Advice for a butt-man on dating a girl with a big butt
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So I'm an ass man. I've finally admitted this to myself. There are many qualities I enjoy in a woman; mental, physical and emotional, but when it comes to a woman's body, nothing turns me on, makes me blush, or gets my heart pumping more than a big, round, plump, curvy female butt. Even better if she's got wide hips and thick thighs to go along with it, and loves wearing tight jeans or skirts to show it off
I've dated a good number of girls, but none of them have particularly stood out in the curvyness department. So I decided that for my next girlfriend, I would focus on finding a girl with a big butt. Life is short, you so might as well spend it with what makes you happy, right?
One hurdle on this journey is that on most dating sites, even when a girl freely admits that she has a big butt (which happens rarely), there are almost never any decent pictures of it, because almost all people take pictures from the front, so you kind of have to take her word for it until you meet her... This being the case, I think it's probably easier to talk to women and ask them out in a public setting.
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How do I get over the possible fact that my girlfriend sucked another man's penis several years ago when she was dating him?
I'm the first and only man she's had sex with, however, it just kills me to know she might have given another guy a blowjob.
I'm not 100% sure she even gave him a BJ, I'm just assuming. She's awful at blowjobs which makes me think she has never done it before.
I don't know why this is bothering me so much. I know she would never cheat on me, and before I was with her, I was with my ex for 5 years, and I've had every sex imaginable with her.
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I keep finding women's clothing at my boyfriend's house that isn't mine. He hasn't failed to explain anything away yet, though.
Items and explanations:
>ex-girlfriend left it
>ex-girlfriend left it
>ex-girlfriend left it
>mother's laundry got mixed in with his
Haven't gotten an explanation for this yet, I just found it in my car with some of my clothes that I grabbed from his house.
None of his explanations are really unbelievable, considering he had a lot of girlfriends prior to me, one of which lived with him. He has given me abandoned dresses. Plus, his mother does visit sometimes and probably does do laundry. It just bugs me that I keep finding this stuff, considering how many times he's thoroughly cleaned his room since we've been dating. Also, these articles of clothing have been found months apart.
But, we aren't apart often, so if he is/was screwing around behind my back, he's doing it very skillfully.
Should I be suspicious, or should I shut up and enjoy my new shirt?
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So I lost my virginity recently and it turns out I'm pretty fucking good at the sex part, I can tell when a girl is faking it and when she isn't from years of porn watching. But I have an issue, I suck at any sort of finger/hand work, I've been improving, my first time trying to find the clit was impossible, now I can find it with relative ease. But I'm still, according to my girlfriend, just average with my finger work. Is there any tips or tricks that could be given? What would be best to do with my fingers? I already play with the clit, switching it up by inserting fingers inside her to provide a different sort of stimulation and also so my fingers are kind of luby when I return to the clit. I'll usually start off with slow rotations and I'll slightly increase pressure and speed until she's wet enough then I'll slide a finger in, go back to the clit after a few second, then after a few more I'll return to one finger, then add another so I'm using two. But generally I tend to just apply pressure and do circle motions with two fingers on the clit, or I'll slide a single finger up from the opening of the vagina up towards the clit and begin rubbing, flicking, pulling or tickling it.
TL;DR any tips or tricks on fingering a girl?
is it cheating?
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so /adv/. I like going to strip clubs. is that cheating? I've always been faithful to my gf, and I've brought her along a few times. I don't even get dances that often, I just like to drink there. and I don't go alone, I always bring my best friend, she's a girl, and we just chill there. she's kinda jealous, but she says its fine with her. so is it cheating?
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Okay so this is kind of just another relationship problem, but not
Bit of backstory,
Since learning about sexuality I've always thought there was something a little wrong with me. A few years later I came to the conclusion that I was some sort of asexual. I don't find people attractive.
Sure people say that, but I mean I've never ever looked at someone and gone, hotdaaaayum. I can see if someone looks good in a traditional way, but that's it.
So I've been with my first proper boyfriend for two years now. We didn't do anything sexual for quite a few month, as I got to know him I became attracted to him and I wanted him that way.
The problem that I'm facing and looking for advice on... Most people masturbate and most people find other people attractive, we're human.
But it makes me feel really uneasy when I know that my boyfriend has been jerking it while looking at other people, facebook pics, camgirls, pron and so on. (shared computer guise)
Logically I KNOW that this is normal standard stuff. Logically I don't have a problem with it.
But because of the way I am, I don't understand it. I can't get it around my head around it.
I think in some ways I'm just jealous that other people get to experience this desire and fantasies while I don't
After all that writing, I guess I'm just looking for some advice on how to deal with this? Any suggestions at all??
I don't want to have to feel sickened by something so normal or for my silliness to ruin our relationship
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OK I know I am going to come across as kind of an asshole, but here goes.
My GF who I have been with for just over three years now, is a Mediocrity. She's great, and I do think I love her, but I can really do a lot better than her now, and I feel like it's a shit or get off the pot moment.
When we first started dating we were about on the same level. Fast forward three years later, and she's remained static at best, but I've progressed to a really good job, I drive a nice car now, I dress extremely well, and I have fat stacks. Not to mention I've really been working out over the past year, and I am honestly in the best shape of my life. Ran a marathon for the first time a few months ago. She on the other hand is in a dead end job, with not a lot of career prospects. She is at best average attractiveness, and doesn't bring a lot to the table. But she is kind, and has always treated me right and been loyal. Been there for me in some rough situations.
So anyways, it's like now all of a sudden, a lot of fucking women flirt with me. Attractive women, women who wouldn't even give me the time of day or a even an acknowledgement. And I feel awkward as fuck any time I meet someone with my GF, they look at her and they are kind of taken aback, like they are shocked that I'm with her. I feel kind of embarrassed in a way.
The worst part is I feel so fucking guilty over this, because I do care for her, and she has been a great GF, but at the same time, it's like everyone around either gives the impression, or openly hints that I could be doing so much better. What's wrong with wanting to be with the best person you can get? Is that really a bad thing? It sounds fucking awful when I really think about it. I don't know. Yeah hit me with your judgements, go ahead. But I would also appreciate some perspective from folks that might have actually been in this situation as well before.
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>never had issues with condoms
>one day, husband can't feel a thing
>try Trojan BareSkins, LifeStyles Skyn, etc
>it's getting to a point where we just use hands and mouths to get each other off, then pass out
>can't afford birth control
>refuse to be poor white knocked up trash
Also, most sensitive condoms?