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Anonymous 2013-01-19 21:48:07 No.11497638

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Alright /adv/, I'm going to be specific here. I don't need advice on how to talk to girls, I don't need to be told where to go look in public. Please understand my circumstances before you give advice to that effect.

I am a complete recluse. I leave the house for work and food, and that's it. Otherwise, everything sets off some degree of anxiety (even that does) and for the near future, I can't get out of this town. There's nothing to do in this town, no where I'd want to hang out to begin with, and if there was, I'd have panic attacks. What's more, I'm dirt poor, I rarely have any extra cash to take someone out somewhere.

I've had plenty of girlfriends in the past, but quite honestly, 90% of them started out online, which has lead to a lot of dissatisfying long-distance relationships where we see eachother a couple times a year, and the rest of the time it's all skyping. This depresses the hell out of me.

Craigslist is requiring a phone number from me, and all the ads already there are fake. I'm not paying for something like AFF, OKCupid has absolute shit results for me, I tried another dating site with better local results, and I basically got no responses in my mailbox.

You know what would be ideal for me? Finding some way to contact a girl I could just go meet at her place, watch a movie or play a video game with, and then if everything clicks, maybe fool around. Even just cuddling would be acceptable.

What are the odds of me finding someone who would accept this arrangement? I was going to try to message every girl within 30 miles of me on POF, and see if I find someone.

Anonymous 2013-01-19 21:55:32 No.11497683

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Anonymous 2013-01-19 22:00:15 No.11497719

Anonymous 2013-01-19 22:01:20 No.11497733
I guess you didn't read the post?

Anonymous 2013-01-19 22:02:29 No.11497741
No I read it. Go outside.

Anonymous 2013-01-19 22:05:27 No.11497764
Social anxiety disorder, agoraphobia and obsessive compulsive disorder.
Schedule limits my activities to late night.
No where to go in this town anyway.
Like to be able to screen out crazies before flirting with someone.
No money.
Can't move from this area for the near future.

See, if you'd read the post, you'd know going outside wouldn't cut it.

Anonymous 2013-01-19 22:09:46 No.11497801

this guy is right, the solution is obvious, but your disorders, fears and whatnots are hindering you.


Anonymous 2013-01-19 22:14:29 No.11497828
You know your front door? Walk through it. Doesn't matter where you go, doesn't matter what you do. Walk outside. Then walk around. Say hi to random people you see. Have a goal of speaking to one random person a day does not matter who, all that matters is that they are different and you do not know them. Doesn't even matter if they blank you. All that matters is that you initiate the conversation.
Eventually this will overcome your anxiety and agoraphobia. OCD is not anything to worry about.

tl:dr, Outside.

Anonymous 2013-01-19 22:20:06 No.11497859
holy shit... chances of finding a girl that will have you over as a first date is almost zero.. unless she is crazy as fuck

like the other posters said get the fuck outside and get over your shit its the only way

noone wants to be with some dumbass who cant go out and do anything

Anonymous 2013-01-19 22:27:41 No.11497910
Fellow recluse here, OP. Don't listen to these idiots; they obviously have no idea what they're talking about.

If craigslist requires a phone number, just go to walmart at 3 AM and get a pay-as-you-go throwaway phone. Problem solved.

Also, as for the last thing you mentioned, everything sounds OK about that except your choice of website. Take it from a vet - POF is not a place where you find sane, well-adjusted women. Stay away. Stay far away.

Anonymous 2013-01-19 22:59:26 No.11498097
If not POF, then where?

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