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Anonymous 2013-01-19 20:49:13 No.11497378

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>Lose girlfriend of 2 1/2 years
>get baker acted because "lol I'll die without her!" (seriously)
>6 months later, back with mom in Central FL
>start talking to a girl on OKCupid
>not sure if I'm doing it right.

Halp? Dumping pics of conversation

Anonymous 2013-01-19 20:49:29 No.11497382

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Anonymous 2013-01-19 20:51:17 No.11497398

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Numbered for your convenience, obviously.

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Anonymous 2013-01-19 20:54:40 No.11497430
She sounds like a flake, sorry OP, that and you keep texting a few days afterwords which is in my opinion looks kind of desperate.

Anonymous 2013-01-19 20:54:51 No.11497431
Just make a goddamn move and ask her out. Be direct about it. This is not The Sims, this is real life. You don't get someone to like you by filling up the social interaction meter until you can try the "flirt" command.

Anonymous 2013-01-19 20:58:34 No.11497451

I kind of tried that with the Skype thing... think asking for a group-date sort of thing would work? IE, my friends and me with her friends and her?

Anonymous 2013-01-19 20:59:18 No.11497459
You've been talking to her for a month on a dating site and haven't asked her out. You're doing it wrong. Ask her if she wants to meet up for coffee.

Anonymous 2013-01-19 21:01:19 No.11497466
I didn't read most of it did you ask for a number? If not then why bother?

The whole being timid/polite/respectful thing needs to be rewired in you. Otherwise she's just a nice girl who can't say no to a nice guy until he wants anything romantic/sexual, then it's completely closed off.

Anonymous 2013-01-19 21:02:13 No.11497471
Yes she sounds like a flake. She sounds like she has daddy issues "I live in the middle of nowhere and my parents wont let me do anything wahhh" "I want to move far away" she sounds like a flake who will finally get a real taste of reality someday and it will feel like a punch to the gut for her.

You also keep reinitiating contact after it ends, stop it, let her text you back when she wants to without you texting her first.

Anonymous 2013-01-19 21:04:54 No.11497487
Duly noted; I'll try and see if I can make it work.

Didn't ask for a number, but I did ask for a skype. She told me she wasn't comfortable yet, but asked for my name, and contact has kind of sporadically picked up since.

Can you explain your second part again?

I guess that it was desperate sounding. I'll let it go from now on, but at the time, it just seemed like good form at the time.

Anonymous 2013-01-19 21:08:35 No.11497502
>Didn't ask for a number, but I did ask for a skype. She told me she wasn't comfortable yet, but asked for my name, and contact has kind of sporadically picked up since.
>Can you explain your second part again?

Look dating sites are enormous wastes of time because prospects of hope dangle in front of your face and you can't help but swat at it like a cat. If a girl isn't going to give you her number after talking, you're not likely going to get her in your arms, much less your bed.

Old saying, always helps
>Treat her like a princess, and you'll be her pauper
>Treat her like a dog, and she'll beg for treats

Anonymous 2013-01-19 21:09:37 No.11497507
This is dumb. I can't believe you're investing so much time and energy in something that's not going anywhere. The only way you can justify this is if you're having similar conversations with other girls at the same time. Don't get super hung up on this one, not only will it decrease your chances of success, but it will make it worse if it fails. Skyping isn't a date.

Anonymous 2013-01-19 21:18:56 No.11497558

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here you OP

Anonymous 2013-01-19 21:19:29 No.11497561

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Anonymous 2013-01-19 21:59:27 No.11497712
Well, fuck me. Thanks for the help, though.

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