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Need some advice with my foreign name. I've moved to NYC recently and want to start meeting people.
Problem is some people are unsure how to address me. I am russian born- ???????(Evgeny), commonly abbreviated as ???? by all my friends. Now I like the abbreviation, and tried that out at first but that just made them think that it sounds like Jenny, and people have often told me that Eugene just doesn't seem like the type of person I am. Right now some girls have called me Jay, Gene and very few called me by my last name, which is a bit complicated too. I'm not sure how to settle this since I'm a bit in a culture shock. If it's any help I look similar to pic related.
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[Part 1] I'm unhappy with who I am. I just can't seem to settle on a personality that I want to emulate. Your response to this might be "Don't emulate anyone! Be yourself!" but that's just it - I don't really have a personality. I'm an entirely blank slate. I have no set personality. I look in a mirror and I just see void staring back. I am not trying to be cliché. I do not mean 'abyss', I mean void. Nothingness.
When I'm gaming, I flame and get angry. After I get off the PC, I'm a reasonable person again. I then regret flaming people and try to contact them to apologise for my behavior. At the time, it seems so right to vent my frustration towards them. My girlfriend also notices how little I actually want to flame people, but do it anyway for nothing other than pride.
Ontop of this, I love determination as a theme. It is my personal belief that determination is one of the most important traits you can possibly nurture in life. Why then do I insist on giving up on everything so quickly? I'm learning another language at the moment, and a 30 minute session of 'learning' is 'rewarded' by a 2 hour long session of gaming. It's so imbalanced.
To add to this, I recently went to my works-do which was good. I was happy up until the point where everyone was drunk and when going to get my next drink, I was commanded to "mingle!" by a very drunk and annoyed coworker. If I was his Manager, he wouldn't try to command me to 'mingle!'. I dislike alcohol. I'll happily drink it to loosen the bolts a bit, but when people start saying "I'll give you £20 if you down four shots of vodka", I immediately begin to lose interest. I don't care if it's the "right thing to do" or if "i'll be cool if I do it", I'm not going to do something that I don't want to where I have a choice. It's that simple. Fortunately, that night my Manager (who didn't drink as he was driving) gave me a lift home so thank fuck for that.
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Hello, /adv/. Wall of text mode activate.
I just want an open ear to hear my story and maybe a few kind words to go with it. Hopefully some 3rd party voices to shed some light on my predicament.
Recently I was rejected. Boo hoo, it happens to everyone. Understandably I feel like shit, however, it's a bit different this time. The person who I asked out pretty much made me realize that I'm gay (or at least not exactly straight), and I also feel somewhat lead on. I'm in an unfortunately satirical position because my best friend, the person who I would cry to about being rejected, is the person who rejected me in the first place. That's why I'm here right now.
Essentially, a few months back I accidentally got him to admit that he had a crush on me. I was elated because it was mutual. However, I didn't tell him because, well, I was nervous. About one month later, I made a joke to him that I was going "straight" and he seemed to be devastated (of course, I consoled him and assured him that wasn't the case.). Fast forward to today. I finally mustered up the courage to tell him my feelings but this time it was my turn to be destroyed when he told me that he liked me, "Just not like that".
I'm just really confused right now. I hold absolutely nothing against him and would much rather stay best friends than lose him completely. I didn't do anything to sour our relationship (other than telling him my feelings) in the months leading up to now. I can't/don't want to bring it up with him because I promised I wouldn't mention it again. I just want to know what happened/how to make sense of this situation before it leaves me heartbroken and without closure. Did he just move on?
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Okay so I'm a drug addict, and am dopesick on Christmas day. All I want is to be lively, enthusiastic, and make my family laugh and happy, but to do that it means getting high again and I don't want to regress and start over on my withdrawals, or end up fucked in some other way. How should I play this out?
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My boyfriend wants to see my boobs but they're too ugly outside of a bra, he keeps on trying to and I keep pulling his hands away, he gets really pissed off and says I don't trust him, but I do, I just can't bear the idea that they'll be a disappointment to him
No, showing him isn't an option
Should I just break up with him?
Or should I suggest an open relationship so he can get his boobie fix elsewhere
I love him
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Im a 19 year old virgin
I have found a 17 year old non-virgin that wants to dress up like a maid for me and jump my bones.
I am over the moon
I havent told her I'm a virgin, I know not to do that
When I told her I'm "110% gentleman" after she said she liked me being "cute and gentleman like", she asked me if I was a gentleman in bed.
I told her I'm strong believer in "ladies first, finishing wise" and she said she likes the way I do things.
So now, she doesnt think I'm a virgin.
How do I get around this? Would it be at all possible, at all, to fuck her without outting myself?
She hasn't had sex in 9 months, which is a plus
But I have barely any kissing experience. I have had exactly one open mouth kiss, and that was a couple months ago.
What do? Get alcohol involved?
Focus on foreplay?
My first time is gonna be good for me, no matter what. I just want it to be good for her so she doesnt realize that I was bullshitting.