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Sup /adv/, could do with some help on this one.
About 6 months ago, I changed medication for my agoraphobia. It worked fantastically but also completely wrecked my sex drive. After discussing this with my boyfriend, we decided I should stick with it anyway because it meant I could actually leave the house and get on with living. Problem is, my sex drive is now starting to come back (I've started wanting to masturbate, feeling sexual tension around attractive people), but I've gotten used to not seeing him sexually now. It actually weirds me out a little when he touches me like that. What can I do to fix this?
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Recently got offers from two staffing services one for $11 per hour the other $13 per hour fulltime. They both are temp to January and February. Also headed to my local Publix for an interview today and from what I heard they start at 10 to 11 dollars not sure if they'll offer fulltime or parttime.
I'm in a shit living situation and desperately want to start working and saving up some cash so I can A) get a car and B) move the fuck on and out. Thing is while the temp positions sound great, taking phone calls and data entry, as opposed to Publix, standing on my feet all day and running back and forward dealing with old people, I'm dealing with a hard choice. Take the temp positions that always promise chance for permanent employment but rarely does or take the permanent job. Each job is Pharmacy Technician jobs and while I worked at Publix and enjoyed it, it was hard to keep up, sitting at a desk talk to people over the phone and typing might be a bit easier. I'm not sure if I should take first thing that come because I'm desperate or wait for that $13 job.
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So /Adv/ I need your help
Last weekend I went to party with some freinds and ended up in a bar
After some time I sat down to 2 girls, who I have never seen in my life and talked to them, pretty casual and all.
My question is, what would be the best way if I wanted to hit on them, which would either lead to holding hands, kissing or maybe sex?
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Should I date this person?
They're my friend's ex (although, my friend doesn't seem to mind if we get together or not from what I asked my friend). The person is okay I guess, they're a good friend of mine at the least. I share a lot of interests with them and they're about a 5/10 or 6/10, so pretty average looking. However, I'm not sure they're quite on my level: In terms of wealth, intelligence, etc. (I know that might piss some people off, but I feel like I can't relate to them in certain ways if that's the case.) Morally it shouldn't matter to me their background, but... it kinda does.
This person basically asked me if I wanted to be in a relationship with them or not and I got flustered and sort of said yes. However, I feel like I might have some doubts wether I want to be with them or not. I can't tell if my soon to [not] be partner is just boring sometimes, or awkward around me. When we were just friends they didn't act much different so I'm not sure what the case is.
I have someone else I was pretty interested in too, but they're thousands of miles away, and this person I know in person.
I'm not sure... I just feel like I can go for better, especially since I'm not looking to be overly serious with this person unless my feelings develop further. But I have nothing else to do either. Should I try dating them, even if just for fun, or should I unsurely wait for someone much better?
If I need to add any extra detail I will.
Should I become a manwhore?
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I've noticed in the last years that I'm extremely good at comforting people, especially women who may just want to share what's on their mind or find someone that actually cares for them if they're frustrated because of life, of boyfriends and so on and appreciate me treating them like human beings, not like fuckable meat.
I had created a throwaway to speak with people from 4chan, but since the people I add are usually decent human beings I only have few contacts and I don't have the courage to use the same one since they could discover it. I'm thinking of making a second throwaway and let those who need to talk a chance for sharing what's on their mind.
I had thought of doing it on fiverr but I feel bad asking for money, and I may be up for doing sexual stuff if I get to know the person enough (so far the majority was cybering, since I'm a Eurofag); only problem would be setting boundaries, like no microphone, no webcam, no sensible informations, no strings attached.
The main reason would be taking my mind off bad thoughts and kill time. Care to share what do you think of this? And femanons, I'm really interested in what you think of this idea, please be honest and brutal with me.
I'm also thinking of making one specifically as a /adv/isor and share it on various boards, but the problem is that I can't listen to 45 contacts suddenly adding me and I care if I can't listen properly to them, so I'll have to find another method for that.
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So my GF just got a tramp stamp and I'm fucking pissed.
It's one of those stupid fucking butterflies that seems to be so fucking popular, and it's not done but it will cover a large portion of the lower back and be colored. I guess I have to admit at least it's a good design, and I hesitate to imagine how much she is paying for it as it requires multiple sessions. It doesn't change the fact that it's a tramp stamp though
But I fucking hate it already. She has the most beautiful back with such nice skin, and now there is this monstrosity covering up a good chunk of it. But my big problem is that she just went out and did this and didn't discuss it with me beforehand. Now I already hear certain segments going all "Hurr Durr it's her body!". Whatever, yeah I get that, but come on. Ultimately it is her decision but I feel that in an honest relationship, this is just something you would talk to your partner about first. So we got into a huge argument last night, and I straight up told her, she has no respect for me, and has no respect for our relationship. And she starts crying and says some bullshit like how she is sorry and can't we just go to bed and be intimate. Like pretend it never happened. I was so out of there, grabbed my keys and coat and on the way out I gave her a parting shot, congratulated her on her slut certification. It was mean and a stupid thing to say, and I regret it this morning, but I'm still upset with her.
Not sure where I go from here or what I'm supposed to do.
On a side note I fucking love how girls get these tattoos to be "wild" and "individualistic" and then they fucking get a tattoo everyone and their fucking mother is getting as well. Fucking awesome job there expressing yourself and being an individual.
PEP experiences and advice
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Hi /adv/, I'm a 29 virgin loner who got "lucky" with a 32 y/o single mother whom I have been talking for a week. She is by far the most raunchy girl I've seen but she genuinely liked me and at the end of our first date, she asked me to take her to a motel.
I agreed despite not carrying condoms (I wasn't expecting it), moreover something went wrong at first, penetration was PAINFUL and I couldn't keep my erection (I was very nervous and I had masturbated lots that day and the day before), she even asked me if I was sure about my sexuality and got mad at me.
When I returned to my house, I noticed that I had a wound on my foreskin, so big that even fatty tissue could be seen, there was blood on the bottom of my glans too.
I got so scared that I reached the health center to threat the wound and ask for a PEP kit.
However I never expected to be this overwhelming, (30 day treatment with the same drugs that HIV+ people take), I'm also scared about nerve damage and some other long lasting effects of said treatment.
FWIW I practiced oral sex to her and she was very clean: nothing weird on her genitalia, clean fluids, almost no odor (I may be a forever alone loser but I do remember sex-ed), she says that while it's true that she has had many sexual partners, she thinks she is clean and that she has only suffered of vaginal infection once.
Did I over-react? I also would like to know your experiences with similar scenarios, I'm so full of regret now ;_;
Pic related I got a similar one.
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I'm the dude from yesterday who was thinking about moving into that house on a hill with great views and cool people, well today I went to look at another place, and the room offered was pretty big with a ethernet port in it for Internets, the couple there were really chill as well, so now I have a decision to make, either moving into the first house with seemingly cool uni students, two guys and a grill, or this other house, with massive rooms and an ethernet port in the room.
I'm pretty torn between the two, on one hand, living with uni students who have social lives and could introduce me to more people would be pretty cool, but the room offered is pretty small. Or the other place, who has a really chill couple who travel a lot, and I get cable Internet.
I'm a bit of a loner, what would you do in this situation, /adv/?
>same pic from the first thread
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Is this a sign my gf is crazy but hiding it real well???
Everytime something annoys het, she gets real quiet and when i try to ask whats wrong, she gets even more mad
The next day, she tells me when shes mad, she just needs more attention/love. Then tells me that i failed the test.
She then tells me she can be the happiest person one minute and hate everything the next.
Holy fuk, should i run??
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I posted here before, about my almost-boyfriend leaving for school and us cutting contact because of reasons I thought ridiculous the very day he left. But I let him go, considering how straight-out evil I'd thought I'd been (mentioning suicidal thoughts I had at the time, etc.)
We arranged that he'd call me if he got a girlfriend. He did, but he didn't call me. Instead he ignored my calls, and I had to beg him to call me. He did in the end, and we talked. After just a month and a half, he was totally over me. He said we're done, and that we had no future... all the things I feared the most. I'm not over him at all, and still hoped we could build a future together when he got back. He said we wouldn't. I said I still loved him, and hated myself for it. He wouldn't even mention anything about ever loving me, or thinking we'd have a future together, and now he's not even sure he'l come back or move even further away once the school year's over. I planned to ask him to "break the ice" today, so the timing was just brilliant. He said that we had to say goodbye for now. I wouldn't, but alas, he said "Goodbye and good luck" before hanging up.
I'm just so hurt, /adv/. He's with someone better while I'm stuck loving him. I don't see any way out of it. I'm genuinely suicidal now. I don't even have any friends around. I don't have a job or a life at all. I just don't know what to do to stop loving my first and only love.
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So, /adv/, what do you think of her? do you believe in magic?
She loved me, but now her perception of mine is fucked forever, I'm willing to do black magic to get her back.
Black magic can make people's perception change, and I was wondering how much success rate I would have if I would try to get her back with Satan's power?...Is black magic strong enough to get her back, so she will be mine forever? Share some some spells or advice please.
She suspects I'm cursing her already, but so far I've only done white magic, and you can't hurt or change free will that way.
Wanna hear my story?
Pic related, it's her 4 years ago.