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My boyfriend is not very experienced sexually, is rather shy, and lets just pure beta. I've been trying to get him to be more open about his fetishes, fantasies and preferences in the bedroom. I try wearing lingerie, bringing toys, all kinds of things. When I ask him what he likes or what he wants to try, he gets shy and says "Whatever you want". The only time he really tells me is after we've been flirting in texts about it, he'll briefly mention "Oh the bunny outfit you had one time? I loved that.."
How do I get him to be less shy about these things? I want to do anything for him, but this makes it so hard. Also doesn't give me much input when I ask. Just very brief answer. This weekend I tried anal for the first time with him and I think I was more into it than he was, he just said "it feels pretty much the same" and switched back.
Any advice on how to break his shell? We've been dating nearly a year and been having sex just as long, so there's no real reason why he should still be embarrassed...
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A really good friend of mine died last night, killing herself. She went out with my step brother and, due to a fucked up roommate, ended up having to move in with my stepfather and my mother, who are fucking crazy.
She eventually finds out he cheated on her, she smacks a bitch, and then she gets the cops called on her and also gets a restraining order put on her. She loses the three jobs she had when she was with him, and her place to live.
I tried to fucking warn her about my family. I never in a million years thought she'd be the kind of person to kill herself. She said she was gonna go to college and start seeing a therapist next year...
It's normal to blame yourself, right? Is it normal to blame my shithole family?
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I'm in my first real relationship, and it's been going for almost three months now. It's going well in every observable way - we talk constantly, we see each other regularly, the physical side is progressing about as well as can be expected, and she's definitely crazy about me. My concern is that we're getting far enough in that I should be thinking about that whole "love" thing, and I don't think I'm feeling it. I'm a bit of a cynic, and prone to overanalyzing, so maybe I'm just worrying about nothing. But I always hear "You'll know it when it happens" and the like, and she feels more like a really close friend whose boobs I get to play with.
Anons who've been in love(the kind that involves actual relationships, I mean), am I worrying too much, or is this a sign of a real problem?
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I went to college, got 3 degrees (PR, Comm, Psych) in 5 years and had about a 3.7 average. I was sole author on one piece of research and co-author on another 2. I worked as an assistant marketing coordinator for 2 years (made 12/hr, just as a part time thing) for a year (8/hr) as a research assistant and I also had 2 6 month long runs as a PR intern for different non-profits.
I get ready to go to grad school and the school tells me "oops we thought you werent coming even though you signed a legal document saying you were and we gave your assistantship to someone else" So now Im stuck with a lease in a shit college town with no job for a year until the money is available to me again and this time the uni cant pull any fucking shit on me.
After a month and a half of searching I still have NOTHING real and I cannot understand why. Maybe its this town, maybe all that shit I did before just really isn't worth anything. I work at a fucking walmart and when I applied the HR manager said she couldn't understand why I had to work there since I had so much experience. Ive been applying for fucking entry level marketing/comm/pr positions and almost nothing has been posted and then when I spoke to one woman I had interviewed with, she said they gave the 1-3 year exp job to someone with 10 years experience in marketing. I've thought about killing myself every single fucking day.
What the fuck am I doing wrong and how do I fix this?
Job Seeking, in all honesty
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So, how hard is it REALLY, to get a job?
I'm a white male in the UK, I have no degree but some highschool qualifications, I'm well spoken, can be smartly dressed and confident.
Do you really need a degree or mad connections just to land a decent £15k-30k job? Or are the neets on 4chan just lazy?
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I need some serious advice.
>Live with girlfriend
>She gets 700/month, I clear 280/week
>One car between us
>Someone hit her a month ago, same insurance company, they refused to pay out to either side.
>Would cost 800 to fix internal damage, 2k if we wanted to fix body. Car still drivable
>Yesterday, I rear-end someone. Damage to the front would cost another 600 to fix, more internal damage. Car still drivable
>Today, car stalls, fuel pump gave out, car no longer drivable
>No family or friends who give enough fucks to help
>Can't get to my job on Saturday
>Girlfriend is recovering from cancer and can't get to any doctor's appointments or her surgery on monday
We've already sold almost everything sellable recently just to pay the bills. There is no more money saved up. I'm trying to pull 800 from my 401k to help some. The car would cost way more to fix than its value. I have no credit or a decent down-payment to put to a new vehicle.
On top of this, we're behind on rent and the bills are stacking up more every day.
I have no idea what to do.
Is my girlfriend asexual?
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I'm having some kind of confusion with my girlfriend, so I want to know what do you guys think:
->She's a quite pretty and smart girl, but somewhat insecure because she had some childhood issues with her family.
->Despite her being pretty she had only one boyfriend before me, and that one was because she had social pressure as people in highschool were telling her that she was lesbian because she never had a boyfriend.
->She told me that she is never phisically attracted to anyone, only famous people (Johnny Depp, Leo Dicaprio, some K-Pop guys.. but because they're "pretty" as in aesthetic)
->For me to get to be her boyfriend was very troublesome, I asked her out for like a year. And there were moments in that time that she said yes, but then repented before we saw each other again.
->She told me that when she finally said yes (the real one), she was quite unsure if she had to say yes or no.
->I found out that with her previous boyfriend she kissed a lot but only because he wanted, so in a way he forced her to kiss for long time and she never wanted to kiss him (not even once)
->She told me that she didn't like kissing, so when I started as her boyfriend I gave her some space but one day I kissed her and then apologized but she said that it was okay, so I started kissing her normally and sometimes she gives me kisses
->We started having sex, she was very nervious and insecure at first but then it became somewhat normal
->One day she cried when we were having sex and said "stop..", it was very weird.. I felt like a rapist because she cried a lot.. when we talked about it she said that she didn't knew why it happened. Some days later she said that she didn't liked to recive oral sex and that was the reason (note: before she did enjoy oral sex, the only thing that she didn't liked about it was that for her my "mouth gets dirty so she can't kiss me")