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I need help... I've become a sex slave to my cousin.... And yes I'm serious.
I'm 25 and she's 26. She's always had a thing for me going back to Jr High. Admittedly we fooled around once when were 22 and on vacation... Long story short, I got shit faced, threw up all over my clothes, and she helped me into the shower, cleaned me up and then later that night she took advantage of my stupidity and we had sex... I didn't fight back. I didn't talk to her for a while but we eventually made up, she took me out and dinner was on her.
Fast forward to last month, I just broke up with my GF and she posted on Facebook one of my fetishes... A foot fetish. I was embarrassed for a bit but honestly didn't care, a lot of my friends supported me while poking fun at my expense.
Not a week after, my cousin asks to take me out again, I accept and she's loading me with drinks. She takes me back to her place and she guides me to her bed. I was drifting off when my cousin suddenly wakes me up and she's in her panties (She is gorgeous, easy 8/10) She starts spooning me, then slowly grinding. I tell her to stop and that I'm not in the mood. She then asks me for a foot massage... That's where it all goes down hill.
She has freaking gorgeous feet and her toes are perfect; not painted at all, just kept very clean and neat. I start rubbing her feet, then pressed a little bit harder. She eventually starts moaning, spreading and curling her toes and then asks me to kiss them. I comply, I start on the top then I start kissing her soles, I slowly start incorporating my tongue and giving deeper and longer kisses. Then she asks me to lick her soles. I start tasting her skin, it's so fucking vivid in my mind. I was addicted, I couldn't stop and she knew that. We do it weekly now and I can't stop; we started doing more. It's an addiction that I cant stop. She invites me over or comes to my place and it starts all over again. It starts with a footjob and then full blown sex.... I need help.
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I have a sexual inferiority complex and I'm scared it will ruin my otherwise comfortable, monogamous relationship. My penis is 5.5", can reach 6" when I'm fully in the zone. But when I'm thinking about my gf in a sexual way my head automatically goes to the thought of her enjoying an ex more, or cheating on me and laughing about how much worse I am. This is a completely irrational thing because I know my girl is crazy about me, but I can't help but get off on the thought of being inferior.
I rarely picture myself in my sexual fantasies because I don't view myself as a competent sexual being. It's always vicarious, always has been. As you might imagine I have issues with self-hatred, anger and depression.
I know where this started: an ex telling me how much bigger the guy she left me for was, and generally tormenting me about it in the aftermath of our breakup. That was years ago and my ego is still dented, the thought of her laughing at me in bed with him still turns me on. What is wrong with me and how can I stop this? I love my girlfriend and want to have a healthy mental image of our love life but I'm struggling
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Hey /adv, is it possible to force myself back into liking math, to realign my brain to being more mathematically inclined? I liked math until I was around 12, used to be good at it, and intelligent in general, would have been the smartest in my class at age 10-11. Always had an interest in science, and was a quick learner (eg. won a chess competition in the class despite having never played it before).
After moving on to second level of school at 13 though, I just lost all interest. Still would have been considered smart but faded further every year, and did enough to get by, but ended up not studying any science, and by the time the leaving exam came around at 17 I was back doing ordinary level maths. I only found myself enjoying maths again towards the very end of school, when I had to get a certain grade for university. In university I did computer science, hated it and and scraped through after repeating (spent the majority of the time just being lazy or drinking).
Now I'm finished, unemployed and the prospects aren't great seeings as I barely scraped a pass in my degree.
I want to try and self learn, make a few projects and things which would help with employment. I've been messing around on codeacademy to try and get back into the coding mindframe, and khanacademy to get back into math. Trying to wean myself off forums and sites that just waste time. Is there anything else I can do that will help? Or is it possible? My main interest is psychology/cognitive science, but financial reasons mean I can't study this, however I do enjoy maths when I get and understand it, and to a certain extent, coding too. Need to get a job, preferably IT related.
Also, can you lose intelligence? Or if you were once intelligent do you always 'have it' so to speak?
Social Anxiety General
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I know that quite a few of the people lurking this board suffer from some form of social anxiety, whether mild or severe, so I thought having one thread where people can come and talk about their issues and get advice from others would be a good idea! Feel free to adopt trips and whatnot if you want to check in daily and see how people have been doing. The goal here is to always have a thread up, so people can talk.
So, how have you been faring? Are you winning the struggle? What kinds of events have you dealt with lately, and how did you get through them?
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am I not taking education/career planning seriously enough?
Basically, I've been slacking off ever since I finished school over 1 year ago. All of my former classmates have moved on, studying at universities all over the country with their career all planned out and their parents being proud and shit. Well, I'm the complete opposite. I finished school and didn't know at all what I wanted to do with my life, I got pushed into studying something I wasn't convinced of just for the sake of doing anything. I dropped out after what was officially 2 semesters, but I really just made it a few weeks until I was fed up with it.
Now I'm 20, still living at home, still no idea what I'm going to do with my life and my parents being hugely disappointed. I don't want to study or settle on a career path that I am not convinced of, that I'm not passionate about. I keep telling myself that I can do anything and be great at it and it's just a matter of finding something I'm passionate about and once I found that I'll be fine even if my CV appears rather underwhelming. I would be perfectly fine just enjoying myself and getting by if it wasn't for the disapproval of my parents and friends.
Am I just being naive and/or lazy?
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I guess this is a question about Incest.
I have heard about two levels of taboo. The most common being intercourse between relatives and I'm not sure I would ever be okay with that, but the other level is just touching. I have always wanted to touch my mothers breasts, suck them and tittyfuck them, ever since I could get boners. My mothers breasts are huge, and from what I was told, there wasn't much breastfeeding when I was a child. Is that why I might have these urges? Or is it normal to have them? I don't want to screw my mom, but I want those tits.
The question is, are mothers okay with this? I'm 21, and my mother has told me she finds me attractive. Do mothers have this natural urge to let their son play with their breasts, or will this make our relationship very awkward.
Personally I can only see it improving our relationship, but again, I have no way of knowing.
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Dear /adv/ I'm 20 today, and I have virtually no idea what I want to do with my life. Well, that is only partly true. I know I want to be considered successful, and I know I'd quite like to make a lot of money as I believe financial freedom leads to actual freedom.
Socially I'm not bad, pretty average.
I'm pretty intelligent, so I really, genuinely am capable of quite a lot.
My only real problem is not having a great passion for anything in particular, but rather, just a small liking for really quite a variety of things.
I would like to feel that I had improved myself by the time I turn 21.
So my real question to you is, looking back at your life, what do you wish you had done by age 21?
In order to have set your life on the right track I mean. What should I avoid? (Marrying young obviously).
tl;dr I have what a lot of people would consider a sickeningly good life. I'm not ungrateful. I just want to know what you wish you had done by my age, and what you think a young man should do on his way to general success?
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my father is a person that wont hear anyone, he is a tough one, heres my problem..
well, he's not paying all the alimony, from years its always 30-40 euros short, and in time it has grow to about 4k euros. I really need that money for school right now, but hes not really listening to me, saying that he hasnt that money.
well, a new used car hes planning to buy is about 3ks euros so...
i really dont know what can i do right now, he wont listen to logic and i dont really dont like to go to court with this
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/adv/, I'm transferring into engineering, and I have five months to complete this:
If I don't finish it by the end of December/early January, I'll miss the cut off date.
I have one subject (introduction to macroeconomics), that I will be doing this semester. Other than that, I have the next 5 months free to work on this every day.
Realistically, what are my chances of finishing in time?
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Do you think it's healthy to have a wide range of emotions?
Maybe I worded it wrong, but I guess, are even
"negative" feelings good and cathartic sometimes? Ever since I recovered from a 5-or-so year bout with suicidal and existential depression, I've shied away from any kind of negative feelings, forcing them down because I don't want to have a sudden relapse.
But sometimes when I feel sad it almost feels good in a way, I guess. I'm a bit emotionally stunted but these feelings are normal, right? I've always been so emotionally guarded with myself and whatnot, so I'm wondering if it's better to be comfortable with myself in total, good and bad, my whole emotional spectrum, or just try to focus on the good.
>inb4 edgy teen/middle schooler