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Good afternoon /adv/
I'm seeking some help about a situation i was just in, will greentext it
>go to party
>drunk as fuck
>3am everyone goes to sleep
>share bed with this 9/10 girl, seriously, fit as fuck
>no idea how this happened but imhappy.jpg
>we cuddle, end up making out
I'm a virginfag btw
>begin to finger her
we're in a room with like 8 friends asleep aswell
>i have a strange hard on
Now, what I need help with is that I wasnt as aroused as i thought i'd be? I mean, whenever i thought about something like this happening, that i'd cum buckets instantly. I'm certainly not gay or bi.
TL;DR fingered 9/10 girl first time ever, wasn't as bonerific as i thought it would be
all i can think is that it's because i literally met her that night for the first time ever, or that all my friends were in the room and it was a boner killer
Anyways, is this normal?
Shy in public
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So here's a couple of stories.
>driving in my car
>see a cute dog leaning out the window in the car next to me, I smile involuntarily
>it's being held by a pretty woman, she sees me smile and smiles back
I'm horrified and look away immediately
>we pull up to a stop light, and I pretend she's not there
>Picking up drycleaning for my mom, looking out the large glass window
>cute chubby girl walks by, she seems so happy and confident
>I guess I was smiling or something, she sees me watching her and smiles back
>I quickly pretend like I was looking at something else
Why do I do that? I wish I were brave enough to just say hi or something. Afterwards, I think to myself, 'they're just people, they would probably like to meet someone as much as I would."
I'm not looking for a girlfriend or anything, I just want to meet someone new and make a friend. But I'm too shy.
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What's up /adv/? First time posting on this board (I lurk and rarely post on /k/ & /g/ most of the time.)
Guess I'll just hop right into it. Me and this girl were a few weeks off from being together for a whole year. She recently got into some financial trouble. Now I haven't had a steady job the whole time we've been together. I've tried to find one, but between me being lazy and the lack of jobs around my area, I haven't landed one. Anyway, she got fed up with it and told me she wants nothing to do with me until I'm stable enough to live/help her. I really want to do this, I mean I really never pictured spending my life with someone before. Everything else in our relationship is fine, and I don't blame her in the least for choosing to go this route.
Anyway, I need to find a way to get motivated. I'm one of those "tomorrow will be the first day of the rest of my life" type of people. Anyone else ever been like this? How did you change?
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In need of family advice. Trying to repair things.
I am just going to be honest.
I have a bipolar mother with huge narcissistic traits. Bad past as well. Daddy issues.
My father has horrid anger issues. Troubled past. His father commit suicide when he was 11. Mother was abusive.
(Parents are not together)
My mom is a manipulative tyrant. Leeching off all of my siblings for money when she makes more money than all of us. My mom goes into manic episodes and sleeps around. Asks us bizarre sexual questions. Flirts with and attempts to seduce mine and mine siblings boyfriends/girlfriends. Spends all our money. A little harsh to talk about, but my mother's ex-boyfriend molested me when I was really young. I've been trying to file reports for years now, but my mom calls me a liar. Throws a suicide-fit and then the attention gets directed towards her and the family tells me "Now is not the best time for you to report that." This has been the cycle since I was 10.
My dad has all this built up anger about it. Literally wants to kill my mother. And now he wants to call Dr. Phil. Which is not only totally embarrassing, but even if it does go through, I can guarantee my mom would lie about our whole life on the show.
What the hell do I do? Do I just up and leave everyone behind? I want to repair everything. I still have love for my whole family. But it has been so dysfunctional for so long, I don't know what to do. I have told my mom of leaving before. But then she flips and says I am not part of the family anymore if I leave.
I don't feel like I can call any of these people my family anymore. But I also can't fathom being on my own.
Sorry for the wall of text. I am just fucking fed up. If I do leave, I have no support system. No friends. What do I do.
P.S. Family therapy is not an option. Tried it so many times. Someone usually flips out when the counselor tries to mediate, then we never go to another session.
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/adv/, I dun goofed.
Me and a a girl had a bit of a thing going. Nothing happened, but it quite easily could have. I wasn't single at the time, so I did the right thing and backed it off. However, went out one night, and for whatever reason (way too much booze) I got really, really annoyed at this girl, and may have called her a stupid massive cunt on my twitter. Of course she gets shown this. this was about three months ago.
Fast forward to last night, which is the first time I've seen her since. And she basically tore me to shreds about it. Awkward, especially as I'd forgotten about it. I apologised as much as possible, and left her to her night.
Now, I'm being told she's still interested, and I'm now single, so I can start to do something about it. I'm not in a rush to get with her, and I know it's gonna take time to sort this shit out.
What are my next steps to make this happen/better?