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/fit/ Health & Fitness

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Anonymous 2013-11-06 14:41:06 No.23417974

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On a Friday night I'm at the gym pushing myself to my

absolute limits. However, this is somehow respected

less than the guy at the bar, shoving himself down to

the rock bottom of his potential. I'm looked at like

an outcast because I don't go out. But let's get real

for a minute. Who decided on what should be? Who had

the audacity to think there is a normal for every


I've been told I'm 21 and at the peak of my partying

life. I NEED to be out on Friday nights, I NEED to be

bringing home a girl every weekend. I NEED to live


So, instead, every Friday night, I'm at the gym, at

the peak of my physical ability, GROWING every damn

day. I'm searching for that girl that I can bring

home EVERY weekend. Am I not already living life? My


/fit/ share your feels. inb4 all this beta bullshit. you know what i'm saying here, you know you wish more people understood.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 14:46:24 No.23418046

>that feel when because you're juicy as fuck people assume you're on juice
>that feel when because you're juicy as fuck you're assumed to be a player
>that feel when because you're juicy as fuck
you're assumed to be of lower intelligence

>that feel when I'm happy in serious relationships, with a phd in maths, earning 300k

Anonymous 2013-11-06 14:48:30 No.23418078
No I'm not jacked yet, but I'm bigger than everyone at the gym besides the juicers.
Of course, I'm assumed to be ignorant and a player.
I have a Bachelor's, working on Master's in finance. Just started a job with a huge finance company that I can grow with. J-just don't understand.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 14:50:43 No.23418097

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Anonymous 2013-11-06 14:51:35 No.23418107
>Who decided on what should be? Who had the audacity to think there is a normal for every person?

Women and the men whose only goal in life is to get with them.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 14:52:19 No.23418119
Give no fucks about what people say you need to do. Blaze your own trail my man. If you're happy doing what you're doing, keep at it. FUCK what everybody else thinks.

Seeing your potential life, the way you like it and want it to be, and making that a reality is the true hallmark of a man. Not some arbitrarily defined set of actions decided upon by the masses. It's your life.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 14:54:50 No.23418148
I agree Op I am the same way. Work out all the time and focused on my schoolwork at this point in time. People always assume I'm pulling bitches left and right which is untrue.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 14:56:44 No.23418169
Its biology. Most men are out getting laid and living life. You're at the gym. Others are developing social and sexual skills, you're at the gym.

Its not like you can't do both. Work out earlier. Schedule your upper body days for fridays and then go out to bars with das pump

Anonymous 2013-11-06 14:57:05 No.23418172
Is this some reddit inspirational shit written by some random nerd?

Anonymous 2013-11-06 14:57:18 No.23418173
>peaking at 21

If you're a woman that is.

Men's peaks are more like 40 if you look after yourself.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 14:57:46 No.23418178

Anonymous 2013-11-06 14:58:12 No.23418189
>nerd detected

Anonymous 2013-11-06 14:59:13 No.23418203
>Blaze your own trail my man.
That feel when.

>Is this some reddit inspirational shit written by some random nerd?
No, just written by some random nerd this morning.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 14:59:24 No.23418205
what's your social life look like?

Anonymous 2013-11-06 14:59:30 No.23418208
I push myself to my absolute limits every day during the week SO I can go to the bar at the weekend, relax, have a few drinks and talk to my buds/bits of tail.

Fingers crossed you'll grow out of the monomania and realize you're actually hiding in the gym, rather than enjoying life. You're a long time in the ground, bud.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 15:03:04 No.23418249
I'm not saying I don't go out from time to time and have one or two, but some of my closer friends do it 4-5 days a week, and think I'm just making excuses of why I don't go out.
On top of things, they get sloppy ass drunk when they go out, and to be honest, I don't like being a baby sitter.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 15:03:40 No.23418256
this. You've somehow convinced yourself you're better than those who go out. You choose to be alone and lift on friday nights. Its not like you *have* to lift at night.

And please tell me how you expect to find a "girl that you can bring home EVERY weekend" if you never go out?

and even if you did find her, do you have any idea how needy and clingy that sounds? You'd meet her, immediately suffocate her with attention and she'd ditch you.

Plus with zero sexual experience its not like you'll be able to make her stick around for great sex.

So all in all, I think you're just using lifting and "mah goals" as an excuse to not live life. I'm sure it's a great way to feel better about yourself when you get home from the gym and stay up all night jacking off and watching netflix alone though.

Pas 2013-11-06 15:06:04 No.23418279
whoa op so deep so thought provoking
please stop using newline so excessively though

Anonymous 2013-11-06 15:06:05 No.23418280
Do what makes you happy OP. I have 'friends' that try to make me feel ashamed for being a virgin. I earn more money than them, doing work I love. I have a bright future; they live on short term thrills.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 15:06:19 No.23418286
>thinking anything is more important than training

Fucking casual.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 15:06:47 No.23418290
>That feel when.
Best feel in the world. Throw off the chains.

Do what everybody else does, and repeat after me: "I am free". Who's to say this anon doesn't have a social life? There's more ways than one to skin a cat. Its not all about clubbing.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 15:08:07 No.23418307

You don't have to go out 4 or 5 nights. And lead by example with your buds or have a word with them about slowing down; getting merry is fine but fall down shitfaced drunk is no fun for anyone, even more so if you're the 'sensible' one.

Either way, spending all your time in the gym to the detriment of your social life (especially if you're young) is like doing bicep curls but only working one arm.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 15:08:23 No.23418312
I don't think that about anyone. My point is the reverse of this. Somehow they think they're better than me. It's all personal choice. Everyone is entitled to their way of life.


outlaw cest - r.i.p. /sp/ 2013-11-06 15:09:01 No.23418319

You are wrong.


You are also wrong.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 15:10:11 No.23418326
i'm not saying you have to go out and get drunk to have a decent social life. i'm simply asking OP what his social life looks like. if he finds it satisfying, fuck the world -- lift on fridays.

but if he yearns for a more active social life, and yet is a recluse who lifts instead of being social, that's fucking pathetic.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 15:10:48 No.23418329
>someone actually knowing I'm just kidding

Finally. Usually it's someone taking me serious.

Pas 2013-11-06 15:11:14 No.23418334

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are you calling hysen pathetic?

Anonymous 2013-11-06 15:11:53 No.23418338
I don't go out. Maybe once or twice. And I don't lift every day (4 day split).

And to be honest, I've never really looked at it that way. I try to be an example by telling them they should find other hobbies besides drinking all the time, but I might take my own advice. Instead of lifting as my main hobby, maybe I should take up a few things as well.

THIS is why we do these threads my /fit/izens.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 15:12:00 No.23418340
idk who hysen is. but if he's unhappy and doesn't take active steps to rectify the unhappiness, then yes, he's pathetic.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 15:12:57 No.23418352

How much Chinese dick have you sucked, or did you mainly just take it in the ass?

Pas 2013-11-06 15:13:00 No.23418353
>idk who one of the strongest 77kg men in the world is
pls go

Anonymous 2013-11-06 15:13:14 No.23418356
Social life is fine. I just choose a different path.

refer to >>23418338

outlaw cest - r.i.p. /sp/ 2013-11-06 15:13:17 No.23418357

why does it bother you what others do?

Anonymous 2013-11-06 15:13:38 No.23418359
I train 6 days a week and have Sundays off.

That being said, I train early and every few days or so, go hang out with my best friend and a few others.

One does not need to get pissed at some run down shit hole bar to enjoy himself.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 15:15:03 No.23418373
then fuck what society thinks. be your own man. other people feel the need to go out on friday nights . i'd bet that, for a lot of those people, the reason they do that is because they can't connect with their friends unless they're drunk. which is far more pathetic than not going out at all. (provided, of course, you're happy with your social life)

Anonymous 2013-11-06 15:17:49 No.23418402
Agreed. Wise words.

I also didn't make this thread to bash those who go out guise. Don't take it that way. Just making a stand, for this group that bashes the ones who choose not to go out.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 15:19:43 No.23418428
On a side note, when I talk about the guy shoving himself down, I'm talking about that douchebag that starts fights out at the bar. The guy that all his friends praise because "that shit was awesome"

Anonymous 2013-11-06 15:19:45 No.23418429
That's fucking pathetic. Do you wear a fedora when you lift?

Anonymous 2013-11-06 15:21:04 No.23418451

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Yes and straps when I bench.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 15:22:02 No.23418460
Keep lifting. I'm 28 and only started lifting about 6 months ago. I can see some pretty substantial (to me) changes in my body, and grills are starting to notice.

If I had started at 21, i'd probably be marvel superhero mode by now, and grills can't keep their hands off Thor. Just sayin'.

It'll all pay off in the end, bro. Just make sure you're not a euphoric asbergers faggot when it comes time to collect.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 15:22:28 No.23418464
jesus you're like some fatty on a fat acceptance board complaining that the world looks more favorably upon skinny people than fatties.

Guess what? The world *does* look more favorably on people with social skills who go out and have fun than people who spend their free nights in the gym.

When you're 80 years old, you're never going to look back on your youth and say you wish you had spent more time alone in the gym lifting weights and fighting crippling depression and social anxiety caused by never going out.

The reason people think they are better than you for doing social things is because they are. The human experience is about social connectivity.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 15:23:48 No.23418479
>i'd bet that, for a lot of those people, the reason they do that is because they can't connect with their friends unless they're drunk.

Or because it's a good laugh, fun and because your chance of encountering women to chat up when you're sitting in your room alone is fucking zero?

I'd say that's far and above the main reason the vast majority of people go out at the weekend, so ascribing silly psych problems to them like 'they can't connect with their friends' is kinda dumb. People have been drinking alcohol since ancient times - it's the world's greatest social lubricant rather than a crutch. That you regard it as that, says more about you than anyone else, bud.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 15:27:30 No.23418522
Implying there is a dichotomy of getting either shitfaced or sitting home alone. Not OP, but he's stated a couple of time he does have a social life.

And speaking in general, social life =/= drinking at bars and clubs

Anonymous 2013-11-06 15:30:03 No.23418548
sounds like you need different friends

Captcha: Analysis parteun
that is what you do too much

Anonymous 2013-11-06 15:32:28 No.23418578

I didn't imply that at all. Nor did I say the only social life someone can has must involve alcohol.

The post said:

>i'd bet that, for a lot of those people, the reason they do that is because they can't connect with their friends unless they're drunk.

Which is horseshit. The vast, vast majority of people across the world socialize in bars and places that sell alcohol. They do it mainly for the reasons I outlined, not because it's the only way they can connect with their friends.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 15:34:37 No.23418603
Yeah, and I'm saying you can do fine at places where they don't sell alcohol. I agree it's easier, the crowds bigger, more receptive, and what not. BUT, it's not the end all be all of socializing.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 15:39:33 No.23418643
b-but anybody who's anybody, drinks

Anonymous 2013-11-06 15:46:08 No.23418705
I met 90% of my friends that i wasn't already friends with from high school in the gym.

furthermore no one spends the entire day in the gym unless they are professional weightlifter. 3-6 hours a week is not someones entire life.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 15:46:13 No.23418706
I'm pretty sure you're joking but let me get all autistic at you and not get it.

I kicked alcoholism some years ago. In that time, lost virginity, got 3 gfs, had a fwb, bloomed socially. So you tell me if you still believe that.

>inb4 anecdotal evidencea

Anonymous 2013-11-06 15:46:58 No.23418716
>Not training 10 hours minimum a day

Fucking casual.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 15:49:21 No.23418750
Yeah I was just kidding, don't worry. I don't even drink.

I get my fun from things like actually going out instead of getting drunk in some shit hole pub. I actually like being able to remember any fun I have.

That being said I have nothing against those that drink in moderation, it's the chronic alcoholics that are scum.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 15:50:10 No.23418763
I didn't say how many hours a day i train for all you know i train 30 hours a day because im traveling at lightspeed. The average person trains 3-6 hours mate.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 15:51:33 No.23418778
>30 hours a day

>yfw you realise I was just joking about the casual comment

If you see similar comments like that, it's probably me, and it's definitely a joke.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 15:54:08 No.23418806
>it's the chronic alcoholics that are scum.

This kills the alcoholic inside

Nah, just joking. I feel bad for them mostly however, having known what it's like

Anonymous 2013-11-06 15:55:13 No.23418824

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Anonymous 2013-11-06 15:55:34 No.23418826
Alcoholics who don't try to break out of that addiction deserve no sympathy.

Those that got out of that low point, deserve the respect. But the ones who literally kill themselves by drinking to an early grave deserve it.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 15:56:02 No.23418834

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Get motivated /fit/, you bunch of pussies

Anonymous 2013-11-06 15:57:46 No.23418857

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Anonymous 2013-11-06 15:58:28 No.23418870
>mfw my grand dad killed himself drinking, and my deadbeat dad is well on his way to doing the same
>mfw I kicked it

Anonymous 2013-11-06 15:58:49 No.23418875
You can still lift and have a social life. You're the one making the choice.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:00:11 No.23418888
Don't even know if this is related but yesterday a friend of mine asked me why do I go to the gym, that it makes no sense to him because I'm not a meathead.

shit nigga I didnt know if I should feel happy because im not a meathead or sad because there are people that correlate training with meathead

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:01:07 No.23418903
Well then, you'd better break the cycle and not make the same mistakes they did.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:01:42 No.23418907

Well in the end I always say: do what makes you happy. Because everyone dies alone and everyone has his own life. So do what makes you happy.

But I cant understand you OP - you can go partying and socialising too without worrying too much about your gains. If you like to go partying and drinking, well then fucking do it. But remember to organize your eating and training habits. Its not science

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:02:10 No.23418914
Already did breh. Haven't relapsed in 5 or so years, and still going strong

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:02:22 No.23418918
>wanting to be healthy and stronger
>meat head XD

I fucking hate people with that mentality. What kind of moron thinks being healthy makes you stupid?

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:03:14 No.23418929

pls go.. every one of your posts seem to suck..
Dyel retard

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:04:29 No.23418942
Well done so far anon, keep it up. Don't falter. Stay strong. This anonymous stranger over the internet wants you to succeed where your father is failing and where his father failed.

There is nothing better than overcoming a challenge.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:04:41 No.23418944
People that eat mcdonalds and jelly donuts

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:05:58 No.23418958
True. It's like people think you can only be skinny and smart or strong and stupid. Why not be both, smart and strong?

Fun fact; I haven't eaten McDonalds or any other fast food in 8 years.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:07:04 No.23418969

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Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:07:27 No.23418976
>not fitting in the gym on Friday morning or during the day
>not going out and having fun banging cute girls and improving your social skills
>not wanting to have social connections that can make shit easier for you throughout life
>being annoyed that you have friends and aquaintances that are bugging you to come out and have fun/spend time with them on weekends
>getting annoyed by cheeky remarks from your peers

Stop posting your shit here OP, it's frankly ridiculous.

Pas 2013-11-06 16:07:29 No.23418979
fun fact: I eat McDonalds most days a week and I'm probably a better lifter and possibly fitter than you.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:08:22 No.23418988

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Speak for yourself. I'm lkfting to ingratiate myself in the dudebro lifestyle I missed out on

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:09:12 No.23419004

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>eats McDonalds daily
>claims to be stronger than me

Sure thing, m8.

Pas 2013-11-06 16:09:50 No.23419010
come back when you can front squat double bodyweight for reps

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:11:55 No.23419036

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Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:13:39 No.23419055
Come back when you actually have proof behind your claims, m8.

>thinking that's an impressive feat

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:13:39 No.23419056
I love you and everything Pas but I think you weigh 60 kg soaking wet so its not like you have a valid arguement here

pls dont stop being awesome despite that

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:14:25 No.23419068

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apparently you don't have a full-time job faggot. you may exit now. thanks for playing.


Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:15:43 No.23419087
>lifting and going out in the same day

you guys do know that alcohol slows protein absorption, right?

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:16:37 No.23419094
What is the morning?

Pas 2013-11-06 16:16:55 No.23419099
chances are he still front squats less than me even at 30kg heavier tbh

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Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:18:02 No.23419113
You do realise we're not all competing powerlifters and bodybuilders, right?

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Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:19:15 No.23419133
>not weightlifting

but regardless of your purpose, you're doing an effort by going to the gym and eating right just to throw it all out the window by getting shitfaced the same day

im not saying not to go out, im saying to lift on different days

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:19:24 No.23419134

I didn't decide to get fit until a little bit later. I did all the partying and drinking and brought sluts home for the night all the time yadda yadda, and you know what? I really wish I hadn't. From the time I was 17 until I was about 25 that's what I did. Then eventually the girls stopped coming so then there was just the party and the booze and then I stopped going out and then there was just the booze. Just me and the booze. It was just as sad as it sounds.

At 27 I decided to get fit. Really fit. Now all those people that I used to party with got fat as shit (some are already experiencing health problems due to their weight, and they're my age) and they're asking me what my secret is. When I tell them they should cut back on the drinking because it's empty calories and not good for you they look at me like I just asked them to start practicing witchcraft.

So, I know no one understands, and I don't care. I work out in the gym alone because all of my friends are fat cunts who don't give a damn about their bodies. It's kind of lonely but it beats the ever living hell out of the alternative.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:19:31 No.23419137
>don't socialise and be friendly with people on the one day of the week socialising always occurs.
>care what people think of you.

Why are you such a double standard faggot?

Fuck your feel. You already know your feel is retarded when you go to the gym rather than go out.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:20:46 No.23419151

When you're passionate about something it tends to eclipse other things. People with no passion are out there living vapid hollow lives while you're doing something that will have a real lasting beneficial impact on your life.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:21:02 No.23419154

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>fun fact: I eat McDonalds most days a week

Yeah, but you look like you're the right age for Happy Meals, Pas.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:21:50 No.23419163

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Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:22:04 No.23419164
I did it in high school, and maybe that's why I feel the way I do. I lost my girlfriend of 3 years, because of it. Now I know, 3 years oh shit!, it's not forever, get off my jock. But seeing what I could lose in the future over it, well, kind of why I turned to getting fit.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:22:11 No.23419167
I tend not to get shitfaced now anyway. Was only fun for a while. I would rather spend Saturday and Sunday doing fun shit instead of sleeping.

Pas 2013-11-06 16:22:22 No.23419169

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Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:24:00 No.23419189
Someone devoted to academia could be saying the exact same thing about you. Weight lifting is quite an easy hobby and ultimately of no benefit excepting personal vanity. If you cared about health you'd do cardio.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:24:00 No.23419190

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Does no one else see this bromancing going on?

Islam will dominate the world First target: Sweden, Founder and member of [MIDF] [MDF] 2013-11-06 16:24:55 No.23419207
no point in not fucking girls every weekend if you don't have obligations, to be honest

you are only going to be 21 once, then you will never be 21 again, why not have unique fun? Sure you might not consider it "fun", but those experiences will be with you your entire life, the stories, adventures, friends, emotions, etc. They are unique, once you grow old you will not be able to get them

I say this because I choose to do what you do, but solely because of my obligations

Pas 2013-11-06 16:26:41 No.23419235
you probably believe doing that stuff will be fun, but once you actually do it chances are you'll realise it's not that enjoyable for you. You need a certain personality type to enjoy that stuff, and if yu had that personality chances are you'd have naturally fallen into that type of lifestyle.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:27:50 No.23419248

Faggotry detected. Post discarded.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:29:17 No.23419270

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A good and active social life and an aesthetic and healthy body are things that should both be aspired to.
If you don't want to drink that's fine - don't think it makes you any better than anyone else.
If you don't want to lift that's fine - don't think it makes you any better than anyone else.

The only thing is, if you dedicate your entire life to drinking then you'll severely limit your choice when it comes to friends or girls. The same can be said for lifting.

Having a passion is very attractive in a person, for both friendship or companionship, but having an obsession and disregarding anything else is not.

>mfw went to the gym and had a really nice back+bis session this morning.
>mfw going out this evening with friends and girls to watch fireworks and have some drinks

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:30:33 No.23419281

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Hell yeah.

Pas 2013-11-06 16:30:36 No.23419282
OP never implied he doesn't go out with friends

Pas 2013-11-06 16:31:37 No.23419295
also last night was fireworks night btw

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:35:10 No.23419338

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Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:35:29 No.23419342
Well he implied that being at a bar is somehow worse than being at the gym. That's called imposing your own opinions on everyone else.
Being at the gym isn't "being at the height of your potential" and nor is being at a bar "being at the bottom."

And yes I'm aware of that but for some reason the local firework display is on tonight. u got a problem wiv dat m8?

Pas 2013-11-06 16:36:04 No.23419351
i do actually m8
tell them pas isnt happy

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:38:05 No.23419382
What if they tell me ur a fagit and don't even lift?

Shall I carry pics of you around just in case?

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:38:11 No.23419386

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haha jokes on you, mine died years ago!
>tfw ;_;

Pas 2013-11-06 16:39:31 No.23419409

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yh take this just in case

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:39:58 No.23419418

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Doesn't mean you can't still love him bro.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:39:59 No.23419419
Why do we feel that a bar or club is the super bowl of social interaction? If you dont go out to a bar or club on weekends you are a social outcast? And to the retards saying you'll never meet a nice gf if you dont go to places like that, get your head checked. I've NEVER heard of a successful relationship starting from two strangers meeting at a club, ever. No one goes there looking for anything serious, so if you are why even go? Being social is important but there are other ways to be social besides getting blasted in a dark room with loud music playing. When you think about it you see that clubs are just training wheels for human interaction, everyone's drunk, it's dark, you can't hear each other speak, etc.

Pas 2013-11-06 16:40:36 No.23419426
>I've NEVER heard of a successful relationship starting from two strangers meeting at a club
its not actually that rare

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:41:10 No.23419437

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Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:41:13 No.23419440
i want in on dat shit nigga

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:41:56 No.23419453
Did your life change after high school guys?
i'm in my last year of hs and to be honest I don't have any real friends. i've got acquaintances but that's about it. Are there any guys out there that had the same situation?

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:42:01 No.23419456

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>Implying I'm gonna take that out with me and not put it up on my wall for motivation

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:42:06 No.23419457
True dat!
The part about him understanding your craziness and vice versa just hit close to home.
Now I lift to fill up an old leather coat he bought, way too large for him (and for sloot lolz).

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:42:11 No.23419458
>kebab legs and hungry skeleton arms


Pas 2013-11-06 16:43:20 No.23419470

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u wot

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:43:51 No.23419476
It can get very good depending on what you do. But if you don't change your attitude, if you don't actively try to reach other people, your life will be same, if not worse.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:43:55 No.23419480
Maybe when people are older, I'm 21 and in university though.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:44:05 No.23419484
What are you gonna do after high school?
I don't mean to be daunting but it's very easy to go into a job/college and just continue the same lifestyle.
On a brighter note it's the absolutely ideal time for a bit of attitude readjustment. My first year of uni I was basically a shut-in with like two friends who I saw every now and then. I rethought all that second year and now got plenty of bros.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:44:27 No.23419490
>hungry skeleton chest

oh dear

TriangleHead 2013-11-06 16:45:37 No.23419504

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pic related

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:45:38 No.23419505
I had no real friends at the end of high school. Although I felt I was generally well-liked I just never formed close relationships with people.

In college I would say I'm fairly popular, though still a virgin and still no one I would call a "best friend." But my position on the social ladder is definitely better than in High School

Pas 2013-11-06 16:46:00 No.23419509
ok i cant argue with that one
someone i know met his gf of 6 months at a club, he's 18

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:47:07 No.23419530
>I'm looked at like
>an outcast

Adults don't care what you do you autist. Fuck off.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:48:06 No.23419546
I was the same way sort of. I mean I had friends but no one really close. In uni I can honestly say my floormates from first year and current house mates for the last two years are like brothers. It's actually a little weird how close we are. Just be eager to meet people, frosh/freshers week is possibly the greatest week of my life. Simply because it feels like what humanity is supposed to be like. No one knows each other so everyone is incredibly nice and social and outgoing. It's amazing no cliques, no history between people, just a bunch of slightly nervous people looking to be friends.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:49:47 No.23419573
>just a bunch of slightly nervous people looking to be friends.
That's beautiful brah.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:55:19 No.23419646
>In uni I can honestly say my floormates from first year and current house mates for the last two years are like brothers

This is what always bothered me about the friendship groups at university. Suddenly everyone is inseparable best friends with the person who they just so happened to be forced into a social situation with.
It seems like an unreal friendship, there was probably someone far more similar to you living round the corner or down the hall.
I'm not good friends with anyone I lived with last year.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:56:21 No.23419664
Probably going into tax law or international and european law if i don't flunk my exams
It's not that i'm a shut in or something. I try talking to people and stuff and I get along with pretty much everybody. I just hope that attitude is enough to get those ''bros for life'' you hear people talking about
That's pretty interesting

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:58:42 No.23419698
Well, whatever you choose to do just remember that it's an opportunity to put yourself across as literally any person you want to be. I know it sounds 'fake' or whatever but it works and it genuinely leads to real friendships.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 16:59:27 No.23419706

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Anonymous 2013-11-06 17:02:29 No.23419755
You are right to a degree our floor was just insanely perfectly matched. Like our house of 8 is like a family I've never seen any other house as close as ours. No fights ever, we all have the same sense of humour, all in engineering etc. And I mean why wouldnt you become good friends with the people you were forced to live with for 8 months?

Anonymous 2013-11-06 17:04:43 No.23419793
Nah I get ya man I'm sure people do get lucky and friendship works weirdly.
Just seems like an arranged marriage sorta thing to me.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 19:16:37 No.23421681
interesting theory pas.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 19:28:30 No.23421819
Do you have a link to support that? (Oldfag here. 37 and never felt or looked better tbh)

Anonymous 2013-11-06 19:34:32 No.23421888
I'm 31

I spent my 20s going out every single weekend getting shitfaced and desperately hoping to get laid. I was a virgin till the age of 27. I have always been scrawny as hell. I tried and failed numerous times throughout my youth to stick to a workout plan but always gave up.

I am still skinny as fuck but it is only now, as I get closer to middle age, that I can appreciate the time I wasted and I have a renewed commitment to getting in shape that doesn't just revolve around trying to impress pussy. I'm doing it for me. I have a long term gf now and I'm taking each day as it comes. Life isn't easy for me, I'm one of the unlucky ones who finds the outside world a very scary place. All those years getting drunk at weekends was merely medication and the desperate desire to have sex despite being painfully shy and out of shape.

I believe we all develop at our own pace. Some people are living God's before they leave their teens. Others fester their entire lives. But eventually, I believe that we all make it, if we try.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 19:45:38 No.23421998

Laughed at

>virgin till the age of 27

But you won me over with

>I believe we all develop at our own pace. Some people are living God's before they leave their teens. Others fester their entire lives. But eventually, I believe that we all make it, if we try.

We're all gonna make it, brahz

Anonymous 2013-11-06 20:02:19 No.23422184

Not every club and bar is a crazy EDM ravefest where you stand and get bombarded with noise and so if you don't like listening to that stuff or Rihanna turned up to 11, go elsewhere. I don't like that shit either so I go to a bar in my city that plays live music on a Saturday, has a late licence and that's always busy as fuck but where you can still have a conversation. Cool place, cool people, never seen a punch thrown in it.

The vast, vast, VAST majority of weekend social interaction across the globe occurs in places where alcohol is served - it's been that way for centuries. Why? Because it's easy mode; you're imbibing a substance that loosens your inhibitions and your tongue, makes you feel good, is fun and you're doing it in a place alongside loads of other people who are doing the same thing.

People on here are terrified of the places because they represent shit that takes them out of their comfort zones (the overt female sexuality, for instance, that exists in their heads), meanwhile the rest of the planet who don't know 4chan exists are getting merry and having a great time. This idea that you're going to meet your fantasy Korean gf at the bus stop is just horseshit they tell themselves so they don't have to man up and actually talk to a chick or offer to buy her a drink.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 20:08:46 No.23422270
Lol yeah, these two are awesome.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 20:13:06 No.23422346
the ACSM and multiple other agencies recommend resistance training as part of an exercise regimen for the myriad of benefits that it provides. if you cared about not being a retard you'd do some research.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 20:14:56 No.23422366
>Who decided on what should be?
the jews OP its always the jews
>do you even /pol/ ?

Anonymous 2013-11-06 20:17:13 No.23422395

I never got it why people bother so much about him / her being a virgin. Are you some hardcore muslim from Afghanistan or what is it?
I was a virgin until is was in my early 20s. Why? Dunno, either me or the girl never felt the moment.
Did my friends made a big deal out of it? No, because they did not know it, but they knew it was none their fucking business.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 20:18:11 No.23422402

>I spent my 20s going out every single weekend getting shitfaced and desperately hoping to get laid.
> I was a virgin till the age of 27.

you are either Ugly a FUCK. or you had way too high standards.

Its impossible to not get laid while clubbing. As long as you lower your standards enough.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 20:18:23 No.23422406
>with a phd in maths, earning 300k
nice story bro.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 21:20:57 No.23423298
i laugh at this

Anonymous 2013-11-06 21:56:42 No.23423845
I know this feeling. When I was at my first college, I was fat as fuck and lazy. I did well in all of my classes and people assumed that I was a genius because I talked to nobody and did well.

I'm now 6'1, 180lbs and 12%bf, and my face has thinned out to a nice shape, and now I'm at my new college. It's really fucking sad quite honestly. Now that I'm more attractive and built, everyone assumes that I'm either dumb as shit or taking like 2 courses. A girl I know through a friend was struggling with her calc 3 homework and when I offered her help her exact words were "anon, I don't think you can help me with this kind of math." I then proceeded to tell her how to do all 5 problems, and she was genuinely shocked (I'm studying to be a college math professor). Another time I pulled out my differential equations homework and one of my friends said "wow, I didn't know you were actually smart."

I was also told today that I was the sexiest nerd a girl has ever seen, and that was pretty cool though lol.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 22:27:55 No.23424341
They don't need to be mutually exclusive things OP.

You can lift hard and also do normalfag stuff.

I'm like you though, not much into clubs and shit, but I still try to do things and put myself out there.

Normalfag things are for normalfags but deep inside you're human and need some normalfaggotry too.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 22:40:59 No.23424523

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>tfw both introverted and extroverted
>tfw need others company
>tfw in the middle
>tfw make an effort to socialise but fail miserably

Kill me

Anonymous 2013-11-06 22:52:01 No.23424707

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*tips fedora*

Anonymous 2013-11-06 23:35:27 No.23425317
I haven't been "out" on a weekend for over 3 years. I'm in my mid 20s, fit and financially successful but I suffer from social anxiety. Weekend nights I am always at the gym. I'm not satisfied with this lifestyle but I am not sure how to change it. I am a kissless virgin with limited experience of interpersonal relationships and no experience with romantic relationships. I have no friends and no real family that I can rely on. I grew up to an unavailable father and a distant mother.

I crave to experience partying, friendship, love and acceptance but past experiences with gimme-gimmes and failed friendships have caused me to incrementally lose the ability to trust in people.

I lift because it provides me with a routine and a sense of normalcy. I exercise because I have nothing better to do.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 23:48:41 No.23425492

>implying training with dedication is "hiding in the gym"
>implying getting fucked up and banging sloots
is "living"

Believe it or not, there's power in solitude. As always, different strokes, but groupthink is dangerous, friendo.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 23:50:46 No.23425513
*tips fedora*
like poetry

Anonymous 2013-11-06 23:58:01 No.23425586

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>tfw no social life
>lift weights to fight depression
>practically only reason to leave home is for gym
>tfw still not aesthetic because not disciplined enough to eat/sleep enough

fuaark I need to turn on that switch and get disciplined or I'm never gonna make it at this rate... having depression makes doing everything 100x harder I don't want to be a sadkunt my whole life help me out brahs.

Anonymous 2013-11-06 23:58:56 No.23425600
>tfw you're called a meathead
>tfw you spent three hours last night rearranging your Pokemon team
>tfw you still lost because of a fluke OHKO on your Shuckle

Life isn't fair.

spergatory 2013-11-07 00:01:28 No.23425641
fuck man, 20 here but literally everything matches. on top of that just got cheated on. i realize how pathetic it sounds but i havent been able to get out of bed in days to work out. fuck everytime i think about happier times i want to kill myself

Anonymous 2013-11-07 00:18:26 No.23425875

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>on top of that just got cheated on. i realize how pathetic it sounds but i havent been able to get out of bed in days to work out. fuck everytime i think about happier times i want to kill myself

I'm feeling this feel too. It's been a month since and my schedule has skewed so far thanks to not being able to get out of bed I now sleep tell like 2pm and stay up tell 3-5am. I didn't workout and hardly ate anything for nearly 2 weeks straight when it first happened. I'm lifting and eating again but not as consistent as I was. I'm ready to go full dedication try hard mode but there's that feeling that keeps nagging and holding me down.

spergatory 2013-11-07 00:26:31 No.23425996
fuck dude. youre describing my exact situation. how long does it take before that blinding sickness when you picture her with someone else leaves? i can deal with depression, not the anxiety from my racing thoughts though

Anonymous 2013-11-07 00:27:49 No.23426022
If you live in Victoria, Australia I'd take you out with me

Anonymous 2013-11-07 00:31:13 No.23426078

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roughly a year
trust me,you'll be ok,its not what you want to hear but its true
just turn the depression into anger and go lift heavy things dude

Anonymous 2013-11-07 00:41:16 No.23426210
are you me?
cept im friendless now.

Anonymous 2013-11-07 00:43:12 No.23426234
How long I don't know. I agree the anxiety is worse than the depression but they go hand in hand. If you want I'd talk to you about it, my skype is kimjong-skil i'm this anon >>23425875

I find myself getting insanely angry at points throughout the day but I can never control when It happens and it doesn't usually happens when I'm lifting. I wish I had a home gym cause then I wouldn't have this problem.

Anonymous 2013-11-07 00:43:32 No.23426238

Holy shit this dude is retarded. Either lift earlier in the day or brush it off. You are a little bitch caring what other people think.

Fucking Beta.

Anonymous 2013-11-07 00:47:20 No.23426287

It's called rationalizing being an autist beta who is scared of communicating with other humans especially females.

Anonymous 2013-11-07 00:58:24 No.23426449
Unfortunately I live in california.

Anonymous 2013-11-07 01:05:58 No.23426538

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>all of my friends are fat cunts who don't give a damn about their bodies.

God damn you guys are fucking sad. How about make some new friends?

>b-but im so much better than everyone

Protip: No you aren't faggot.

I saw some dude who I was acquaintances (not friends) with in high school back in sept. I'm 25. He wanted to get into lifting so we started working out. Guess what? I lost 18 lbs since then and I'm stronger than ever. We work out 5 days a week. And he's one of my best friends now.

Don't make excuses for being alone.

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