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/adv/, I can't stop crying. The boy I have been with for two years recently told me he has feelings for another girl. A few days later, he explained that she wasn't interested after all, and we carried on as normal, not mentioning her, being sweet and romantic. This evening, he has said she's going to his house tomorrow and that he may like her "more than me" despite her stringing him along and our past two year long relationship.
We have never been "official", but always committed, and I feel betrayed and used. Please help me, what should I do?
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alright here's the deal /adv/:
>be 21m, full-time student, eurofag
>never had a gf, virgin
>introvert, but not neckbeardy
>tall, in ok shape, try to dress well
>got rl hobbies (guitar, basketball)
>assertive, calm, a confident leader and public speaker (airforce sgt) on the outside
>insecure, sensitive and often melancholic on the inside
I'm lonely. I'd like someone with whom I can share my inner demons. A girl to warm my bed on a dark winter night. Someone I can love on a physical just as well as on an emotional level.
I can deal with that empty spot by my side - usually. I certainly am bitter sometimes and wallow in self-pity. But confident, reasonable me knows I'm still a very privileged human being who's got a lot going for himself, so I normally snap out of in soon enough. I don't genuinely like to go out and I have no idea how I'd make my intentions clear to women anyway, so I usually just tell myself not to be a little bitch, mentally slap myself and carry on with my life.
Now for the problem:
Lately, I've been having trouble being around my best friend and roommate when he's with his gf (or even just talking to her on the phone). Insecure me has started to quietly resent him for what he has and I seem to be unable to get. I don't want to feel this way, but I can't help it.
Neckbeard me has also become unable to just enjoy a girl's company. I've started to develop unreasonable crushes on old friends just as well as new acquaintances. I always imagine how it would be like to be with any given attractive girl I spend time with - even if I realistically wouldn't even want a relationship with her.
I can't even really watch porn any more - I lose my boner once I start to think about how these girls prefer to have sex with old dudes for money than with me.
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How are you today /adv/? I'm watching a movie and feeling like helping here a bit. If you have any problem or need someone to talk to I will be available for the next hour or so, so feel free to ask anything you want.
I don't have definitive answer to everything, I can only share my opinion on your matter. Nonetheless, if you don't feel like opening a thread or ask for advice on your problem you will hardly get help. Thus feel free to ask here, and if others want to help and give their opinion they are welcome to do so, I endorse it.
Ask me anything.
NEET and Shut-in advice thread (Version 27): Smoked Troll on Toast edition
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Ten writes the best openings ever, so I'm going to borrow a bit from him.
We've laughed together, cried together, and we've helped each other through real life problems. I hope we can continue to collaborate on projects together. I consider many of you my friends and I hope you feel the same way I do. We are a real community and if it were not for the work of everyone in this thread, none of this would still be here
I want to use this opening to thank everyone who's ever contributed to the thread, the doc, or the chat: we're stronger together than we are apart and we're all constantly contributing to making this community better. Thank you all for everything you do, even the trolls and bullies because you help us to be stronger too. All my love to all of you <3
As always, if you're feeling alone or just want to make some friends our IRC channel #NEETadv on the Rizon network is always open. We're here to help, listen, and maybe even have a laugh or two with you. So drop in and say "hi" some time.
I'd love to hear how other NEETs deal with life, and how we ended up here. Suggestions? Advice? Make some friends?
Carrying over from the old threads:
>Some conversation starters:
- What other boards do you browse?
- Hobbies and interests? Collections?
- Diagnoses both physical and psychological?
- Daily schedule? Sleep schedule/habits?
- Try the MMPI! Google: "Found an online version of the MMPI"
>Our Ongoing Google Doc!
>Steam Group! We has one! Come Join!
>The IRC Channel On the Rizon Network, channel: #NEETadv
If you're really nervous about joining the channel, send me a /msg or /query on IRC, I go by cpucake_13.
My recommended IRC client is mIRC as the link above can be unstable.
willing to be poor to work minimally
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first of all unless youre around 21 and above try not to bother with this thread other than asking me questions and asking other older posters with more life expeirence questions. don't take this personal, when i was 20 and below i didn't have shit to say either. with that out of the way,
i quit college in like 2007 after doubting my desire to be in my chosen field (computer science aka no idea but i'm a geek in my private life) and it taking too much studying than i have the inclination to put in. i have to work hard to pass tough math and programming courses and though i got about to junior year with a good gpa it was suffering and i'm not built for that and im ok with that and have no plans to go back to college.
i live in the basement, parents have sympathy for me as i live a hikki-like existence of vegitation and have been for 7 years now with all the social stigma associated. my dad retired this december so he's in the house all the time and i'm here too obviously and there's this tense energy that i want to avoid so this is kickstarting me out of the comfort zone. however though i have experienced so little in my life during the past 10 years, rarely leaving the house, introspection and time has lead me to discover plenty about myself and have an idea of who i am what i want to do now that i accept that.
i live in a dense area and want to move to a small town and live a marginal, very slow life. don't want kids, don't want a GF. i lived without internet, cell phone, or tv service for 6 months 4 years ago so i know what it's like. the apartment was near a highway and shopping center and the noise really irritated me so i want to go somewhere small, even poor, that's very quiet and sparsely populated. i don't like to work so my main goal is to have a job that i only have to work a maximum of 4 days a week
*i have a car sitting in the driveway cause the battery died, haven't gotten it registered, parents will help fix it if im out for a job
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I have the choice between two universities in England, Warwick and Nottingham, and I don't know which one to go to.
Warwick is better academically and requires A*A*A and a grade 2 or grade 1 in STEP to get into, the course offered is extremely competitive. They're like fourth best in the country for Maths. (I'm also a bit afraid I won't get these grades, I'm more of an A*AA student.) But yeah, fucking top university, and the city is pretty nice.
However, Nottingham is also pretty awesome. It only requires A*AA/AAA to get into, but the campus is really green and pretty and my boyfriend goes there, and, well I know a LOT of people follow along with the whole "DON'T LET ANY LOVE INTEREST INFLUENCE YOUR FUTURE", but I only really feel.. happy when I'm close to him. We've been together for a couple of years and it'd be lovely to not have to deal with a possible 5/6-year long distance relationship, since we both want PhDs.
What do I do? Do I focus on being happy throughout university or on the quality of the degree I get? Nottingham apparently has the best employability rate in the country, and it's still like, top fifteen. But.. I don't know. I'm really fucking confused. Halp.
Quite obviously, the picture is not related. But it makes me feel less anxious about the situation. So it's going there.