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Hello there /adv/, I am a 20 years old male and I pay visit to my aunt house to just say hello, she's not married she have kids they like me because i'm kind with them so when I go to her house she hugs me and keep kissing me even though I'm 20 years old and she's 34 years old I used to sit on her lap when I was a boy it was fun, now she sits on MY lap I find it a bit awkward to no tell her to, but when she sits on me I get an erection sometimes it even touch her I can't just say it's my phone or so, one time she told me ''You will be in deep troubles, if I tell my sister about this'' but she keep sitting on my lap everytime I visit her it like she's teasing me or something, if she wasn't my aunt I would have made her sit on my penis long time ago, please help me out /adv/
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I know it's a bit early to think about that, but I think it's important. I'm in my final years of my bachelor's degree and I'm not particularly interested in going to grad school. I have a very decent job in a publishing house and I work through the internet, so I could go pretty much anywhere after I'm finished with my studies.
The thing is I'm getting really fucking tired of living in the city. I spent a fairly good part of my childhood at the family's cottage and my grandpa's house in the countryside, so I could say I feel more at home outside city limits. I'm a pretty big outdoorsman and the stress of the city easily gets to me. I'm thinking about eventually buying a house in the countryside with a bit of land, but I'm not sure if I should do it.
Theoretically, I'm a freelancer, so this isn't the most reliable job there is and there aren't much benefits apart from the paycheck. My education and a fair bit of my work experience are oriented towards being an archivist, but I don't enjoy that job a whole lot. Plus I'm not really interested nor have expertise or experience in "countryside-style" work.
Anyone in a similar situation? Is this just an "Into the Wild" phase I'm going through? Should I just suck it up and stay in the city for more job opportunities? Is staying freelance an unwise career choice?
Tl;dr: OP doesn't know whether to stay in the city to have better jobs and be miserable or to buy a house in the countryside and sacrifice job opportunities to be happy.
Sorry for my meh English.
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I'm heavily depressed. I've hated myself for years, I think about it everyday and every night. It's destroying me
I study psychology, I'm in my second year. However, there is nothing that disgusts me more than the thought of seeing a psychologist myself. I've been on two separate occasions , once to see a uni psych. I fucking hated it. I went to see a psychiatrist after that, hated it twice as much. I hate spilling my guts to a complete stranger, it disgusts me. I can't talk to my family either.
What should I do? I hate showing weakness. I can't do it to my family or friends, and opening up to a complete stranger just feels sick to me, I can't do it. I need help. I feel closer to death every day. I feel like I've got nothing left, but I can't seek help
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Ok /adv/ I count on you this time.
I have a gf, I'm 23 she's 20. The problem with her was that her jealousy was absolutely morbid. I couldn't even talk to other women without her getting angry about it, but I'm no pussy and I continued to do so, telling her it's nothing more than talk. It didn't help much.
It got to a point where I went to a party and she kept ranting and threatening to leave me if I didn't come home. We had a big fight. It all happened twice.
Today we met and I asked her if she still sees this going anywhere, then she burst in tears and the talk ended with her apologizing profusely and promising that it will change. Unfortunately, I stopped caring for this relationship, the second time she did some awful things and I'm afraid there's no apology that could fix it. That being said, I don't want to make her sad very much and I have no idea how to say that to her the least brutal way.
Remember when I said I'm no pussy? I'm a pussy on this one. What choice should I make /adv/? Shall I dump her or stay and see what happens?
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I met this girl in the 6th grade, instantly "fall in love" she's gorgeous. We talk, she becomes my best friend we tell each other everything. I found out she has feelings for me, i do nothing. I get girl friend i date this girl for about 2 years she dumps me, feel like shit, i realize i want to be with my friend, i tell her she doesn't feel the same, kills me inside. Haven't talked since. We're both seniors in high school now(different school), her friends tell me she talks non-stop about me. I'm to pussy to talk to her now and I'm moving to Louisiana in two weeks, we live in Texas. What do i do? >Not sure how to some up for a tl;dr
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This isn't anything major, but I might as well see what you say. First, some background.
I had an examination, which was to take 1 hour and 45 minutes, at 1:30 yesterday. I took a train which was meant to arrive at the station close by my school at 1:10, leaving me ample time to get there. The train was late, so I called the school and explained that I was going to be late, and was unsure of how long I would be. They said that it was fine and to talk to the exam coordinator when I got there.
I got there at about 1:33. I talked to the exam guy and was quickly ushered in and directed to my desk. I went through and completed the exam, sans one question.
I left this question until the end because it wasn't 'clicking' with me like the other questions did. At 3:15, the intended time for the examination to finish, time was called and we were told to stop writing; just as I had realized what I had to do for the question. The exam supervisors were speaking to the room saying to bundle our papers together, don't talk etc. I hurriedly raised my hand and asked if I was allowed to keep writing, because I had come in 3 minutes late. I was denied this extra time.
That was fine, not really anything I can do about it there. Directly after the examination, avoiding talking to any other people who had just finished it, I went and talked to one of the school's officials. He directed me to the exam coordinator, who was taking a class at the time. I politely asked for a few minutes of his time and explained what happened.
He gave me a sort of 'Is this guy serious' look when I asked if I could somehow be granted these extra 3 minutes. I explained I had not completed the question I left out, and said I could probably get the marks for that question if I was allowed the time. He said that he had a class that he had to get back to, and I asked if I could email him, to which he agreed.
This was all about 24 hours ago. I have not spoken to anyone else who took the exam.