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Hello there /adv/, I am a 20 years old male and I pay visit to my aunt house to just say hello, she's not married she have kids they like me because i'm kind with them so when I go to her house she hugs me and keep kissing me even though I'm 20 years old and she's 34 years old I used to sit on her lap when I was a boy it was fun, now she sits on MY lap I find it a bit awkward to no tell her to, but when she sits on me I get an erection sometimes it even touch her I can't just say it's my phone or so, one time she told me ''You will be in deep troubles, if I tell my sister about this'' but she keep sitting on my lap everytime I visit her it like she's teasing me or something, if she wasn't my aunt I would have made her sit on my penis long time ago, please help me out /adv/
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I am being presented with a tough choice, /adv/.
I've recently gotten engaged to a girl who hails from Iowa. She's come to live with me and so far our lives together have been pleasant, but tough. We love each other very much and couldn't bare to be parted, but the difficulty comes from our current location. The city I live in has given me a game-testing job with enough pay to get the bills taken care of and occasionally have a bit of fun. Unfortunately I can't hope for anything beyond that, there isn't much room in my company for advancement and there are no medical benefits, so one trip to the hospital and I'm sunk. Also, I dropped out of college with close to a $30,000 debt, so we've had to place forbearance on that a few times but we'll only be able to avoid paying it for so long.
On the other hand, my future in-laws in Iowa have kindly extended a hand of hospitality and will allow us to live with them, rent free, in exchange for us to simply keep the place clean. It would be great if I could just send the majority of the money I make toward my college debt and not worry about it, and I figured this may be a great opportunity to get better at my true passion, creating artwork. Perhaps the isolated environment and few distractions would serve to better focus me into developing my talents so I can produce job-worthy material.
What do you think I should do, /adv/?
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I almost never come to this board but I need serious help here, pls adv.
My GF and I have been together for almost 2 years now. The last couple of months however, I feel like it's not the same anymore, I think I might not love her anymore? I usually look at other pretty girls and I wish I could flirt with them, I'm young and I don't think being tied to another person for so long at my age is a good thing.
Being with my GF makes me feel safer, I can tell her all my problems, like I'm not alone in this world, but on the other hand I want to live life to its fullest, try new things, that's the key to happiness right? I'm afraid I won't ever find another girl like her, she's very unique.
What should I do? Dump her? She's very emotional and she would be completely destroyed without me, also we have the same group of friends and I don't want a bad relationship between us when we're not together anymore. Hell, I don't even know how to tell this to her, this is going to change my whole life which is kinda scary. She's a good girl, I love her but more as a friend at this point.
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Really stuck on this one.
So my best friend's boyfriend just proposed to her, and she said yes. They been together for only 5 months, and half the time he's overseas selling food products. Shes 23, and he's 26. I've only met the guy once, and I really don't know what to make of it. He seemed like an okay guy. However with her being super religious, she was also the type to "save things for marriage" and as her best friend I know for sure she's been clinging onto that mantra (also helps we go to an all girl's school for high school). So much that all her past boyfriends gave up and dumped her. Which makes me suspect this is some diabolic ploy to get in her pants, and get her money (parents are also pretty rich, he's just an overseas salesman). Then there's the issue where she tells me not to tell anyone else, because she and her now-fiance doesn't want her parents to find out they're getting married and is on a mini-honeymoon trip.
Now, as her best friend...I am obviously concerned. I'm telling her to think hard about it, but she's stuck in that hyped fairy tale stage and nothing budges her. As the only person on her side who cares about her and as the only person who has an idea what is happening, I feel like I'm also the only person who can make sure she's not going to be crushed. Nothing I'm saying is getting to her, and the past 24 hours I've been unable to get any work done over this. I'm getting desperate for solutions.
Should I call her parents and let them know? She would probably never talk to me again, and I'd lose a precious friend from 3rd grade.
Or can someone convince me to turn an eye and let this bad idea just roll along, and risk seeing my best friend's future being ruined?
I'm so torn that I can't stop crying when I get home and think about it...
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> Be me
> Be working at networking event
> Really awesome girl comes up to me, asks about my company
> We hit it off really well, she takes a brochure and wanders off
> Think about going after her and asking her is she want to do some shit sometime
> 'But I'm working, that'd be unprofessional, rite'?'
> Catch her eye as she's talking to some guy from PWC
> She waves and leaves
Anyway, I know someone who's on the same course as her at university. Should I email a description to the person I know to see if I can track this girl down, or is that some super creepy Charles Manson shit?
Help me, /adv/!
Not a pedophile, not a pedophile
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So my story may sound weird but today I was in a very crowded bus I was standing I couldn't find a place to sit down and there was a little girl I guess she's over 13-15 but she doesn't look like it she looks like she's 18 she was facing me it was so crowded she was completely sticking to me I'm tall suddenly she hugged me for no reason and she kept hugging me so hard and she told me that she loves me and she kept saying ''daddy'' I was like wtf for a moment I tried to push her away gentilly but she resisted and kept hugging me for like 15 minutes when I go out of the bus she stalked me to my home I stopped and faced her I told her why was she following me, she was crying so bad and she told me that I reminded her of her dead father, I didn't wanted to be an asshole I felt really bad for the poor girl I tried to help her and such she thanked, she even left her phone number to me and she wanted to introduce me to her mother, I don't know what should I do, HELP !
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How long do women play games for? As a rough estimate... when is enough enough? I mean, how long do guys last before just giving up and walking away from something? I've been talking to this grill for two weeks, and I like her so much, it's sickening, but I can't tell if there is reciprocity. Do I just go for it, or let her play with me for a few more days?
how do i into women?
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So guys, I have something that I just want to say that I'd greatly appreciate if someone gave me an opinion. Thanks
>Be 17 y/o male
>At friends party, saturday night
>not outgoing or confident, (I know, original)
>Girl I know and have liked for a few months is going
>Party starts, get absolutely smashed (for my age)
>She arrives late
>Get so drunk I was hungover for days
>So is she
>one thing leads to another, kissing and etc (Never kissed before wow)
>end up in the spare room, touching and shit
So this is the problem;
>She starts crying and talking about her ex who cheated
>insta bonerkill but I'm drunk so what the hell I'm down
>have a condom, idk im hopeful
>says she 'doesnt even care if I do'
>Im not drunk enough to carry on
>just feel and spoon for the night
So; did I even do anything wrong? I didn't spur anything on it just started and I couldnt just have sex with her. Note: I am a virgin so you know but I just couldn't do it because idk. Should I have done it? I feel now like I missed out but I dodnt want to make her regret anything. Wat did I do wrong? if anything? Feedbaack would be appreciated :/
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I'm a 19yo male who has been in a relationship for about 9 months. We've had our issues, and things have been generally getting better, but lately it seems as if everything she says just pisses me off.
She's a good girlfriend, and I know she doesn't mean to, but it seems like she just has no idea what things are disrespectful in a relationship.
For example, she'll talk about how attractive she thinks some guy is to me, and it will make me want to bash her head in for it, and then she'll wonder why she doesn't get laid later. And before 'hurr, you're insecure!' Come around; No, I'm not. I'm really not. In fact, I'm probably a little too arrogant. The reason comments like these piss me off (and it's not only these) is just because it's disrespectful, and I know she'd flip her shit if I went on about how sexy some girls are. I just don't because I know how to act in a relationship.
Anywho, sorry for another relationship thread. I also know I have a hot temper, but I just don't know what to do about little shit like this.
Pic related. How I feel