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I am a 25 year old NEET who is hitting the wasted life crisis.
I am fully aware that is no ones fault but my own, its just that my heart is so full of grief and regret that i want to make a post about.
I have nothing marketable other than poor labor as i am very out of shape. I also dropped out of college because i could not handle it, so i have that debt to think about too.
Basically im useless meat.
Im sure you already guessed that I would be thinking about suicide, I am really considering it, but the thought of leaving behind the people i have lived with my entire life with the grief of me killing myself stops me from doing it.
Staying in my room for most of my life outside of school makes me very uncomfortable being around new people and trying new things. It only got worse after highschool since i would spend all of my time indoors.
I dont really know what i should do. I have a small food service job but its nowhere near a living income and its not something I can see myself doing for much longer. I know the common and most sensible answer would be to stop wasting time and DO SOMETHING but i get very discouraged and sink back into my old habits, or not even attempt anything at all. The shame and embarrassment of not even being able to provide for myself is crushing.
I dont really know what my options are in life. All i want is to be able to keep living like i do right now, shelter/food internet and I dont have any desire to be wealthy or anything like that, I just want to keep living like this without having to spend long periods of time doing service/labor jobs. I know its outrageous to complain about something like this if I cant find my own way to make a living without having to work the worst of jobs and I know its very lazy. I guess I dont really have much of a reason to post this other than it makes me feel a little better to put it out there for someone to see.
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>be good friends with qt
>everybody says she's into me
>one day she suddenly kisses me and we start dating for about three months
>we start getting serious and really liking each other
>monday she suddenly starts to act cold and distant
>today she tells me that she wants to be 'just friends'
>she asks me if I'm ok with it and if we're going to still be friends and all I can say is basically "fine, then, no big deal."
At first I didn't really mind, but now I got angry at her because she was the one to start the relationship and it was going very well until she suddenly decides to break up with me like I'm some disposable faget (I'd say there's another guy involved)
We see each other everyday, should I talk to her normally? I kinda want to get away from her and go on with me life, but that would fuck up my small group of friends. All I know is that I wont beg her to get back to me.
P-pls give advice
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What's the easiest way to kill yourself, but make it seem like it isn't suicide? I don't want it to seem like I was the one who killed myself, but I want to die. If it's found out that I have been the one to kill myself, it'll be forgotten (considering it'll be seen as a selfish act). But if it were to just seem like I died in an "accident," then I would be remembered as someone who died early in their life from an unfortunate event.
Look, I don't need anyone to try and convince me not to. I don't want anon's support on that. I am just looking for a simple way out.
Thanks in advance.
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I'm contemplating on ending my relationship with someone I love because they don't seem very enthustiastic on the prospect of marrying me. I am worried that I will end up wasting too much time on this person and that nothing will progress. It is hurting me so much and I love this person so much but I guess marriage won't happen between us and it's a big pill that I have to swallow.
The problem is, is that the mixed signals. One day it's "I can't wait to make you my spouse, you are the one for me, I can't wait to marry you, ugh please marry me, etc." and yet when I bring up the conversation in all seriousness, there is a lot of evasiveness and general apathy, as if indirectly telling me that it ain't going to happen.
What would you do? End the relationship or wait it out for a bit and see what happens?
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I'm currently talking with a friend about how to ask girls out.
his opinion is that you musn't ask a girl you like and talk to often, to go out with you someday, because it's too brutal. He also thinks you must not make her understand that you like her.
I'm not an expert in the matter, but so far, acting as a nice guy and never hint anything or never ask anything seems to me like the best way to end up in the Friendzone.
Opinions on how to ask a girl out, or hwo to end up with her?
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>got new gf
>a few months into relationship we go to a party together for the first time
>end up drinking too much, shit
>cant remember shit, next morning she tells me i "forced her to kiss me"
this normally wouldn't be a big problem, because most people would just dismiss this shit as a horny drunk fuck, but it gets better
>RAPE TRIGGERS EVERYWHERE
i wasn't told about these until after
So my girl is absolutely devastated and is apparently affraid of me, even though the people we partied with tells me i didn't do a whole lot.
Girl wants to break it all off, but I still like her enough to try and save this shit - but she doesn't want to have anything to do with me.
>mfw she doesn't tell me about dem triggers
Does anyone have any advice here? I already apologized as much as i could, and offered to not drink alcohol when i was with her.
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Hi all, first and foremost does anyone have any experience here with the Peace Corps?
semi short version of the story: I'm 25, graduated 2 years ago almost, have a degree in music history/classical guitar, am having trouble paying back my loans,
have had some bad roommates over the years, problems with not paying their rent and being utter disgusting slobs, etc.
Went to Russia over a year ago, loved it and want to go back. Got a TEFL certificate and have a job waiting for me but it doesn't pay enough to even cover my loans every month.
people think I should move back to my hometown but I don't have a job lined up.
Need insurance, need all sorts of shit... I know the Peace Corps doesn't pay hardly anything, but it'd be a way to get back to eastern Europe (Ukraine is where I think I'd go) and would provide insurance and such...
Things holding me back in the US: I'm in a band that is pretty successful locally, and since I had a degree in music I love doing that, but it'd hard/risky to count on a band going anywhere (at the same time you never know). And I have a cat, and the PC is a near 3 year commitment so I'd have to find someone to take care of him.
I'd also like to go back to school, and get graduate degrees in music but I can't even pay for my undergrad so how am I gonna pay for grad school? especially with the risk that there will be no job waiting for me after I finish.
pic related, be my Jackie Chiles hahaha.
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My boyfriend has a mean, vicious streak in him, something he's admitted and I've accepted. He's very self aware of it, and never succumbs to it, something I've expressed on many occasions that I really deeply appreciate.
I try very hard to make him happy, and try as hard as he does, but he never really is. I cook and clean and make sure I take care of anything he could want. I try to keep the situation light, but I'm a sort of serious person by heart.
What else can I do?
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Sup /adv/, could do with some help on this one.
About 6 months ago, I changed medication for my agoraphobia. It worked fantastically but also completely wrecked my sex drive. After discussing this with my boyfriend, we decided I should stick with it anyway because it meant I could actually leave the house and get on with living. Problem is, my sex drive is now starting to come back (I've started wanting to masturbate, feeling sexual tension around attractive people), but I've gotten used to not seeing him sexually now. It actually weirds me out a little when he touches me like that. What can I do to fix this?