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Anonymous 2013-01-19 17:46:16 No.11496640

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I just dont want to see my girlfriend as often as she wants to see me. I like her a lot, but I can easily go a week without seeing her, while she goes nuts after a day. She insists on calling me every night when we are not together.

I have lots of things going on, I like and must prioritize my hobbies and I must stay in touch with my friends, which leaves maybe three nights a week for my girlfriend.
Is this unreasonable? Is there any way I can make her understand this, without upsetting her? She has this insane power over me, whenever I pull away just a little bit she starts off by pointing out that she likes me more than her and that this is upsetting, before she goes into sad mode and just accepts everything I say which makes me feel like an awful guy. She is just extremely brittle.

Please help.


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Anonymous 2013-01-19 17:48:25 No.11496648
three times a week is plenty. Get her to accept that, so that it's not a battle every single time.

You'll learn that this is a pretty common issue

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Anonymous 2013-01-19 17:49:40 No.11496651
>>11496640
Most people would advise you to leave her as she seems to be very clingy and unstable. However, if you're committed to her, just tell her what you've told us. Maybe see her once or twice a week, dinner, staying at each other's houses etc.

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Anonymous 2013-01-19 17:51:51 No.11496658
>>11496640
Do stuff together, but not with each other. If you're too aspie to compromise, try dating someone more compatible.

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Anonymous 2013-01-19 17:58:41 No.11496682
>>11496269
wait, is this your girlfriend?

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Anonymous 2013-01-19 18:00:18 No.11496690
>>11496682
HA! I was just thinking the same thing

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Anonymous 2013-01-19 18:01:40 No.11496695
don't give in to her. be firm about it. every day is too much if you aren't living together. the odd message or two in a day is fine but if she wants a full blown hour+ conversation every day then that's just bordering on clingy. tell her you have to have balance in your life because if you don't then you're going to lose touch with those things that are important to you and you'll just end up resenting her and that'll end up with her not having you at all. if 3 times a week isn't enough for her then you're not the guy for her and it's that simple.

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Anonymous 2013-01-19 18:02:19 No.11496696
>>11496682
>>11496690
Haha, I hope not.

>>11496648
>>11496651
>>11496658
Thanks

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Anonymous 2013-01-19 18:05:28 No.11496699
>>11496640
you guys are just not compatible. Get over it and leave her. I think once a day is a great amount of time to be with your girlfriend. Thats how often my girl and I are together. Different strokes for different folks, let her find someone more compatible







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