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Guys, I've got a problem. I met a girl last saturday. She has an bf. She wanted to meet me on sunday, i went there and we kissed.
I know her bf pretty well, he is not a bad guy, but she told me he sucks in bed and she doesn't love him. Next saturday i am going to a homeparty, she will be there but he bf wont.
Is it ok for me to use the situation? It feels a bit strange, i was fat but lost 20 kilos (I was a fat fuck and had no luck with girls) so i don`t know if she really wants me or plans some shit. I can't tell any of my friends because they know her bf, so i am asking you /adv/, any advice?
I don't want her as my gf, because if she cheats with me she will cheat on me... Please help me, or at least come in here and talk with me...
The Landlord With Horns-None-followed mutual severance agreement, and personal injury questions
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About nine months ago my LL and I came to a court agreement that we would vacate the premise by 7/1. There were placed stipulations to this, such as her fixing several dangerous conditions that remained since move-in. This was to be done during the last months we were there. She also was responsible for a housing inspection. Needing written permission to schedule this and to enter the premises, there was never an attempt to schedule and no response when we tried. The only inspection that was ever made, was nearly 2 years ago at our expenses. From this we learned the home has issues that needed to be fixed by federal law within 10 days others by 30. Did not happen, and during this time my husband attained a serious injury to his head, ending with hospitalization and some work absence. We are all packed up, but are curious about our rights seeing as she did not follow the court agreement, and are hesitant about vacating the area thus abandoning evidence that she has not followed court orders, while we have. We were not evicted and it was not for any payment issues. I'm curious about our different possible options, if any, to at least have the town fine her.
And maybe make myself feel a little vindicated in the process.
Are Good Manners Anachronisms?
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I seem to have a funny notion that it's important to be polite to people. Requests should be accompanied by the word "Please", and you should always say "thank you" when a person does something for you. It's particularly critical to be thoughtful and courteous when you interact with people you do not know very well. It's understandable to behave more casually around friends of several years. When you are uncertain of whether an acquaintance is on the same page for you, it's better to play it safe and behave respectfully towards them, rather than risk making them uncomfortable with inappropriate familiarity.
It has been an unfortunate fact that I spent almost the whole of my childhood and adolescence quite a distance away from my extended family and even my siblings. I was not on the same continent as them. Now as an adult, I have ended up interacting with them at family events, such as weddings. I've found that these meetings leave me very uncomfortable. My relatives attempt to be very informal with me, even though we are not well acquainted. They frequently stand unpleasantly close to me, and subject me to gentle ribbing or teasing. I would never tease a near-stranger, and considering the very small amount of time I have spent with these people, it wouldn't be reasonable to think of ourselves as much more familiar than that.
I recently had a discussion with my girlfriend, about how it upsets me that my relatives are thoughtless enough to not notice that they are making me very uncomfortable. My girlfriend suggested that it was unreasonable for me to expect anyone to notice something like that. She suggested that I had unreasonable expectations. Do you suppose she's right?
How hard is it to change someone's opinion of you?
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All throughout highschool I was trying to find myself and deal with my awkward stage filled with acne, long hair, and never looking anyone in the eyes when I spoke to them.
Now, at the end of high school, I'm actually a pretty social guy (With my friends/people I know well), but I have absolutely no girl friends. I don't think I ever weirded any/a lot of girls out, but I just didn't focus on them. I actually feel like I avoided them because I knew I'd just make them feel uncomfortable with my awkwardness.
So now all of those girls are at the social gatherings I attend, and it's really hard for me to make friends/speak with them. I'm still not completely over keeping to myself and keeping quiet all the time, so I really couldn't just walk up to them and start talking.
One thing that I really think hinders me is that I keep thinking they think of me as some quiet and weird kid. No matter what I do I feel like most of them are just ignoring me, as if I'm not even there.
So is there anything I can/should do?
What do you think they think of me, if anything? (Since they might not even care enough to have an opinion of me)
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>always horrible with women despite nothing wrong with me physically. Social retardation/depression/anxiety/Asperger's ruins everything throughout adolescence.
>eventually fucked a hooker when 18, tried it a few more times, stopped.
>still feel like a virgin despite the fact that I've had sex, it's been years
>don't want to go to a hooker again because the experience is terrible (not a real relationship, just meaningless sex) and a waste of money
>finally dating a girl who seems to like me but no previous relationship experience
I'd really, really hate to tell someone about the fact that I lost my virginity to prostitutes. I feel ashamed about it, but I can't change things now. Honestly, I prefer to lie and tell people I'm a virgin. The truth is more humiliating, that I've never had a real relationship with a girl at all besides paying one. I'm still horribly insecure about this: girls have been attracted to me in the past, plenty of times. But I'm so bad at talking to them that I just can't seem to get them to do anything with me, or I find I don't like them very much.
With this girl I'm dating now, if she WERE to ask about my previous sex life, I'd have no idea what to say. The truth just makes me feel terrible to remember, and even worse to say aloud. I went to 20 psychotherapy sessions and not once brought it up, even telling my therapist felt like too much. NO one knows except one of my closest friends who still tries to encourage me with girls.
How do I deal with explaining this to people? Is lying just the better option?
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There's this girl that I've really begin to like alot. The only problem is she's 15 and I'm 18. Ever since the first time I saw her, I thought she was really beautiful. We've been talking and I really want to be with her. Earlier a friend and I went to a party at her house, and she and I almost kissed but she was too nervous (so was I). Tonight I asked her if we could hang out again sometime and she told me that her mother said that I can't hang out with her because she is too young for me. I personally disagree. And it is really killing me. I want to be with this girl, she is amazing. I haven't felt this way when I talk to someone or when I hold someone in years. I've actually cried over this girl, usually my philosophy is get a girl to like me enough to fuck them and then never talk to them again. But with her I'm not even interested in that at all. I seriously want to be with her. What should I do? Talk with her mother about it? Find other ways to see her? Pic related, here's a picture of her.
Did she help me to cheat?
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So earlier in the year I took the exams to do my dream job. There are about 10 school all across the country, and 5 in my city.
I had the frist results a few days and they weren't so good. My roommate, also best friend, kept saying she was sure I was gonna succeed at least at one exam.
Today I got the last result for the schools in my town, and I got it. I almost had no hope left at that point.
Now I suspect that my roommate, who is very good with computers (she's studies informatic and maths, and already makes a living developping websites, video games, and applications) somehow hacked the datas to change my grades.
I don't know much about informatic so:
1/ Do you think it's posssible?
2/ What should I do if I learnt it's true. I feel like I shouldn't go if I cheated
I had this idea because she's the one who mentioned it as a joke a few weeks ago. And she kept saying I had to stay here cause she has no other friends (she has trouble socializing, panic attacks, etc.) and she didn't want to be alone.
Should I call the cops?
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Okay, so I was at my best friend's house yesterday and I was on his laptop while he was in the shower. I was being a little nosy, and checked his internet history. I know, that was a dickish thing to do and all. But anyway, I found some weird links, and when I clicked on them it led to a bunch of child porn. Like, the worst kind of child porn.
I closed that shit out asap, but now I don't know what to do. My friend's a good person. He's one of the kindest people I know who was always there for me, and we've been friends since elementary school. He is someone who, despite the fact that we are the same age, I look up to and admire, and even aspire to be like one day.
But what I found was really bad though, and I don't know what to do. I guess the right thing to do would be to call the cops, right? But he's my best friend and I don't wanna do that to him.
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I don't really come to the board much but I have to ask for your help. Unfortunately, this is another relationship thread. Anyway, let me get started. I've fallen for a fem I met on 4chan about 2 months ago (which is making me second think actually posting this thread so that she doesn't know I'm asking you guys for help). I've told her my darkest secrets because I trust her completely. She is the only person on the planet that knows some things about me. She tells me she loves me but I can't tell if it's jokingly or serious. I don't know if she actually even has feelings of commitment toward me. All I know for sure is I would do anything within my power for this girl.
Before we started talking, she has three ex-boyfriends that all regret leaving her. She was also talking to some chap in London. Now, before I get slut allegations, know that I don't care and this was over about a 5 year period. We live about 5 states apart and will not be seeing each other anytime soon. However, she will be meeting with the London chap when she goes there in about 3 months.
We are both young (under 20) and she is ridiculously attractive. I know some people might exaggerate the attractiveness of someone that they're in love with but she is legitimately a 9.5/10 with guys constantly texting or contacting her looking to hook up.