able to go that route and pick her up for the weekend, but she sorta shot that down since its so expensive (i have a decent income and can definitely afford the 120-160$ it will take me to drive to CT and back twice). im half tempted to text her telling this, and either bring her back to RI with me, or just chill with her in CT for the day and then drive back up alone (likely on a saturday. leave at like 7am and come back for like 7am). if money isnt a /huge/ issue, is that worth it/should i ask her? pic related.
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Do I need to have a wingman at bars?
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How can I bleach to a solid, natural skin color? Nothing wrong with freckles, but I have a whole lot of them just on my nose but not much elsewhere, I really don't like how my nose looks, it sort of ruins my aesthetic. I mean if MJ reconstructed his nose over 900 times I'm sure I can just make the skin on my nose the same color as my ass. Are there home kits for this, like there are for bleaching teeth or would I have to go to a skin place?
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So I guess it's been about almost two months since this girl I've been hanging out with for months and became best friends started kind of dating. I say kind of because of a plethora of complications but to put it simply I'll make a short list: >She was molested as a child >Has serious issues with being romantically physical in any shape or form >Wasn't till we realized we liked each other more than friends she was stating she was asexual >Because of these things we decided it would be a bad idea to try physical stuff right now, but stay committed to one another We really like each other a lot, and have both said we would like to maybe get married one day if it keeps going the way it is going. After she confessed to me about her past I suggested seeking help for it, and she has been seeing a counselor. I am not sure how regularly but it is obvious she is going at least once a week by our conversations. I on the other hand have a lot of personal issues and ever since she started seeing our campus' school therapist (which is completely free apparently) I have been really tempted to go. If I decide to go, should I tell her I am going? I don't want to seem week emotionally especially since her problems should be the focus right now. At the same time though I don't want to keep it from her and then run into her on accident one of the times I go or her find out some other way. tl;dr: Should I tell the girl I'm with that I am going to a psychologist? (back information helps understand the situation though)
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To all the introverted /adv/isors who consider themselves successful in whatever definition of the word, Were you forced to push past your introverted nature to become more extroverted for the sake of your job/ networking to move up? Why do you consider yourself successful? Any advice for the introverts of the future? Thanks a lot, in advance. I keep hearing that "a man with no friends is a man with no power" Is there any truth to that? pic kind of related
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I just have a slight problem that I need help fixing. The relationship I'm in is lovely and we've been together for years but all the sudden there is absolutely no sex and when we do have sex suddenly he's coming in like 5 minutes and then rolls over and goes to sleep. This is made even more frustrating by the fact that sex used to be often and great for us and just suddenly got awful in the last few months. I understand that this is probably because he's under a lot of pressure in his professional life, but still. I keep trying to flirt with him and get him in the mood but he always brushes me off. It's starting to bruise my ego to the point where I don't even want to try anymore. I would never dream of cheating and I don't plan to leave him over this hopefully temporary lack of sex, but got any ideas to entice him a bit more because I'm completely clueless and feel like I might have tried everything. Wat do?
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alright hears my problem >cute girl works at store i go to often >hits on me >do my best to flirt >this went on for like two years of me seeing her like ones a week at the store >last year i finally realized it was OK to ask girls out get real brave >"i'm gunna ask that hot clerk out to coffee man' >few days go by go to store see she there take my food home and come RIGHT back. to ask her out >i do. she's blushing and looking at her feet while smiling, i look really nervous too give her my number tell to call if she wants to go out to coffee >oh shit man ima get a call back that was just cute as fuck, notebook shit >one week goes by no call back >feelsbadman see her at the store and make it very clear that I'm not trying to get in her lane or talk to her anymore. nothing mean just ignoring her that was six months ago. i have no clue why i didn't get a call back cuz i know she liked me. my problem now is I'm wondering if i should try again. i wonder if she had a boyfriend or something. i just really like her a lot, but i have been stand offish with her by avoiding her lanes, and only saying hello and thank you, to her. i now that im thinking about trying again, im also thinking that by the way ive been acting. that if i did she would say no. i kind of deserve it i guess. what do you think do i have a chance? advice about a way to get her to go out with me. or is it just not worth my time, i fucked it up to bad. cuz i really dont care if she has a boyfriend thats not going to stop me. its just half of me thinks i fucked up by ignoring her and i could of turned it around, if i wasn't so butthurt. and now its to late. HALP

some people are the oxen and some people are the lions

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Is it wrong that I'm disgusted by normal people? They go to their 9-5 jobs every day like sheep and live their colorless lives. No ambitions other than to get married and shoot out some kids like their biology tells them to. No original thoughts or personalities. Their personalities are the same as whatever their friends are on facebook. If you talk to one of them you get to hear about their stupid kids or the fucking weather. So predictable and boring. I'm so revolted by their mediocrity that I don't want to even be near them for fear that I could catch what they have. They are the scum of this earth.
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how the fuck do I start up a new conversation with this girl. I know she's down but I'm stumped
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I'm a shut in. Where do I meet women? I'm also fat, so this is not an immediate concern - I'm sure I have many years at the gym before anyone would deem me a human being worth treating with anything but contempt or loathing - but I'm curious how non-shut-ins do it.
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My girlfriend is extreme frustrated that she can't have an orgasm when masturbating. And I want to help her, but I don't know what the hell to tell her. All she does is get frustrated and be a bitch about it and say rude things to me in the process. Obviously I feel terrible because I can't help her. I can't really fulfill my duty as her boyfriend. But honestly I wish she wouldn't be such a bitch at me because she's mad about things that I don't directly cause. Everything that gets her mad is taken out on me. And when I get mad, I make the UTMOST EFFORT to still treat her with kindness and respect. I don't bitch about my problems. The only time I do is when she does dumb shit to me. And then I listen and understand and forgive here. When she's mad, she never calms down. Fuck, women. I'm not this woman's punching bag.

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Just got home from work and I need to vent but also need some advice. So a few weeks ago I told a girl at work that I like her and things have not gone well since then. To be honest I was genuinely butthurt the week after that shit went down. It was also then when I'm sure that she could sense the hostility I had towards her. I knew that I had to be stoic but now it seems that she's still angry at me. Whenever I see her at work I try my best to put on a facade that I'm fine but now she's the one showing hostility towards me. We have to help each other at work (a grocery store) and she literally throws items at me and she doesn't help me out. Before all this we would help each other no matter how busy one of us was. We use to talk (as much as the introverted me could), mess around with each other, and spent a few breaks together. I know that she most likely stopped doing this because she doesn't want things to escalate any further but what's with the anger she has towards me? Could it be that she's still mad about what my initial reaction was? She's 21 and I'm 20 so I was guessing that it was some immaturity bullshit but that's what puzzles me even more. That's when I have the false hope that she truly did like me and that she's mad that I didn't take a strong enough stand. I quit beating around the bush and decided to tell her upfront that I liked her. This was technically the first time that I told a girl I liked her so I didn't know what to do. I insinuated it a few weeks, maybe a month or two, prior and to be honest I had memorized some dialogue beforehand but in the end it didn't feel right so I just went with what felt right to say. Nothing was right so now here I am doing a bit but not much better. It use to be that I chain-smoked 5-7 cigs whenever I saw her at work but now I'm cutting down to 2 at a time. I can explain why I thought she like me but at this point that seems irrelevant. So what I want to ask what the fuck can be going through her mind?

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