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So my GF just got a tramp stamp and I'm fucking pissed.
It's one of those stupid fucking butterflies that seems to be so fucking popular, and it's not done but it will cover a large portion of the lower back and be colored. I guess I have to admit at least it's a good design, and I hesitate to imagine how much she is paying for it as it requires multiple sessions. It doesn't change the fact that it's a tramp stamp though
But I fucking hate it already. She has the most beautiful back with such nice skin, and now there is this monstrosity covering up a good chunk of it. But my big problem is that she just went out and did this and didn't discuss it with me beforehand. Now I already hear certain segments going all "Hurr Durr it's her body!". Whatever, yeah I get that, but come on. Ultimately it is her decision but I feel that in an honest relationship, this is just something you would talk to your partner about first. So we got into a huge argument last night, and I straight up told her, she has no respect for me, and has no respect for our relationship. And she starts crying and says some bullshit like how she is sorry and can't we just go to bed and be intimate. Like pretend it never happened. I was so out of there, grabbed my keys and coat and on the way out I gave her a parting shot, congratulated her on her slut certification. It was mean and a stupid thing to say, and I regret it this morning, but I'm still upset with her.
Not sure where I go from here or what I'm supposed to do.
On a side note I fucking love how girls get these tattoos to be "wild" and "individualistic" and then they fucking get a tattoo everyone and their fucking mother is getting as well. Fucking awesome job there expressing yourself and being an individual.
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Sup /adv/, could do with some help on this one.
About 6 months ago, I changed medication for my agoraphobia. It worked fantastically but also completely wrecked my sex drive. After discussing this with my boyfriend, we decided I should stick with it anyway because it meant I could actually leave the house and get on with living. Problem is, my sex drive is now starting to come back (I've started wanting to masturbate, feeling sexual tension around attractive people), but I've gotten used to not seeing him sexually now. It actually weirds me out a little when he touches me like that. What can I do to fix this?
United Kingdom Anxiety/Agoraphobia Help
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Does anyone from the UK know an excellent source of help for someone who suffers from anxiety/agoraphobia?
I don't know the UK at all, I'm doing this for someone that needs help (and also browses 4chan), but doesn't move an atom to do something about it (which I kind of understand).
I've tried google but the only useful link I came across was a costly(?) site (anxietyuk.org.uk) and I was looking for something that goes through the usual NHS channel or something else cheaper. I'm not sure how that works in the UK too, but I'm assuming it's cheaper through the NHS.
We're talking about a person who absolutely cannot for the life of him talk to anyone IRL. He's ok talking to people online, but IRL and according to his own words he just freezes up. He has tons of problems with his self-esteem, image, etc. And despite his silence I strongly believe he lives with someone other than his cat. Also I was led to believe he's completely alone, so forget about friends or family to help him.
Can anyone help me out? Tips? Advice?
Thank you so much for your time.
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I'm 23 years old and a virgin. I've been fooling around with a girl (25) who's, frankly, a slut. We've made out, done oral a couple times, and tomorrow she wants to have sex. I'm nervous cause she is quite experienced and I have zero experience. I don't want to cum after half a dozen strokes and embarrass myself.
So how long do I, as a virgin, need to last, and are there any tricks to doing so?
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I am a 25 year old NEET who is hitting the wasted life crisis.
I am fully aware that is no ones fault but my own, its just that my heart is so full of grief and regret that i want to make a post about.
I have nothing marketable other than poor labor as i am very out of shape. I also dropped out of college because i could not handle it, so i have that debt to think about too.
Basically im useless meat.
Im sure you already guessed that I would be thinking about suicide, I am really considering it, but the thought of leaving behind the people i have lived with my entire life with the grief of me killing myself stops me from doing it.
Staying in my room for most of my life outside of school makes me very uncomfortable being around new people and trying new things. It only got worse after highschool since i would spend all of my time indoors.
I dont really know what i should do. I have a small food service job but its nowhere near a living income and its not something I can see myself doing for much longer. I know the common and most sensible answer would be to stop wasting time and DO SOMETHING but i get very discouraged and sink back into my old habits, or not even attempt anything at all. The shame and embarrassment of not even being able to provide for myself is crushing.
I dont really know what my options are in life. All i want is to be able to keep living like i do right now, shelter/food internet and I dont have any desire to be wealthy or anything like that, I just want to keep living like this without having to spend long periods of time doing service/labor jobs. I know its outrageous to complain about something like this if I cant find my own way to make a living without having to work the worst of jobs and I know its very lazy. I guess I dont really have much of a reason to post this other than it makes me feel a little better to put it out there for someone to see.
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I got pulled over for the first time since I got my license yesterday for running a red light (I definitely did not, fuckin pig). Anyways, I live in New York and when I passed my road test I was told about a 6 month probation period. The way it was explained to me is that if I get a ticket then my license will be revoked. I work in a law firm and was working at the time and the lawyers at the firm are going to try to get my ticket dismissed but I forgot to ask them a few questions. If there are any New Yorkers that understand this specific law well, could you help me out?
I want to know how long my license would be revoked if he came to that, what the likelihood of it getting revoked are and if the ticket I got is even big enough to get it taken away. I read something from a 2004 forum about how if it's 2 points or less off your license your license will not be revoked. The driving violation i received is for 2 points I think, and if the lawyers I work with can get it reduced then it will be even less obviously. I'm not sure if this law is still active, though, and I can't find anything on it. I have a feeling that the road test instructor dude is told to tell all new drivers that very broad defintion of the law just to scare them into being extra cautious while in reality it's much more difficult to get it revoked. I'm rambling a little bit so, wat do
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>be good friends with qt
>everybody says she's into me
>one day she suddenly kisses me and we start dating for about three months
>we start getting serious and really liking each other
>monday she suddenly starts to act cold and distant
>today she tells me that she wants to be 'just friends'
>she asks me if I'm ok with it and if we're going to still be friends and all I can say is basically "fine, then, no big deal."
At first I didn't really mind, but now I got angry at her because she was the one to start the relationship and it was going very well until she suddenly decides to break up with me like I'm some disposable faget (I'd say there's another guy involved)
We see each other everyday, should I talk to her normally? I kinda want to get away from her and go on with me life, but that would fuck up my small group of friends. All I know is that I wont beg her to get back to me.
P-pls give advice
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What's the easiest way to kill yourself, but make it seem like it isn't suicide? I don't want it to seem like I was the one who killed myself, but I want to die. If it's found out that I have been the one to kill myself, it'll be forgotten (considering it'll be seen as a selfish act). But if it were to just seem like I died in an "accident," then I would be remembered as someone who died early in their life from an unfortunate event.
Look, I don't need anyone to try and convince me not to. I don't want anon's support on that. I am just looking for a simple way out.
Thanks in advance.
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I'm contemplating on ending my relationship with someone I love because they don't seem very enthustiastic on the prospect of marrying me. I am worried that I will end up wasting too much time on this person and that nothing will progress. It is hurting me so much and I love this person so much but I guess marriage won't happen between us and it's a big pill that I have to swallow.
The problem is, is that the mixed signals. One day it's "I can't wait to make you my spouse, you are the one for me, I can't wait to marry you, ugh please marry me, etc." and yet when I bring up the conversation in all seriousness, there is a lot of evasiveness and general apathy, as if indirectly telling me that it ain't going to happen.
What would you do? End the relationship or wait it out for a bit and see what happens?
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I'm currently talking with a friend about how to ask girls out.
his opinion is that you musn't ask a girl you like and talk to often, to go out with you someday, because it's too brutal. He also thinks you must not make her understand that you like her.
I'm not an expert in the matter, but so far, acting as a nice guy and never hint anything or never ask anything seems to me like the best way to end up in the Friendzone.
Opinions on how to ask a girl out, or hwo to end up with her?