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So my girlfriend and I have been together for 4 years and we're planning on getting married soon. Everything's perfect, but she just told me that she hates my last name and I don't really like hers either
If I force mine on her, she will get sad and hate it every day
I can't take hers either, everyone's been calling me by it since I can remember, I would feel as if I would no longer exist
And one day, if we have kids, I simply can't love and treat them as my own if we don't have the same name
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We broke up because we loved each other too much, it feels like. I had been through months of depression living with my mom, and she suggested I join the military to pay for school and get my life back on the road. Things were going to be perfect, I was almost back in school, I'd have a steadier job, everything would be improving which would hugely improve my mood. We're first loves who met online, and about to be in the same town for the first time. She broke it off a month before training ended because she felt so sick, so smothered by my depressive self. I was going through months of pure hell, and right when it was about to be over, she just couldn't take it anymore. She wanted us to see other people. God, this was months ago. And just today I woke up at 5 and can't fall back asleep. It feels so wrong to me, trying to love anyone else. It was sometime roughly a month or two ago she texted me saying she felt so lost without me and wanted me back. At that time I had several girls I was attracted in/chasing. I turned her down because, and this sounds like a pretty stupid reason, but because I wanted polyamory. The pain I felt from wanting one person who didn't want me was too much to bear. Of course, she being more religious, turned that offer down on a dime. Then after that, lost my virginity, felt HORRIBLE about it, honestly sex has given me some of the worst feelings of my life since she left. And then I came crawling back to her. Problem? She found an awesome new boy. I'm happy for her, but now what the fuck do I do? I feel so humiliated, so hurt, so much like I missed out. I fucking hate it. She's a wonderful person and friend and thinking about it, I don't want to want her back, but I still just can't get over us! We were so close! I almost had her! She had lost faith in me right before it was going to get well.
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I need help before I do something really stupid.
>have underage gf (16)
>she was bullied when she was younger
>After puberty she had the Longbottom effect and is now considered one of the prettiest girls in the general peer group
>The newfound attention from being attractive turned her into an attention whore
>After about 8 months of dating she became craving more attention and started dressing more and more provocatively, and talking to every guy who flirts with her
>Tell her to stop
>She continues, thinking she's doing nothing wrong
>She lives in a bad neighborhood
>She takes the bus home
>At the bus stop, she's attracted the attention of some huge black dudes (Like 6'4 and 19 years old)
>One in particular named peter
>One day she tells me that on a rainy day, this guy felt her up, telling me how nice it felt, etc
>Her excuse was that it was cold and he was warming her up
>1 month later
>After weeks of me begging her to get rid of this guy, she tells me that they're just friends and nothing's happening.
>She also says that if she told him to get lost, that would only make things worse because he knows where she lives and would get angry or something
>I tell her to tell her mother or the police, but she refuses.
>4 days ago
>She dresses extra provocative
>What are you doing.jpg?
>OMG I'M EXPRESSING MYSELF! LOOKING GOOD MEANS A LOT TO ME!
>She calls me that night
>Peter talked to her at the bus stop again
>He walks her to grocery shop
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Can anyone honestly tell me why women seem to get all squirrelly around the holidays and start acting like fucking saddlesores? Also how do you deal with it?
So I've been with my girlfriend with almost six months now I think. No problems so far. Then the Holidays roll around...
So get this. She has a small place, lives with two roommates, and I have a pretty decent sized house. She wants to get a Christmas tree for MY house, and not only that she has this Monstrous 9 foot Noble Fir already picked out. What the fuck man? Oh and she wants me to buy it if course, because she can't afford that. So half seriously I asked her if she planned to come over every evening to clean it up and water it, and I really wished I hadn't because she said of course she would.
And then last night, we were just hanging out watching some stuff from my Plex, when she asked me if I would build a fire. Are you fucking joking? A fire? When it was already nearly 26 C in the house because I turned the heat up earlier? She then tried to say it would be romantic, but I told her I'm not building a fire just so we can have sex by the fireplace when it's already 26 C in the house. She's lost the plot on that one.
And she's also taken to wearing around all these stupid colorful sweaters because she thinks you have to do that during Christmas. If they were so great why didn't she wear them earlier during cold days during the year?
It's all just driving me bonkers. She can tell I think that I'm not liking some of these things, and has toned it down, but the Holidays has really brought out this negative side to her that annoys me. Not looking forward to it as we get closer and closer to Christmas.
How do you blokes cope when your GFs go wonky around the Holidays?
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Do you keep losing things like gym cards, buss cards (we have that in my country. special cards that you charge with money / that are from schools so that you can go free 5 days a week), or keys?
Why do you lose them? Because I keep on failing with that. I am very sick of this shit since in 2-3 weeks I've lost my gym card, keychain (with key to house, key to my bike and keys to .. something else if I remember correctly(I live in a house with my parents though so they gave me a copy))
Any tips for how to not lose them? I know this might seem retarded but C'est la Vie, I'll see how well recieved this will be.
One leg shorter than other?
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For the past few months i've had some suspicions that my left leg is shorter than my right. Not very much shorter, maybe half an inch max. Anyway last night it got me thinking, maybe this is the solution to a lot of the problems i've had in life. When i wore my shoe on my left foot and walked around like that I felt like all of a sudden, my gait was so much straighter. I looked at myself in the mirror and i looked taller, more confident, and just better overall. Is it possible that when girls see a guy with a shorter leg they subconsciously think he must not be a good mate or something. Maybe wearing a heel lift will make me better with people and in social situations. Maybe this is why i've never been good at sports despite a naturally lean, muscular body.
Anyone have any experiences like this? This is the first time i've posted here but i feel as if it was a powerful realization
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Dear /adv/, it's gonna be a fairly long one, but I'll try and be as brief as possible.
Got out of a two year relationship just over a month ago - felt depressed as fuck about it at the time, but I was the one who put the bullet in it - we were never going to work, and if I am completely honest, I don't think I was always hugely attracted to her.
Fast forward like a month later - one of my best friend's housemates. We all get a bit drunk, I end up upstairs lying in a bed because I am tired as fuck. She gets in, starts holding me and before I know it, we're making out.
It turns out she's like me for about a month or more - apparently it was obvious to everybody but me. Now she is attractive as all hell - I thought that when I first met her (a year or so ago, but was still with my ex). I never ever thought I'd be her type, but for whatever reason she's decided she likes me. Now, we've ended up hooking up on a fairly regular basis (have stayed the night every time but haven't actually slept with her). We've been on one date and she said it was 'one of the best first dates she's ever been on'. So things have been going well, and I am genuinely interested in seeing if a relationship could come from this.
Last night, party at their place again, we get drunk and rush off to bed. Mid manic makeout session she says she's drunk enough to say that if this is just me rebounding, and it ends, she and my mate (her housemate mentioned earlier) want me to be able to come round still and for it not to be awkward. Being drunk I tell her the truth - that I like her, that I don't want her to say that, and that I don't want her as a rebound. I didn't say I want a relationship or anything but I agree that we should slow things down (we've already done oral and shit - which has been amazing, but I regret). We have a date scheduled for next Sunday, and I won't be seeing her all week (should be for the best).