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How do I let myself off a girl's hook (HIMYM reference)? I've been chasing after this girl for almost a year now, and I just can't do anything. She's playing games with me, fucking with my mind. At one point, I don't want to do anything with her anymore, and as soon as I don't, she starts hinting that she likes me. As soon as I do the same, she just stops. This happened last week, and I'm confused. Halp pls
bumping with doge
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Well, this is awkward, how do I put this?
My girlfriend's mother hates me. Take what follows with a grain of salt, but she's constantly trying to get her to leave me. Claiming I've brainwashed her or something. (Ironically, her mother once invited her to come up on a family trip, then basically kidnapped her and made her burn everything she brought with her and told her to forget about me and tried to set her up on dates, and I had to go up and get her.)
Anyway, my girlfriend had a miscarriage a few weeks ago. Her mother insisted she go to *her* gynecologist. This gynecologist told her that *I* gave her an infection, and she was now infertile. We went to another gyno, and sure enough she can still have kids.
Her mother was going through our things and found a washcloth, which we use to clean up after sex. The mother insisted it didn't smell like semen, that semen isn't supposed to have any strong smell, and I needed to go to a doctor because there was something wrong with me.
Now I know, I should consider the source, but just to be on the safe side, I want to go get this checked out. ...What kind of clinic do I go to? How do I even put this? "Reason for your visit?" "...My girlfriend's mother says my cum stinks."
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I go out drinking once/twice every couple weeks with my friends sister, my friends and hers. She has three friends that have hitting on me hard but I just do not want to be in a relationship since I want to prioritize taking care of an ill family member/work/gym.
I was thinking of narrowing them down to a FWB - only one out of the three. I doubt they'd care if I did a FWB with all three separately at different times but I don't really trust the three of them to be cool about that situation.
Two are attractive but one - I really doubt , can have a FWB past a week (Nice body, "hard exterior" but I think she could get clingy faast) The other one could work but I don't think she is bright enough to understand a FWB and would probably think I am asking to be her BF and blab about it. Third one isn't that attractive; she is not ugly, bit heavy and maybe a 5-6/10, or 4) but it's the only one a FWB could go smoothly with - she parties a lot, drinks but doubt that sexual active.
I'm in no rush to get a FWB straight away, I just wanted to get an opinion on it. I am thinking of going for the first one and see how week one goes. Biggest concern for me is that I know them too well: know names , types of friends they have, how they are drunk, etc. Nothing too serious though.
Should I bother pursuing either of them? Anyone have tips on finding potential FWB outside of online sites, mutual friends safe,etc?
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Why do adults and teens view outer beauty as super important, inspiring, and as one of the best qualities a person can have?
Just look at people who have no real character such as Kim K., Beyonce, etc. and lots of people want to just look at them constantly. ALl cause of their beauty.
Kids (about under age 10) don't value it as much. They like other things... they tend to like people who make them laugh/have some inner quality they like, or they tend to like people who they personally know... such as a friend their age.
I tend to think we should only value things in others that someone of any age can appreciate.
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I think my wife is cheating on me, but the problem is I have no concrete proof of it yet. I haven't found the smoking gun.
The problem is she has such a good alibi for everything. She's a Pharmacy student. I'm so fucking sick of hearing that because it's an excuse for everything. Even if it doesn't add up. But she is so involved with all this stuff that there are just so many built in excuses.
We use to have sex at least once a day, essentially as often as I could give it to her because she has a much higher sex drive. That fell off all of a sudden. But it didn't fall off until well after she started at Touro.
She has always been a chatterbox about herself and everything she does, but that's fallen off. Whenever I ask her about stuff she turns it around on me to ask me about things. Like she is changing the subject all the time.
She's putting in all these odd hours for school. Oh and also "Goes to the gym" a lot more often, and she supposedly showers there and before she didn't use to. I mean she has always gone to the gym, but she is supposedly hitting it hard now, and I hate to be a dick, but I don't see it.
Also she put a pin# on her cell phone recently, and doesn't leave it sitting around anymore like she used to. It didn't used to be there. I even saw her take it into the bathroom once when she was taking a shower.
Does she think I wouldn't notice stuff like this? I just don't know what to do because I have nothing direct, but everything points to something funny is going on. I don't know where to go from here though.
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>Drinking, staying at this girls place, laying in bed exchanging questions
>"When did you figure out you were into me?"
>"Yeah, I think it was about the same for me."
>I ask "Are you just trying to play with me?"
>"No, I've been played with, and I wouldn't do that to another person, you're a good guy."
>Find out she has a piece of her ex's clothing that she keeps, tells me not to ruin it
I've been getting a lot of mixed signals from this girl. I really like her, but I don't know where either of us are going with this... Any thoughts or input?
First anniversary and junk.
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First anniversary with my sweetheart is comming up. I've never had one of these before, so I don't want to over due it or not do enough. So far I have a jar filled with 100 short notes about what I love about him in a mixed CD. It doesn't feel like enough though!
>inb4 sex and blowjobs
He always gets those.
Also, neither one of us are usually the sentimenal type. With him though, I am, so I just happen to remember the day we became a couple. I'm almost positive he doesn't though. Do you think he'll be mad if I just surprise him with all this on the day? I kinda want to surprise him, but I don't know how he would react.