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Anonymous 2013-01-19 17:48:21 No.11496647

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I'm going to dump my boyfriend the next time we speak. How do I make it as painless as humanly possible?


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Anonymous 2013-01-19 17:54:14 No.11496665
>>11496647
Tell him that you think you've both outgrown the relationship and that it would be in everyone's best interest if you saw other people and that he's more than welcome to use your pussy and mouth for the rest of the day, but after that you're through.

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Anonymous 2013-01-19 17:54:23 No.11496667
>Break-up
>Painless
Yeah, maybe for you. OP, just sit him down, maybe have some coffee or something, and tell him your relationship isn't working for you, and that you two should take a break. Be nice and sincere. Do not be a cunt.

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Anonymous 2013-01-19 17:55:15 No.11496670
>>11496647
Be honest, but not cruel. Don't lie about the reason, whatever it is. Don't back down in the face of his emotional promises or self-harm threats. Make it clear that being with someone who doesn't love you back is the worst thing in the world.

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Anonymous 2013-01-19 17:55:53 No.11496673
usually explaining the reasons helps to rebound faster

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Anonymous 2013-01-19 17:56:32 No.11496676
long distance?
Otherwise it should be done in person. The easiest way to do it is after a period of more and more infrequent contact. He'll expect it.

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Anonymous 2013-01-19 17:57:24 No.11496678
>>11496665
I don't think either of us have "outgrown" the relationship.

>>11496667
I don't want to take a break. I want to finish. And it won't be painless for me either, but at least I've planned it...

>>11496670
But I love him still. Otherwise, pretty solid advice.

>>11496673
But what if he doesn't accept the reason? Do I just tell him it's final.

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Anonymous 2013-01-19 17:58:00 No.11496681
>>11496676
Yes, but I've done that too, however unintentionally.

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Anonymous 2013-01-19 17:59:10 No.11496684
>>11496678
it does not matter if he does not immediately accepts. It will help him later

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Anonymous 2013-01-19 17:59:49 No.11496688
>>11496684
Okay, explain the reason. Thank you.

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Anonymous 2013-01-19 18:06:34 No.11496704
>>11496678
>still love him
>dump him
ITT : Gurl logic

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Anonymous 2013-01-19 18:08:28 No.11496707
>>11496678
So what is the reason?

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Anonymous 2013-01-19 18:10:30 No.11496713
>>11496704
>>11496707
Because we're long distance and every time I think about him it brings me to tears. Maybe I'm too clingy, I don't know, but I can't be in a relationship that makes me seriously unhappy, no matter how much I love him.

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Anonymous 2013-01-19 18:16:33 No.11496721
>>11496713

Just tell him you cant handle a long distance relationship.....stop trying to alter the outcome and just let him feel what he wants to feel about what you have to tell him, which i hope is the truth......

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Anonymous 2013-01-19 18:17:26 No.11496725
>>11496721
It will be the truth, but I was wondering if there were any certain phrases to avoid or anything like that...

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Anonymous 2013-01-19 18:18:16 No.11496728
>>11496713
Just tell him you can't deal with a long distance relation. Also DON'T FUCKING ASK STUPID SHIT LIKE "WE CAN STILL BE FRIEND, RIGHT?".

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Anonymous 2013-01-19 18:19:35 No.11496734
>>11496728
Rage less. I understand that if we're gonna be friends that we'll be friends regardless of me asking, but I think it'll be too painful for me to be friends with him, let alone from his point of view.

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Anonymous 2013-01-19 18:20:47 No.11496737
>>11496734
Just don't ask. It feels like you don't care, you just friendzoned him and moved on. That's how I felt.

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Anonymous 2013-01-19 18:21:55 No.11496741
>>11496737
I don't think you read my response.

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Anonymous 2013-01-19 18:22:52 No.11496746
>>11496741
Weren't you looking for phrases to avoid?
God damnit I hate talking with girls.

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Anonymous 2013-01-19 18:24:10 No.11496748
>>11496746
yea but now you're raging for no reason... whatever, have your fun.

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Anonymous 2013-01-19 18:25:18 No.11496752
No way to make it painless. No way to lessen the blow. I learned this the hard way recently when I broke up with my ex girlfriend.

It sounds like you love him but can't handle the distance. Just tell him that. Be as adult about it as you possibly can. Don't try to soften the blow, it'll just make it worse.

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Anonymous 2013-01-19 18:27:38 No.11496758
>>11496752
okay. I'll try.

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Anonymous 2013-01-19 18:44:34 No.11496813
>>11496704
haha so true.

I honestly believe that women do not know what "love" actually means.

Men do though.

so many idiot girls just don't get it.

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Anonymous 2013-01-19 19:02:17 No.11496885
Before my ex settled on long distance being the problem, her explanations for dumping me included jealousy over a mutual friend, my supposedly worthless and stagnant life, and a temporary alcohol-fueled manic state. Don't do any of that.

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Anonymous 2013-01-19 19:15:43 No.11496934
>>11496813
butt hurt
>women don't know what love is waaa
you're retarded beyond repair

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Anonymous 2013-01-19 19:20:07 No.11496960
>>11496665
This.

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Anonymous 2013-01-19 19:20:54 No.11496966
>>11496813
Women are incapable of love.







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