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I find myself constantly wanting to humiliate, defile, and degrade my girlfriend.
She isn't really into it, but she does it because she knows I enjoy it and get off on it. But I can see it's really taking an emotional toll on her lately. I can't help myself though. I don't know what it is exactly, but I see her, and particularly when she is nicely dressed, you know that clean fresh start of the day look, she has her makeup on, and looking at her, I just get these dark thoughts. I don't know why, I don't know what the root of them is. Perhaps it's because she is such a kind and compassionate person, but I see her looking normal, and I want to destroy that image. And I make her do real fucked up sexual things.
It didn't used to be like this. I mean we dated for a year without anything like this ever happening, we were normal, we had a good sex life, what the fuck happened to me? How do I stop doing this? I get caught up doing this stuff to her, and then afterwards I look at her, and at first I am satisfied, but then I deeply regret it. I can't believe it was me that did such things.
I'm probably fucking talking in circles here. I don't even know if anyone here will understand or be able to help me, but maybe other folks have felt this way and dealt with this? I'm hoping so. I don't want to lose the relationship or really start to fuck her up emotionally.
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i had/have feelings for this one guy for a long time. he didn't really want to date anyone, but was interested in me, so we began having no-strings-attached sex. he tells me that after he has sex with me sometime his mood drops, gets "emotionally drained and low" and "disappointed", but the sex is good. i feel pretty shitty, being that i really like him and he basically just told me after his erection goes away, he feels pretty terrible. any idea what could cause someone to feel that way after sex? and would it be wise to continue this relationship?
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Hey /adv/, I need some help. I haven't had any real female contact in the past 2-3 years, but I recently met a girl. She's beautiful, easily 10/10 in both looks and personality, great music taste and a fantastic artist.
Last week we were together and she was being really touchy and flirty, I didn't exactly know how to react so I guess I just went with it.
On Friday, I got really stoned and talked to her best friend, admitting I had feelings for her and that I didn't know what I should do.
Come today, I see her again, and she wasn't exactly giving me the cold shoulder, but it felt like she was actively trying to ignore me.
I'm so confused, what the fuck should I do?
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tl;dr My wife thinks our daughter's love for me is inappropriate.
Starting from the beginning; around the age of four and a half my daughter started going through the "I want to marry my daddy" phase, I knew it was a fairly common and normal thing for young children having witnessed it in several of my mother's friends' children.
My wife however immediately decided it was disgusting and wondered where our daughter got 'incestuous ideas' from.
I can't call it incestuous because she's a kid, I've been straight with her about where babies come from but I seriously doubt she could even grasp the concept of what sex actually is.
Fast forward to now, she's 6 years old, is still daddy's little girl and while less vocal about the whole marriage thing she still demands a lot of affection.
She sits on my lap at every opportunity and about 3-4 nights per week she'll sleep in our bed and will put up a fight if my wife tries to remove her.
I still see nothing wrong with this as she's still very young and likely the grow out of it but it is putting a strain on my relationship with my wife.
What am I supposed to do?
I can't convince my wife she's overreacting and I can't suddenly turn to my 6 year old daughter, tell her she's perverted and shouldn't love me so much.
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need some /adv/ guys
Long story, but i'll try to summarize it;
>friends with this girl for 4 years
>go out clubbing together a few times a couple of months ago
>dance, hook up, etc, every time we go out.
>she tells friend she doesn't want a relationship with me, it's only sexual
>her friend tells her boyfriend, who is my best friend. he tells me
>text back and forth
>catch up a couple of times, nothing happens
>go out clubbing with her and her friend last thursday
>all over me, pulls me over to her to grind on her
>her friend asks me if i'm into her, i obviously say yes
>go back to house we're staying at
>she leaves her friend to get into bed with me
this is where the night fucked up.
it was their friends step mums house, because it's close to the city
>find syringe in bed
>cock blocked by syringe
>we all leave to go to girls actual mums house
>only 1 bed
>can't fuck next to her best friend
>she tells me how glad she is that i'm there
>next day leave for home early because work
>she texts me all happy
>no fucking reply, now 4 days later
What do I do?
I'm pretty close with her best friend, i've been friends with her for almost 5 years.
Should I ask her friend if it's worth pursuing?
Thanks for your time guys
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Looking for a decent laptop for my gf, doenst have to be fancy or extremely fast. she's not a heavy user but a decent sized HDD is a must. also must me able to run Photoshop. I have been searching for Lenovo, Msi and Asus but having i hard time choosing between models.
so what do you advise? she doesn't want to spend more than 450 euro's(roughly $600).
options so far:
ThinkPad E325 NWX3QMH 13.3", E-450, 500GB
Asus Notebook X301A-RX252H 13.3", 1000M, 320GB, W8
Lenovo Notebook ThinkPad E330 NZSCRMH 13.3", 2348M, 500GB, W8
MSI Notebook X370-479NL 13.3", E2 1800, 500GB
Lenovo Notebook ThinkPad E335 NZT66MH 13.3", E2 1800, 320GB, W8