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Why am I so attracted to my cousin? It's driving me crazy! We're both in our early to mid 20s and we're both pretty attractive... I just can't get him out of my head. He's currently single but he messes around a lot and I'm actually engaged. There's something about him that I just desire, something I can't control and he makes me feel emotions that I don't feel with anyone else.
Admittedly, we used to mess around when we were younger, in high school. I'm a year older than him and I felt like I was the aggressor, I would always be physical with him and I made the first move... I remember sleeping over with him and making him sleep with me, I started grinding onto him and asking for massages and then he started to like me in *that* way. I gave him his first kiss when he was younger, I was on top of him and gave him a quick peck on the lips. Our relation started to grow stronger as soon as we both got into college, from mindless, animalistic dry humping into making out, feeling each other up, breast massaging, breast fondling and eventually licking/sucking my breasts and then into fingering/oral sex and then foot fetish stuff. It peaked during my uncle's wedding when we rented a beach house in Cali and I got him smashed and had sex with him while our younger sisters/cousins were sleeping in the same room. After that our relationship matured into a regular cousin relationship and we've been friendly ever since, without the relationship we had before. We both moved on, I got engaged and he started playing with other girls.
Still, every time I go onto his facebook or whenever I'm with him, I can't forget about the stuff we did and my body aches for him. Although I do care for my fiance, my body desires my cousin, I want him more than anyone and the stuff we did together is ingrained into my brain and I want to relive all those moments with my cousin again... What do I do?
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What is the likelihood of getting a girl pregnant by barebacking it but still using the pull out method before you come? I am really naive when it comes to sex, I could blame my parents or my school for not providing me with enough information on what actually happens during sex but I admit in the end it comes down to me know whats really happening. So, /adv/, whats the efficacy rate of the 'ole coitus interruptus? According to the planned parenthood site it says something like:
Of every 100 women whose partners use withdrawal, 4 will become pregnant each year if they always do it correctly.
Of every 100 women whose partners use withdrawal, 27 will become pregnant each year if they don't always do it correctly.
Whats the difference between "doing it correctly" vs "not doing it correctly"?
>pic semi related; what I know I should be using
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Hey /adv/ I posted this a while ago, but I need some more advice. Basically, im pretty smart and I survived high school doing pretty much no work and earning a mediocre gpa (circa 3.7) on a 4 point scale. This was due to my depression which made it really difficult for me to apply myself. Recently I have made progress with my depression realized how much more I want to succeed, and I am really hating myself right now for not putting any effort what so ever into high school and for not earning an awesome GPA, or getting more involved. As things are right now, I can probably only attend a mediocre college (Villanova or Bucknell tier). But I know that I am just as smart as kids attending awesome schools like Notre Dame or UChicago. I would love to go to these schools, and I know that If I go to just mediocre schools I will never be satisfied with myself and It will always be in the back of my mind. Im going to do my best to get accepted into these schools this fall, but if not I plan on attending a mediocre school, earning a stellar GPA freshmen year and then attempting to transfer. Does anybody have experience transferring colleges? How difficult is it socially? Is this a reasonable or practical plan?
Also college essay tips?
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Alright /adv/ I'm looking for some help with a girl situation... So basically I just started to talk with this girl who I've known for a while, but I have never really been good friends with. Anyways, we hit it off pretty well and it ended up with her asking me to exchange phone numbers with her. So I want to assume that this girl likes me to some degree. Now the problem I usually have with girls is that I'm always too slow, I never really take initiative, I kind of just dragged myself down into the friend zone because I would wait for them to make a move (stupid, I know).
But this time, I don't want that to be the case. So I'm planning to ask her out to lunch on Friday just as a casual thing were we both pay for our stuff, not a date or anything. But what I want to do after that is see if she wants to do something on the weekend like see a movie or something. Now, since I just started talking to her a lot this week, I don't want to rush things too much. So my question to you all is if I should bring up plans for the weekend this week or if I should hold off on them until the next. On one hand, I want to take initiative on this, but I don't want to come off as weird by taking too much initiative. Any thoughts on this?
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so im pretty much done with liking this girl and considwering if she likes me but fuck, an earlier thread today got me curious on how she handled this situation. Im gonna post a few month old convo, im in green text. Basically its a girl with a bf, who says me being a virgin tempts her. i talked to her roomie and said she only makes me feel like she likes me for attention, and so i confronted the girl about it. so this is me talkign with the girl, after the roomie talked to her about the convo. lol i hope that made sense.
aw she says that you want me to admit that im leading you on for attention
>she told me thats what you were doing, so i wanted you to say if its true or not.
what do you think im doing
>i dont think about it
well what are your thoughts?
>wouldnt know truth if i made up my mind so whats the point just wanted to hear it from you
ah =] im not going to answer yet. i dont know if i have much of a reason plus you dont think about it =P
>do you think doing it would be a bad thing. if i agreed with her?
so youre asking if i think its bad to do something like this for attention? what am i doing? leading you on? im trying to clarify what you think
>if you were leading someone on for attention, would it be a bad thing or would you think its not something to care about
It depends. w3hat would you say if i was doing it for attention?
>i would ask you to find someone else for that, dont lie to me
how is it lying?
>cuz yesterday i was like either you resist temptation well or i dont tempt you, and you said you do. so that was a lie if you only say that stuff for attention
oh i dont say it for attention xD
>why couldnt you tell me that 10 minutes ago lmao
you didnt fucking ask that. you didnt ask about the temptation thing.
i ended the convo here. do u think shes avoiding the question? do u believe her?