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So I confronted my father about his mistress three weeks ago. Long story short, he's supposedly cut off contact with the mistress, but given the fact that I can no longer trust him anymore, and that I'm going back to college in 2 weeks, I've decided to confront the mistress and make sure she doesn't contact my father again.
BEFORE I GO ON: I understand that my father is scum/at fault for the problem/ is the one to blame, but my mother is emotionally unstable right now, and I don't think she would be able to recover from the shock if I revealed this situation to her. That being said, I'm emotionally punishing my father (he feels it I'm pretty sure) and I'm going to make sure his whore can't do a thing to hurt my mother.
I was originally going to try and talk to her, and have a human moment with her. Perhaps something about how her children (she is a divorcee) were hurt by a cheating father, and that she is doing the same thing to another family, etc. But I'm sick of having faith in people. I want to scare someone to the point where they know not to fuck with me again. I'm open to literally every and all suggestions, even if they require face to face contact/ supplies etc. I'm also open to constructive comments as to why a furious reaction is a bad option.
>inb4 op shouldn't have confronted father. whats done is done, i regret nothing.
My girlfriend kicked
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Hello /ad/ My girlfriend kicked me out of her house, we have two kids and for the past four years I had to endure abuse and torment from her, we're two totally different people, I am agnostic and she is a devout roman catholic. She never respected me, I think she is insane and there were cases that she would try to injure me severely, the first attempt was with a phone charger, she struck me in the head, stabbing me with and knocking me out for thirty seconds. Second time was when she tore flesh with her own teeth from my back and there is now a cyst forming and it never healed. We got into a fight and she told me that she loves someone else... that was painful, more that the atrocities she caused me. I'm more concerned about her mental health and our two kids, witch I forgot to mention that the first child is not of my blood and what hurts me more is that the kid might not grow up with a proper father figure, I grew up in a single mom household, my parents divorced at two, I love that kid as if he is my own. the only time I raised a hand on her was when she was punching me and in front of the kids and it was in self defense because I was losing control of the car and I had to put a stop to her punches. How do I convince my girlfriend that she needs help, she is getting more violent and I fear for my children's safety.
Dunno how to make it work
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Heres the deal.
Im 24 , i have a girlfriend who i really love and care about, i have others relationships before this girl, but never really was in love as im right now.
the thing is she is very busy, she wake up at 5 and goes to work, witch is between 7 until 17h30 pm then she ran to the subway and cross the entire city to reach her college and study from 19h20 until 22h40, then she finaly goes to home. Once she gets at home, have to deal with her stupid mother , cook, clean some stuffs and study a lil before sleep. This goes until saturday. All she has at end of week is sunday, witch she´s constantly busy studying or dealing with organization to te next week.
I barely see my Girl man, and i mean, sometimes like this past week i had even ONE mensage from her on whatsapp. I know she is not seeing another guy or some shit tought like that because she couldnt even manage this...
I dont have sex for 2 mounths now and its has been anoying as hell for me, sometimes i cant control my frustation for such "basic" deal not provide in my life.
I´m very mature and i want to want her finish her studies and grow with her and be at her side as always.
But right now im pretty much failing to hold myself togheter.
Sorry about my poor english, im to tired to check the grammar on google, its late here.
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All last year I worked as a Visual Merchandising Associate for a retail store, but recently left for another store (same position just better pay). Since I left though, my old job lost tons more people too and are desperate not only for employees but also for managers. What are my chances of being hired as a manager with no management experience? Think it's possible? Is the only way to get a manager position by getting promoted? I left on good terms, was a pretty standout employee, and they were actually upset to see me go, saying I was one of the best. What are your thoughts?
tl;dr - Is it possible to get hired as a manager with no manager experience?
Swollen feet and ankles?
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The past few days, my feet and ankles have been swollen and annoying. It's actually swollen a little above the ankle too. Today I took some ibuprofen and tried soaking them in a basin filled with ice water for about three hours to see if that would help, but it didn't. It's not the first time this has happened, but it is a little concerning.
My dad made a joke about diabetes and now I'm starting to wonder. I'm not fat, if anything I'm underweight, but I'm concerned that I may have another health problem I don't know about. Looking online, I've found other causes could be high sodium levels, heart or liver problems, or joint problems, and I do have joint problems. This could all be nothing, but I'd like some advice before I consider going to a doctor since I'm uninsured.
Pic related, but not my feet.