What the Fuck am I Doing Wrong??
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Thought I would try this again without being as whiny for my question and what not. So wonderful people I'm now at 24 years of age and I have never had a relationship this fact has the whole lonely was with women to get so bad that killing myself feels like a very valid option when I'm really feeling down. Basically cause guys like me are seen as shit by women.
My hobbies make me worthless in the eyes of women ie I do distance running, Eskrima, Wing Chun, Mountain Bike Cross Country, pool, photography,design/draw.
It's to late isn't? I'm far too old with my luck of experience the moment a girl she would most likely view me as trash and not even give me a chance, since they prefer experienced gents, is there any thing I can do? Or is it truely hopeless?
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I started liking my friends ex, after he neglected her and dumped her.
He said he never wanted to talk to her ever again...
When he found out he stopped talking to me and started talking to her again... (3 and a half months ago now.)
He started telling people stuff and especially her... He told her I just wanted to use her etc..
She is now unsure about things.
And she keeps comparing me to him.
He completely pretends I'm non existent... (Continued for past 3 months...)
Today I confronted him about saying shit to my GF, he just smiled and continued his conversation with someone...
I grabbed him by the collar and thrust him against a wall, he still continued to talk to the other person.
Everyone was watching by this point...
I told him I wanted some respect.
Still no answer from him.
I let him down and punched him in the jaw, then I left...
Later I chocked him in a hold until his face went blue, again he was talking to someone prior to this and he continued to talk to them when I released the hold...
The last thing I did was grab his hair and held his head back, Told him to show some respect and not to talk to my Girlfriend then I punched him in the chest and left...
He didn't retaliate what so ever...
What the hell do I do to make this guy stop messing with my girlfriend? He obviously has some mental problem....
What should I say to her?
Think me and my girlfriend are done now anyway... She is upset and she hates me for hitting this fuck wit...
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I need your perspective.
I was 24 on a 18k job (uk), friends, social life, gf, learning to drive and about to move out of my parents house. An issue with myself occurred, lost my job, friends, social life, cant drive and I'm stuck in my parents home.
7 years later. I'm on benefits, I'm 31, can't drive, no friends, no social life, no job, no money. bit overweight. I walk my dog, little bit of exercise and that's about it.
I just can't find the motivation or reason to change my life. I've had numerous jobs, admin, cleaner, call center, infantry, warehouse, packer, etc, none have held my interest.
Small things, little bit technically savy with IT, enjoy my photography although I'm not good at it.
How the fuck do I get out of this hole?
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Posted this on r9k earlier but realized that was a shitty place to post an advice thread because it's not an advice board, so here we do it for real
So the other day I was with this girl I like and this other dude.
I started flirting with this random chick because I was bored and then the girl I like got mad at me. Then the other dude was like "Anon don't go cheating on Femanon (the one that I like)".
Then she was like "whaaaaaaaaaaat, I never liked Anon, he's weird as fuck. But he's a cool guy".
I pretended to be upset towards her jokingly then I changed the subject.
So does she totally not like me because I'm "weird"? Because she thinks I'm hilarious and hangs out with me for this reason, but also thinks I'm weird. Is she just being a TSUNDERE or some shit?
This situation is confusing as hell, so I wanna know what's going on
Should I go on this trip?
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So, my mom plants on going on a trip with her side of the family, who live in the next city over.
Basically, she's going to go over to their place tomorrow morning, and then stay there for two days to discuss where they want to go on Friday, Saturday and Sunday. They don't know where they plan on going, but they're probably going to go to a different town (she said possibly Vegas, but that's not very likely).
The problem is I hate being around her side of the family. I mean, they're family, so I love them sure. It's just that I can only stand them for a limited amount of time before getting EXTREMELY uncomfortable and irritated, and I don't want to ruin this trip because of that (and I don't want to be uncomfortable and irritated either).
See, they're VERY religious, very set in their ways, and heavy drinkers when they're doing family gatherings. Whenever I'm around them I lie about myself and pretend to be someone else because I'm A) Agnostic B) FtM trans C) Not much of a drinker.
I don't drink much at all, whereas they get smashed when they do family stuff since they don't see each other often. It already sucks being the only sober one in a room full of drinkers, but they also get near insufferable when they get drunk. The last time my aunt talked to me for a solid 20 minutes about how she would donate all her organs to my mom if she ever needed them and then proceeded to cry and it was the most awkward and uncomfortable thing I've ever had to sit through.
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I'm a 20 year old college student whose social life and willpower has been steadily crumbling ever since highschool ended. Probably thanks to terrible academic performance which led to college-hopping and romantic mishaps.
By chance I ended up talking to my old highschool's shrink for some 3 sessions. I lied through my teeth so she would think I'm doing better than I actually am.
Summer has rolled around and I'm finding myself unable to overcome the slightest bit of adversity, which is making me feel rather... unfulfilled. I'm starting to think I might have dissocial personality disorder (in fact, if wikipedia is to be believed, I fit every single criteria, but w/e).
tl;dr: My life is turning to shit, I think I have dissocial personality disorder but I've lied to my shrink and she thinks I'm okay, what do I do to get a proper diagnosis? Alternatively, how do I muster up enough willpower to actually do shit I want to do?
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Finally broke up with psycho and overly possessive girlfriend of 3 years, had to call my dad out to a parking lot to make her get out of my car and leave, who had to call 911. She got scared and left before they showed, but she did tell my dad about all my drunken and high adventures and threatens to tell facebook about my crossdressing fetish among other things. I think the ridicule and controversy from this might finally push me over to suicide of which I've been comtemplating for a while. I need to prepare to die, /adv/, just in case. She knows too much about me and could cause me to lose my job as my happiness apparently means nothing to her.