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Let's get straight to it, here's my problem
I'm essentially addicted to porn and masturbating.
I've tried to stop quite a few times and I've only gotten so far.
I've tried guilting myself, using facts like it lowers my sperm count, and hell, I don't even get anything out of it half the time yet I still manage to get horny and then go for it.
I'm 18 now and I probably started when I was 14.
I just don't know what to do.
I'm afraid if I keep giving in, I'll never be able to commit to anything serious.
Please help and thanks in advanced
How I Beat The NEET
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I was a high school drop out who got his Good Enough Diploma at the age of 16. I spent years of my life hooked up to the loving cyber womb of online gaming. I grew fat, unhealthy, and depressed. I had no social life and the thought of talking to women terrified me.
All I cared about was grinding on that virtual treadmill to get my character to the next "level". it was the only thing that gave me a sense of mastery and fulfillment in my life. I min/maxed all of my characters, I did korean-tier grinding to get the most miniscule of stat gains.
Then it all came crashing down. my accounts were hacked. everything i thought i'd "worked for" was gone. My PC shit itself the next week. I was devastated. I walked around the house in withdrawals, concocting MMO fantasy quests in my head. I dreamed of doing dailies and grinding and gear, just so i could see those stat numbers go up by just a point or two. I thought i was becoming delusional. Maybe i was, maybe i am.
then, as i sat at my parents kitchen table. a 21 year old with no job, no friends, and no "endgame", i prayed. or maybe i was just talking to myself. either or.
i said "my life would be so much better if i could just have better stats". My mind raced back to the thoughts of IRL quests i devised in my head. Then i thought about all the shitty classes in all the shitty MMO's that i just grinded (ground?) on to min/max.
so lets say i do have stats. so the fuck what if they might be low or have really retarded distribution.
I took a long honest look at myself and set about creating some base stats for a new character. Me.
Level 1 Me
This was the stat spread i gave myself, i knew i was playing an underdog class. These stats are pretty shitty, how can i make my stats better? Well, all the stupid shit i did in MMO's were mostly "Find X amount of Y" or "Swing Sword 10 times". Seemed like a fair enough mechanic to me.
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Been feeling very introspective recently, /adv/, and in particular this introspection has been getting into my past relationships (yes, another relationship thread - bear with me). So I just need some advice for the future.
Currently single, early twenties, above average with maybe some neglectful parenting. A lot of my past relationships have fallen apart mostly due to me getting bored, but something I realized (which has irked me hard in retrospect) is that in each one, I was called (or it was implied that I was - example to be provided later) overbearing.
Now, I don't think I am. In fact, I think it may be a mix of both misunderstanding what an overbearing person is and a misinterpretation of how much I care for my SO. I've dated free spirits, or independent women who (in their pasts) lacked a caring male figure at times. That runs the risk of sounding fatherly, and in some cases, being a turn-off, but it never seemed that way - only me being "overbearing".
Or my favorite one, the implication - "You have to let me spread my wings sometimes, you know," in response to me suggesting against her decision to hang out with a friend of hers that is typically as much of a nuisance to her as she is a bad influence.
There were always extreme examples, such as one of my SO's driving home drunk one night after time out with the girls. Now, I've driven drunk home too, so I can't throw stones, but we can understand the worry and concern for either party. Minute ones too - little things, like one taking extra shifts at work when really sick, or staying up late (again) with the girlfriends and coming home only more ill than before. Not that I get frustrated or anything, just suggestive - "You should stay in and rest today," "It might be a good idea to call off work," "Would you like me to come over and take care of you?"
>continuing in next post
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My brother shipped out for military duty recently. It's depressed much of my family, mostly my mother and myself who haven't been more than a day away from him since he was born. She's had plenty of time to cry and it's slowly moving out of her system, but I can't say I'm the same. I feel awful but can't cry. I don't mean that like in a social sense, I mean that like I am physically incapable of crying and it is beginning to worry me. I've felt on the verge of tears for quite some time but even when I feel like I should be crying I can't do it. I know I should be, but I can't, it's like the worst case of emotional constipation and it's killing me. Is this something I should be talking to a professional over or what?
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I want to take my boyfriend to the beach for a weekend. Problem is, I can spare no more than $300. Between gas, food, and hotel, I'd be stretching it pretty thin. He probably will not be able to contribute, as he owes a lot of money.
I'd like to do it at the end of August or the beginning of September.
Any advice for vacationing on a low budget? I've never NOT had a summer beach trip, and it's driving me stir-crazy to think I might not this year.
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I met a boy on a grey hound on Monday.
I sat next to him to see him playing Oracle of Time on a game boy colour, I pulled out Oracle of Seasons from my purse and we talked all the way from Ottawa to Toronto.
We got kinda flirty, and everything was positively wonderful. I thought we clicked very well, and for the first time in a very long time I felt like we should be together again and possibly for a while after.
He asked me for my number, and he gave me his. He walked me off the bus and helped me with my luggage giving me a big hug goodbye, asking me to text him sometime soon.
I texted him, but I havnt heard back from him in a day. I'm sorta anxious, and afraid I read the signs all wrong. He's a dancer and hes around beautiful girls all the time, I feel like I do not compare. It just sucks because i want to talk to him but i dont want to be that creepy greyhound girl.
what should i do? How long should i wait before giving up?
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Have any of you left a DECENT, and I emphasize decent because it is literally that, not fantastic or great, just decent, relationship to go back to regular poon with a variety of broads?
Like I love my girlfriend but I find myself getting a tad bored. I just wonder if I'm justified here.
And no, I will absolutely not cheat on her. I just want to know if leaving her to be able to hook-up with randoms is considered douchebaggery.
Greetings! Please help me understand.
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My Mother is dating a psychologically manipulative cop. He constantly berates everyone and everything. He even belittles me as a human being by saying I'm to dirty to sit on the living room couch. My mom is an alcoholic, she basically hands me over to this guy like, "he's your kid now..." Mind you I am currently 16. He has no boundaries, just loves to search my room when I'm not home. When confronted he says "I pay the bills, it's not your room." Trust me, I have already tried countless times to run away to a friends house, so he copied all of my phone contacts into his phone to make sure that wouldn't happen again... I have no way out, and I don't have any friends anymore because of this guy. What do, to make it through these next two years? I'm losing hope like a mother fucker
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Alright /adv/, I need your wisdom. Although Ive sorta already made up my mind, I need a 'outsidethefamily' opinion. Heres the story:
>Meet girl online
>We hit it off
>She lives 4 hours away
>Visit for New Years, lose vcard
>Come Feb, were dating
>She moved into my house in May
>June, she goes back to her moms to house sit
>Her sister leaves as well, so she house sits for her as well
>While there, she takes in a dog she cant afford
>Then her cat dies, in debt from that
>She loses her license from something that happened months ago and she thought she was free from
>She wants to go to Japan, courtesy of a guy that she knows that lives there
>So basically, no license, in debt because of cat and the dog, and she decides to get a tattoo and her hair done
On top of this
>I think the only reason she moved is because her mom mentally abuses her
>Her sister takes her for granted
>Only time she ever talks about coming back is when her mom is bitching at her
>Everytime I tell her about getting a job to help with payments, she finds a reason to get away from it (mom needs a house sitter, trip to Japan)
So basically, Im thinking of breaking it off with her. She doesnt know how to manage her money with this spending shes done and it seems she doesnt have her priorities stright. Two weeks I asked her what her plans were when she came back, and she said "well, I need a job for a passport", not "need a job to help you with payments, like I agreed to do when I first moved there". Ive already spent over 1000 on her, not including cost of the trips back and forth to see her/take her back. So do you think I should end it?
tl;dr Im gonna break it off with this chick because shes just using me to get away from her mom and she has no interest in helping me financially.
Pic not related, just a puppy
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hey /adv/ i need some advice here.
> two months back i posted my kik on leddit (because i dont trust 4chan on these kinds of things)
>got a few responses
>with one girl i really hit it off (sort off i guess)
>we talked about where we live what like ect...
>in about a week an a half i ended up googling questions and joke
>im such a beta at this kinds of things
>after a month an half she told me that she really liked (not sure wtf i did )
>i alpha up
>i told her i liked her too
>we've been going out almost a month(ldr)
> last week we she has been telling me that she want to skype with me (i beta down fck)
>yesterday i told her that i would try to get my skype account (havent used it but i knew my login stuff)
>today txted me that if i wanted to skype with her
>i alpha up again and told her yes
>so we exchanged info
>she called me (im too shy i have social anxiety)
>it was so awkward
>my brain stop working and i didnt have any topics to talk about
tl;dr posted my kik on reddit, few responses, i hit it off with one of them, she became my gf after a month talking to her, im in ldr, she wanted to skype, we did it became awkward.
so /adv/ what are topics to talk about wirh a girl ?
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>20 yo kissless virgin
>talking with friends, conversation turns to girls or sex, not sure what to say, say nothing
>girl walks up to group of friends, not sure what to say, say nothing
>not sure how to introduce self
>stand silently, awkwardly
>talking to any girl, even girl I see everyday at work
>not sure what to say, always mumble/stutter/say something strange
>they ask what i said and I say nevermind
what do /adv/
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I just started taking my prescribed medication, and when I take it I notice these pangs in the area near my ribs. It's not painful so much as a bit irritating. It's confusing because usually I hear of heart palpitations, but these aren't coming from my heart, but my rib area. Anyone have any advice? I know to talk to my doctor, but right now, what might this mean?
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I'm here to ask for advice -- I assume by logic would be the best place to post.
I'm 21 years old and my father recently passed away a few months back due to cancer. I was notified to go to the hospis home he was at due to the fact he passed away.
It was roughly a 4 hour drive, a very long emotional one if I must say so myself. Once I arrived there I was taken to his room, the nurse pointed at the door, looked downwards and walked away.
I opened the door to see he was on his bed and not moving. I felt like a child, seeing this was my only parent that could teach me life lessons and wanted to teach me right from wrong.
I sat on a chair crying, still having the mindset of what most would describe of being childish. I held his hand with the mindset that he passed away, his hand was cold and I broke out in more tears. I kept asking him to wake up so I can help him get out of this house and he didn't move.
Once again, I already knew he passed away I simply did not want to let him go nor do I want to still. Every single day the image of him and me laying beside him stays in my head wishing I could of done something, anything.
I feel like there's so much more I could of said to him or time spent with him. I don't know what to do and I don't want to see a shrink about this. I'm lost, confused, and quite literally alone without him.
This is not counting his funeral. I lost my grandmother on my mothers side and my grandfather as well on my dads side within a 1.5-2 month time period not including my fathers death.
Perhaps there can be any advice from similar experiences?
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My girlfriend and I have been dating a year and a half, and it's the best relationship I've ever had. We almost never fight, she supports everything I do and is honestly amazing. I'm in love with her so badly it hurts.
The problem is, she's going to college. I'm going to college. She lives in DC and I live in Ohio. We made it through ~8 months of long distance no problem. But, she wants to continue living DC. Graduate college, go to grad school, get a job there. I don't.
I don't know where I plan on going, but DC is low on my list. I don't doubt we can keep the long distance going, but I don't know if it has anywhere to go. We may never be able to live by each other again and I feel like the longer we stay together the harder it's going to be.
I'm really really stuck. I have no idea what to do. I brought it up to her and she ants to keep it going. But I don't know. If anyone has any advice I'd love to hear it.
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Hey /adv/, I could really use some unbiased input on this situation I've gotten myself into.
This girl I went to high school with, who became one of my best friends, moved a few hours away with her boyfriend to live with his parents after she lost her house here. We graduated 2 years ago (we are both 20, and both girls if that changes anything) and back in high school we both had feelings for each other and only really admitted that much later, after she began dating her boyfriend. We just went on with our lives like it didn't happen.
Quite a bit of time passed and then I began dating another girl to get my mind off of my friend, who I had/have been hung up on for years and who now lives in a different state. When I told my friend I was dating this new girl she confessed that she loved me, thought we were soulmates, that if things didn't work out with her boyfriend and she couldn't be with me then she'd be alone forever, and that if I wanted to be with her she would leave her boyfriend and come back home. I'm an idiot for even getting myself into this, but I told her that when I move out of my parents house in a few months that she could come live with me and we could work things out.
Her boyfriend got extremely upset and started threatening suicide if she left, and even now that she's talked him out of that she feels that she "can't hurt either of us" even though she "loves me more" and would be happier with me...I've tried many times to talk her through this, that a breakup is going to be painful no matter what and that if she really felt that way she would deal with the consequences.
I've since broken up with my girlfriend because I found it unfair to put her through this, regardless of what happens between my friend and I. We're friends now.
I really do honestly love this girl and if there is any chance that this could happen I don't want to sabotage it--but is this just a toxic situation that I need to get out of? Please help.
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Anyone know anything about parole and parole violations?
I know someone...
>Locked up for heroin.
>Currently in Prison for the 3rd time.
>This time he got locked up for Parole Violation,Heroin,Petty thefts, Writing to inmates (illegal when on parole), having knives and paraphernalia
>He used to write letters, call begging for money.
>All of the sudden letters stop.
How long dis nigga gon be locked up?
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So /adv/, I think i have mild/moderate depression and want to try an herbal remedy as they are relatively low-risk. So, ive narrowed down my options to three
Saint Johns wort
I realize these work best in tandem, but i just want to take one thing. If you had to recommend one, which would it be? Specifically, how have your experiences with saint johns wort been? I hear mostly good things about it but some people insist it does nothing. Thanks for your help.
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So I have this friend (Bob), who seems to have gotten himself into quite a pickle. Another friend of ours and myself are pretty sure that Bob's new lady friend is trying to scam all of us. Mainly because she is offering 60k jobs to 5 of us and a 200k job to me for Blizzard in a city that they don't have a studio. Bob's chick is also apparently a millionaire, was a medic in 9/11, among other considerably dillusional things.
My question is: How do I keep everyone from signing this bullshit application she's going to have us all fill out and not lose 4 of my closest friends? From their point of view they have no idea whats going on and any sort of, "your gf is a lying bitch" will end in said lose of friends. The best input I've gotten so far is to just let it happen to them so they learn from it, but that isn't quite how I'd like to work this.
Any input is greatly appreciated.
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What is the single goal or thing you've done that you are most proud of having accomplished?
Right now, I'm finally getting into the habit of consistently planning my activities and goals such that I make fantastic use of my time, I feel much more organized in my daily life, and I'm actually making progress in learning about the subjects I'm interested in, like learning to draw, how to talk to people effectively, and getting in excellent shape.
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Note to all foreveralones:
If you are wondering when the right moment is to kiss a girl you're on a date with, the answer is NOW.
If she has agreed to go on a date with you, you are already 90% of the way there. Unless you're a complete aspie, it's pretty hard to fuck it up from here on in. Just believe in yourself, believe any move you make will succeed, do it with confidence, and make it happen, don't wait for it to happen.
Example: standing at an intersection, waiting to cross the street. She says 'Wow it's cold'. You say 'Maybe this will warm you up?', reach over, gently turn her face to yours, and kiss her.
Simple. Works every time. Grow a pair and make a move, instead of whining about it. You're a man (or a lesbian), act like it.
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I'm a rather creative guy with an entrepreneurial view. Thing is, when I start something I go for it 100%, really putting work into it.
In december I had the idea to start a party photography duo with a friend of mine. I made us a website, got stickers, and got a lot of gigs. 5 months later, we don't talk anymore. He didn't do anything and it pisses me off.
New idea now with one of my best friends. Start a youtube video with him as the main character, going backstage at festivals, meeting all those artists and doing funny things with them. I make all marketing and social media accounts, buy 200eur of filming stuff, arrange interviews and backstage passes. Last weekend we had our first festival, and he didn't want to do anything we agreed. Not talking to anyone, nothing funny. Today we had our second festival, he picked me up at home, at 11pm, festival ended at 00.30am
f*ck this, I'm just someone who wants to have fun, being creative and it's so hard finding someone with the same views.
I don't even know what I want to ask you guys, I just thought it's just better to write it here, cause I think else I'll call him tomorrow in rage mode.
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I keep finding women's clothing at my boyfriend's house that isn't mine. He hasn't failed to explain anything away yet, though.
Items and explanations:
>ex-girlfriend left it
>ex-girlfriend left it
>ex-girlfriend left it
>mother's laundry got mixed in with his
Haven't gotten an explanation for this yet, I just found it in my car with some of my clothes that I grabbed from his house.
None of his explanations are really unbelievable, considering he had a lot of girlfriends prior to me, one of which lived with him. He has given me abandoned dresses. Plus, his mother does visit sometimes and probably does do laundry. It just bugs me that I keep finding this stuff, considering how many times he's thoroughly cleaned his room since we've been dating. Also, these articles of clothing have been found months apart.
But, we aren't apart often, so if he is/was screwing around behind my back, he's doing it very skillfully.
Should I be suspicious, or should I shut up and enjoy my new shirt?
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Alright, story time.
>meet a girl through some friends
>don't get to talk to her much, but enough that I'm comfortable adding her on Facebook
>not expecting much, figure I can come up with an excuse to talk to her more based on something she posts, etc
>she starts sending me a lot of messages, liking all of my facebook posts, and so on literally within the first day
>we keep talking, learning a bit about each other
>couple days later, go on vacation, out of town for a week
>still having moderate to long conversations every day
>near the end of the trip, stuff slows down
>figure its because she's wondering if I'm really interested
>so first thing when I get back, ask her to see a movie
>she says yes, we go to a movie, hang out and talk for a bit afterwards, go our separate ways
>before I'm even home get a message saying "I had a really great time, we should do this again"
>conversations are back to being good again, everything seems golden
>give it a couple days (literally less than 2 full days) to not seem too eager
>things get suddenly quiet again
>ask her again if she wants to go do something when shes not busy
>"I don't know when I'm free, I'll let you know."
>give it a few days, conversation disappears, still nothing
>ask her if she has figured out when shes free, says she still hasnt
>assuming my chances are mostly gone, give it another day, still nothing
>ask her again if shes free, says shes busy all week
>fed up with the dodging, tell her politely that if she isn't interested, she can say that and I won't be upset or anything
>she responds with "okay". Silence since
So obviously I've got no shot anymore, but why couldn't she just say that? Is "No" that hard?
And what went wrong here? Did I do something? There was really no conversation that was even slightly offensive, just standard chit-chat. Did I wait too long between dates? Did she just meet someone else?
And don't bother with "don't be beta" or anything like that, since I did ask the girl out.
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I need some heavy advice. Pro's and cons would be appreciated too. Im in a fuckin pit right now. Theres a guy I used to sell coke eith back in the day and we consider eachother family. His brother works at some place and just told us about this hookup he has access to. He told us if we put in $30, we'll get back $60. If we put in $100 we get back $1000, and if we put in $500, we get back $5000. Whatever itis, it has to do with an A.T.M Machine. What would you guys do if you were in my position?
I need advice, not mindless insults.
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So the story goes like this, Yesterday My college University of California: Irvine decides to tell me a week before registering for classes, that my admission had been revoked. Due to some grades changes of receiving a D+ in an elective class, and there is this process that might get me back in, but it takes time and it isn't a a for sure thing.
My two options now are to fully back out of UCI and quickly register at a nearby community college and reapply to UCI next year, or to follow up this Appeal process which might or might not get me back in,
Need a sound system
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Good evening /adv/, I come here today with a Sound System related question for you. You see, I have a problem.
I require a sound system. Now my sound system requires a lot of bass, needs to be able to connect to my laptop for films and music, and needs to be able to dock my iPhone 4 for music and charging. It needs to be within a reasonable limit of price- less than £200. Ideally I would like either 2.1 or 5.1, with a powerful sub-woofer, as I am the fool that listens to Dubstep. Can you help me out /adv/? I don't have much knowledge when it comes to this branch of technology.
How to make friends
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Okay gonna try and keep it short as possible. I've always been shit socially, and that hasn't bothered me much since ninth grade. I've got the best girl in the world, a fair amount of natural talent, and I can manage my own thoughts like a champion. However, being twenty with essentially no job history is starting to become a bit embarrassing. After about four years of constant applications with two total interviews, as well as just observing the world around me, I'm seeing that I might need a foot in the door. (I have an Associate's degree and I was turned down for a job that was literally cleaning toilets. It's getting silly.) continued
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So, /adv/, I feel like I have some kind of combination between OCD and depression and maybe anxiety.
Of course, I'm not on meds or anything. I'm not even diagnosed yet, I think it is because I'm afraid the doctor won't take me seriously and say I have nothing. I went to the doctor about 2,5 years ago and he told me I have nothing "as bad as depression" since depression is pretty serious stuff. He told me I was just bored and should hit the gym more. I'm not fat or anything btw, but I didn't have a job at the time and he figured I was just bored of sitting in the house.
Now, we're 2,5 years later and I still feel depressed in the same way as back then. People like to say it's all in your head, but when I really feel down, my heart begins to beat faster in some kind of anxious way.
It's also combined with some form of OCD. I tend to wash my hands more (though not as bad as some of the OCD cases) and I even have to clean my entire room if I want to use my pc. This goes as far as freaking out if anyone tries to enter my room. I can't control it. I can't even explain to them why they can't enter my room.
It's like I'm slowly becoming crazy. The strange part is that some days I just feel fine and I function normally. Then, a few days later I become all OCD/depressed/anxious again, thinking the worst things possible and losing the will to life. This usually last quite a while until it goes away for a few days again...
The problem is, I have no idea how to tell any doctor about this. Because of that one doctor who rejected me 2,5 yrs ago, I just don't have the courage to go anymore. My family also looks down at people with psychological problems, so I'm very hesitant to go (again)...
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How do I get a long term relationship? I'm not very good looking, but I'm in decent shape, I work out, I have a job, I have good hygiene. I hook up with girls from time to time, but girls NEVER want a long term relationship with me. One girl once told me that I'm not the type of guy you "Show to your friends" and I asked what the fuck that's supposed to mean and she said "You're no the typical 'pretty boy' every girl wants to see herself with" apparently girls take a lot into consideration when dating dudes - how it's going to relfect on them, how they'll look to people and shit like that.
I'm not good looking, I'm kinda goofy and I'm going to say it - a few people have called me really ugly in the past. The constant rejections from girls aren't helping. I hooked up with a girl and a few people asked her about it and she denied it with such vigor that it seemed like she would rather be dead than be the girl that "Slept with Anon" and when I texted her to go out she responded with "In public?" (Not in those exact same words, but that was the gist of it) two girls have already done this to me.
I feel like shit. What do I do?
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Hey /adv/, right now I am working at a machine shop, I sweep the floors, and do other maintenance jobs. On occasion I get to use mills, drill presses and bandsaws to do small jobs.
My boss wants me to go to college and work more with the machinery, but everyone else has me clean the shop and get coolant for the machines, only giving me the jobs no one else wants. I am tired of feeling like I am not going anywhere in life and getting asked to do all the shit jobs. I have been doing this for a year and still make $10/hr, the same I have been getting paid since I started.
I just got a job offer to inspect pipes containing gases like Aron, helium, and other deadly gases. I would make the same amount of money and I wouldn't have to go to college, but I am not sure it would be a job I can turn into a career. At my current job however I could end up being a CNC machinist and even eventually a CNC programmer if I go to college, but I doubt that anyone in my work would let me work with the machines, as it is easier to hire another person who already knows how.
Should I take the job, even if it doesn't lead to a career, or should I stay where I am at and learn what I can while going to college?
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Hey /adv/. I have a short background story, and a question following it.
I lived in a pretty crappy schooling area growing up. I was always getting my ass kicked, and I always tried to make excuses to stay home. Because of this, I got so terribly behind in schoolwork that my parents decided to pull me out of school.
The trouble is, they never actually began home-schooling me. I've just turned 20, and I have an education below that of a general grade school education. I want to obtain my GED and start college. My question is, what are some good, free resources that I can use to catch myself up? And could it be done fairly quickly?
Befriending people while they work
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So I made a quick stop at Michael's today to pick up some silicone glue sticks for my halloween costume project, but I had trouble finding it so I approached the first staff person I found and what do you know, she was really hot. I asked her and she radioed it in since she wasn't sure, and I was told to go to isle 106. When I went there I found another staff person waiting for me, and guess what, she was a pretty young girl too. She pointed out the glue sticks for me and asked me if I needed anything else, and I said no, so she left.
I grabbed my sticks and a small stretched canvas on my way out (fucking Michaels, always walk out with more than I intended to buy) and all the cashiers were cute/hot girls. I go to this place every other month or so for different projects and I had seen some of the girls before, but never all of them at once. It was nice.
So, since I still have more stuff to pick up for this project, I was thinking of approaching one of them and see if I could befriend all of them, figuring they all must at least know each other. Any experience with this? In the off chance one of you work at Michael's, would you get in trouble if I tried to chat you up for more than a couple minutes?
I'm not a complete imbecile around women (just a tad) so I don't want to be that annoying guy that they'd run away from, specially since I go to this store often. Also I don't know how I could tell if they were too busy to talk or just doing busy work.
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my boyfriend wants to break up after a year. we just celebrated on monday but he's been planning this since the weekend. i'm sad, /adv/. he's mad because i fight sometimes and i get jealous, but i try my hardest to make up for it.
he always talked about my qualities. i'm half asian and he liked that, i really like computer science and vidya, and i play jazz and classical guitar and saxophone.
if i give it a few weeks, will he miss me? if not, how do you suggest a more sheltered girl get over a breakup? i stay home most of the time and didn't really socialize unless i'm with (ex)bf. my only friends are shared friends with him. i usually just played vidya and made internet friends.