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Hey /adv/, I come to you with what may seem like an odd question. Please, refrain from judgement for a moment.
I'm a 30 year old married man. I've been with my wife for 7 years. And I have developed somnophilia. It started when we were having a lot of issues, and she had insomnia. She was even more tired all the time, and we hardly slept together as it was, so it got to the point where we went almost 6 months without having sex. I was at my wit's end and ready to start looking elsewhere. Then she comes home one day after a doctor's visit and tells me the doc prescribed Ambien. Needless to say, it worked like a charm. The second night, she ended up falling asleep on the sofa. I carried her back to bed without her waking, and got her undressed and ready for bed and realized I was incredibly turned on. I copped a feel, and she didn't move at all. I left it at that. Over the next few days, I worked up to the idea of telling her about how turned on it made me. When I did, she was surprisingly receptive. Her view was this: she didn't have the energy to have sex, and she was too stressed out from life and work and having a child to devote her energy to it. But if she was asleep, I could enjoy her body and have sex with her, and she could still wake up rested in the morning. Her only conditions were that I not do anything harmful, not record it, and that I would stimulate her so that she had an orgasm in her sleep. Other than that, it was fair game.
For the last year or so, I've been enjoying sex on a much more regular basis with her. I've found that for the first time, we can have anal sex as well. Lately though, I've noticed some changes. She seems to have built up a tolerance to the Ambien, and is more likely to wake up as I try to initiate things, and she is not relaxed enough the last few weeks to engage in anal sex. We've tried adding OTC sleep aids to no avail.
Does anyone have any suggestions that might help? Pic semi related.
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So I've been living in NYC for 3 years and I have a really good job. I like the people I work with, and I might be moving into a field that I really want to be in. Problem is, I'm getting really sick of this place. It's too hot and crowded, commute times are long and the cost of housing is such bullshit. Also the women are pretentious as fuck and I haven't had a girlfriend since I left college which is making me really miserable.
Think I should stick it out, or move back upstate with my parents and attempt to find a job there? My job is a production assistant to a bunch of digital artists, though I will be moving to software development soon.
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I'm looking for advices about creating my (family) kamon.
My brother, my 3 cousins and me are all ok getting it tattoed. We want to start this "family tradition".
For those of you who don't know what a kamon is:
I'd like to receive adivices about:
Why it IS a good idea to do it.
Why it ISN'T a good idea to do it.
Advices on the look of it (I have some raw ideas)(Also, we want it to have a "meaning", something abstract is fine, but definetly something with a meaning people could get if explained)
Feel free to post pic-ideas, even hand-made ones are nice;)
Should I Get Back With Ex Girlfriend?
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Hey /adv/ I need some advice.
Simply put, I dated a girl on and off for two years, she broke up with me twice and we got back together, however the most recent time I broke up with her, which was maybe 4-6 months ago, Our relationship wasn't perfect but she was the first girl I loved and now we're friends and we've been hanging out and stuff and I kinda miss her, and she wants someone I think but I don't know if she has feelings for me. Sometimes she would treat me not so great but most of the time she treated me well. I kinda miss her, and everyone at school tells me how I need someone better or I deserve better and how she's a terrible girlfriend but I still kinda miss her, help me /adv/ what should I do?
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I have met four 9/10 girls in the past month, and I luckily had sex with them, once or two times each. Problem is, I can't/couldnt get hard, I can only get about 30% hard then I lose erection.
Why is this? I never get any erection from looking at porn or naked woman, but I have an extreme level of sex drive. Why can't I feel any sexual arousal anymore? When I see a hot girl walking in the gym I just want to eat her alive. (in a sexual way)
I was in a relationship with a girl that dumped me for 2 years. But I am over her now if that helps.
Please help me with some advice.
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Okay so I work with this really cute girl (she is 27 I think) who is my supervisor. I've always had a crush on her but she was married. Well, she got a divorce a few months back and tried to get with this one guy but he rejected her. She's known that I've had a crush on her but, since I'm only 19 and I'm kind of... small, being 5 ft 8 and 135 pounds... I never really bothered to pursue her or anything.
Well today she basically asked me out. Sorta weird being asked out by a girl. But her being so much older than me, it seemed appropriate.
I can't tell if she's toying with me, just wants to go see a movie and hang out with someone because she's lonely, or if this might lead to sex, which would be really awesome but to be honest is kind of terrifying because I'm actually a virgin.
What do, /adv/isors?
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I worry that i might have a disease or defiency or some sort, because my memory is really bad sometimes.
I remember most things vaguely, but for precision...i am not very good.
I know my brother and dad have birthdays in june/july/august...not sure which, or which birthday comes first...or if its after or before father's day.
Oh and if you're wondering about my mom, it's easy because it's 10 days after mine.
If i'm not constantly refreshing something into my memory, i need it written down somewhere for future reference.
My dad died 3 months ago and no one is speaking about his birthday, i'm afraid it's already past, or that they won't tell me when it's there and that they'll hate me for it.
I do really below-average in memory tests that require precise recalls, while still knowing they're showing me random positions and numbers for me to remember but i can't remember them.
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Since my boyfriend and me broke up, I feel like our mutual friends/ex-colleagues/acquaintances have mostly invited only him to any gatherings (parties, barbecues,..). This makes me feel really unwanted and unloved by everyone, I begin to question what is wrong with me, even though they probably don't have any evil motives or anything in doing this. I'd rather they invite both of us and leave me the illusion of a choice. I talked with the ones i'm the closest to, but don't feel like bringing it up with everyone.
Anyone who was in a similar situation?
I just feel so lost and out of control. My self-worth is so low and I don't know what to do to change it. I don't make friends easily.