So I'm going to a bukakke party tomorrow...
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Yep, you read that right. One of my greatest fantasies. Conditions could be better; the girl could be prettier (there might be more coming, apparently).
So basically I answered a classified ad advertising this. I was okay'd to participate based on my picture. It's a private affair, in a yet-to-be-disclosed hotel room, and it will be filmed (the girl being the focus, not the dudes' faces). Basically, come in, cone on (haha), and leave, and apparently a couple guys will get to do more, depending.
I've never done anything this crazy before. Whaddaya think, /adv, is this too crazy? Too risky? And, what in general should I keep in mind whilst at a bukkake party (assuming anybody here in this wonderful hive of scum and villainy has been in a bukakke party).
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tldr: My boss is an asshole to everyone at work. For some reason he likes me and I'm one of the managers. Should I tell him to chill out or should I mind my own business?
So basically I work at this shitty mom n pop shop as a manager. Before I became a manager, I grew really close with all of my coworkers, so most of them trust me with secrets etc. Everything is fine and dandy, except for our boss. He and his wife are power-tripping assholes. They flip out at anyone who makes the tiniest mistake. They'll pull them aside and tell them they're the worst employee ever and they're trying to find a way to justify keeping them, just for asking a fucking question that they "should've known the answer to". They've made several employees cry. Despite all of this, I've somehow managed to avoid being targeted. For some reason the bosses like me and come to me for my opinion a lot of the time.
My dilemma is that I've reached my boiling point. I really want to tell them to pull the collective sticks out of their asses and to give everyone a break. They need to relax and face the reality that they keep hiring pothead kids straight out of highschool, and then expect them to do everything 100% perfectly.
However, I'm afraid that I'll get fired, or they'll cut all of my hours or something. I have a lot of bills to pay, and it took me two years to get this shitty job.
Should I say something? Should I keep to myself? Anyone have a similar situation?
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ok, lets say you met this awesome girl, attractive, smart, followed the same passions you did
now lets say 6 months later, youre madly in love, then she drops a bomb
"i used to be a man"
how do you react?
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So I guess the answer is pretty obvious... but I'll still hear your opinions first.
So on the 9th I am going to go to a major hang out with friends. Girl I really like will be there, but so will her ex (not sure, but willing to bank on it) and although she constantly says she doesn't want to date anyone, how she isn't with him, and how we're just friends, but that is all bull shit because I know for a fact that anyone's mind can change within an instant. It's my job as a salesman to know and abuse that.
Which leads to my next point. On sunday, my office will be travelling out of the city for a week going to different towns and work in those areas.
Now, I make a LOT of sales out of town. I really want to go out of town because in my opinion I know that I won't have fun on Sunday and I know for a fact that my friend will never look at me as anything but. I would really rather make 1000+ bucks next week rather than make shit cash and still not get the girl.
I feel like the only reason I would bother going would be if I knew for a fact that my friend would quit being a flirt with me, if she would quit leading me on, even though she claims she isn't. She knows I'm into her. I am usually straight about these things. I constantly asked her on numerous occasions to tell me NO to tell me that she would never date me, but she's brushed those off, constantly side stepping it and just leaving at the fact that she doesn't want to date in general. Why the fuck doesn't she just tell me that it will never happen? I got a lot of things to do, like this road trip, and I will take it if it means making money. I'd rather be rich and lonely then lonely and poor.
So like I said, obvious answer, but I would really appreciate on some insight, because this bitch just doesn't know how to be straight. She hates confrontations and conflict, so I guess she is just being overly nice about not dating me?
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My mum royally fucked me over in regards to my credit. I won't go into detail, but at a very young age she encouraged me to get a loan, did not teach me about money, didn't help me with savings, etc. Now my credit is absolutely awful and I'm looking at being turned down for a mortgage.
I'm so fucking angry at her. I literally can't stand to be around her because she lives her life with absolutely no responsibility. She always makes these grandiose plans that they're going to save thousands of pounds, then she wastes all her money on clothes and crap ornaments for her house.
She had two kids before she was twenty, abandoned them to run off with my dad, had me eleven years later. Her two kids hated her but recently got back in touch and now she acts like mum of the year, completely ignoring how much she fucked them over. Even my sister hates her at times.
I feel so angry I could cry. Everything seems to be falling down around me and this just topped it off. There's literally nothing I can do about my situation, I can't buy a house, they can't help me and even if I clear the debt she made, it'll stay on file for six years.
If I cut all contact from my mum, do you think I'll regret it in the future? I could list a million things that annoy me about her. This isn't just a teenage rebellion thing...I'm in my mid-twenties. I feel like she has royally fucked up my future.
(I accept responsibility for other life decisions I've made...I'm not perfect).
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>Give match.com a try
>Paid internet dating maybe meant less creeps that get women too defensive
>message 13 women in the course of a week
>All read my message, only a couple bothered to check the profile
>hot single coworker (whom I did not message) saw my profile anyway, nothing happened, dont want to bring it up
>tempted to attend a singles match event at some swanky bar
Is it because I'm a slightly overweight asian guy in the middle of redneck city that is Nashville? Even then, I'm working out and I don't look fat---more thick with a BMI of 27. I'm not even particularly picky---only ones I'm avoiding are black chicks and those with kids.
I'm a busy engineer/project manager at a midsize company, all my friends there are 20-ish years younger than me.
I'm tempted to join these match.com singles night bullshit, and even started to entertain moving out (but my job is so good right now)
/adv/, what's the recommended course of action? I've signed up for a few volunteer jobs in my church just to meet new people, as well as going to shows/museums. Damnit I'm not looking for a fuck, I'm 28, I need a soulmate, and getting desperate.
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Well /v/, I got a story for you..
Need advice, no life in general.
>Be recently 18
>6'3 350 lbs, awkward as fuck
>Go to fucking private Catholic High School
>Been going to them all my life
>girls give me no attention, boys are assholes
>Rich, preppy fags who have everything given to them and worship God
>Almost kill myself junior year, decide it's better for my health to not go there anymore
>Drop out, family disappointing, have to get job or I get kicked out
>Cannot get GED until I'm 19
>Even with GED, cannot go to college without going to community college
So /v/, what do? Any advice from you fags?