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>meet girl on OK Cupid
>she tells me straight up she has a condition which makes her right leg swell up almost twice the size of the other
>decide to give it a chance, maybe it won't be that bad, plus she's really cute otherwise
>It's that bad
>start fooling around, receive blowjob because horny
>can barely stay half erect for obvious reasons
>end up nutting on her tits, realize what I've done and regret hits me
>both really quiet for an hour before I leave, spaghetti as fuck
So yeah I'm a really shitty person and I wish I could have given her a chance but it just wasn't happening. Plus I probably made her feel real shitty and led her on. I don't know what to do, not sure what she thinks of me but it can't be good.
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My gf has problems with cutting herself, bulimia and anorexia, to be completely honest with you, I don't know what route to take (since I've never had problems with said things), so I was wondering if anyone in here had any idea on how to apporach the subject of quitting them (where to begin, how to go on, etc, etc)
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My entire life i have had no self confidence/ self esteem and it gets in the way in everything. Ive tried many psychedelics trying to figure out what the problem is, ive gone to counselors to get their input and methods. Nothing seems to work out, i always feel like shit and unmotivated because this always seems to get in the way. I've never had a long romantic relationship, i always look in the mirror and say something like "fuck you" or "you are a piece of shit". Now, i'm not feeling sorry for myself, this has been apparent to me since childhood. I am a male, i am skinny as hell, and people think im really wise and smart, but with school work and work in general, im terrible at it. I would like to use myself to the full potential, but i'd say im using about 10% at least... I need someone thats been in this situation to give me some tips or advice... I'm starting to get into this lifeless void of an endless cycle of feeling like shit and being depressed, so depressed that i cant find the motivation to try and change myself, or just general apathy. Please help my life is falling apart very fast...
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About a week and a half ago, my friend gave me a "smiley" burn on my hand. I'm quite sure that now it is infected (slight swelling around the periphery of the burn, itchy, and there's a yellowish tinge on the actual burn).
Is this anything you would actually NEED to see a doctor about? I don't care if it's itchy or anything, I just don't want to get sick or have to get my dick amputated. Pic related, sorry for shit res webcam.
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My boyfriend has incredibly long mole hair on his back. Every time I look at it or brush my hand on it, I feel utterly disgusted. It's something I've tried to ignore for the 2 years we've been together, but honestly I'm just sick of looking at it. I want it gone.
The trouble is that he refuses to remove it. He comes up with a lot of reasons, but the main reason seems to be that he is chinese, and in his culture it's bad luck to shave something like that off and really, it's just been with him all this time and he wants to keep it there.
Am I being unreasonable to ask him to remove it?
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Hear me out /adv/, I have fucked up royally.
>dated great guy for 6 years, love him but have zero physical attraction to him, also he's kind of a lazy bum
>left him because I met a guy who I'm extremely physically attracted to, and also have a lot in common with
>blissfully happy to be with him
>he turns out to be a psycho, and not want a serious relationship with me
>sad and confused, wasn't aware we were just FWB
tl;dr I suck. I left a guy who loves me for one that doesn't. Is there any way I can properly apologize to my ex? Should I cut ties completely with the other guy?
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So, I am not really sure what to do...I am way to insecure about myself, and anything based on my appearance and it is really hard to be able to accept that not everyone will manipulate me or lie to me all the time. I find my insecurity about my appearance as well really affects my relationship sometimes, and it's alot more than me thinking I'm fat, its like, I cant even deal with having a guy I'm with look at porn if it is say, a specific person or something because it ends up making me feel absolutely horrible and like I'm not good enough...I know its really irrational but I honestly would like to figure out a solution to help me overcome besides see a therapist, because that never works for me....
>was bullied all through school, like squishing against sides of the hallway yelling fat names at me, guys actually beat me up and i had hair falling out from when people pulled it
>Always was called fat and ugly
>now the only problem i have with guys is that they just say whatever they can to get in my pants, which to me obviously doesn't mean shit about my appearance.
Pic related, its me
I just need a little help thats all,..I want to be happy about myself, with more than just appearance and feel like I can trust my boyfriend even though I know I can..
About to go into rehab
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So my girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me a few days ago, it's been an intensely painful experience so far, I thought this girl was going to be my wife and have my children, so Im a bit of a wreck. I've been abusing alcohol to a dumb extent and harmed myself last night. I'm having lunch with my parents in Perth as I write this and when we finish here I'm going into some kind of mental rehab, before I enter a doctor is going to assess me and I'm hoping he will give me some form of medication to sedate my pain. Is there a drug that will make me feel happy and stop the pain? And It must be a legal drug that the doctors will give me, what do I ask for and what should I avoid saying? Picture is me two nights ago
i hate being crazy
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I blow up over nothing and act completely insane, and then I worry so much about what I've done and what everyone thinks of me. I'm bipolar, and sometimes I do really crazy things, and feel ashamed for weeks or months or years. I don't want to say, "Sorry, I'm just crazy, I'm figuring out my meds," because that is embarrassing. I just want to fade away from everyone's memories, and I want someone to talk to that understands how crazy I am and accepts me anyway. I stopped talking to my friends because they can't stand me and I don't want to be "that person", but then I AM that person to every other new person and it's like I probably shouldn't even be allowed to interact with other people at all.
I feel so ashamed, I just wish I could die.
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So I'm trying to not be a piss ass retard by making an attempt to better myself and fight my ADHD, OCD, and I'm looking to stop procrastinating with everything. I have a lot of schoolwork, I do my schooling online, and I need to get it done relatively soon. I'm not looking for help to do my schoolwork, assuming I could get my ass on that shit I can do it, but I'd like some help with tips on how to focus better, be less of a scatter brained ignoraneous, and just all around succeed. I'll be dumping some life hack images that I have in the hopes that someone can drop relevant helpful images, URLs that I should read up on, and practices that I need to make into a hobby.
Any and all help is greatly appreciated.
I'm dumb and need help being a better person in regards to not being so ADHD; help concentrating and not procrastinating in general.
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I started a thread last night about my fear of potentially losing my closest friends because I don't enjoy partying like they do, or more specifically, I'm afraid to try drugs and I don't want to grow apart from them by being the only one who doesn't get high. Having resolved to at least try to get over my discomfort and make an informed decision about trying euphoriants, I've decided I want to try being around my friends while they are high to become more comfortable with the idea, and if I become confident enough and feel comfortable, I'll try taking something while they are around me and not high.
This probably won't be particularly soon, but in the meantime, I can research drugs clinically all I want, but that won't help me really understand the appeal, safety, and culture of recreational drug use. I'd be pleased if anyone could share their own positive (or even negative) experiences with drug use, or offer advice you don't really get from reading some clinical article about a substance on the internet. I'm hearing a lot of "drugs are awesome" but not a lot of "this is why I like to get high, sometimes this happens, this is good and this is bad about this drug, etc".
Thanks in advance; I was really nervous about this last night but I feel a lot better after talking to everyone. The people of /adv/ are great.