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Hey /adv/, just a /g/entooman coming over to moan for a while. Feel free to ignore this thread, just need to vent. I'm a fucking idiot of the highest calibre.
I feel better for having put this in a place someone can read it, that is all. Also, I'm really, really drunk.
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There's a girl I'm really into who's also into me. We only had two dates, but the first date she immediately told me was the best date she'd ever been on, and the second one was just as good. Shortly after that she told me she didn't want to keep dating because she thought she wasn't in a place right now in her life where she should be dating. Which sucked, because I was really starting to get into her, but it was fine.
A few days ago she posted a facebook status about how she realized from a discussion she just had with a friend that she was actually afraid of commitment, and had become everything she hated seeing in dating.
Should I propose she try to move past this by dating me? Or should I just try to find someone else?
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>dated girl for 3 years
>she moves to a different country for work
>i try to move there
>she tells me she loves me, misses me, wants to come back to be with me
>say it's up to her but that would be good if she did
>a couple of times she says she is quitting her job to come home
>after a year of long distance, say I can't handle it anymore and we break up
>she calls me a few weeks later saying she is quitting her job and is coming home in a few months
>tell her that I don't quite believe her, but if it's true that is great and to call me when she is about to get on the plane
>never calls me, I know it wasn't true
>emails me six months later telling me she is getting married
I was so hurt from that, but at the time I betad out and tried to smooth things over, but then stopped responding to her emails. Since then though, I've had this seething anger toward her. We haven't spoken since, but it dominates my life, I dream about her still, I am jealous of her happy life. I feel guilty about being so angry though. Should I email her back and try to make up?
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Need advice. At New Years I moved into a new apartment with two guys I don't know using the apartments roommate finder. One of the dudes just stays in his room all day and isn't a bother. The other dude is the problem.
First of all, he was an ok dude,only problem was he talked too god damn much. Literally say one word to him and he will talk to you for about 10 minutes even if you don't say anything.
So he smokes weed every day in the apartment. I don't have a problem with weed, I smoke occassionally, it's just I don't like smoke inside the apartment, it leaves a shitty smell and is fucking illegal.
So I've dealt with that for a while, but now he got a new born dog just out of nowhere, without asking me or nothing. He's a nice guy so I really just shocked me he would do some shit like that. Well now this dog is shitting and pissing on the floors and carpets on a daily basis. He bought pee pads but is too much of a fucking dumbass to know how to teach a dog, so now the entire living room and kitchen smells like piss.
I don't know what to do about it. I don't think he's paid the pet insurance so I want to tell the apartment about it, but I don't want to tell on the guy. I mean, I have to live with them so I don't want to live with a person who resents me. Also, he is a really nice guy but there was one time some guy stole a autographed football from him he was giving to his nephew, and went off on one of his talking sessions where he likes to get stuff off his chest like a girl, but was telling me how if he ever saw the guy he was going to kill him, like several times he said this. So there's that.
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> go to class with this girl for quite some time
> it's the second-to-last week of class
> get her phone number (with the absolute dumbest line of all time)
> "we should hang out sometime, how about monday morning?"
> "i don't really have any time for the next two weeks:("
Ordinarily it's like, okay, whatever, two weeks is two weeks. But class ends in two weeks. I'm going to be several miles away and I assume she will also. I can drive but I don't know what to say now.
I kind of think she wouldn't have given me the number if she really intended to just blow me off. But I don't know how to progress. Like, at school, the amount of effort required to hang out with someone is super low because you're in the same vicinity. Now it takes some commitment I guess.
(Also: I'm 19. Drinks are out. I think she's actually a bit older than me but I'm not sure.)
I want to go back to the real world.
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Okay, so bear with me here because my English is pretty bad, and I don't talk to people very often.
Right, so basically I'm a NEET. A 20 year old one, in fact.
I haven't been outside since I dropped out of college two years ago.
Due to my shitty childhood and lack of social experience I am incredibly awkward.
On top of this I haven't had much contact with people at all since I dropped out of college and abandoned all of my online friends.
Despite understanding how social relationships work, and how to act like a normal person to a degree, my complete and utter lack of social ability makes it incredibly hard to function in the real world.
I understand that my current situation in life is in fact very pathetic, and that sitting here won't achieve me anything.
Unfortunately getting a "life" would be easier said than done for somebody like me.
I have attempted to get help through my national health care system, and I have tried to improve my English online, but unfortunately I have not been very successful.
I have also tried to seek help from family and go outside more often, but my lack of self-esteem makes me feel like a bumbling autist and an eyesore whenever I'm out in public.
As such, I am now looking for help online, and would appreciate any advice that you could give me in regards to becoming a more normal and well-functioning person.
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Hello everyone. I have a question I want to ask you all.
First of all, if you are willing, everything I'm going to say is based on this video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mnFUDVpFwFQ , so if you don't something I say, either tell me or watch the video.
Ok, so let's start. I am taking a masters degree in music, and I really enjoy it. I play classical guitar, and even though it eats a lot of my time to study and etc, it's worth it to me because it brings me joy and bliss to play guitar. However... I have so many other interests. I also have a great passion in photography. I simply love to go out, have no hours to be back home, have no idea where I want to go, but even then I can always find a way to do so and I manage to take amazing pictures (albeit my camera is a piece of shit).
I would like to experiment sky diving, horse riding, interrail, world trip, get a small boat and just set sail to somewhere. However, as we all know, music does not pay enough cash to do not even one of these things (at least that's true for classical music).
My point in all of this is: What could one do to do this? I would sincerely prefer living until 35-40 years old and try everything I want than live until my 90's and regret not trying everything I wanted. Should I forget guitar and get something else that brings more money in? But then I would do something I wouldn't like, and it would probably be worse. I don't know...