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>I believe people are generally honest >Strongly agree >Somewhat agree >Don't know >Somewhat disagree >Strongly disagree I've seen this question on many pre-employment questionnaires. What's the right answer?
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That feel when my grandfather and father are man slags that cheated, and loads of sex in their youth. My grandfather was a known philanderer in my town. I feel like I am a shame to them because I'm turning 25 this year, and I'm still a virgin. I have it in my genes to be a promiscuous, and I'm fairly attractive. How does one become a philanderer?

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Any bartenders here? Looking for some tips. How to get in. How to start. And if bartending school is worth it? Note: this is in Los Angeles
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So I've finally decided what I want to study, which is philosophy (lol). But my parents will only let me if I do a dual degree. What has a better chance of getting me a job? Philosophy/psychology Philosophy/ecology Or Philosophy/zoology?
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I have large bouts of motivation some days and then none whatsoever other days. How do I stay motivated at this level? I feel if I stayed this motivated at all times then I could achieve great things, but it just doesn't last.
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I'm about to fuck a girl for the first time in a week, what should I do and not do? Any advice is appreciated. it's with my gf btw, we already made out / got naked / I fingered her last friday, but stopped because no condom. So I'm sure next time we will have sex
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How do I get charisma? Is it something you're born with, or something you can get from a book? Because I have zero charisma and I'm a complete social outcast.
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So how can I kick my ass into gear and work towards my future instead of sitting around and hoping that it comes to me? I've never been very disciplined (which I don't blame on my parents, but it didn't help that they allowed me to grow up spoiled, without chores or responsibilities) and it's really haunting me. I watch as some of my friends go on to do things they enjoy and do them with passion; wood-working, painting, motorbike mechanics, instruments, etc. But here I am and I can't even get into my own hobbies or personal projects I have considered the possibility that I'm bipolar (my sister is), but when I went to a psychologist because I was depressed he didn't mention anything of the sort. But I do find myself randomly happy to the point of tears sometimes, smiling and laughing at nothing and feeling like I could do anything. And then other times just completely hollow and don't do anything. Seems like all I do these days is drink with my friends at night and sleep in late. Then when I do finally wake up, I sit around and waste the day watching videos and browsing the internet instead of working on my projects (which include a story I'd like to write as well as a few programs I've been coding for a while). Beyond that I'd like to do more as well. On a particularly bad day a few weeks ago I actually sat down and wrote out what all my life goals are. And I realized that I need to work towards them, but I don't know how. Fear of failure and a bit of perfectionism create a huge block on those fronts. I always get really down during the winter, when I can't go out and bike and run or anything fun like that. Any helpful ideas? I feel like a failure and I want to turn it around.
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I've had sex with most of my female friends. Is this normal behavior /adv/? There's no awkwardness or regrets between any of us, even though 90% of the time its been a drunken thing. I guess we are a pretty open-minded bunch too now I think about it. I think I do it because I don't want a gf right now and I don't like having one night stands with strangers. At least if I have sex with a friend its with someone I know and respect. Does anyone else do this? Sometimes I wonder if its wrong of me to do this. I wouldn't expect its the social norm.
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Sooo... I just found out my boyfriend of 2 years has been living with his ex-girlfriend for the past 6 months. We have had a long distance relationship for the past year and I have not once visited him despite my efforts. Now, for obvious reasons, I realise why he would never let me come down. He never told her that he had a new girlfriend but as far as I'm aware they have separate rooms and nothing has happened between them. He has been looking to buy a house for months and from my understanding, them moving in together was a convenience thing until he could buy a house. After I found out, he spoke to her and she apparently lost her shit. If there was nothing going on between them, I don't understand why she would have. I also told him that I was going to message her over facebook and he said he was okay with that but she then blocked me. He is not staying in the house any more... he is sleeping in the duplex next door to him as his friend lives there apparently... He is moving out as soon as possible and basically asked me if I would move in with him. I am very confused and I know I should dump his arse but I can't help but still be in love with him and not want to.
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Well, this may sound stupid, but I want some opinions, not an advice itself. I'm friend of a girl for some time. We talk about everything you could imagine, even her sex life. This is not a question about being friend-zoned, which I most certainly am, but its a little different. Just be a little patient and I'll try to write the story (keep in mind that English is not my first language, ok?) Well, she was in a relationship with a guy. All goes well, until late October, when she just closes her FB account. Since we talk often and she is one of those persons who updates FB many times, I noticed her absence. When she opened her account again, there was no relationship information. Ok, I did not asked about. I figured it was some bad breakup and a leaved as it was. Some time later, we are chatting on FB, as always, and she tells me that she is single (remember that!). I said I figured that out since she was absent from FB, which was uncommon for her. And jokingly I said "So there is a opening for the job of being your boyfriend? I think I should apply then hahaha" and she replied "If you think you can handle me hahaha". I was a little shocked at first, since I do have some feelings for her, but I have no illusions. She would never be with me. I'm ok with that for most of the time.Well, then back at our chat, we flirt a little, nothing serious. A week from that day, we are chatting as usual, and she drop THE question: "Do you like me?". That time I was really shocked, but since I have no illusions about us, I just was evasive and said there's no fellings besides friendship and she should not be worried. [continue...]
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Hi /adv/ so last night I had a get together with some friends. It was a fun night. Anyway, afterwards 3 of us left and met up with a female friend of one of my friends(let's call friend 1) whom I've never met before. We were all smashed and I introduced myself by first name only. Anyway, my friend and I only hung around for 5 minutes because we didn't want to cock block friend 1 who is personal friends with the girl and would probably want to try to nail her. Well as we're leaving this chick expressed disappointment that we were getting out of there. So this morning I surprisingly remembered her name and looked her up on facebook. I was pretty keen on adding her but I just didn't for a reason. I really have no idea what the girl is like. I'm a fairly social person but my facebook profile is barren. I have 25 friends, 0 pictures (I don't like people being able to download pictures of me and me not having any control over it), many privacy settings, etc. If she's the type of girl that takes a look at someones facebook profile and classifies them as a loser then I will have no chance at bending her over and showing her the 50 states with my dick. However, there is something. She is a volunteer at this homeless shelter/soup kitchen type of place here in Seattle. I know the homeless shelter well and actually used to volunteer there quite a bit when I was in middle school. But I have not been there in 7 years. Anyway, I've been considering maybe going back and becoming a regular volunteer and maybe at some point bump into this girl and get to know her more. Or should I stop being a faggot and take my chances which are extremely slim on facebook? She probably wouldn't even know who the fuck I am because I have no picture and she doesn't know my last name. So the conversation would be something like "Hey" "Hi" "Umm who are you???" "I am faggot, we met briefly last night when you were wearing that hot, tight, purple, mini skirt."
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Hey guys, here's my situation: I just got my own first dildo (19/male) and I don't know what board I can go to and start a thread asking anons telling me what i should do with it.I have a camera, will do pics, maybe post vids somewhere. I just got it last night. this morning i woke up, half asleep and sucked and fucked the shit out of it for an hour now, I want to do it for 4chan//what board can I do this on?
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Does it ever go away /adv/? I'm just tired of the same shit, and I don't want to enter 2014 like this. My first love ended things with me in september and ever since then, there's been ups and downs, but this underyling feeling of emptiness, and being lost that refuses to go away. I've been trying. Yes I sort of got over it. I've focused on myself, and tried to open many other pursuits, while I am limited as i'm still in my last year of highschool (which gives me hope this will go away) And I realized she wasn't even that much, I just created it in my head. I've tried talking to other girls, fucked this other one, although it didn't really mean anything to me. These feelings of emptiness and sadness won't go away, i'm hoping one thing can remedy it. Love, that if i'm patient enough and keep trying, i'll find love one day and excitement that'll make this all go away Anyone else go through this? Any advice?
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What the hell is it when people tell you shit that is sort of none-of-your-business, or really private stuff that has no purpose. Example: There's this girl and she told me she was depressed a while back. I understand that. But telling me about how she was suicidal (and exactly how she would go), and stuff like that, had me stumped. I mean, what am I supposed to do with that information? What does she want? Example: There's this guy who tells everyone that he's bi. A lot. What am I supposed to make of it? A part of me thinks its just attention grabbing. But there has to be a different explanation for this kind of stuff. Some people just seem to want to tell everyone about themselves. Why?
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>be female >be bisexual >be in three year relationship with a man >i am bisexual, but i stay monogamous in relationships. No matter the gender of someone, I won't cheat on my boyfriend. >have friend, met online about two years ago, have not met in real life even though we live close >but we talk on the phone and are really close >friend is also bisexual female >friend is also in a relationship with a man >her boyfriend allows her to hook up with females >she's hit on me before but I kinda just ignored it, she knows I am faithful to boyfriend >she's on a break with her boyfriend >she's coming on to me very strongly through texts and messages >says she masturbates to me, says she'd hook up with me I am so put off by it. She's really pretty, but I mean, even though I am sexually attracted to females, I am usually not attracted to my close female friends. I don't want to hurt her because she is my friend, but I have just been playing along with the messages because I don't know how to let her down without taking a knife to our friendship Now I feel guilty too. I told my boyfriend about it. It doesn't seem to bother him at all. He said he thinks it's pretty hot that girls want me. But I guess I just don't feel like a good girlfriend. I mean, if I had a conversation with a guy about fantasizing and masturbating to me, that'd practically be cheating. So, how do I get her to stop hitting on me without ruining our friendship?
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I don't really love anyone. Or at least I don't feel like I do. Every person around me is more or less undistinguished emotionally even though I know who they are cognitively. I will know, for instance, that this person is A and that this person is B and this one is C, I know they're different, but this difference does not entail any kind of emotional differentiation or, if so, very little. I will not nor did I ever, it seems, have the following thought : "Oh it's M, I really like M and I wonder what's going on with him / her and he's so cool and we should hang out and I'm interested" etc. I will see this person, realize who they are and maybe remember something factual about them, but I will not be drawn to them, not be interested in them. I will only consider how much of a danger this person is to me ("will she laugh at me, does this person like me, is it important for me to be liked by this person") but there will be no true considration for them as human. I may, for instance, want to be friend with someone, not because I appreciate them, but because I perceive that they're popular, that they have social value. This could be "fine" were I a teenager but I'm fucking 25. I also feel like I have a very limited range of emotions and that it is related somehow. I'm kind of shame prone. I often feel anxiety around other. My conversation is uninspired and uninspiring. Laughing can be hard (too much letting go). It's somewhat hard to ask for advice when it come to personality defect but has anybody been in a similar situation? Do you know someone like this?
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Should I go to a party tonight or stay home watch a movie & Skype with a porn star?
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Has anyone here ever changed their name and cut off all ties to family? If so, how did it go. Were there any repercussions?
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my sister was arguing with her friend earlier. she was generally right about most things said but her friend wouldn't stop refuting her points and then things got emotional. my sister was crying, and her friend was a stupid cunt about it, raising her voice and shit. what should i do to get back my sister's friend? or how should i explain to her that she was over reacting?






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