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Need some advice. Not a complicated situation.
Basically been trying to hook up with the girl for a few times. The first two times we tried to have sex, I couldn't get it up. Embarassing, but It went soft once i tried to put a condom on. She blew me to finish me, and you can imagine this happening twice is frustrating.
About to go at it tomorrow, and I don't want this happening again.
Before however, I felt guilt because I was getting more serious with another girl (Haven't fucked her though) but we're done now, so I think I'll go in uncommitted with nothing but sex in my head.
What do you guys think!? Help me save my masculinity!
Ask An Armchair Psychologist/Jesus Freak
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>if anyone needs to talk / needs someone to listen for any reason, feel free to hit me up at firstname.lastname@example.org. I might not be able to give good advice, but I can promise to listen!
>armchairpsychologistfag.tumblr.com is in progress. uh. slowly.
>pic unrelated: my netbook's running hot so I don't want to make a new 'ask an armchair psychologist' image
So my netbook broke a while ago and I haven't had an internet connection until now because I have finally been able to acquire a new netbook. (I like netbooks. A lot.). Might as well do this I guess -- it's been like a week. (I think.).
>I know a lot about and have a lot of experience with: learning disorders, high functioning autism/asperger syndrome, synesthesia, mood disorders, Christian theology
>I know a fair amount about: Wicca, Islam, Satanism, martial arts (specifically karate)
>I'm a tad interested in meta-ethics but all I've read on it so far is Kant's "Groundwork of the Metaphysic of Morals".
>I was born three months early as a triplet with two brothers; my nose is very slightly misshapen because of the ventilator I was on in the NICU; I've had five surgeries; I've had depression for five years and have nonverbal learning disorder (basically Asperger Lite), dysgraphia, dyscalculia and synesthesia. I also have an extra bone in my wrist 'cause birth defects are fun. (Coincidentally, I had my earliest surgery when I was two. I don't remember any of it.).
>Iran is fucking awesome. The people, not the government. Fuck yeah Iran.
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Hey /adv/, good news, a post that isn't about relationshit, right here!
TL;DR: Need to pick uni major. Live in Europe. Want one that would make it easy to get a job that has me being stationed in other countries. Speak 4 languages, will be 6. It has to be engineering. Which one?
So, I'm 19, haven't started uni yet, but will soon. I'm only really interested in engineering, especially the IT side, mostly programming at this point, but I'm not sure what subject to get into.
I wanted to go the normal computer science type thing before, but now I'm not sure, because I want a job that would let me travel around the world. I don't mean just going to a conference in another country for like a day or two, but rather being stationed in a country for a while.
Do you guys know what engineering discipline would allow me to find a job like this? Can I go the normal CS line and find something like this, that would have me being sent to different countries early in my career?
I currently live in Sweden, but I will be able to choose an international focus on top of my main subject, which will allow me to study abroad for a year or so, and being a EU citizen I can relocate to another EU country easily.
By the way, I know about 4 languages right now, and I'm hoping to have that up to 6-7 by the time I get into uni. All of them are European.
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>Have poop job, 7.50/hr
>Have to work 40 hours to get a decent check.
>smoke too much weed
>Home life is pretty shifty.
>Want to leave but saving money is impossible here.
>family of succubus's, mostly mom who give money to crack head brother.
>went to community college like a fool, dunno what I even want to do in life.
>have/had hobbies, starting to diminish.
>everyone else my age is off to some fancy college or whatever, knowing their plans
>dont even have license.
I want to succeed and become something but I don't know where to start. If I go back to school I still won't know what I want to do. I've been considering getting a second job to help me save up more..but idk. Pls help /adv/..
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Hi, /adv/, I guess I'm coming to you today because I want advice on what to do regarding my dad. I'll give more details if asked, but I didn't want to start off with a wall of text.
My dad's been unemployed for years and seems to have no drive to change that. He might have an addictive personality due to his behavior with alcohol, and while the alcohol's stopped, he's taken my grandma's sedatives a couple times. He handed them over to my mom last night, thankfully, but I wonder if this is really the end.
Is there anything my family and I can do to, well, help him get back on his feet/stop him from doing any more drugs?
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I can't explain my story, is too long, but there is the important part. I love a girl, she doesn't love me but we are very very best friends. I told her If we could be together for a night and see go it goes. She said she would think that, but now she has said she can't, because she doesn't love me and because she think I would want to do it more times.
Now I have told her I want to kill myself (it is true) and she said: please don't do it or you would fuck up my life. While she was saying (we were talking by twitter private messages) I stopped crying (I was crying because she said NO) and I started smiling, seeing how she was very worride about I wanted to commit suicide.
Am I a psycopath or what?
>inb4 I want to do it actually
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Alright /adv/ heres the deal
>be 2 years ago
>have girl I love
>she likes me too
>we go out
>in the end she doesn't feel in love enough for relationship
>no friendzone either, just no more talking
>she's in my History class so see her daily for the rest of the 2 years
>be month ago
>I see her at a party in a city 30 KM from here
>didn't know she'd be there
>she comes at me and kisses me
>in the 2 years we didn't speak I had multiple girls and 1 serious relationship
>she had 0
>we've now got a thing going on
Seems good, I know, but here's the thing:
In the past month we've been seeing each other a few times, once we went to drink together, once we went to the movies and once she came over to my place where we watched a movie on the sofa. We've kissed multiple times but nothing beyond that yet. However, when we make appointments she usually has a reason, sometimes a very doubtable one, so that our appointment can't actually happen. We'd usually rescheduel it, but what annoys me is that she always finds time to hang out with her friends.
On top of that, she's goin on vacation this friday for a week, and I won't see her until after it. I'm feeling like I'm losing her, because I wont see her nearly 2 weeks, and she rarely texts me anymore. When I text her she talks back, and we'd usually have a conversation, but on her own initiative nothing ever happens.
So what do I do, do I keep texting her, or will that only driver her further off? Do I wait for her to show initiative? Do I worry about nothing?
What do /adv/, I worry a lot about this shit and it doesn't seem to leave my mind. I really love her and she says she loves me too, but I'm just the worrying type.
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I need legal advice. I was working late and got a parking ticket for being parked on the street after 6 pm. I had intended to move my car, but due to the nature of my work I was at sea on a boat at that time, making it impossible for me to do so. Furthermore, the cop who wrote it crossed out the $25 fine and doubled it to $50. I want to go to court and contest this.
I've never been to traffic court. All the guides on the internet are focused on speeding tickets, not a parking ticket like this.
Do you think I could get out of it, or at least get my fine lowered to what it's supposed to be? I don't even know what I would say in court, what evidence I would present. I suppose I could drag one of my co-workers in as a witness to testify that I was unable to move the car, but it's still a weak case.
I've also heard that to prepare for such a case I should request the officer's notes. The officer signed the ticket illegibly, but I do have his/her badge number. How do I request such documentation?
Your advice is much appreciated.
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today i attempted to have sex with a long time female friend of mine. that doesn't really matter, although, when i went to put it in, it didn't fit. it literally didnt fit. I was erect, and made sure i was putting it in the right place, but it just wouldn't go in. what to do