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I am a senior in high school.
I feel like my life isn't moving what so ever even though i'm about to go to college and i've spent the last couple of weeks feeling by myself.
Normally i am a very happy and outgoing guy, but once every other month i just doubt myself and i get to the point of just crying.
I have a wide circle of friends, but i feel that i am not connecting with anyone anymore and idk if im just doubting myself or a majority of the people around me aren't that intellectually deep.
I moved here to colorado for my senior year after having spent all my other years in Tennessee, maybe everyone just wants to be with their friends that they've been with. Idk.
I can't seem to make a move on any of the girls that I like or think is cute unless they're not confident at all or a couple years younger than me.
As I said I am quite normally outgoing, funny, and an all around good person.
I don't know if there is anything that you guys can help me with, but if you can relate i'd like to hear.
Can someone help me improve my Philosophy Essay
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Hume's Repudiation of The Self
David Hume said, “Man is nothing but a bundle of different perceptions which succeed each other with inconceivable rapidity and are in perpetual flux.” People are influenced by their life experience, such as the death of a loved one or an abusive household. However, DNA and genetics possibly bring up evidence that contradicts Hume's idea, showing how the codes we inherit define what we look like and how we act and react to things like substances. These reactions can be controlled or altered with drugs or therapy, but personality is ultimately defined by what the individual chooses to do, like whether subcumming or rising above addiction.
Man is often defined by their surroundings, and he have some sort of choice in what environment he wish to be in. If a person grows up in an abusive household, that abuse ultimate shapes how he views relationships and how he solves problems, usually through violence. However, therapists offer all sorts of treatments from one-on-one therapy to group therapy to allow that person to confront his feelings and overcome the habits he has formed. These habits can be anything from taking drugs to picking at finger nails, that can be changed through self motivation and action, making all of us the sum of what we want and strive to be.
Career Vs. Normal Sex Life
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>Going into my senior year of college
>Never had sex
>Ambitions of going to medical school slowly slipping away due to mediocre grades
>tfw I fear the real world after college
How do I balance my personal life with my professional life?
I feel like, in order to lose my virginity, I have to focus on social life and that entails slacking in school and further jeopardizing my med school aspirations.
On the flip side, in order to get into medical school, I have to study with the fury of a thousand aspies in the coming years, thus diminishing my chances of ever going out and finding a girl...
I'm the type of person who has a hard time finding balance.
Everything is an all or nothing game for me.
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Alright, I've seen some romantic bastards post here. I'll be honest, I'm going to need your help for one thing.
Ending a date.
So my set up is simple, and it is good to go.
I take a girl to eat, get froyo, then drink somewhere. Now, I would like to end it in this manner:
Let her walk out of my car.
Yell out tell her to wait.
Walk up to her, and say:
"Hold on. There is something I want to say."
Let her react
"I know you aren't going to wait for me, and I'm probably going to follow suit. But let me just cross the line for a moment."
Move to her ear
"You're the type of girl I consider a bro, but"
I either kiss her on the lips or cheek.
"I needed to get that off my chest."
Someone change, grade, help meh!
I'd like to pull this off without getting slapped or charged with something. It would also be nice if this threw mixed signals or something in a calm relaxed manner.
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Made my own thread cause I got a lot of questions and problems. Figured a separate thread was better than taking over another. Hope no one minds.
Where to start with me.... I guess I'll start with the biggest one. Will green text cause I write too long otherwise. Even then I'll write too much at times.
>decide it was my day to stop my years of shyness
>go up to girl I met in speech and who I also had math with
>get along and we hang out after class each day
>some days I also stay later with her even though my classes are done for the day to keep her company
>random day she hugs me before leaving
>ask her out on a date twice or so maybe even three times
>each time she waited till last minute to say she was too busy
>she also suddenly makes a friend in math
>they sit next to each other, laugh, pass notes, etc.
>towards the end of this semester she also got with another guy and they eventually broke up after a few days
>before the break up though I had to hang out with her, her bf, and her friends...who were also a couple...fifth wheel mode
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Fucking RELP! My girlfriend wants me to break of a good friendship with a female friend because of insecurity.
This friend and I became friends originally through work, and during the last recession the knives came out for me and I would have lost my job and likely have permanently found myself out of my career industry without her being my shieldmaiden and going to the mattresses for me. I literally owe her a Wookie life debt.
The girlfriend and I have been dating about a year, and she knew we were good friends, and this has actually never been an issue until now. So what changed? Well she found out that like most people, my friend is not perfect, and she has her character flaws. Unfortunately they tend to lead to her being known as a home wrecker and sleeping with married men, and men in existing relationships. Mind you we have a deep friendship, and this has never been an issue because our relationship supersedes such things and she has never made a play for me, nor would she. But when you have that reputation built up, it's a hard thing to shake. I've counseled her and tried to help guide her into being a better woman and I have to say she has made positive changes, but she is not on the straight path yet.
So anyways my GF found out about her past and went batshit insane over it, and while she hasn't completely gone there yet I feel like she is really close to laying down an ultimatum. I've already told her don't fucking do that, don't put me in that position to make a choice. I'm afraid she might, and honestly I don't even know which way I would choose because I do love her. A fucking lot.
Sucks to be placed in such a bullshit no win position.