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OK, if you were dating a girl that doesn't give head, would you consider that a dealbreaker?
I find myself in that situation. My GF and I have been dating about a month, and I wondered why she hadn't blown me yet, because I had eaten her out. So I straight up asked her to do it the other day, and she confessed to me that not only had she never done it before, but she doesn't give blowjobs, and that she didn't think she could ever bring herself to do it.
What the Fuck man? I was like, are you freaking serious? What girl doesn't do that in this day and age. She asked me if it was really important and I told her your damn right it was, that if she could never do it, I would really have to evaluate if this relationship could ever go anywhere. I mean she had no fucking problem letting me pleasure her.
So she got upset about me saying that, and put it on me, would I really break up with her if she could never do it. I told her I think I might, if put in that position. So the last time we saw each other, we were sort of at this standstill.
Shit, what would you do here? She's a great girl, but Fuck man, no blowjobs? Ever?
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I am cool with this girl for many years, compliment her, boost her self esteem up, tell her she's pretty, tells me she loves me, I love her back, shit goes on for years like that us being together.
Find out she's been cheating and fucking someone else, get mad frustrated and tell her what the fuck, tells me she's sorry and she wasn't sober..etc, usual bullshit.
I forgive her because I love her so much and I can't get myself to tell her to fuck off due to my low self esteem, too afraid that I won't find another girl because of how I look(not very confident, will provide pics if needed), shes like 8~9/10.
i get mad and tell her she's hurt me more than 3 times because she chats with other guys other than me, makes me jealous and what's better they're on cam sometimes, trashes me because she no longer needs me after i've pampered her enough to leave me, it'smy fault i know.
I'm angry and frustrated and I feel so fucking empty and uncomfortable I don't know what to do, I'm heartbroken and depressed not feeling like doing anything. I still love her very much and it hurts me very much. I stopped texting her and meeting her for a while now, she doesn't even care, doesn't even reply, she used to, but now theres this other guy with her, I feel like trash. what do I do? I'm not confident, low self-esteem, and I'm really depressed
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Hello /adv/, I need some help getting rid of my anxiety regarding a particular subject. To summarize:
>A long time ago
>Like a non-blood-related cousin
>Long story short, he becomes my first boyfriend
>He's blood-related to other non-blood-related cousins I had a closer relationship with
>One of them likes the guy, makes it clear to him, he rejects her (this is before we were together)
>I find out some things that my cousins have said to him about me
>Nothing too serious but coupled with "advice" they gave me beforehand which I really disliked and I got angry at them
>Guy breaks up with me
>Tries to explain himself, and in the process of doing so mentions all of the things that I am the most insecure about (at that moment)
>Feel like shit, start pulling away from that side of my family
>Live in another state, so it's not that hard
>Move back to state
>That side of the family has a very strong, different political position from my family
>I'm not a political person, but I am angered by insults and baseless comments on twitter
>One was even indirectly to me
>Ignore that shit, but now feeling absolutely no want to get together with them
>Still feel guilty for ignoring them, since they're still being nice to me (aside from the comment on twitter), asking me over to their house
Every time I have to interact with them, I just feel incredibly anxious because there is something I know I should do (maybe apologize for being distant? Or try to fix the situation?) and what I want to do (simply live my life, let them live theirs, and that's it). I don't want to create (more) drama by trying to fix the situation, and honestly, I don't even know what I would say. Apologizing seems wrong. Explaining my problems with them also seems wrong.
I don't know what to do. Part of me wants to say "fuck it", and just not give a shit, but... I feel so guilty for doing that, feel bad for thinking that they'll speak poorly about me behind my back... What should I do?
Changing IP Address
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Right so I've figured out that it's my router IP that I need to change (yeah, took me a while)
So the whole cmd approach doesn't work, have yet to formally try the 'turn it off for 8 hours' since I'm pretty wired in 24/7.
Setup on a BT Home Hub, tried the settings and the whole "you can amend the IP address/subnet mask that you want the BT Home Hub to use"
I picked a 'recommended' one, did the lease for 21 days, didn't work.
So how do I choose an IP to use, any suggestions? I do apologise, I'm not great with this sorta thing.
I keep seeing that there's a 'range' you can move your ip around to, although I can't seem to find anymore on this.
Help is really appreciated
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Okay, so I stream quite a bit, mostly bf3 and dota 2. While watching some of my replays I was actually focused on my face and not the gameplay, and noticed that I always make kind of the same face when I get into a tight spot or a close situation. In bf3, I'm always trying to knife people and shit so I'm in these kinds of situations all the time and I would say about 80% of the time I make the same stupid face. It's not attractive at all. How do I change this habit? To maybe making no faces, or maybe a more attractive one? I didn't even realize this was a constant thing until I watched the replays...
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Yo guys i need your advice,
My girl doesnt or cant orgasm during sex, she says she never has been able to and that it still feels amazing for her, and that im the best shes had blah blah...
Before or after sex i get her off via rubbing her clit but im worried that this wont be enough for her eventually. After i make her cum this way and we proceed to have sex she says it feels even better, but still no orgasm. She moans a lot and sometimes seems like she might be getting close but it never happens.
Wondering if someone can shed some light on this, give me some advice maybe.
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I've been everywhere on 4chan by now relevant to not being as much of a betafag as I currently am.
I've gathered knowledge and wisdom, I've honed my body with the help of /fit/, and I've gained much perspective on current events from /pol/, /soc/, /s4s/ and others... Though much of it is hardly objective.
But there's one thing I'm unsure of, one thing I need to get past before any of what I've learned here does me any good.
High school, to be precise. I've been lazy, the past couple of years. Did essentially the bare minimum to stay afloat, doing half the work, acing most of the tests, (Which is really helpful since our school for some reason runs on an 80/20 system, with "Achievement" [Tests] counting for 80% of the sum total of my grade.
Needless to say, I'll be a Junior next year, and I've wizened up. I want to do something with my life, anything, but they don't exactly give you a fucking instruction manual. And regardless of my fiscal situation or whether or not I have friends or housing to go to, my Dad is kicking me out as soon as I hit eighteen. I've got less than two years left to get a car (failed Driver's Ed but I have a bike and will soon get my permit from the DMV) and no time left for mistakes.
I need advice on finding low-cost housing and jobs steady and fruitful enough for me to survive off of.
Tips on living on minimum wage, since I don't doubt for a second that that's how I'll end up living, and tips on just finding a place to hunker down would be greatly appreciated.
What was it like, preparing for living your own life, /adv/? Is the "Real World" really as cruel as it's made out to be?
Pic not related in the slightest.
>inb4 "underage fggt"
>inb4 MODS MODS MODS MODS x infinity
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I really, really want to change myself into a mature adult. My hero is my father, who I consider to be a hardworking, strong great guy. In comparison, I still feel like a child.
I just don't know how to transform myself. Everything I say, everything I do -- none of it resembles being an adult. I'm in my 20's but I still act like an awkward teen.
Just so it helps other people relate, my dad is a lot like Walter White (later seasons, minus the killing).
I literally can't see myself just naturally turning into him without making a conscious effort to change, but I don't really know what to do.
I hate to use a fucking cliche here, but how do I become a man?