My girlfriend likes moderately fat guys.
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>Small thin/curvy/sexy petite body (ie: she is not fat)
The reason I'm describing her body too is, well, the other day, after a lot of rustling up and continuously asking her to tell me her "secret" of what she finds attractive in guys, she finally told me.
She says that since she was 11 years old, she subconsciously thought about people putting on moderate amounts of weight and having moderate amounts of weight.
So I'm assuming she must have thought it was cool or something at that age. So ever since then, all the way from 11 to 17 years old, she often agreed with her friends when they said they were "hot" and had abs and stuff - but on the inside, truly, she said that she only said that to fit in and that she never thought guys with abs are hot.
She then said that she finds it "really attractive" and a "turn on" when I put on weight and gain fat on my stomach area - but she said "but not too much, just a moderate amount." So nothing obese or too fat. Just a nice thick layer of fat on top of the stomach she said.
She finds me having moderate amounts of weight attractive, and also the process of gaining weight is a turn on for her. She hates abs! She likes thickness - arms, legs, stomach, everywhere!
She said that she wants me to have no abs, have a thick stomach, and work my arms out to get them bigger. So it's not as if she doesn't like muscle, right? She just wants me to be thicker yeah? I dunno. What do you guys think?
So, guys, what is this?
Is it something along the lines of a "fat fetish"?
And why does she have it?
And why does she find moderately-fat men, and the process of getting to that weight from being skinny, attractive?
Also, is there a biological reason for it? ie: Would a larger/thicker person provide more protection for the mother and children?
Give me some suggestions as to why you think my girlfriend wants me to have a thicker body, even if its fat.
Thanks in advance!
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okay, so me and my ex couldn't stay away from each other. long story short, he had to block my number.
i still texted it watever i wanted or was thinking, just cus the "sending" felt like a was talking to a real person.
then i called it. it rang. so i hung up.
i expected it to say something like "this number is disconnect sry"
so i did some research. said that it would ring until a message appeared.
so i called and he picked up.
did he just block my texts?? is my number coming up anonymously and he picked up? so confused right now. if he received all those texts, that'd kinda be annoying.
or maybe his block feature sucks, idk.
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This is kind of lengthy but i will do what i can to shorten it. Please read with an open mind. Lets call this person X.
X and i have been friends for almost a decade. We met as kids and long story short, we've been inseparable. And i know what your thinking and its right. One of us loves the other but cant be with them. We tried dating twice and it didnt work out both times. It was me 100% for reasons i couldnt even begin to list off. Basically X was too predictable to me and i just get bored easy.
After the break up i wanted us to stay friends so we worked things out. I always said if it got to be too much to let me know, but it never ever got to that point. Still we both knew the affection was there.
Years passed and we remained friends. But with age comes responsibilities and when your parents flaws crawl out of you and both of our parents weren't the best. I got lucky and found someone who i love and have been with for almost 4 years now, who trusts me and my best friend. All three of us hang out together and all get along very well. Matter of fact they hang out alone sometimes. X however had a few lovers here and there but overall was alone, lost everything in a college X didn't even finish, and doesn't even have a room anymore. Literally lost everything over the course of this past year. Because of this i've been trying my best as a friend to support him.
But anyway back to the problem, as we grow older i notice we're drifting apart. X has severe confidence issues to the point where X is beginning to become a 'one upper' kind of person. X says things i know X doesn't actually know but just says them to act like an ass, and overall really just a child. Since X has no place anymore i started to allow the occasional crash on the couch or whatever. But now its almost everyday, eating my food, bitching about life, smoking more then a chimney, and overall just unhelp-able.
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My boyfriend and I both feel that we're THE one for each other and want to spend the rest of our lives together. Our biggest issue right now is that his libido and availability (time, energy etc.) is nowhere near satisfying my monster sex drive. He HATES it when I seduce him to fuck me. He told me that makes him feel dirty, like a tool I use to satisfy my needs. We've talked about this and he's agreed to help me let off some steam, even if we don't engage in full-on intercourse. However, I can only see him at most once a week due to school, work and his need for down time. This is KILLING me - I have a boyfriend I'd never cheat on, but I'm practically not getting any.
Is this a dealbreaker?
I'm not the type to sleep around or cheat because it takes a lot to gain my trust to reach that point, but if there's someone we both trust, and we make sure to use protection, would it be feasible to work out an arrangement without destroying our relationship?
The trouble with faking orgasms
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So, I don't think I can orgasm during sex. I've had 4 sexual partners and a couple others I've messed around with, over the course of about 5 or so years. Sex feels really good, I enjoy it, but instead of climaxing, I just kind of wind down over time?
Thing is, only one of them knows about this problem. My first time was with my boyfriend of several years, who was also a virgin at the time. I was embarrassed that I couldn't cum, and didn't want him to feel bad about it, so I lied.I thought it would get better, so I kept faking until then. We both got better at it, and I really enjoyed sex with him, but I was caught in a loop and didn't want to admit I had lied. So I had no choice but to keep lying, and that went on for years.
I've been with a couple of other guys in one-night-stand situations since then, and no luck there, either. I can orgasm by myself just fine, i can cum really quickly if I want to, and even have multiple orgasms. But when it comes to other people, I can't. I've tried relaxing, I've tried staying focused, a bunch of things. No climax.
The thing is, I started dating someone recently, and after sex he asked me if I had, and on an impulse, I decided to be honest with him, I told him "I don't, I cant." and later explained it to him what the situation was. He looked really put down. He seemed pretty determined after that, and tried a bunch of things, and wow, I learned how good he was with his hands and his mouth and his dick, holy cow! But I still couldn't. It was really embarrassing, and he seemed almost upset by it. We're long distance right now, and he's reconsidering our relationship, and one of the reasons he mentioned was the orgasm thing. I feel awful, because he put in a lot of effort, and i really enjoyed that time with him, but it didn't "work".
Did I do the right thing in being honest with him?
Does anyone have advice on dealing with this problem?
Cheapest SIM Card?
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So, I have a bunch of Java-based phones I got for cheep a chinese gadget site. I need to test to make sure they actually work as phones, but I have a smartphone that uses a micro SIM and and these phones all use regular full sized SIM cards. What is the cheapest prepaid SIM card that I can get? Is there a SIM card equivalent of a TracFone? For that matter, can I just get a TracPhone and take the SIM out and use it? I only need ~30 minutes, but I don't want to pay more than $10 for it, since you can get an entire TracFone (presumably containing a SIM card) with 15/30 minutes of talk time for not much more.
I'd prefer not to have to order something online, but I will if necessary (instant gratification and all that).
For what it's worth, I have access to Walmart, Fred Meyers (Kroger), Radio Shack, Target, Best Buy, Costco (member) and a bunch of places that cater to Asian immigrants.
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Help on dealing with a crazy bitch
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Ok, ill greentext to get straight to the point
>be at party
>i dont drink
>there's this solid 9
>no idea who she is, decide to make her my motif
>she doesn't seem to drink either
>her friends get drunk, they go and do whatever, so she's left talking with me
>get all touchy feely
>blah blah usual shit of first kissing, then one thing leads to another and im banging her in the back of my car
This is where shit starts to happen
>she texts me the next day and tells me her boyfriend found out because his friend saw us
>Lmao wut boyfriend
>"i forgot to tell you..."
>apparently he's all mad and shit
>seeing as his friend is a mutual friend with my friend so he finds out who I am and where I live
>comes over to mine with his gf
>gets all in my face asking why I fucked her
>i tell him I had no clue and it's her who he should be questioning, not me
>proceeds to ask me why
>he then gets so mad he tries to punch me
>I put his arm in a lock and push him to the ground and tell him to get the fuck out because he's being a little bitch
>they both leave
>2 days later I get another message from the chick and she's saying
>"still can't get over what you did to my boyfriend, I never felt so defenseless when you had him down, I can't see him the same"
>bitch wtf do you want you're more trouble than you're worth
>"i really like you and im willing to leave my bf for you"
How do Half-White Half-Asian guys build Self-esteem?
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I'm the son of a White dad and Asian mom so I feel the effects of WM/AF especially personally. A lot of WM/AF on the internet assume that I happened to have uniquely bad parents and thus unfairly blame them. I think its the opposite, I have relatively decent parents and I hate on them due to all the ugly WM/AFs on the internet.
I've done a ton of googling on the issue, and it seems there are many Hapa sons and daughters who agree with me. Unfortunately my googling has also found a torrent of ugly pseudo-biological racist and sexist justifications from both WM and AFs.
The more I read about this shit, the more I feel that Asians are the worst race in every way possible. That all Asian women are whores and all Asian men are weaklings. I just feel that Asians are the prostitute race, both symbolically and literally, and beyond any purely socioeconomic justification.
As a Half-White guy I would never want to date Asian women anyway. So why do I hate WM/AF so much? I guess because they make me look bad in front of white women. Some Asian females brag about telling all their non-asian friends that asian men look like girls. But the white girls I'm interested in would never talk to Asian girls anyway. So WTF am I so paranoid? Yes WM/AF might indirectly hurt my chances with WFs, in that it adds to the general heuristic of Asian Male castration. But in the big picture, thats a pretty tiny factor in all the reasons a WF has to reject me. If I'm going to obsess about WF rejection, there are probably much bigger issues than WFs seeing too many WMAFs.
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I need some advice.
My girlfriend's period is about a week late. From what I understand, working out and stress can really throw off a woman's cycle. She has been very stressed lately and she has been working out a lot more. The last time we had sex was a few weeks ago (we do not live together, nor near each other so sometimes its hard to see each other) and it was the first time I actually came inside of a condom. Now, we always use a condom. Always. And I only cum outside of her, on here face, breasts, in that area. I did, at one point however, lightly rub the tip of my penis on her vagina for a moment. I'm now scared that possibly some pre cum got her pregnant. I know this may sound stupid, but I am scared. She has a doctor's appointment today, so I guess we'll find out then. She hasn't had any of the normal signs of early pregnancy, so am I worried for nothing? Thanks.
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