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Already /adv/, long time no see. You've got a 2/3 record on getting me laid and helping me out in general, and this time I'm back with a woman who may or may not be fucking with my head.
TL;DR Background: She and I dated back in the day when I was 18, she was 17. I'm a paranoid schizophrenic, used to take heavy doses of seroquel, etc. and when her mom happened upon her facebook messages, she forced her to dump me under threat of going to the police since 18 with 17 is illegal where I live.
Two months later, I hooked up with a new chick, she posted it to facebook, ex sent me a *scathing* message saying she had almost convinced her mother to let us date, etc.
Two years later I'm an opiate addict, almost losing my well-paying job, and I message her in a drunken sadness, so she KNOWS how much of a loser I am now.
btw, she's nearly a 10/10, she's super smart -- on a full ride to a nice university for engineering, studied abroad, super kind, always did what I wanted sexually and otherwise. Some super good-looking guy picked up on this and has been dating her for the last 2 years.
I'm not a 10/10. I'm short and skinny, although I did graduate from college super-duper early and I make 50k/year. So I'm not the worst catch ever, but I'd rate myself like 6/10 attractiveness.
ANYWAYS, the other day she likes two posts from like a month ago on facebook, aka she was stalking my facebook and had to know I'd noticed.
I of course sent her a message. She was overly kind and flirtatious. While the kindness is normal, the flirting and flood of emoticons were definitely out of character; however, I noticed she was no longer listed as in a relationshit even though her maybe boyfriend still is (and with her).
I did my best to not spill any spaghetti, and landed myself a "catch-up" date later this week. I suggested our favorite place, a kinda fancy place I took her for her birthday when we were still dating, she responded with another inordinate number of smileys and happy shit.
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>need to lose about 40 pounds in an enormous hurry, as close to a month as possible.
>6' and 235lbs
>need to lose weight to join the military.
I'm thinking I'll restrict my diet to 1400-1500 calories a day, depending on how hungry that leaves me. I'm also going to be riding my bike about 10-15 miles a day. What sort of foods should I mostly eat? I don't mind having the same thing for breakfast lunch and dinner or anything like that if it's effective.
I was able to lose about 50 pounds last year over the course of 3 months by eating one portioned cup of cereal for breakfast, 1 cup of steamed rice and 2 boiled eggs for lunch, and whatever the hell my mother made for dinner (this usually ended up being about 1700-1800 calories a day). Are these decent foods for dieting? By the way, I don't have any workout equipment or dietary supplements. I just have "regular" foods.
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So, I haven't got anywhere in life. I have multiple degrees and have worked multiple careers that ended up being in fields that have pretty much gone down the toilet thanks to the economy. Or never paid that well to begin with.
I've lost track of how much schooling I've had. I'm turning 27 soon and I am going back for a degree in nursing which will take me 3-4 more years. I'll be goddamned 30. I'll be a wizard.
I'm stuck living with my mom and have been, well, since forever. I mean, I tried moving out once but I didn't make enough for it to last. And as usual for people posting their problems on here, I'm a male permavirgin and have never even been friends with a girl.
What do? It feels like at this age I should be my own person or married and have my own house and shit, you know?
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18, going into university after the summer. I didn't get a great start in high school and wasn't terribly popular because of it, but I've always had a circle of close friends and I've been fairly happy in that regard.
One of these friends is female, and a year older, already at the university I'm attending. Easily an 8/10, maybe a 9. We share a lot of common interests and have a similar sense of humour, and I've been infatuated with her for quite a while. The problem is that she's had a boyfriend my age for the year I've known her. They argue more than they enjoy each-other's company because he's kind of a man-child. She's put up with way more than she should because he's her first boyfriend and she doesn't want to give up on him, but I know she's reaching her limit. They're fine for now because it's the summer, but it'll all start up again as soon as he starts going to his courses (at a technical college) like once every two weeks and breaking things when he's mad again.
From a mutual female friend I know that she has no idea I like her, and I'm not about to be that guy who fucks up somebody else's relationship, even if they aren't compatible in the slightest. I predict they'll probably break up in a few months unless he changes, but I don't want to be sitting and desperately watching the entire time in the hope that I'll be her rebound. While I think she's pretty close to perfect, I know myself well enough to know I get infatuated pretty easily, and I don't really know many women. I know there could be tons of women at university I could easy become attracted to, but if I'm constantly thinking about her (and hanging around with her) then I'm never going to be able to give any of them a chance. I might indeed have a chance with this girl, but not yet, and I don't want to burn all my bridges in the meantime in case it doesn't work out.
The point is, how do I get over her for now and make sure that it doesn't get in the way of meeting new people, /adv/?
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Hey lads, I have a bit of a moral dilemma going on and would appreciate some guidance.
>Meet two girls on holiday
>Bang each of them on different days
>To the best of my knowledge they don't know eachother
>7.5/10 (kind of chubby)
>No real build up we just fucked
>Has amazing body, insanely cute
>Massive build up throughout the week
I got their numbers and have been talking to them both. However, I like girl 2 more than girl 1. But for some reason I keep flirting with girl 1.
Even though I've known 2 for a week, things are getting kind of serious, and I wanted some guidance on whether it's okay for me to remain pseudo-sexually involved with both of them, even though I like girl 2, and want to see her again, I feel like keeping things going with girl 1 in case things fall through.
Is this okay? What do I do?
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So I've been debating putting this up here for a couple of days and have finally decided to just go ahead and do it.
>>Met this girl about 4 months ago through mutual friend. Buddy of mine was in my area for spring break with friends, she was there.
>>We hook up (both of us were drunk)
>> They leave to go back to different state, we start to text daily
>> Job opportunity presents itself, friend offers for me to come live with him over the summer
>> Spend more time with this girl hanging out. Sometimes just us and sometimes with other people
From here we hooked up twice, both of us were completely sober. I'm just at a loss on how I should approach this. She got out of a really bad experience with her ex over a year ago and is still experiencing shit for it. She has put a wall up and is really protective of her feelings, yet she does not deny feeling a spark between us. She admits that sometimes hooking up or getting close to me "weirds her out". I think she has felt the connection I have felt and I have no problem admitting that I have feelings for this individual. We are not from the same area and will be in different areas really soon.
What the hell should I do?
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>Be last saturday
>Take a girl home after a party.
>Was with her a few a times (wouldnt call it a date)
>Go to bedroom, she is all like "anon i dont wanna sleep with you"
>I inquire further, she drops the bomb on me
>"Anon im a virgin", says stuff like "If you want me to i can leave"
>She sits on edge of bed, it was a little akward, I told her I dont mind, she can stay
>Says she doesnt look for relationship but hasnt really met someone who she feels worthy of taking her virginity
>She was a little bit tipsy, I was sober
>Im 25 shes 18
>Suddenly she gets on top of me, intense making out
>"Anon just fuck me"
>She lays there like a dead fish, could only fit tip of penis in, worst sex of my life
>Eventually stop bc it hurts her
Anyways, I dont wanna hurt this girls feelings, I thought she would be a fun hookup and i made it clear I dont want a relationship before i boned her. I had no idea she was a virgin. I dont wanna hurt this girls feelings but dont really wanna see her again. Its kinda pointless. She is hot but I dont wanna train her how to sex as I have another chick thats great in bed and also more fun to be around, but not as pretty/hot.
My question is, What do I do ? How to I drop her (18yo) without hurting her feelings too much ? Should I sleept with her again and see if shes better?
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I need your perspective.
I was 24 on a 18k job (uk), friends, social life, gf, learning to drive and about to move out of my parents house. An issue with myself occurred, lost my job, friends, social life, cant drive and I'm stuck in my parents home.
7 years later. I'm on benefits, I'm 31, can't drive, no friends, no social life, no job, no money. bit overweight. I walk my dog, little bit of exercise and that's about it.
I just can't find the motivation or reason to change my life. I've had numerous jobs, admin, cleaner, call center, infantry, warehouse, packer, etc, none have held my interest.
Small things, little bit technically savy with IT, enjoy my photography although I'm not good at it.
How the fuck do I get out of this hole?
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Posted this on r9k earlier but realized that was a shitty place to post an advice thread because it's not an advice board, so here we do it for real
So the other day I was with this girl I like and this other dude.
I started flirting with this random chick because I was bored and then the girl I like got mad at me. Then the other dude was like "Anon don't go cheating on Femanon (the one that I like)".
Then she was like "whaaaaaaaaaaat, I never liked Anon, he's weird as fuck. But he's a cool guy".
I pretended to be upset towards her jokingly then I changed the subject.
So does she totally not like me because I'm "weird"? Because she thinks I'm hilarious and hangs out with me for this reason, but also thinks I'm weird. Is she just being a TSUNDERE or some shit?
This situation is confusing as hell, so I wanna know what's going on
Should I go on this trip?
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So, my mom plants on going on a trip with her side of the family, who live in the next city over.
Basically, she's going to go over to their place tomorrow morning, and then stay there for two days to discuss where they want to go on Friday, Saturday and Sunday. They don't know where they plan on going, but they're probably going to go to a different town (she said possibly Vegas, but that's not very likely).
The problem is I hate being around her side of the family. I mean, they're family, so I love them sure. It's just that I can only stand them for a limited amount of time before getting EXTREMELY uncomfortable and irritated, and I don't want to ruin this trip because of that (and I don't want to be uncomfortable and irritated either).
See, they're VERY religious, very set in their ways, and heavy drinkers when they're doing family gatherings. Whenever I'm around them I lie about myself and pretend to be someone else because I'm A) Agnostic B) FtM trans C) Not much of a drinker.
I don't drink much at all, whereas they get smashed when they do family stuff since they don't see each other often. It already sucks being the only sober one in a room full of drinkers, but they also get near insufferable when they get drunk. The last time my aunt talked to me for a solid 20 minutes about how she would donate all her organs to my mom if she ever needed them and then proceeded to cry and it was the most awkward and uncomfortable thing I've ever had to sit through.