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My boyfriend wont sleep with me anymore and I don't understand why.
I'm 23 and he is 30, we've been together for one year and two months, in which time nothing I can think of has happened to cause this change. Like most new couples, when we first started dating we couldn't keep off of each other. We would be intimate several times a day even, if we had the time. Of course things slowed down from that a bit, but we were still active, making time for sex anywhere from 3-5 times a week. Everything was fine until maybe the last 3 months or so... maybe going on 4 months now. He never wants to do anything sexual anymore. For the life of me I don't understand why.
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How do I quit the internet?
Everyday I find myself on Facebook or 4chan, seeing something stupid, like fedora neckbeards discrediting religion, or the new in-comment photos on Facebook, or a thread about how bad the Jews are on /pol/. I see something stupid everyday that makes me want punch a kitten in the face or let out a hue rant.
I don't want to waste my youth on the internet. I hate this ride, I want to get off.
How the fuck do I get off?
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>Spend 4 months talking to this girl online
>have a lot of fun, feel a real connection with her
>talks start getting intimate
>I become interested and decide to take things one step further, due to the large distance b/w us, I invite her to skype with me
>she happily agrees and we trade contact info
the out of nowhere,
>set up a time to talk
>2 days pass, no reply, and she's been online, I've seen her post in the forum
>feel like I'm being ignored
What... the fuck... happened?
How does someone go from writing long ass paragraphs to you for 4 months consistently, to totally standing you up when you wanna have a small chat?
It's been ages since I've been stood up, but seriously, I'm pretty pissed.
Girl in the pic not the girl btw... thats just some random scene girl.
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I'm sure this topic is posted a million times a day, but I really need help.
I lack motivation, or drive. I'm so freaking lazy, I can't bother to do anything. I want to do stuff, like make music, clean, perform better at work, but I can't get it together.
I have this little voice in my head constantly screaming to do something, but I can't.
What are some ways to get motivated?
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In my last week of high school (Mid/late May) I started talking more with this girl who I had met in January. At first I thought I had just made a new friend, but I left school on the last day of classes with an awful feeling and I realized what was up.
We talked twice early in summer on Facebook (currently our only line of contact). Partly due to my own complacency (never done this before) I ended up not talking to her for quite some time. I realized what I had done, tried messaging her a few times and got ignored. I wasn't quite ready to give up, but I went on a two week long trip where I had no way of messaging her.
The day after I got back, I sent her a message and in a sudden turn of events I got a reply. Unfortunately, at the moment we do not have any plans to see one another and I am leaving for college (too far for visits) next Wednesday.
Obviously that really isn't enough time to start a relationship, but as low as my chances with her may be I will keep trying as long as there's still some hope. Aside from the obvious things like getting her phone and skype, is there anything I can do over the next few months to increase my chances?
How do I avoid falling into the friendzone and make the environment right with her for when I get back from school?
I'll have a week of for thanksgiving and a month off for christmas.
6 Months on 350 USD
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So, I just got into law school, and in a desire to save some money, I budgeted myself out and figured I could skip around 6000 USD in loans per year. Problem is, one of my loans runs a 4.2% Loan fee instead of the 1% I expected. On top of that, books were about 200 USD more expensive than I thought they would be. I've covered my apartment, utilities, traveling fee, etc, leaving me 350 USD for food.
Now, I know I can just borrow the rest of that 6000 and split that, giving me around 2500 USD extra room, but I went into this to save money and it seems kind of defeatist to just borrow the whole amount after all this work.
So, question: Is it possible to live on 350 USD food for 6 months without being drastically malnourished?
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So my fiance has decided to try therapy again. His father was an alchoholic and died from it when he was 16. He's been suffering from an inability to experience intimacy, deep depression, and just wants to escape life. He's tried therapy before but it's so uncomfortable for him that he ends up quitting, even if he started out really wanting to change. He's asked me for advice on how to make it work this time, but I honestly have no idea. I have a tendency to focus hard and overcome problems instead of running from them. To me, the reward is worth the discomfort, but he has no idea what the reward would feel like because he's never experienced life the way it should be. Any advice?
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>work in office
>find out all co-workers will be away today
>mention this to supervisor, ask if it's okay that I work from home today because sitting entirely alone for 8 hours doesn't appeal
>he says fine, no problem
>head of department calls just now
>asks why I didn't come in today
>say I asked supervisor about it
>"You can't make those decisions yourself, you need to let us know."
>turns out they were expecting a very important package and just assumed I'b be there to pick it
>didn't fucking tell me they were expecting the package
>no one knows if the package was delivered or picked up
>say again I ran it by the supervisor who okayed it
>"You know what, we'll talk about this tomorrow."
Am I fucked? I love this job, I really need the money too, but I asked the supervisor. I would have come in, but was told I could work from home. I wasn't told anything about the package.