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Anonymous 2013-01-19 16:08:08 No.11496213

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Is there a non-creepy way to approach someone on Facebook?

I went to an anime movie showing a few weeks ago, which was notable for being the only showing in the area. Afterward I checked the Facebook page for the company that brought it over to post about it and I noticed a girl who had also posted saying that she enjoyed it. Normally I wouldn't have taken too much note except that her profile pic made it look like she was dressed as a character I like. I clicked to her profile and she was. Not only that but she is only a year younger than me and going by all of her 'likes' she seems to like similar things to what I like and lives in the same town as me. I felt like a creeper though and ended up closing the page but I keep thinking about this girl that I've never met. Advice?


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Anonymous 2013-01-19 17:17:16 No.11496518
>>11496213
How was madoka?

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Anonymous 2013-01-19 17:23:50 No.11496557
Friend req her and see what happens. Be sure to have those common interests as public.

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Anonymous 2013-01-19 18:28:36 No.11496762
there's a very, very fine line.
i'd text her the following:
"hey!
i saw on the event page that you also enjoyed *event*. *character she poses as* is one of my favorites in *show*, so i just had to add you :)
*random open question about her opinion on some animuh or other events or something random that happened at the event*"
then leave it at that. if she responds well, talk some more and don't hesitate to _casually_ ask her out to coffee in a "i enjoy talking to you, wanna meet up some time" fashion.
if she doesn't respond, don't contact her again. if she's bitchy, don't contact her again.

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Anonymous 2013-01-19 18:37:07 No.11496787
>>11496762
>i saw on the event page that you also enjoyed *event*. *character she poses as* is one of my favorites in *show*, so i just had to add you :)
>:)
Never, EVER be the first to send emotes first. That's a precedent you have to let her start, or else you come across as desperate.

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Anonymous 2013-01-19 18:47:12 No.11496824
>>11496787
Even then, you want to keep about a 3:1 ratio of smileys. Her to you, of course.

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Anonymous 2013-01-19 18:49:09 No.11496833
>>11496787
in my experience it's ok as long as you stick to :) and ;). only rarely and when appropriate of course.
in this case it makes the text a little more light hearted and less weird/stalker-y.

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Anonymous 2013-01-19 19:04:21 No.11496888
>>11496762
>>11496787
>>11496833
As a femanon, I find it to be creepy when guys say that and send a smiley.

Just tell her you saw you two had similar interests and you thought you saw her around at some point.
Don't gawk about her cosplay, just tell her it looks very well done.

Do this, though "if she doesn't respond, don't contact her again. if she's bitchy, don't contact her again." from >>11496762







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