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Anonymous 2016-06-12 04:57:27 No.9050177

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Post feels. Happy, sad, as long as they're cgl related.

Previous thread. >>9039561


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Anonymous 2016-06-12 05:07:14 No.9050184
I just broke it off with a perfect girlfriend of five years, and now I have no Miku to be Kaito with. This next con's gonna suck.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 05:21:45 No.9050195
>shitty local con tomorrow
>constipated

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 06:01:12 No.9050215
>tfw you got too fat for your dress

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 06:07:01 No.9050219
I finally figured out why a circuit for blinking lights in my helmet weren't working and fixed it so it's working perfectly
just in time because I finished lacquering the inside and putting a thick thick coat on the outside just tonight and I'm waiting to hopefully paint it tomorrow and finish putting the rest of the electronics in
also the lights for the prop circuit still works just fine, the sound cards for it just came in, and I figured out how they work mostly, and have thought out a way to make it work the way I want it to

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 06:21:45 No.9050226
I feel like I'm caught in the crossfire of comm drama. It's gotten to the point where the comm has split in two, and two of my friends seem to be "manning" each side. It's gotten to the point where one friend will freak out if they find out I've gone to a meetup with the other. I don't want to feel like I have to hide friend interactions. I don't want to choose a side! I just want to be friends with them equally. (Also I really want them to just grow up and resolve this already)

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 06:25:36 No.9050228
Went to visit grandma on the other end of the country. Wore a motie to a nice dinner for her birthday. Woke up the next morning discovering she washed it with all the rest of my clothes and put it in the dryer and shrunk it. I want to cry now because that was my favorite blouse.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 06:37:32 No.9050238
>bf insists on helping me work on things
>ruins a bunch of material
>gets pissy with me that what I make looks better
>when I try to help him he insists he wants to "learn by experience" and continues working in the exact same way
Now I'm exhausted and trying to fix stuff but he went to bed mad at me for taking his work "for granted".

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 06:44:20 No.9050243
>>9050215
>started taking birth control
>working miracles for reducing my blood flow yay
>tits grew so now all my lolita blouses gape not yay
Maybe going down a few pounds will help. I could stand to lose 15lbs or so.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 07:11:08 No.9050255
My cosplay gf left me.

I spent three years on this girl.

I want to die.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 07:15:51 No.9050257
>>9050228
SOAK THAT SHIT IN ICE WATER

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 07:22:00 No.9050265
>>9050255
soak that in ice water too

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 08:12:28 No.9050296
>>9050265
I want to soak my head in ice water until the bubbles stop.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 09:28:33 No.9050337
>>9050195
What's the local con? I have one as well and that seems like a big coincidence

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 11:45:54 No.9050390
>>9050215
same boat, birth control and crazy lady pills have made me bloat like a motherfucker. I've plateaued at the same weight for 3 years now, it sucks.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 11:48:17 No.9050393
>>9050390
Lift weights! I've been 130 at 5'5" for longer than id like due to birth control but because I lift I still have an (almost) flat stomach.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 13:00:57 No.9050466
>>9050393
aye, I've been trying to get back into a routine! Ah I wish I was 130, I'm 5'5 stuck at 150. You're skinny!! Thanks for the advice though, how long have you been lifting consistently/how heavy are the weights?

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 13:03:21 No.9050469
That's it. I will never put anything on hold ever again. Out of the 10 people who requested a hold until now, not a single one paid in time. 7 people kept dragging it on for 2 or more weeks. I can't count the amount of bullshit excuses I read on two hands anymore. If you're not able to pay because you're awful at managing money, be honest, say it and take the consequences. I am so, so very done with this.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 13:45:30 No.9050494
>Order from Taobao two weeks ago using spreepicky.
>Everything arrived at my door two days ago.
Nice to have things fast.

Also, I feel like I am wearing lolita less and less and other jfashions more and more, but I am not ready to leave my lolita community. They are nice people, but I just don't feel the same way about lolita as I did a few years ago. I also can't afford buying the elaborate pink house dresses and buying lolita. My community has been very understanding letting me wear pink house to some meets, but I just feel bad wearing natural kei or wearing the same coords.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 14:42:52 No.9050527
I haven't cosplayed since I started an abusive relationship where a lot of insecurity and depression destroyed me.
Now, with an awesome partner, with depression (kinda) under control, great job and a steady life, I want to go back but I'm so afraid to go to a con and find a co-worker or someone finding out that I cosplay.

My co-workers are normies, but not bad people buuut I'm so afraid of being humiliated or made fun about 'doing weird shit ' like cosplay.

I don't do cringy stuff, I'm actually pretty good at prop making, so it won't be THAT weird, it might be even cool to them, but I have a crippling fear to go on with my cosplay hobby...

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 14:49:00 No.9050537
>>9050469
yeah, i dont believe in holds or payment plans. I buy it when i have the money.
If anything i would only use a payment plan if say...my dream dress came for sale because it rarely ever pops up and the seller was asking a few hundred more than i was asking.. so i would give them the say $500 and then wait until next paycheck for the other few hundred. Payment plans for anything under $300 is bullshit, why are you even looking at dresses with no money?
>jimmies russled

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 15:10:32 No.9050571
I finally realized how land whale I am (5'3" and 163lb), so I started working out by running a mile every day. It feels so awful when you can feel your flab slap together every time you run and I just kinda want to die.

BUT, I've been running for the past week and I got my time down from 14 minutes and 36 seconds to 12 minutes and 7 seconds! Gotta work for that cosplay body and slim down the waist to fit in brand.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 15:19:10 No.9050584
>>9050527
I sympathize, anon, but you shouldn't let a bunch of what-ifs stop you from doing something that makes you genuinely happy. Life is too short to hold back on harmless joys like this, screw what people *might* think about you, you deserve to be happy.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 15:21:08 No.9050586
>>9050571
I am the same height and weight as you, but I can fit in brand (with the exception of VM and MM.). I am trying to lose weight, but land whale seems like an exaggeration. Like you anon, I do work out, but I go to the gym 4-5 times a week. I lift weights and do cardio.Running is fun though.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 15:22:57 No.9050589
>>9050469
I suggest doing holds with no refundable deposits. That way you guarantee full payment. I honestly prefer holds for items which I've been chasing after for a long time but they're generally $300+

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 15:24:17 No.9050592
>actual obese landwhale
>want to cosplay and wear cute clothes

After a lot of failed attempts because apparently I can't into emotional stability, this time, I'm sure I'll make it! I'm cutting out all drinks but water and coffee, and eat as little things as possible with sugar of (high) salt to break out of this stupid addiction for junk food.

Wish me luck anons!

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 15:24:37 No.9050595
>no lolita friends
>old best friend seems to be losing interest in lolita but is just too attached to material things to sell any of it (which is why i was under the impression she still liked it)
>she ignores any lolita related topics i mention
>out of state friends are too busy or inexperienced to hold real convos about lolita
>i just want to be excited for a meet up and prints as well as ask their options on stupid things like what they think of a dress or if traveling long distance to a lolita event is worth it

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 15:28:57 No.9050600
I want to make new friends in my area since I've moved out of state and away from my group but the community here is so cringey. People are either really cliquey or huge weebs and I'm not sure what to do. I've met some decent people at cons and we add each other on social media afterwards but then nothing comes of it.

Seriously at the point where I might just start going to cons alone which is depressing.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 15:36:11 No.9050604
>visting partner for the summer
>look up conventions near them for fun
>mention it a few times, really excited as it would be a chill way to meet the surrounding comm with lower pressure
>do more research and the consensus is that its not that great especially for lolitas except con itas
>find out big lolita event a few hours away is happening the weekend before
>"surprise i got you con tickets for your birthday!"
>super grateful because ive wanted to see other cons but nothing will be in english there and majority of guests are that countries dubs but im always up to see cosplays
>mention wanting to pay for us to go to the other city for the weekend so i can go to the lolita event
>"but anon, that city sucks, ive been there before and what will i do for those half days youre busy?"
>i dont have so much time with my partner as it is but i live in the middle of no where so id love to attend a lolita event outside a con with more than 20 people.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 15:39:43 No.9050606
>>9050604
sage because i forgot to mention
>they bought con tix for us they dont want to spend another weekend doing my hobby stuff
>im not really into anime
> i might be more bored than they are at the con if there is no jfashion aspect.

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BRSiMW 2016-06-12 15:39:50 No.9050607
>>9050571
I used to be that weight (more like 165lbs and 5'3 and a half) and I started running first in my fitness journey, but moved to currently an elliptical-like device called an Arc-trainer. If you have a gym see if you can find one, it's the same concept as an elliptical but you lift your legs real high when you put up the incline.

On an unrelated note to that,
>tfw 121lbs now
>look pretty decent in the mirror but I want to be around 106-108lbs
Pic related, took it yesterday.
I just feel like personally girls should be less than 110lbs to be perfect in clothes and such, but I know I shouldn't stress so much about my weight but I just feel like I -have- to get down there weight-wise.
Feels a little bad man, I'm never truly happy even with all the hours of work I've put into my body.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 15:41:46 No.9050609
>>9050604
Just go anyways. No one wants your partner to come to a Lolita meet anyways so do you.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 15:47:28 No.9050612
>>9050607
happiness comes from work within, not on the outside. Be proud of your strength and dedication and find happiness in who you are

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 15:48:01 No.9050613
>>9050607
Not trying to derail the topic, but as this anon >>9050586, I have gone to the gym consistently for 2 months now, and although I am getting slimmer, my weight hasn't really change. I have heard African Americans tend to have a much harder time losing weight than other races. Also my fat/flab goes to my behind more than my stomach, so it isn't as noticeable? I used to be 120 pounds when I lived in Japan, but I was much younger. I am pushing 30 now, so I think my current weight might be appropriate.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 15:48:42 No.9050616
>>9050609
he wouldnt come as the event says no non lolitas but its +4 hours away, i would be gone all weekend and our time is already precious. ill probably convince him to come to the city with me so we can explore in the morning and so i dont feel like im wasting extra money only paying for my own accommodation

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 15:51:08 No.9050620
>>9050592
might sound daft, but I'd definitely give Slimming World a try. I went from (I think) 180lbs to 97 in about 2 years. You don't feel like you're cutting out that much, and the support group is huge

but good luck anon! Rooting for you!!

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 16:30:15 No.9050650
>>9050568
Alright ana-chan

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 16:36:10 No.9050656
>>9050650
It really isn't though? That's just on the lower side of average.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 16:42:34 No.9050667
>>9050607
Great job. Just don't get obsessed with your weight, anon. Not trying to assume, but my boyfriend had an ED and I always worry when I hear someone feels deeply dissatisfied with their body despite being normal weight.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 16:48:10 No.9050675
>>9050656
Sooo... do you only consider people who are skinny to be people who are underweight? Have you seen people who are at that height/weight?

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 16:50:41 No.9050683
>>9050607
>I just feel like personally girls should be less than 110lbs to be perfect in clothes and such
jesus christ, you have been on this board too long. Get help.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 16:52:35 No.9050688
>>9050607
>I just feel like personally girls should be less than 110lbs to be perfect in clothes and such,

Anon I'm the obese landwhale that posted earlier and your body is something I'd aspire to have. You look fantastic, trust me. Numbers don't mean shit especially when you've build muscle.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 16:56:40 No.9050691
>tfw you're a guy looking at all of this from the outside

I'm overweight and I'm working on changing it for cosplay purposes but the obsession some women have with numbers is fucking terrifying. The woman in >>9050607 looks more than adequate and why you'd ever want to push for more weightloss when you look like that is beyond me.

I'd be happy with just not having a gut.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 17:06:15 No.9050702
>>9050568
http://www.myproana.com/
^ I think you need to be on this forum, obviously /cgl/ isn't the place for you.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 17:12:52 No.9050713
>>9050675
I'm 5'4 and 115
I've only just started improving my diet and exercising. There's no "right weight". It's all about being healthy.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 17:27:41 No.9050725
>>9050568
Mfw I'm 5'3" and 130 but people think I'm skinny because I carry all my weight in lower half and it's hidden by my petticoat

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 17:42:04 No.9050738
>>9050725
5'4" and 140. Just lost 25lbs, can finally fit into my favorite prints, but still fat. I love wearing a petticoat tho.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 18:22:25 No.9050809
>>9050469
Oh I know. I just want them to be honest. If you can't pay it, let me know. You shouldn't even be contacting me if you can't afford it anyway.

I ask for payment plans but if I tell you I pay every two weeks, I pay every two weeks.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 18:36:52 No.9050820
Had a pretty good day today
>Found my late Grandmother's sewing machine, other than needing a slight tune-up it works beautifully. Can't wait to use it for cosplay. (Pic related, sorry for crap quality).
>Got a call back for a second job interview, almost guaranteed I will get it.
>Good friend is coming to visit this evening, haven't seen her in years. We will squee over sewing machine and do wig styling.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 18:43:33 No.9050828
Now-ex girlfriend abandoned me.

Just took me to Jo-Ann to pick up cosplay shit, snuck away, and blocked my number.

This was 2013 and it still makes me sad sometimes.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 18:50:02 No.9050840
>applied for an entry level job
>I networked with the people there
>tell me my application declined
>not even an interview
>send an email to one of my connections
>"You need to find a new career, Anon"

FML. I'm going have to sell part of my lolita wardrobe to pay for career services at college now.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 19:16:13 No.9050866
>>9050607
>I just feel like personally girls should be less than 110lbs to be perfect in clothes

I totally agree. I used to be 102lb (I'm 5'6) but I gained weight and now I'm 120lb. My face looks better but now I hate how thick I look in lolita. I think 110lb is a nice middle ground.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 19:22:34 No.9050871
>>9050840
What job were you applying for and what does your resume/CV look like? Sometimes that makes a huge difference, though in this case it's odd that you had the opportunity to network and they wouldn't give you an interview. Best of luck, anon. You'll get there.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 19:29:44 No.9050880
>>9050840

Damn, that's harsh.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 19:34:47 No.9050886
THIS THREAD MADE ME REMEMBER. Earlier when I went out I picked up my parcel that I missed and it's a new dress and it's still in my rucksack because I forgot (???), then I saw this thread lol thanks

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 19:35:57 No.9050887
>>9050613

If you are getting slimmer but the scale doesn't move, you're either putting on muscle, retaining water, or something like that.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 19:37:21 No.9050890
>>9050820
Fantastic machine, congrats anon.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 19:41:07 No.9050895
>>9050184
Why break it off if she's perfect?

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 19:46:51 No.9050900
>>9050607
>I just feel like personally girls should be less than 110lbs to be perfect in clothes and such
It's a pretty normal weight for you but for anyone who's close to or above average height that's some variation of underweight, which isn't much better than being fat...

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 19:49:51 No.9050906
>World Cosplay Summit has the same initials as one of my hobbies
>tfw no partner to swing dance with in cosplay at cons

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 20:04:49 No.9050928
>>9050607
Your stomach looks great anon. I keep telling myself I want to work out to get fitter (I'm about 5'6" 114 lbs, but no muscle). My current excuse is that I live in Ohio and anywhere outside is a cicada-infested hell.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 20:09:28 No.9050937
>>9050828
Either she is a bitch or you fucked up real bad.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 20:12:57 No.9050944
>>9050900
>implying most of cgl wouldn't prefer to be underweight instead of average

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 20:16:58 No.9050951
I was 171 pounds in February and when I weighed myself on Friday I was 159.

I know I've still got so much work to do but already my jawline has become more defined and I'm starting to see cheekbones. The bonier parts of me are definitely smaller like my shoulders and hips but I still have a tummy pooch. Hoping that disappears with time.

Also I'm mud 20s but if anyone knows how to get rid of flappy bingo wings I would really appreciate it. I've been lifting but it's so sad seeing that fat swinging under my developing muscle.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 20:25:26 No.9050963
>>9050951
Just keep working out and dieting. It's all in the genes. The last place all the fat leaves for is my cheeks. It's so annoying.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 20:50:59 No.9051000
My cosplay friend who's easily 20 kg overweight always looks way better in photos than I do even though I'm sorta normal weight and I'm super jealous. It's not fair that she can look like that while I always look like a retard with no neck...

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 21:02:17 No.9051011
I went from 145 lbs (65.8 kg) to 133 lbs (60.3 kg) over a few weeks, trying now to get to 125 lbs. I'd like my waist to get below 30 inches (76.2 cm.), right now I'm at 32 inches (81.2 cm.).
(Does anyone want a myfitnesspal friend? I need more people.)

I'm trying to get back into cosplay! My mental health took a sharp decline when I was a freshman in college, but with the right medication I'm finally getting back into the hobbies that I used to enjoy. For a future convention, I'm trying to get two cosplays done.

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BRSiMW 2016-06-12 21:09:45 No.9051029
>>9051011
How are you 133lbs with a 32" waist? Are you really short? I'm ten pounds less with a 22.5" waist. Not trying to offend or anything just curious?

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 21:32:23 No.9051055
>>9051029
! I'm an apple shape, so I gain weight quite a bit of weight in my waist area.I'm 5'5". It's a bit stubborn to get off. I haven't measured my waist in a few weeks though, so it could have changed! I'd post a pic of it but I'm too embarrassed.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 21:35:45 No.9051062
>>9050840
Did they even tell you why?

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 21:39:13 No.9051065
So, I ended up selling my doll to that person in France. I have two more dolls and a doll head to consider selling.

I want to keep them because they are pretty but I want to sell them because I would rather have someone who would have joy out of them.

Still deciding what to do. Hate that I'm getting overly attached

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 21:55:28 No.9051081
>>9050937
We'd been arguing because she wanted kids and I didn't. (I was 23 and she was 31.)

I haven't seen her since. She moved the next day.

Keep wondering if I'll ever run into her at a con.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 22:07:04 No.9051094
>>9050609
>No one wants your partner to come to a Lolita meet anyways

I honestly don't know how to live without my bf. The other lols don't mind.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 22:09:48 No.9051096
>>9050469
I usually do a 25% non-refundable deposit sent to me as a gift payment over PP. If they screw off before finishing the payment it's their loss at that point.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 22:13:50 No.9051101
>>9051011
I'm kinda where you are, anon. I was 120lbs and now I'm 130lbs. My waist was 25" and now sits around 26-27.5". I've never been able to get it down to 24" even when I regularly exercised.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 22:29:29 No.9051118
>>9051094
They do, but most people will not tell you because it's awkward to say. It's annoying to have a tag along, both in Lolita and with your friends. It prevents people from getting close to you, and cripples you from gaining friends independently.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 22:37:34 No.9051132
>>9051118
Yeah, I recently flew solo at a con for the first time and it was great.

>>9051081
She sounds weird and crazy.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 22:54:35 No.9051158
>>9050393
130 at 5'5" is a good balanced weight though? This is from someone who is also 5'5" and 130. I'm no where near heavy at all? I could stand to get a bit toned but otherwise I'm pretty skinny.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 23:12:08 No.9051181
>>9050466
It's probably been about a year give or take, I'm honestly still super weak! Just start low and work your way up, even though I don't lift "heavy" I'm lifting like 4x as much as I was when I started so I consider it a success!

>>9051158
It is healthy but for most of my life I had barely broke 120 until I started birth control. So it's just like mentally uncomfortable for me to be 130. But I'm getting used to it!!

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 23:19:19 No.9051189
>>9050607
>I just feel like personally girls should be less than 110lbs to be perfect in clothes and such

You look wonderful and I'm happy for you anon, but I honestly think your thinking there is very destructive. You need to take into considerationg that 110lbs and less simply is not within the healthy BMI or weight category for some people depending on their height. For example, you would not tell a girl who is 5'8" to be less than 110lbs. People need to work around what is a healthy weight for them, as opposed to some random number that will just cause them pain in the long run. Also, with muscle weighing more than fat, after a certain point in time you are just looking at losing inches and slimming down rather than the scale.

As someone who is 5'5" and was under 110lbs in highschool because of an eating disorder, I find this type of thinking very harmful. I looked wonderful in my prom dress, but I was the unhappiest I had ever been and looked almost skeletal if you saw me. I'm now about 128lbs and look great imo! I'm a healthy type of skinny now, and my clothes fall on me just how I want, because I work with my body type instead of trying to change what I look like naturally to fit into some sort of beauty standard box that simply was not good for me.

You may be 121lbs, but please take into consideration how gorgeous you look in that picture. That's a good amount of muscle and curves, and I wish you could see that what you've achieved at this point in time looks healthy and perfect. To be honest, if you drop down to 106, you most likely will not look half as healthy, let alone happy as you do now. Please do not pepetuate such dangerous ideas when we deny the fact that people are built differently. Saying "ONLY THIS IS BEAUTIFUL" is such a poisonous way of thinking, when someone can find both flowers and stars pretty at the same time. Both are nice to look at and are considered pretty, but for different reasons.

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Anonymous 2016-06-12 23:41:30 No.9051209
>>9050607
If you compared your measurements to someone your height who weighs under 110lbs, you'd probably have better proportions just saying. When I ran and played sports all the time, I was 117lbs at 5'2" and I looked just as good as I do now being a desk monkey with a shit schedule at 105lbs. Except now I can appear bloated more easily which is crap.

Let go of that number, anon. Focus on your stellar 3 sizes ratios.

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 01:08:31 No.9051276
>>9051189
Thanks tumblr

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 01:14:48 No.9051281
>>9051276
Seriously, I'm tried of this fat acceptance tumblr shit. at 106 she'd still be in a healthy BMI. Let her do as she wants without shaming her for her goals.

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 01:25:10 No.9051298
i posted something similar in another thread, but I'm a newfag solidifying my wardrobe. Back when I was getting started, I'd just gotten over having cancer, and was a socially anxious wreck. Autism abound whenever i opened my mouth. The clothes were the first thing that made me feel pretty again (had *huge* scars left over from all the surgeries), so I decided to risk it and put on some AP and go to my first meetup.

Everybody there was actually really nice to me. Saw that I was anxious and got me included in conversations, forgave my verbal autism, whole nine yards. Went to a few more meetups before my health violently gave out again, done nothing but lurk since.

That comm still gives me the warm fuzzies. Everybody here was wonderful and i actually really miss them.

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 01:41:06 No.9051328
>>9050184
You sound like my ex. He was a retarded woman beater. Hope you're at least better than that.

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 01:56:34 No.9051351
>>9050607
>girls should be less than 110lbs to be perfect
HA. At 5'7" and 110, I looked fucking gross, dude. I'm happy I'm healthy enough to recognize that instead of glorifying being that thin. Your body looks great as it is, and if you really feel you HAVE to lose another fifteen pounds to reach some arbitrary ideal number, I would encourage to reconsider that point of view or see someone to help you accept your body wherever your fitness journey takes you.

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 01:57:53 No.9051352
>>9050895
We just grew apart. It was perfect for a while, but we couldn't make it work anymore.

>>9051328
Why do I sound like him?

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 02:01:36 No.9051355
>>9051065
>I want to sell them because I would rather have someone who would have joy out of them
Use that as your motivation to sell! If you're just keeping them to look at them then you're not doing those dolls any justice. I kept a lot of my grandma's stuff when she passed away but now that I'm clearing stuff out I realized all that stuff just stayed in storage. I just sold a huge tub of knitting supplies I never touched to a sweet old woman who knits for a local children's shelter.

>tfw pic related is the most remotely encouraging picture I have saved

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 02:38:09 No.9051414
I'm skipping my next con. I was so excited, too.

My sister left me for a new boyfriend, and my family says I need to gain 10 pounds before they'll pay off my car.

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 02:49:26 No.9051433
>>9051414

Anon, could you clarify what you mean? Because it sounds weirdly incestuous the way you phrased it.

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galaticbuttholeleakage-chan 2016-06-13 02:51:01 No.9051434
>>9051414
>incest

gross

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 02:55:54 No.9051440
>>9051434
Still not as disgusting as tripfaggotry

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 02:57:15 No.9051443
>>9051433
Oh. She used to be my best friend, but now her bf is her best. It sucks.

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galaticbuttholeleakage-chan 2016-06-13 02:58:03 No.9051446
>>9051440
STOP BEING tsundere

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 02:59:41 No.9051448
>>9051443
Is she hot tho

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 03:01:58 No.9051453
>>9051414
>my family says I need to gain 10 pounds before they'll pay off my car

This is even weirder than the possible incest.

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 03:31:25 No.9051487
>>9051281
How the fuck is some anon saying that it's not good to tell everyone to be underweight is wrong? Under 110lbs is not healthy for people over a certain height, so it's completely ridiculous to make a blanket statement that "all women should be 110lbs and under". Sure, let me just weight 105lbs at 5'9" that sounds like a great idea.
They weren't even shaming her goals, they were pointing out how toxic that sort of statement is, and I agree with them.

I hate this try hard fitting in bullshit, fuck off summerfriend.

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galaticbuttholeleakage-chan 2016-06-13 03:35:46 No.9051492
>>9051487
I'm 5'6" and 105(maybe a pound or two off every now and then) and I seem to manage just fine


stop enabling fatties

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 03:36:04 No.9051494
>>9051189
>>9051351
This. Can't really say I agree with their thinking but damn do they look good. I'm a 6' giantess and if I weighted 110lbs I'd probably be in the hospital or something for being so underweight. This sort of thinking reminds me of when I look at character sheets in video games and stuff and it's some chick who's 5'7" and weighs 100lbs.

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 03:38:25 No.9051498
>>9051492
why are you tripfagging?

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galaticbuttholeleakage-chan 2016-06-13 03:39:42 No.9051501
>>9051498
cause someone was whining about it in the feels thread and we all know how much I love to be an annoying cunt on cgl?

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 03:40:34 No.9051503
>>9051065
What brand and what prices? I'm buying my first bjd and I'm so excited. Hopefully someday I can twin cosplays and coords with my dolls

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 03:42:52 No.9051505
My feels are that the Orlando shooting happened, which is awful and my worst nightmare, and that now everything is going to be political drama on my social media feeds because everyone is busy showing off their agenda.

Why can't we just help out the families and victims, and not get angry at the people who just want to watch anime instead of argue. And yes I've seen lowkey "wow how can anyone just go on with their day when this happens??" because not everyone was posting half-assed "RIP" posts.

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 03:44:01 No.9051507
>>9051505
The screenshots of that one idiot texting his mom was pretty hilarious though.

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 03:51:25 No.9051521
>>9051507
source? I need deets

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 03:51:34 No.9051522
>>9051298
Hope you get to the point where you feel well enough to join your comm again, anon!

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 03:53:20 No.9051527
>>9051521

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 03:58:46 No.9051535
>>9051527
I just feel sad when I see that shit. Can you imagine getting a text like that, or even having to send one?

Who thought that was a good thing to show on public tv though? Did they seriously think the shooter wasn't going to check out the news?

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 04:00:19 No.9051536
>>9051527
I saw this. Makes sense they'd type clumsily if they thought they'd get shot at any moment and their fingers are shaking, and it's not like there's some hilarious typo. Please post actually entertaining things instead.
>inb4triggered
A bit, but this also commits the sin of being unfunny.

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 04:03:29 No.9051542
>>9051501
wait are you HWC?

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galaticbuttholeleakage-chan 2016-06-13 04:07:22 No.9051551
>>9051542
>hates fatties
>uses the word cunt
>5'6"
>105lbs~
>massive amounts of shitposting

no

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 04:15:22 No.9051563
>>9051505
I don't understand what was happening in that club. Why couldn't 100+ fags (some even say 300+) overpower a single ISIS gunman?

I feel that maybe we need to change the way we react to these events when they happen to us, as a culture.

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 04:17:34 No.9051570
>>9050215
same. I used to be unhealthily thin but got an ED and feel the need to scarf down food every time I see it. argh.

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 04:18:26 No.9051571
>>9051563
They probably could have, but fear and panic is strong and when someone starts shooting no one is thinking "we can take them" theyre thinking "please god dont let me die"

Sometimes you get lucky and people are calm enough to realize they can win, but generally a mass of people will be too afraid and caught up in fear, running around trying to find a way out.

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 04:19:20 No.9051575
>>9051563
I heard rumors he might have used explosives of some sort? That or he was able to round up a ton of people, which seems the most likely scenario so far.

Also
>ISIS gunman

Oh no anon you can't say that, him being a muslim doesn't work well with the privilege point system, so he suddenly is not a muslim.

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 04:20:09 No.9051578
been lurking for a while and part of me wants to get into lolita but I am 5'7" with size 10EE feet and have felt like a lumbering oaf since seventh grade. I'm fat now but I had big boobs and birthing hips even when I was younger and thinner. I feel like this is something I shouldn't even attempt. feelsbadman

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 04:21:54 No.9051579
>>9051578
Your height isnt that bad, I know taller lolitas, and theres brands that do custom sized shoes.

Also of course custom sized dresses are a thing, as long as you dress for your body type you will look fine :)

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 04:24:00 No.9051587
>>9051579
thank you for the encouragement, perhaps there is hope after all

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 04:31:24 No.9051592
>>9051563
Humans aren't hive insects. When a threat to your life shows up most peoples immediate reaction is to save themselves, and possibly their family and/or very close friends. Nobody is ever going to think "OK if all 100 of us swarm at once, we can ensure minimum causalities" the instant somebody starts opening fire.

You might talk big from the safety of your computer and comfort of your fedora but I guarantee if you were there you'd be running in panic too.

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 04:32:17 No.9051595
>>9051587
There is! Just stay appropriate to your body. Im a rather busty girl myself so I tend to stay away from high waisted dresses and never ever buy empire waist dresses.

Sack potato dresses may have a "free bust" but on girls like use we just look pregnant, so stay away from those too.

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 04:33:31 No.9051597
>>9051414
>my parents won't buy me a car because I'm not healthy
the woes of the upper middle class

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 04:35:38 No.9051599
>tfw even /cgl/ is arguing about the Orlando massacre now

Damnit why can't we have nice things.

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 04:35:44 No.9051600
>>9051595
will remember that, thank you

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galaticbuttholeleakage-chan 2016-06-13 04:36:29 No.9051601
>>9051592
or you know

some people are level headed in that situation and some aren't since humans aren't a hive mind, right?

so it's not unreasonable to assume anon could remain calm

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 04:38:35 No.9051603
>>9051527
>trapp in the bathroom
>gay nightclub
>trap
>gay nightclub

ok, ngl. my lip twitched

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 04:55:03 No.9051627
I can't even bring myself to work on cosplay because I know I'll hate the end result. Same with painting. I'm so ashamed of myself.

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 05:00:34 No.9051640
>>9051592
It depends. I've done firearms training and our instructors created scenarios demonstrating how hard it is to shoot a man that is charging at you from close range.

If more people in the club knew this, or even if we had more education about how to deal with these situations, we could avoid 103 people getting shot.

The FBI basically said we have to defend ourselves here.

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 14:31:14 No.9052121
>Few months ago
>Be on a short vacation at the other side of the country
>Visit fabric shop because why not
>Find this fabric piece
>It's just enought to make a skirt
>Buy it

>Fast foward to today
>Shrink the fabric
>Hang it
>Look fabric closer
>There's some blue paint on it
>There's some yellow text on it
>And I can't get them out
>If I cut the painted area out it's not enough to skirt
>Hate my life since I didn't notice those before buying it

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 15:36:46 No.9052199
>tfw the hot cosplay girl who's been latching onto you the whole con is only 14

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 15:55:25 No.9052223
>>9052199

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 16:32:50 No.9052258
>have wanted to enter cosplay championship for forever
>is a fattychan but have gr9 sewing skills and decided to do Sakizo big-ass ball gown because Apple-shaped body will look really good in it
>everybody now is entering said championships with Sakizo designs
>99% of them shit-tier because they don't even know how to make basic foundation garments and proper underpinnings to give exact shape
>can't do Sakizo because I'll look like I'm just following the award-bait Sakizo trend

Shit, gulls, I feel bad. I had my heart set on something big and poofy and detailed as fuck because I KNOW I can pull that type of clusterfuck-detail off, but I don't want to touch Sakizo with a ten-foot pole after nearly everyone is doing it and getting utterly lambasted for being copycats.

Any suggestions for big detailed ball gowns that have Sakizo-esque details? Or really anything that Apple-shaped people can pull off?

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 16:35:51 No.9052261
>>9051575
That's not Muslim though.

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 16:37:39 No.9052264
>>9051551
>Assburgery reply
Get banned and enjoy your proxy hopping I guess

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 16:39:34 No.9052266
>>9051298
You just got over having cancer but you use the meme definition if autism anyway?
So you like... choose to be retarded huh?

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 17:11:50 No.9052289
>>9050607
Well anon, your body is great but i'm just a bit more than 49 kg (51 kg) and i look good in clothing even if i never excercise nor i aspire to have a fit body just average for my height (5'2). Please don't say to people being 110 is the best weight, many are taller than me and weighing like that is horribly underweight, also women have many body types that store their weight in different places, this is important because also a thin woman could look bad with a certain type of clothing if she has a different body shape, not all thin or average women can fit the same clothing. Impying every woman should weigh like that is very damaging.

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 17:30:07 No.9052308
>>9050527

If you run into someone at the con, how are they going to make fun of you for being at a con?

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Anonymous 2016-06-13 18:06:48 No.9052355
>Need to sell off most of wardrobe before moving
>Sales are molasses
>Dream of modest, cohesive wardrobe but it's currently a fucking mess

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galaticbuttholeleakage-chan 2016-06-13 18:47:18 No.9052397
>>9052264
>this much butthurt

sorry you haven't gotten laid recently







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