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I'm trying to dominate my boyfriend and make him sexually submit to me and it's not working out. I told him one of my big fantasies was to take control and be bold dominate him. He didn't think I was serious at first and laughed it off, but I finally convinced him to do it. It hasn't worked out all that well. and instead it feels like he is Topping from the bottom. The problem is I am a short 4'11 girl and he is 6'3 and in great shape. Sure he will do stuff, but I can't really push his limits at all and I can tell that because of this he is not really into it and it makes the whole thing a big facade. We were arguing the other day over this, because I felt he wasn't giving it his all and being kind of an asshole about it, and he straight up told me that it will always be schoolgirl domination because I could never truly dominate him, that it was just a fantasy. It's like nothing I am trying works out very well. I tried tying him up and I thought I had did a good job and told him to try to get out and he broke free easily. When I spank him, it doesn't seem like it is really doing anything and if I use my hand it hurts my hand more than it hurts him! I'm just so frustrated. All I want to do is put him in a very vulnerable position where he will have to trust and rely on me as his loving GF to not take advantage and really hurt him, but I can't even do that.
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My girlfriend wants to use a vibrator on my prostate. Should I be concerned or just go with it? So I've been dating this girl for about four months now and she's very open with trying new things. She says her main goal with sex is to please me and make sure I have the greatest orgasm possible and she wants to do whatever to achieve that. About a month into dating, she starting messaging my taint while giving me a blow job and asked if I enjoyed it. I said yes and so she starting incorporating that into our sexual activities. Then, I found out she uses a vibrator and asked her to use it on herself whenever we'd have sex. It felt good for her and me when I was fucking her. After that, I noticed she would occasionally place the vibrator on my taint and put pressure on my prostate which felt great to be honest. Fast forward to these last few weeks and the vibrator had become a staple whenever we have sex. It was at this time, I noticed she had been putting it closer and closer towards my anus until at one point it was touching my butthole. Again the vibrations felt great and I wasn't complaining but slightly concerned. Then last night happened. We had dinner, watched a movie, then went to her place for the rest of the night. Things started in the bedroom and since she was on her period, we wouldn't be having sex. So she grabs the vibrator and starts giving me head. She was talking really dirty to me while placing the vibrator on my taint and started pushing it further and further towards my butt. As she was doing this, she picked up the pace on her oral and really made things feel great. At this time, I noticed she navigated the head of the vibrator up to my hole and placed it just at the entrance, which is something she hadn't done up until now. From there, she applied moderate pressure to the point that it almost penetrated me. The feeling of extosy was overwhelming and at that moment I blew my load.
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>girl says she loves me >won't send nudes Im getting tired of her insecurities. I don't care if she's overweight or whatever. How can i get her to woman up on this one?
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I want to hire James Deen for a private scene for my GF as a 5th anniversary present. Ok, so tell me I'm crazy. After Backdoor Mom's "Sex Tape", it got me thinking a while back about wondering if Porn Stars ever hire themselves out or get hired for private scenes. It must happen right? I mean you have the retired Porn Stars that end up working as escorts, so obviously they are not above this. They get paid for sex. My GF is a HUGE fan of his. That is the only porn she will watch, is James Deen stuff, and she watches it all. I want it to kind of be a surprise, but I also want to make sure she wouldn't back out if I land this. We had talked before about the so called "Allowed to cheat list" and he is at the top of it. I mean how much does James Deen make per scene do you think? I'm sure I can afford it, and I think it would be a much better present than a ring. So this is the real fucking deal. I'm trying to plan this out, and figure out how to approach it. I heard he doesn't have an agent or a PR rep, and I have seen him grant interviews to essentially nobodies that basically just emailed him and asked him. God you don't know how hot it fucking is thinking about this. I want to watch James Deen fucking destroy my GF. Facefuck the shit out of her, make her rim him, give her that soft choke hold he does, whisper dirty things to her. I imagine it will be a like a day think, she goes and gets a Mani-Pedi, freshly waxed, and has her makeup professionally done, and then I'm taking her out, but I bring her straight to a hotel after a light dinner and he is waiting there for her. And I have the camera, and she makes a private porno with him and later me. I want to get some before and after film, like with her looking all pretty before, and then all the sex that follows. I mostly want it to be him and her, but then later on we can both DP her and Eiffel Tower her. Don't kill the dream man. Tell me this is doable and give me advice on the best route to make it happen.
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My girlfriend has officially become so self-conscious about her body that she no longer wants sex. This is from three weeks ago when things were completely normal, and several couples trips to the apartment pool over said three weeks. She's always excited to make these trips and has no issue being seen by god-knows how many people in her suit, but every time I tried to initiate the last few weeks, she brushes me off and said she didn't want to and that we should just mututal masturbate. Then last night she said that she felt too gross and disgusting to want to fuck anymore, and subsequently hid her face behind a pillow when I was talking to her about it while we were cuddling. I'm ridiculously worried about her but fucking hell.

The Feelers Brigade

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So I just had an idea. What if a group of about 25-50 "nerds" all banned together kind of like those superficial, outgoing-party types and started flooding clubs one at a time, blasting shit like Creep by Radiohead and so on? I'd imagine if they toughed it out they would start to get recognition and change the scene of wherever they were at. Do you think this sounds like a nice/funny idea? I'd be willing to do it. Fuck what people would say; it's funny.
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I was seeing a classmate of mine for 4~6 months or so. We weren't dating, just kind of together. Work buddies, everything buddies. We got along pretty well, but when he got stressed out, he'd immediately blame shit on me and emotionally abuse me. Not a good relationship, but I tried to be patient with him. In the end of it all, he broke it off with me. Said we had no chemistry. Said he didn't want to just have sex with some girl he had no chemistry with. He always described his ideal girl to me and it always sounded a lot like me. Motivated, smart, good work ethic, low-maintenance, 'tomboyish,' etc. He spent a shit ton of time with me by choice and was physically attracted to me. Similar interests, etc. All the works. But at the same time I was like, okay, well, maybe there is no chemistry. I'll let it go. Maybe he'll find his ideal girl. He breaks it off with me and then immediately jumps into a random thing with a dull-witted, unmotivated girl who just broke out of a relationship (despite saying the biggest mistake he made with me was approaching me right out of a relationship and swearing not to do it again). He hangs all over her and she acts (and he's starting to act too) exactly how he always described the people he hated (hyper vapid, lazy, attention whoring on FB, etc.). I don't get it. If all he wanted was sex then why break it off with me? If he wants more, why her? It's nothing he ever described wanting. I have trouble coming to terms with this and it keeps gettign rubbed all up in my face. I was starting to like him and I want to get over him but this is fucking annoying. And it doesn't help that he drags her EVERYWHERE with us (friends). He always said I was a wedge between his friends and him, but really only he wedged himself out. I always tried to include him or include others and make sure everyone was interacting and HE'D exclude himself. Now he's ostracizing himself with this oddball, dim girl from another department.

Tattoos

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So, here's the deal. Back in January I got my first tattoo was highly underwhelmed by the experience. Long story short, my tattoo artist did a half assed job and everyone there seemed totally burdened by the fact that I wanted to get tattooed there. Keep in mind, I was being as respectful and cooperative as possible, and they still treated me like dirt. Now, having decided on a new parlor that has been verified by a friend, beause she's friends with the owner, for two new tattoos, I am in a bit of a conundrum. I went there on Monday of last week, and the dude I got set up with had already done more than the previous place... And that was just a consult. I'm getting a new piece on my chest, and want to get a cover up done of my old tattoo. I'm a perfectionist and it's eating me alive. Originally, I just wanted the thing redone, because I love the design, but the product is shit. >tattoo guy won't redo >immoral from one artist to the next >Totally understand and respect! >says think about a new design, and we'll go from there. >perfect. >at work the next day, I think: >what about a Japanese style tattoo? >I google and fall in love. >go to him that next friday >he suggests full back piece, and I like the idea >We talk and brianstorm and I think really get along >Pay design fee >before I go, I ask how much it's gonna cost >between 60 and 80 hours >bricks start shitting in my pants secretly >can't afford that as I'm only 18 >didn't say anything because fuck it, I make good money... >suddenly start crunching numbers... Really shouldn't do this... Total (by my calculations about $10,500) for this piece.... I don't know what to do, do I tell him all I can sanely afford is 24-30hrs max, and offer to work off the rest, or jut talk him into a small peice? I'm getting nervous and starting to stress a bit because I don't want to piss him off and waste his time and fuck up my second tattoo on purpose (which I can easily afford). What advice do you people have for me?
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i was wondering what the best email service was as far as privacy and all that other bullish
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i just quit my job and feel fucking awful. i just feel like dying. i need something to do to make my mind off of it, but I have no friends or anything. If anyone is in NYC, could you please recommend any places I could go tonight for shows/concerts
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Hi there fellas, I don't usually come to /adv/ very often, but I feel like I need some. Greentexting my situation: >Yesterday at night trying to watch falling skies with my gf as we are doing since a week. >She says that she is heading to bed, even if she doesn't want to sleep. >One hour passes slowly till she tells me that if I don't read hear a story, we will be one day closer to our breakout. >She likes my voice and each night I read her a story, yesterday I "forgot" because we were playing LoL with some friends. >I tried to read the story to her but she refuses. >She continues to tell me things that knows that can hurt me without a reason. >Talking about leaving me.jpg >She appears to regret what is saying and says that we spend maybe too much time together. >We have been together one month and it was full of arguments but mostly full of care and love. >She finds that im different and never wants to leave my side. >This last week we have been talking more than ever, caring more than ever about eachother and in general, enjoying what we have. >She finally says that we should spend less time together, find other things to do because she doesn't want to get rid of this because she loves me too much for it. >I thank her for caring about what we have and she says that I would do the same. >I told her not to worry and she tells me than if I just prove that I love her, she will not. I just don't know really what to do, she says that I make her happy in every possible way, but now this happens. Should I accept the fact that maybe she needs more space or try to reach beneath the surface and find what motivates her to ask me to spend lest time together? I don't want to lose her, bros, can you lend me a hand over here? Thanks.
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I went to an all boys school, and I find around any guy mates I have and even guys i don't even know I can hold a perfect conversation and people consider me to be one of the funnier guys. Heres my problem, I can talk to girls, even the ones I like, but i feel extremely nervous and riddled with anxiety. It's not even potential girlfriends or anything like that, even girls with girlfriends I struggle to talk to. However, every weekend when i go out to house parties, etc and drink, I can hold a perfect conversation and generally end up with a hook up, for the few days after we talk over text or Facebook and sometimes organise a followup date. I find these extremely hard and face crippling nervousness. I can make conversation however I constantly question what i say which makes for some awkward silences which I fucking hate. I need to fix this problem, i know everyone faces nervousness, however i don't think it is as strong as mine. For example sometimes i see a girl i know or have had a thing with, and just seeing her makes me extremely nervous and avoid a conversation at all costs. I just need to know if there is anything i can try, i've heard meditating helps, but i have no idea how. Anything will help, i'm honestly getting desperate as i'm screwing up a heap of potential relationships and it's really getting to me.
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Being 18 I just got my first girlfriend who is 17. Did I miss out on anything by never having a younger girlfriend?
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My 18 year old gf broke up with me on Thursday and for some reason I still can't get over certain aspects of the breakup. Reasons for breakup according to her: >>Didn't take her on enough dates >>Was too emotional (even though she knew I was bipolar?) >>She was no longer attracted to me >>She was going off to college and didn't want a boyfriend distraction >>She was jealous that I went to the movies with 4-5 other girls at the theater we both worked at and that I offered to drive one of the girls home because she didn't have a ride and also that I had offered to pay for this girls ticket if she was unable to get a free ticket from the managers. >>I seemed condescending towards her ( I offered her advice for college and that somehow came off as condescending which I didn't mean to come off as.) One of her friends told me I should feel bad for how I made her feel after she broke up with me because I quit my job, which made her break into tears (I got my job back today). Also because I have been angry with her because even though she listed these flaws about me at no point did she bring them up that they were bothering her until she was breaking up with me. I have felt like shit for the last 5 days and the relationship only was a month and a half long. What the fuck is wrong with me? Should I feel bad for making her feel bad?
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Is it cruel to not give social retribution when implored as such by others? i don't know, but i certainly feel let down when its not given for me. damnable karma among others. pic related: corn_god.jpg
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Making a film in my year 12 media class; How do I film people walking somewhere? My idea is basically to be meta and pretentious as fuck and just have the film be about two guys walking to school talking about their ideas for the film they have to make. On the way as they pass lanes and shit they'll stop and kinda talk about their ideas but what I'm having trouble imagining is how I am going to film this. Don't really want to go full autist and film people walking and talking for an hour or whatever (I know film takes many more hours than this but, you get what I'm saying).... ^ Not sure if I made sense
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I think I have some kind of fucked up ego thing going on and am looking for some input. >20 years old male When I like I girl, I really don't have much trouble getting her. I'm not bad looking, good job, plenty of money, good manners, educated etc etc etc The problem is, I will like the girl, get her to hang out and go out with me, start a relationship and all that but once I know she likes me and I have her hooked I lose all interest in her. One girl I liked for 2-3 months, got a couple dates with her, really liked her, she said she really liked me, all interest lost. Dumped her, started liking another girl. Same exact thing. Once she was interested in me, I lose interest and move on. This happens again. And again... And again.... It's like I need to get as much acceptance from as many girls as I can, and once I have it, that's all I want. Longest relationship I have had is about 3 months, sort of serious but more just having fun. I feel horrible for just randomly dumping them and I am wondering how I can work on it. Any opinions?

noko

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> be 20, girlfriend 21 > she's depressed > she cuts herself > I somehow am able to keep up with this > we're sitting in my room, where she also lives > she wants me to make some cigarettes with a tool we use to click them ourselves, because I am faster at it than her > I say 'so you admit to my superiority?' as a joke > she stands behind me and pushes her arm against my throat, I guess was meant as jokingly, to 'punish' me > I struggle to get free, in the process hurting her by accident > she's all offended that I hurt her > I'm angry with her, tell her that I don't like being strangled > I ask why she does this, I ask if she would like it if I did it to her > she tells me to do it > I do thesame thing to her as she did to me > she doesn't like it > she starts crying, later on she starts puking > she runs to the bathroom to be alone > she comes back to the room to grab her razors and runs back > bathroom is locked, she tells me to fuck off > what do
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So, I've been going out with this girl for like a month or so, but I still feel sorta nervous around her. Like, we do fine together and all that, but I just don't really understand why I get this feeling. I find her really pretty and attractive, does this possibly have to do with it? Help me /adv/

So...

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Been out of a relationship for about 3-4 months now. Most people drain me/don't really have me going crazy over them.The one who does totally isn't interested in me like that which sucks but it's whatever. I'm pretty sure I just want to get laid right now, get that shit out of my system. But I can't just fuck the first thing that wants me to. I actually have to click with them first. So like, where the hell am I supposed to meet people I could establish FWB with where the friend part of that is actually a thing? For that matter, where the hell do I meet people? Bars suck?






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