My girlfriend likes moderately fat guys.
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>Small thin/curvy/sexy petite body (ie: she is not fat)
The reason I'm describing her body too is, well, the other day, after a lot of rustling up and continuously asking her to tell me her "secret" of what she finds attractive in guys, she finally told me.
She says that since she was 11 years old, she subconsciously thought about people putting on moderate amounts of weight and having moderate amounts of weight.
So I'm assuming she must have thought it was cool or something at that age. So ever since then, all the way from 11 to 17 years old, she often agreed with her friends when they said they were "hot" and had abs and stuff - but on the inside, truly, she said that she only said that to fit in and that she never thought guys with abs are hot.
She then said that she finds it "really attractive" and a "turn on" when I put on weight and gain fat on my stomach area - but she said "but not too much, just a moderate amount." So nothing obese or too fat. Just a nice thick layer of fat on top of the stomach she said.
She finds me having moderate amounts of weight attractive, and also the process of gaining weight is a turn on for her. She hates abs! She likes thickness - arms, legs, stomach, everywhere!
She said that she wants me to have no abs, have a thick stomach, and work my arms out to get them bigger. So it's not as if she doesn't like muscle, right? She just wants me to be thicker yeah? I dunno. What do you guys think?
So, guys, what is this?
Is it something along the lines of a "fat fetish"?
And why does she have it?
And why does she find moderately-fat men, and the process of getting to that weight from being skinny, attractive?
Also, is there a biological reason for it? ie: Would a larger/thicker person provide more protection for the mother and children?
Give me some suggestions as to why you think my girlfriend wants me to have a thicker body, even if its fat.
Thanks in advance!
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Hey, /adv/ I just got my ear pierced and stretched, and I've been doing some research into it, the place I got it pierced at gave me some instructions on how to clean it.
But nothing on when I have to shower, I've heard different things all round, take out the stretcher and stop water from entering the piercing, or leave the stretcher in and work soap into the piercing
>TL;DR How do shower with new pierced ear?
How do Half-White Half-Asian guys build Self-esteem?
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I'm the son of a White dad and Asian mom so I feel the effects of WM/AF especially personally. A lot of WM/AF on the internet assume that I happened to have uniquely bad parents and thus unfairly blame them. I think its the opposite, I have relatively decent parents and I hate on them due to all the ugly WM/AFs on the internet.
I've done a ton of googling on the issue, and it seems there are many Hapa sons and daughters who agree with me. Unfortunately my googling has also found a torrent of ugly pseudo-biological racist and sexist justifications from both WM and AFs.
The more I read about this shit, the more I feel that Asians are the worst race in every way possible. That all Asian women are whores and all Asian men are weaklings. I just feel that Asians are the prostitute race, both symbolically and literally, and beyond any purely socioeconomic justification.
As a Half-White guy I would never want to date Asian women anyway. So why do I hate WM/AF so much? I guess because they make me look bad in front of white women. Some Asian females brag about telling all their non-asian friends that asian men look like girls. But the white girls I'm interested in would never talk to Asian girls anyway. So WTF am I so paranoid? Yes WM/AF might indirectly hurt my chances with WFs, in that it adds to the general heuristic of Asian Male castration. But in the big picture, thats a pretty tiny factor in all the reasons a WF has to reject me. If I'm going to obsess about WF rejection, there are probably much bigger issues than WFs seeing too many WMAFs.
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I met a polish girl on Interpals few months ago. I just wanted to practice my Polish 'cause I was going to Poland for my study. Anyway, she's really nice, beautiful, she's into French literature and love classical and Jazz music so we have a lot in common. I didn't mean to meet her in the end because she was living in an other city that where I'll study.
I'm in Poland and I met her because she deciding to go study in the same University as me (not for me though). By talking with her, I understood she was a Baptist which is pretty rare in Europe. We saw each others three times before we had a first kiss but it seems to confused her a lot. I know nothing about Baptist people so I'm confused too. She mentioned she has rules and all.
Have you any experience with Baptist girls ?
If they're European Baptist that's a plus.
Also I have a gf in my home country.
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>Used to be a pathetic weeaboo with crippling social anxiety and I never left the house. I had the hug pillows and everything.
>My life seemed over and I assumed that I would spend the rest of it jerking off to my chinese cartoons and hugging pillows, so I got a prescription for speed because I thought that I might as well just become a drunk addict since I have nothing to lose and at least I'll feel happy.
>The speed had the unexpected result of making me extremely confident and motivated towards improving myself.
>Spent the next two years doing productive things non-stop. Working out, got into amazing shape, studied Japanese for around 8 hours a day and I got to the point that I was pretty much fluent, started socializing and making friends with all of the speed induced confidence, and within two years I had more or less made up for all of the years I had wasted.
>Went to Japan a few months ago, had to sneak in my prescription because of their crazy laws, but I was able to use that speed induced charisma to hit it off with a really cute Japanese girl and we started dating.
>About to visit Japan again in a few weeks and we're definitely going to have sex.
>I have no experience at all with sex. I've never even kissed anyone since I wasted all of my teenage years and my early 20s being a pathetic piece of shit.
Is there anyway that I can train myself in these next few weeks so that I will actually know what the hell I'm doing? I've been able to maintain this impression of the tall, charismatic, and fit foreigner because of drugs, but there's no drug that can teach me how to do something I've never done. That impression that she has of me will crumble apart as soon as she realizes that I'm a kissless virgin. Confidence and charisma has been enough for everything else, but I can't bullshit my way through this.
I'm thinking of hiring one of those really expensive prostitutes and paying her to teach me the ropes. Is this a bad idea? I can't think of any alternative.
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Ok, so I'm living with this amazing girl, life's fucking good. However, my really good friend, well me and her have a slight history, and long story shirt I made a really hard decision to not pursue her for a relationship.due to various factors. One of them being that I would never be sure she actually had any feelings for me because she hid that shit so well. Now, I have my gf, and she wants to hangout lots and lots, she's started being super affectionate which obviously means she was/is.. I told her today that my f2f lives with me now and I could almost hear her heart tear in two.. Don't want to keep hurting her but I don't want to bring up the subject out of the blue because it's a little more confrontational than shed be comfortable with... What do?
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/Adv/, how to enhance beard growth?
I'm trying to grow one now, but the growth is "strongest" mainly below the chin and between the chin-neck area, but not so much directly under the lower lip and on top of jawbones, where I would like it to grow.
So /adv/, what to do? Is there anything that can even be done?