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I'm trying to dominate my boyfriend and make him sexually submit to me and it's not working out.
I told him one of my big fantasies was to take control and be bold dominate him. He didn't think I was serious at first and laughed it off, but I finally convinced him to do it. It hasn't worked out all that well. and instead it feels like he is Topping from the bottom. The problem is I am a short 4'11 girl and he is 6'3 and in great shape. Sure he will do stuff, but I can't really push his limits at all and I can tell that because of this he is not really into it and it makes the whole thing a big facade. We were arguing the other day over this, because I felt he wasn't giving it his all and being kind of an asshole about it, and he straight up told me that it will always be schoolgirl domination because I could never truly dominate him, that it was just a fantasy.
It's like nothing I am trying works out very well. I tried tying him up and I thought I had did a good job and told him to try to get out and he broke free easily. When I spank him, it doesn't seem like it is really doing anything and if I use my hand it hurts my hand more than it hurts him!
I'm just so frustrated. All I want to do is put him in a very vulnerable position where he will have to trust and rely on me as his loving GF to not take advantage and really hurt him, but I can't even do that.
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My girlfriend wants to use a vibrator on my prostate. Should I be concerned or just go with it?
So I've been dating this girl for about four months now and she's very open with trying new things. She says her main goal with sex is to please me and make sure I have the greatest orgasm possible and she wants to do whatever to achieve that.
About a month into dating, she starting messaging my taint while giving me a blow job and asked if I enjoyed it. I said yes and so she starting incorporating that into our sexual activities. Then, I found out she uses a vibrator and asked her to use it on herself whenever we'd have sex. It felt good for her and me when I was fucking her. After that, I noticed she would occasionally place the vibrator on my taint and put pressure on my prostate which felt great to be honest.
Fast forward to these last few weeks and the vibrator had become a staple whenever we have sex. It was at this time, I noticed she had been putting it closer and closer towards my anus until at one point it was touching my butthole. Again the vibrations felt great and I wasn't complaining but slightly concerned.
Then last night happened. We had dinner, watched a movie, then went to her place for the rest of the night. Things started in the bedroom and since she was on her period, we wouldn't be having sex. So she grabs the vibrator and starts giving me head. She was talking really dirty to me while placing the vibrator on my taint and started pushing it further and further towards my butt. As she was doing this, she picked up the pace on her oral and really made things feel great. At this time, I noticed she navigated the head of the vibrator up to my hole and placed it just at the entrance, which is something she hadn't done up until now. From there, she applied moderate pressure to the point that it almost penetrated me. The feeling of extosy was overwhelming and at that moment I blew my load.
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I want to hire James Deen for a private scene for my GF as a 5th anniversary present. Ok, so tell me I'm crazy.
After Backdoor Mom's "Sex Tape", it got me thinking a while back about wondering if Porn Stars ever hire themselves out or get hired for private scenes. It must happen right? I mean you have the retired Porn Stars that end up working as escorts, so obviously they are not above this. They get paid for sex. My GF is a HUGE fan of his. That is the only porn she will watch, is James Deen stuff, and she watches it all. I want it to kind of be a surprise, but I also want to make sure she wouldn't back out if I land this. We had talked before about the so called "Allowed to cheat list" and he is at the top of it.
I mean how much does James Deen make per scene do you think? I'm sure I can afford it, and I think it would be a much better present than a ring. So this is the real fucking deal. I'm trying to plan this out, and figure out how to approach it. I heard he doesn't have an agent or a PR rep, and I have seen him grant interviews to essentially nobodies that basically just emailed him and asked him.
God you don't know how hot it fucking is thinking about this. I want to watch James Deen fucking destroy my GF. Facefuck the shit out of her, make her rim him, give her that soft choke hold he does, whisper dirty things to her. I imagine it will be a like a day think, she goes and gets a Mani-Pedi, freshly waxed, and has her makeup professionally done, and then I'm taking her out, but I bring her straight to a hotel after a light dinner and he is waiting there for her. And I have the camera, and she makes a private porno with him and later me. I want to get some before and after film, like with her looking all pretty before, and then all the sex that follows. I mostly want it to be him and her, but then later on we can both DP her and Eiffel Tower her.
Don't kill the dream man. Tell me this is doable and give me advice on the best route to make it happen.
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>Be kind of a loser in high school
>New kid, Tyler, transfers
>He immediately gets popular
>We somehow become very close friends
>All throughout highschool we hang out together, party together and shit like that
>Near the end of the senior year he starts acting like a fucking maniac, thinking he's better than everybody else because he gets all the girls and shit like that
>Super arrogant and cunty
>Starts insulting me every chance he gets
>We get into a huge argument
>Some dudes mug him one day
>Next day he starts telling people those guys were from my block and that I told them he had an expensive watch and a lot of money on him
>Entire school hates me
>literally had to run home one day from 4 dudes who wanted to beat me up
>Got my shit beat and dunked in the snow during winter in front of the entire school
>he generally treats me like shit
>We stop talking
>We throw shit at each other every time we see each other
>Makes up a bunch of lies and overexagerates a lot of stories, whole school thinks I'm a friendless psycho
>No friends in school at all
>Grades fuck up
>Can't get into university
>I'm 19 now, waiting for next year to reapply for University and try to fix my life, working minimum wage
>Me and him have severed all contact, he deleted my pictures from his facebook (not that I had one)
>I blocked him on skype, we basically don't talk anymore, hear from the grapewine that he said the occasional made up lie
>I get a group of friends at my new job
>some of them know Tyler
>I tell them all those stories aren't true, they believe me
>Tyler tells them some shit about me, they kind of brush it off, but still tell me about it offhandedly
>I run into Tyler one day, talks shit, I stomp his head into the fucking pavement and generally mess him up, he kinda fucks me up too
>"ALL THOSE STORIES WERE, TRUE HE WAS A PSYCHO, I TOLD YOU GUYS"
>Take advice from /adv/ a few months back to just ignore it, try to be a calmer person
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Hi there fellas, I don't usually come to /adv/ very often, but I feel like I need some. Greentexting my situation:
>Yesterday at night trying to watch falling skies with my gf as we are doing since a week.
>She says that she is heading to bed, even if she doesn't want to sleep.
>One hour passes slowly till she tells me that if I don't read hear a story, we will be one day closer to our breakout.
>She likes my voice and each night I read her a story, yesterday I "forgot" because we were playing LoL with some friends.
>I tried to read the story to her but she refuses.
>She continues to tell me things that knows that can hurt me without a reason.
>Talking about leaving me.jpg
>She appears to regret what is saying and says that we spend maybe too much time together.
>We have been together one month and it was full of arguments but mostly full of care and love.
>She finds that im different and never wants to leave my side.
>This last week we have been talking more than ever, caring more than ever about eachother and in general, enjoying what we have.
>She finally says that we should spend less time together, find other things to do because she doesn't want to get rid of this because she loves me too much for it.
>I thank her for caring about what we have and she says that I would do the same.
>I told her not to worry and she tells me than if I just prove that I love her, she will not.
I just don't know really what to do, she says that I make her happy in every possible way, but now this happens.
Should I accept the fact that maybe she needs more space or try to reach beneath the surface and find what motivates her to ask me to spend lest time together? I don't want to lose her, bros, can you lend me a hand over here? Thanks.
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I went to an all boys school, and I find around any guy mates I have and even guys i don't even know I can hold a perfect conversation and people consider me to be one of the funnier guys.
Heres my problem, I can talk to girls, even the ones I like, but i feel extremely nervous and riddled with anxiety. It's not even potential girlfriends or anything like that, even girls with girlfriends I struggle to talk to. However, every weekend when i go out to house parties, etc and drink, I can hold a perfect conversation and generally end up with a hook up, for the few days after we talk over text or Facebook and sometimes organise a followup date. I find these extremely hard and face crippling nervousness. I can make conversation however I constantly question what i say which makes for some awkward silences which I fucking hate. I need to fix this problem, i know everyone faces nervousness, however i don't think it is as strong as mine. For example sometimes i see a girl i know or have had a thing with, and just seeing her makes me extremely nervous and avoid a conversation at all costs.
I just need to know if there is anything i can try, i've heard meditating helps, but i have no idea how. Anything will help, i'm honestly getting desperate as i'm screwing up a heap of potential relationships and it's really getting to me.