"Just ask her out! The worst she'll do is say no"
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>Build confidence and ask a shy (sort of emo bookworm, but pretty) girl out who i'm sort of friends with; she says no
>Later on Facebook "___ asked me out today, LOL"
>18+ likes, comments saying stuff like "Eww I hope you said no!" Don't even know half of them
>Next day, friends of girl start taking the piss out of me, some douche shoves me into a wall because **he** likes her as well
>Girl walks by me at the end of the day with a disgusted look on her face, later on Facebook "It would be grateful if you stop liking me in that way thanks (:"
So yeah, confidence knocked. The fuck am I gonna do now?
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WTF bruh. I'll greentext
>like a girl
>another girl likes me
>friends with both girls
>I'm extremely ballsless when it comes to a girl I like
>and I mean I'm a huge pussy
>i get nervous and I can't look at the girl, I try to avoid her and I refuse to start conversations
>much easier to speak to the girl that likes me whom I don't like
>couple months later I start to like the other girl
>from being friends where I could talk to her normally, make eye contact etc.etc. I'm not avoiding her, getting nervous around her and won't say anything to her unless she comes to me (which she did most of the time tbh)
Seriously, why the fuck do I do this? We are friends, why am I acting like such a pussy where I'm nervous even though we know each other?
Worried About My Weight
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Pictures are of me. I am a part-time model, so weight is important to me. I am 23 years old, currently weighing 150lbs at 5'10", and I'm pretty sure I have a medium to large frame. I have large breasts (bra size: 34DDD/F), and a decent sized bottom (pants: 5-7 adults). My issue is that I feel like I can lose some weight in some areas. More specifically I want to tone and slim down in my stomach and my thighs. From what I've read online 150lbs at 5'10" is the ideal weight as far as health is concerned. However, I'm not a doctor or a nutritionist, so I don't know how much of those calculations are considering BMI, muscle weight vs. fat, or other contributing factors.
Not too long ago I used to weight around 130lbs, and as I got less active I gained more weight, or so I thought. Then I realized that I’ve been living up stairs for two years now and it was after then that I noticed that my thighs were getting bigger. In want to say it is because of the constant going up and down two flights of stair multiple times a day, but it could also be just because I’m older and less active than I was two years ago.
Anyway, I’m going to a school where I have free access to a pretty nice gym starting at the end of next month. My question is should I be more concerned with my weight or how toned I am? Don’t the two go hand in hand? Is 130lbs a good weight to aim for at my height or was I unhealthy then? Based on the pictures provided was I better then or now?
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pic always unrelated.
So I have this girl I fuck and that's all it is. That's all it can be. I've basically trained her into being a grade A cum slut. She didn't used to swallow, had never done anal, gave terrible head with the one hand on the shaft and suck the tip crap. She had never squirted, done fisting, bondage, blind folding, hair pulling or anything.
Now she throatfucks herself until she gagges 4 times before comming up for air, and literally craves to swallow my load. She squirts everytime I fuck her. She can now finally take an anal pounding. and is even buying outfits to get fucked in.
Here's my problem, I can't have "normal" sex with her. For the last 2 weeks I've been throat fucking her while she gags and tears roll down her face and just pounded her ass after some prone bone squirting last weekend. She told me the next day, in a txt, that she was sitting on an icepack. Its like porn habits, I can't watch the missionary plain vanilla stuff and get off. She doesn't have a problem with it, she still orgasms, squirts, screams to the sky...I'm getting bored of her vag. Its a terrible thing to say but i think that may be what's happening. I wanna give her a slow passionate night but i go soft if we aren't doing something kinky. advise me.
Fuck everyone, fuck my life, fuck this company
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> Fortune 200 company's hiring manager calls me 2 weeks ago and interviews me
> Says he'll have HR set up a face to face
> HR emails me 3 days later, setting up a date
> HR says they'll fly me out, just need my birthdate, airport
> I respond.
> Few days later no update. I email asking about the interview, no response.
> I call HR today, goes to voicemail, no response.
> Interview is in 4 days
Fuck. If for any reason they wanted to cancel it or reject me, why not just use their automated system which they used before? Why just fucking go through all this and leave me hanging? It's such bullshit.
I'm going to give up. This is the last straw. I just keep getting treated like dogshit for no reason. Fucking hate job hunting. I've fucking had it, maybe jump in front of a bus.
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this is fucking ridiculous.
do i suck this much at life?
i don't mean to bitch or anything, but...
18, just got back from a food interview at a sandwich shop... I think I come off as stiff, nervous, and awkward.
I just want to work, /adv/. how do i get people to hire me? where do i start?
>disgruntled unemployed bitchin'
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I hate myself to an extreme degree.
I'm not particularly dumb, ugly, or immoral.
But for some reason I feel that everything about me is vastly inferior to every other person. I assume men would rather be with an uneducated obese woman than me, because she would be superior to me simply by not being me.
I constantly change my interests and hobbies, because the fact that they are my interests makes me hate them.
Every few days I delete all my music and download new music, because I can't stand my own taste.
I can't look at pictures of myself. I can't look in mirrors. I try to minimize all proof that I ever existed on this earth. I loathe talking to people about myself. I want no one to know I exist.
Is this normal? Is there any way to stop feeling like this?
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Need some help /adv/. Former no-life here, 4 months ago, being a virgin who only kissed one girl and have never seen a boob I finally got a girlfriend.
The girl (21, I'm 22) had been in two relationships, but was still a virgin when I started dating her. Never cheated on any of them. But here's the problem. After her first boyfriend left her she was trying to forget him and started kissing with random dudes on parties. That and the fact that she doesn't remember the number of guys she kissed pisses me off a lot. Another thing, last year, she was drunk as all hell in a club and invited some bald dude to her apartment where they engaged in a motherfucking 69 (this was the only dick she saw beside mine btw). She told me that she hates herself for it and wants to forget it.
She's from a good home, intelligent, Catholic, very good grades. The good thing is that she told me about all of this. Also, when I ask about the details of her former whoring around she won't tell me shit, she's all like 'let's focus on us, blah blah'
Few minutes ago we had a fight because I asked again and she told me that she doesn't remember all the kisses. I told her that there must have been a lot of them and that I'm fucking mad. She told me to deal with her past, that she's sorry for most of it and I should forget about that stuff.
Wat do /adv/? Keep going there or try to let it go? Will knowing all of it bring peace to my jimmies? Is it normal for chicks to kiss dudes they don't know and should I forget the one night stand?
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I'm not going to drag this out unless prompted. I feel as though I am getting very mixed signals from a guy at work.
Reasons I think he isn't into me:
> He says so. That should end this whole discussion ... his first response to my interest was that it "wouldn't be fair to his ex" (She works with us and is still into him, if this is of any relevence)
> He talks about his other dates (okay, one that ended up ditching him anyways)
> He's made it clear he just wants to be good friends
(I need to know this behaviour following is normal friend stuff, because I'm oblivious.)
Reasons I think he is into me:
> He spends all our work days together chatting (really just normal friendly behaviour)
> He seems to always have excuses to touch me (checking my pulse, shaking hands, hugs etc)
> He has started calling me by a nickname "Hummingbird"
> Always wants to get together. We hang out often, food, then games, movies. ( Last night, our dinner plans turned into dinner with his mother! )
Is my gut feeling about this all wrong? I felt neutral after he told me he was not interested, but after being around him I felt drawn to him again /because/ of his behaviour towards me.
Any ideas about this? Should I just see some of the other guys interested? I just don't want to miss the chance with this guy if there is any at all, but hate to make the friendship awkward because he is a really fun guy.
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/adv/ I need your help. I went over to my girlfriend's house and she fell asleep early. I've always told her crazy stories about 4chan and junk, but never thought she'd actually visit. Anyway, long story short, I got on her laptop to go to 4chan just because I was bored. When typing in the address, it had been already visited.
4chan.org/hm/ came up.
I was fucking pissed.
So I looked through her history, and saw that she opened about 4 pictures. But looking through it, I also saw /s/ on there.
Anger suddenly left, and now I'm left with curiosity...
She has a celebrity crush on Mila Kunis, and I'm starting to actually think that my girlfriend is bi.
>TL;DR, how do I convince my gf into a threesome?