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My girlfriend and I are on the rocks, we have been together for 10 years (26 year olds now) and it may be coming to an end in the near future. I am trying to prepare for the worst and possibly mitigate as much financial and material damage as possible and have a question in regards to the actual "laws" if things do not go according to us "fairly" splitting everything in the event that we do separate.
We have all joint bank accounts with sums equaling up to 30k and she has a seperate RRSP that she has thru work where they match a certain % ect, that is at 20,000$. It was our intentions to use that money as a down payment for a house that we have been building towards for our future, however it is solely in her name.
I am going to request with her that the 20k be subtracted from our savings account leaving us with 10k to split evenly and then we can split the rest of our property however I have a feeling she might pull the "that's my money" nonsense when we have been building a life together and obviously have no concern at the time of whos name what is in.
It is worth noting that we are not married but have been living together for a long time, although have never done any paperwork for "common law" if there is even paperwork to be done.
My question relates to if she tries to say this separate account she has thru work is solely her money - do I have any legal actions to take in order to ensure I am entitled to my share of the money
(we are trying to work out our relationship as well its not like we are on bad terms just a bump we may not get over)
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Do girls like getting their feet/legs kissed and massaged?
I had this girl in bed with me and for foreplay I did this, but I also caressed her entire body too.
Anyway, I didn't treat her feet and legs like they were extra special and paid attention to them just as much as I did to the rest of the body so she wouldn't suspect anything
So, she was on her back, and she was bending her feet and legs towards me so I can massage or kiss them better.
I'd slowly glide my lips along, give wet kisses and after some of the kisses slowly drag my lower lip off before going in for the next kiss.
Do you think she liked this?
She never objected and seemed willing
Do you think I made enough of a scene that she probably told her friends? Like do they got into detail and tell their friends step by step exactly what happened to them?
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So, my girlfriend of 2 years just randomly decided to cut off contact with me. She's usually a very clingy and loving person towards me, though sort of mentally unstable as she's prone to outbursts and worse towards me. I've always been able to handle it, and while our relationship has had its fights it gradually got a lot better and I've always been able to handle her.
Recently though she began getting suicidal at night for reasons she didn't know, though I always stayed up to help her. She decided one day we were on a break, and things got worse from there until it ended up in a drama-filled shitstorm where she's cut off all contact with me and says we're over.
Now trouble is, a few days ago before she got mad she claims she still loves me. I still love her. I'm bewildered as to why she's suddenly doing this. At first it was the typical 'it's me, not you' argument before she jumped to blaming me for absolutely any issue we've ever had and naming random fights.
Now she's just being spiteful and saying she no longer loves me. Any form of communication I open with her is immediately shut down without an answer. She spends all day doing who knows what with I don't know who because her friends are in a different city for college.
This has been going on for a week now. Is it just another of her tantrums that're going out of hand? Do I just wait for her to chill out? Or am I just being beta and not accepting reality? I don't understand the reasons behind what she's doing and I'd hate to throw our relationship away over something so random and chaotic. What's bugging me most is she claims and acts like she's perfectly happy right now, but when I'm brought up to her she responds either with anger or tears.
Before anyone asks, her outbursts have never been this serious. She has been hateful before and went on tangents at me, she's also cut off contact with me for a few days at a time. It's never been this serious.
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I have a university entrance exam in a little over 31 days which will determine if I can go to medical school or not.
This has been my singular objective for almost two years; the only thing I care about is getting into med school and becoming a doctor.
I feel like this ambition is taking its toll on me. For one thing, I can think of _only_ one thing - this test. I'm also worrying that the pressure I'm putting on myself will make me choke during exam day, perhaps to the extent where I don't get the required grade.
Should I fail this test, I see no future. I am convinced I will have failed in the one thing I have really, truly set out to do with my life.
In short, I'm afraid my wish to do well on this test will cripple my chances of doing well on it.
So, my question: curtly put, how does one cope with pressure?
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How does pessimism still exist today, couldnt have evolution gotten rid of it somehow?
Had a one-night-stand last night and only see the bad parts about it, like I showed how inexperienced I am, that I probably havent gotten her of, that I never opened up to her, never even asked, what she wanted from me, that she was the one that approached me, that I was almost anxious about how it would work out afterwards, how my boner just went up and down with my bad feelings. And against this stands
She was an exceptionally nice and innocent girl, that would have deserved more and it was my first time cuddling and it felt so great I couldnt sleep at all from my excitement, whatching her sleep, how her breathingpatern subconciously aligns to mine...
Maybe /adv/ isnt the best place for this, as im sure I cant cure my pessimism, but maybe its time again for a "I fucked up really bad" thread to cheer each other up, would be great, if it isnt too much to ask
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>>tl;dr setting up my room and want advice on where to place shit.
i finally have a room without a roommate. now i can lay things out how i want, but im not sure how i should do it.
i have a TV stand with tv and videogames, and a table where i put my laptop on.
i have other things too, but those are the only things with electronics. i have a small shelf for books and cool alcohol bottles. and a small but taller shelf with a drawer. on top of that i have a glass plate with candles which i light when i'm relaxing.
i try to not use my bed unless it's for sleep or sex (which there will be more of now), since it helps to wind down and sleep.
i'm looking for advice on where to put the bed in relation to the closet (giant mirror doors), and the window.
maybe this doesn't make sense, but im sure someone has a killer sense of interior decorating.
mixed signals from hot b
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>drunkenly make out with 8/10 chick two weekends ago
>she recently broke up with her bf
>figured it was a one time deal but then she started to text me while sober during the weekdays
>feels good man
>last weekend, Friday, run into her but she's with her old bf (they don't seem physically close though)
>Saturday, text her and invite her out but she says she's busy
>later, find out she neglected to mention she was with her old bf
>messages me today saying she was gonna hang with me on Friday and keeps up the chat for a little while afterwards
what the fuck is going on /adv/? should i expect sum fuck this weekend or what? I can't be friendzoned if I barely know and we kissed, right?
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>Got led on so much
>Made me feel like the best guy in the world
>Found out she lied to my friend's about me
>Was fucking this other guy while telling me how perfect I am and how much she loves spending time with me
>Got things back on track, completely in love with her.
>Suddenly stops talking to me all together, when I ask why she says it's because her 'bestfriend' doesn't want her to, (who's a guy and her fuckbuddie)
>Don't know If I believe that, he's tried to stop her talking to me before, but it's never stopped her before
>A month goes by of being ignored
>Think about her everyday
Me: How's it goin?
Her: Do you want something
Me: Why do you always ask that now?
Her: Becuase, you know I can't talk to you so it must be something serious, obviously not though
Me: You can, just wondering why you wont/dont want to
Her: Not allowed
I honestly don't know what to do, she's actually just said that she's hurt me all those times before just because she could. I actually do love her, but I mean nothing to her.
All these feels
While typing this she sent me,
"I'm just gonna try and make you hate me because then you'll stop talking to me, it's a good method. Worked well on some other lad before you."
Anybody got any input? I'm feeling so down right now